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By *obilebottom OP   Man 8 weeks ago

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Next week I am taking Tue off just for me after what will be a busy bank holiday weekend as have planned stuff, none of them relaxing.

Just asking friends and others on here to plan a nice day for me with what I should do. Not asking for you to do anything other than just to outline a nice fun day for me with some suggestions that I can enjoy and then return to same old same old the day after Thank you

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By *obilebottom OP   Man 8 weeks ago

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I might use AI instead . I dread to think what might come up with

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman 8 weeks ago

Reading

Do you want a chilled out day or an active day out and about?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 8 weeks ago

Reading

Think like a tourist. We often miss the things right under our nose. Is there anything you have never been to in your vicinity. A local beauty spot or a museum?

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By *obilebottom OP   Man 8 weeks ago

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"Do you want a chilled out day or an active day out and about?"

A chilled one but not like go to a spa or something. Jyst various things at a nice slow pace, savouring the occasion

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By *obilebottom OP   Man 8 weeks ago

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"Think like a tourist. We often miss the things right under our nose. Is there anything you have never been to in your vicinity. A local beauty spot or a museum? "

I just did the AI thing and all the stuff ( mostly art) I have done many times but might go for one or two again.

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman 8 weeks ago

Reading


"Do you want a chilled out day or an active day out and about?

A chilled one but not like go to a spa or something. Jyst various things at a nice slow pace, savouring the occasion "

This is the day that I had suggested by AI when I was looking for something similar. I had set a £50 budget including petrol and food and no more than an hour from Reading. I love that it suggested snacks

🌿 Your Relaxing Day Plan Near Reading (Under £50 Total)

Morning: Riverside Walk and Coffee at Caversham Court Gardens

• Location: Church Road, Caversham, Reading RG4 7AD

• Distance: ~10 minutes from Reading

• Cost: Free

• Description: A peaceful, historic riverside garden with plenty of benches, shade, and space to just sit, journal, or walk gently. There’s a beautiful view of the Thames and often ducks and boats passing by.

• Booking: No need to book.

• Optional: Bring a book, sketchpad, or headphones for a calming playlist or meditation app.

Nearby Coffee Stop: The Tea Kiosk in the gardens or nearby Caversham cafés

• Budget: £4–£5 for a coffee or tea and a pastry

Late Morning to Lunch: Visit to Harris Garden (University of Reading)

• Location: Pepper Lane, Reading RG6 6UR

• Distance: ~15 minutes by car

• Cost: Free (public access, open during daylight hours)

• Description: A hidden gem! It’s a beautifully curated botanical garden, ideal for a slow stroll or quiet contemplation. Not crowded, great for a solo visit.

• Booking: No booking needed.

Lunch Option: Picnic

• Suggestion: Pick up a meal deal or some light bites from M&S or Tesco (£4–£6) and enjoy it in the garden or in nearby Whiteknights Lake area.

Afternoon: Art and Mindfulness at The Base Greenham

• Location: Greenham Business Park, Newbury RG19 6HN (~45-minute drive)

• Current Activity (as of spring/summer 2025): Check their website beforehand, but they typically have free or low-cost exhibitions and sometimes creative workshops.

• Cost: Entry to galleries is often free or around £5

• Booking: Recommended for workshops, not usually needed for exhibitions

• Website: www.thebasegreenham.co.uk

• Why go: Art can be incredibly soothing, and the venue is modern, quiet, and often surrounded by peaceful green spaces.

Optional: If there’s a free or low-cost creative drop-in, it’s a gentle way to express yourself without pressure.

End of Day Wind-Down: Donnington Castle (Optional detour on way home)

• Location: Donnington, near Newbury

• Distance: 10 mins from The Base Greenham

• Cost: Free

• Why: It’s just a short uphill walk to the ruins with beautiful views—perfect for a few mindful moments as the day winds down. Stay as little or as long as you like.

Cost Breakdown (Estimated Max)

Item Cost

Coffee & pastry £5

Picnic lunch £6

Gallery visit or art drop-in £5

Fuel for round trip (~40–50 miles) £10

Treat (ice cream or soft drink) £3

Total ~£30–£40

💡Tips to Make It More Grounding:

• Bring: Notebook, favourite drink, comfy shoes, blanket for sitting

• Optional Companion: If you’re feeling okay with company, consider inviting one trusted friend for part of the day—only if that feels supportive.

• Tech: Put your phone on “Do Not Disturb” except for music or mindfulness apps

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By *obilebottom OP   Man 8 weeks ago

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"Do you want a chilled out day or an active day out and about?

A chilled one but not like go to a spa or something. Jyst various things at a nice slow pace, savouring the occasion

This is the day that I had suggested by AI when I was looking for something similar. I had set a £50 budget including petrol and food and no more than an hour from Reading. I love that it suggested snacks

🌿 Your Relaxing Day Plan Near Reading (Under £50 Total)

Morning: Riverside Walk and Coffee at Caversham Court Gardens

• Location: Church Road, Caversham, Reading RG4 7AD

• Distance: ~10 minutes from Reading

• Cost: Free

• Description: A peaceful, historic riverside garden with plenty of benches, shade, and space to just sit, journal, or walk gently. There’s a beautiful view of the Thames and often ducks and boats passing by.

• Booking: No need to book.

• Optional: Bring a book, sketchpad, or headphones for a calming playlist or meditation app.

Nearby Coffee Stop: The Tea Kiosk in the gardens or nearby Caversham cafés

• Budget: £4–£5 for a coffee or tea and a pastry

Late Morning to Lunch: Visit to Harris Garden (University of Reading)

• Location: Pepper Lane, Reading RG6 6UR

• Distance: ~15 minutes by car

• Cost: Free (public access, open during daylight hours)

• Description: A hidden gem! It’s a beautifully curated botanical garden, ideal for a slow stroll or quiet contemplation. Not crowded, great for a solo visit.

• Booking: No booking needed.

Lunch Option: Picnic

• Suggestion: Pick up a meal deal or some light bites from M&S or Tesco (£4–£6) and enjoy it in the garden or in nearby Whiteknights Lake area.

Afternoon: Art and Mindfulness at The Base Greenham

• Location: Greenham Business Park, Newbury RG19 6HN (~45-minute drive)

• Current Activity (as of spring/summer 2025): Check their website beforehand, but they typically have free or low-cost exhibitions and sometimes creative workshops.

• Cost: Entry to galleries is often free or around £5

• Booking: Recommended for workshops, not usually needed for exhibitions

• Website: www.thebasegreenham.co.uk

• Why go: Art can be incredibly soothing, and the venue is modern, quiet, and often surrounded by peaceful green spaces.

Optional: If there’s a free or low-cost creative drop-in, it’s a gentle way to express yourself without pressure.

End of Day Wind-Down: Donnington Castle (Optional detour on way home)

• Location: Donnington, near Newbury

• Distance: 10 mins from The Base Greenham

• Cost: Free

• Why: It’s just a short uphill walk to the ruins with beautiful views—perfect for a few mindful moments as the day winds down. Stay as little or as long as you like.

Cost Breakdown (Estimated Max)

Item Cost

Coffee & pastry £5

Picnic lunch £6

Gallery visit or art drop-in £5

Fuel for round trip (~40–50 miles) £10

Treat (ice cream or soft drink) £3

Total ~£30–£40

💡Tips to Make It More Grounding:

• Bring: Notebook, favourite drink, comfy shoes, blanket for sitting

• Optional Companion: If you’re feeling okay with company, consider inviting one trusted friend for part of the day—only if that feels supportive.

• Tech: Put your phone on “Do Not Disturb” except for music or mindfulness apps

"

Wow, thank you. A lovely suggestion for you. Will try something similar to see what it comes up with around here.

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman 8 weeks ago

Reading


"Do you want a chilled out day or an active day out and about?

Wow, thank you. A lovely suggestion for you. Will try something similar to see what it comes up with around here. "

I’m yet to actually do any of it but I would never have thought of those places on my own.

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By *he Flat CapsCouple 8 weeks ago

Pontypool

My suggestion for you, MB.

Get up a little later than your usual early starts. Coffee and a light breakfast at home.

Local (ish) beauty spot you haven't visited before, but have wanted to try out, maybe a river stroll or lake.

A lovely bistro/cafe for lunch, followed by a sliver of cake!

Afternoon, to be spent wandering around a quaint town, exploring all the quirks and history on offer.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man 8 weeks ago

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"My suggestion for you, MB.

Get up a little later than your usual early starts. Coffee and a light breakfast at home.

Local (ish) beauty spot you haven't visited before, but have wanted to try out, maybe a river stroll or lake.

A lovely bistro/cafe for lunch, followed by a sliver of cake!

Afternoon, to be spent wandering around a quaint town, exploring all the quirks and history on offer.

"

Thank you, sounds great. Though I have been several times, AI suggested Hebden Bridge.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man 8 weeks ago

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All decided, having a day around picturesque Bronte village of Howarth and possibly off to Skipton too. Thanks for your suggestions on here and in private.

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