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Do you ever just meet up for oral sex? Giving and receiving or just pillow princess?
If you do this, what is it called and how do you find likeminded males who want this too?
I love penetrative sex but it doesn't actually make me cum.
I realise oral sex is no safer sexual health wise.
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By *eliWoman 7 weeks ago
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"I'd be happy to do that in reverse but sadly it's never actually worked like that. Turns out men like sticking their penis in me.
Men like older women. Shock. "
I'm not an older woman just yet Pickles, calm down. Give it a few years and try again. |
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"I'd be happy to do that in reverse but sadly it's never actually worked like that. Turns out men like sticking their penis in me.
Men like older women. Shock.
I'm not an older woman just yet Pickles, calm down. Give it a few years and try again."
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I am a big fan of this! There’s a lot of fun in finding lots of ways to make someone cum, and it doesn’t always have to be penetrative. If my tongue can do the job, I find that just as much of a turn on! |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 7 weeks ago
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"I'd be happy to do that in reverse but sadly it's never actually worked like that. Turns out men like sticking their penis in me.
Men like older women. Shock.
I'm not an older woman just yet Pickles, calm down. Give it a few years and try again."
You're older than him. Therefore...
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"I'd be happy to do that in reverse but sadly it's never actually worked like that. Turns out men like sticking their penis in me. "
They do like that but if you set the boundary that only oral is available it's definitely possible as I've had it before where a man gives you oral, makes you cum and then leaves. Which is amazing and I love it. However I'd also like to do it in return. So a mutual oral date.
I've not had the opportunity to do that though.
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"I'd be happy to do that in reverse but sadly it's never actually worked like that. Turns out men like sticking their penis in me.
Men like older women. Shock.
I'm not an older woman just yet Pickles, calm down. Give it a few years and try again.
You're older than him. Therefore...
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"By the way you don’t need to label it. It’s just a meet. The details of what happen are set between the people there"
I kind of disagree with that because if you know a sexual term that relates to the type of meet you are wanting it's a lot easier to detail that in your profile and status updates to attract the right person who wants the same as you.
Agreed that you set the details of the meet and your mutual expectations prior to meeting up. However if there is a label/sexual term then it makes it a lot easier to attract the right person in the first place. |
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I don't normally arrange an evening with someone and specifically say "I just want you to go down on me/I just want you to suck your cock" but sometimes organically it happens where we end up doing foreplay with no penetration and both end up satisfied.
I am happy when it happens that way organically. I don't like a prescriptive itinerary when it comes to sex. |
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"I may agree to it... but both may want more!"
There's nothing wrong with wanting more and that's something you can mutually choose to do.
However I like the idea of just an oral date. Then I can arrange a further meet/date where we have penetrative sex too. |
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By *eliWoman 7 weeks ago
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"I'd be happy to do that in reverse but sadly it's never actually worked like that. Turns out men like sticking their penis in me.
They do like that but if you set the boundary that only oral is available it's definitely possible as I've had it before where a man gives you oral, makes you cum and then leaves. Which is amazing and I love it. However I'd also like to do it in return. So a mutual oral date.
I've not had the opportunity to do that though.
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Ah, I'm not talking about that particular scenario. I think if you're clear about it, people should respect that. I've read threads before where men said they were happy to just give oral and leave... can't think of a term for it atm.  |
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By *dnxyzMan 7 weeks ago
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"I don't normally arrange an evening with someone and specifically say "I just want you to go down on me/I just want you to suck your cock" but sometimes organically it happens where we end up doing foreplay with no penetration and both end up satisfied.
I am happy when it happens that way organically. I don't like a prescriptive itinerary when it comes to sex. "
this is a thing of the mood at the time! totally works ! |
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"I don't normally arrange an evening with someone and specifically say "I just want you to go down on me/I just want you to suck your cock" but sometimes organically it happens where we end up doing foreplay with no penetration and both end up satisfied.
I am happy when it happens that way organically. I don't like a prescriptive itinerary when it comes to sex. "
It's not supposed to be prescriptive or denial in any way it's just for me adds another element of excitement.
I think whatever works for you is great and we're all different. |
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"I'd be happy to do that in reverse but sadly it's never actually worked like that. Turns out men like sticking their penis in me.
They do like that but if you set the boundary that only oral is available it's definitely possible as I've had it before where a man gives you oral, makes you cum and then leaves. Which is amazing and I love it. However I'd also like to do it in return. So a mutual oral date.
I've not had the opportunity to do that though.
Ah, I'm not talking about that particular scenario. I think if you're clear about it, people should respect that. I've read threads before where men said they were happy to just give oral and leave... can't think of a term for it atm. "
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I love to meet a Woman just to give her oral and I guarantee I want nothing in return I love facesitting even more and getting nothing in return, but apparently Im weird for enjoying any of those things  |
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"Do you ever just meet up for oral sex? Giving and receiving or just pillow princess?
If you do this, what is it called and how do you find likeminded males who want this too?
I love penetrative sex but it doesn't actually make me cum.
I realise oral sex is no safer sexual health wise.
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Afternoon OP et al
I’ve had meets where it’s been oral
Only…. Sometimes the urge to have ‘just a little more’ takes over … like a ploughman’s  |
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"I love to meet a Woman just to give her oral and I guarantee I want nothing in return I love facesitting even more and getting nothing in return, but apparently Im weird for enjoying any of those things "
Nothing wrong with that .we all like what we like hey |
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"I'd be happy to do that in reverse but sadly it's never actually worked like that. Turns out men like sticking their penis in me.
They do like that but if you set the boundary that only oral is available it's definitely possible as I've had it before where a man gives you oral, makes you cum and then leaves. Which is amazing and I love it. However I'd also like to do it in return. So a mutual oral date.
I've not had the opportunity to do that though.
Ah, I'm not talking about that particular scenario. I think if you're clear about it, people should respect that. I've read threads before where men said they were happy to just give oral and leave... can't think of a term for it atm. "
Somebody suggested
Lickety split which I thought was perfect! 🤣 |
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"Do you ever just meet up for oral sex? Giving and receiving or just pillow princess?
If you do this, what is it called and how do you find likeminded males who want this too?
I love penetrative sex but it doesn't actually make me cum.
I realise oral sex is no safer sexual health wise.
Afternoon OP et al
I’ve had meets where it’s been oral
Only…. Sometimes the urge to have ‘just a little more’ takes over … like a ploughman’s " I love a ploughman’s |
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Not now, I did in the past have someone just pop over from the tower opposite and sit on my face all night & enjoyed it a lot, and she did too. She wasn’t into penetration and we had tried and it was quite boring for us both. But it was a time / place/ phase thing, it passed. She also had a perfect little body and gorgeous tasting pussy, nice memories |
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"I love to meet a Woman just to give her oral and I guarantee I want nothing in return I love facesitting even more and getting nothing in return, but apparently Im weird for enjoying any of those things "
I don't think that's weird at all. It's extremely enjoyable for me but I understand not every mam wants to do it and that's fair enough. |
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"I love to meet a Woman just to give her oral and I guarantee I want nothing in return I love facesitting even more and getting nothing in return, but apparently Im weird for enjoying any of those things
I don't think that's weird at all. It's extremely enjoyable for me but I understand not every mam wants to do it and that's fair enough. "
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"Do you ever just meet up for oral sex? Giving and receiving or just pillow princess?
If you do this, what is it called and how do you find likeminded males who want this too?
I love penetrative sex but it doesn't actually make me cum.
I realise oral sex is no safer sexual health wise.
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I love to pleasure females with oral for me making them orgasm is better than me so personally happy yo do these meets |
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We meet single guys for MM fun with Mr. This is very often just oral but some will fuck as well. An “oral only meet” is as good a description as any
Oral is safer but not safe. Most people would be aware of having a throat infection earlier than the same infection in their pussy or arse. And I’d like to think that most people wouldn’t be sucking cock if they have a throat infection.
HIV is incredibly difficult to catch from oral, but not impossible. |
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"I don't normally arrange an evening with someone and specifically say "I just want you to go down on me/I just want you to suck your cock" but sometimes organically it happens where we end up doing foreplay with no penetration and both end up satisfied.
I am happy when it happens that way organically. I don't like a prescriptive itinerary when it comes to sex.
It's not supposed to be prescriptive or denial in any way it's just for me adds another element of excitement.
I think whatever works for you is great and we're all different. "
Oh absolutely, I am just speaking for myself  |
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"I don't normally arrange an evening with someone and specifically say "I just want you to go down on me/I just want you to suck your cock" but sometimes organically it happens where we end up doing foreplay with no penetration and both end up satisfied.
I am happy when it happens that way organically. I don't like a prescriptive itinerary when it comes to sex.
It's not supposed to be prescriptive or denial in any way it's just for me adds another element of excitement.
I think whatever works for you is great and we're all different.
Oh absolutely, I am just speaking for myself "
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"I’ve had oral only meets before and really enjoyed them. Some as an aperitif to a full play meet at a later date, others with ladies/couples whom I’ve met previously. "
Oh yes I think to combine them with further meets is very sexy and adds to the anticipation... |
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By *linyMan 7 weeks ago
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"I’ve had oral only meets before and really enjoyed them. Some as an aperitif to a full play meet at a later date, others with ladies/couples whom I’ve met previously.
Oh yes I think to combine them with further meets is very sexy and adds to the anticipation..."
Very much so. One lady wanted to break the rules and so I rubbed my cock over her clit over and over to really emphasise her frustration then called time on the meet leaving her to take her frustrated desires out on her husband. We met for a play date a week later and the pent up energies were immensely pleasurable to say the least. |
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By *argetMan 7 weeks ago
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This is my kind of conversation☺️,
I really like foreplay only meets. The feeling of self control, push eachother bodies to it sexual limitations without penetration. Meaning you have to be more creative with what you do, kissing, licking, biting and teasing. People reading this try it although you'll really wanna fuck, know this your partner is in the same boat😈😈😈 |
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"Do you ever just meet up for oral sex? Giving and receiving or just pillow princess?
If you do this, what is it called and how do you find likeminded males who want this too?
I love penetrative sex but it doesn't actually make me cum.
I realise oral sex is no safer sexual health wise.
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Yes, I've had these in the past, both by design, and by that how the evening took us. As long as both enjoy and are happy, all is good  |
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By *pandjMan 3 weeks ago
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When I was recovering from my circumcision I just went down on my then FWB during a few meetings. I really needed to do it for my own as much as her needs.
Id be open to this but I find it hard to cum from blow jobs so youd need to be awesome at them. Id also have to ignore my strong desire to stick my dick in a sloppy and swollen vagina once id made you cum. |
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"I'd be happy to do that in reverse but sadly it's never actually worked like that. Turns out men like sticking their penis in me. "
Wow you have an amazing voice! I would do absolutely anything you want if we got the chance to meet!..😉 |
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By *hybeamMan 3 weeks ago
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Yes I have had this kind of meet before. I derived my pleasure from giving pleasure so it worked for both of us.
She was married and didn’t want to go as far as penetrative sex and that worked perfectly |
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Oral only is like going to a restaurant,tucking into the complimentary bread and butter and tap water then leaving.
I want a proper starter (or two) and a proper main and a proper desert.
I love bread and butter - don't get me wrong but I need more from a sit down meal than to get up and go.
Also... a clitoral orgasm isn't as earth shaking as g spot /a spot.
Penetrate me with your penis goddammit. |
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"Do you ever just meet up for oral sex? Giving and receiving or just pillow princess?
If you do this, what is it called and how do you find likeminded males who want this too?
I love penetrative sex but it doesn't actually make me cum.
I realise oral sex is no safer sexual health wise.
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I have done this and would happily do it again, for me going down on a woman is more of a thrill than penetrative sex. |
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"Oral only is like going to a restaurant,tucking into the complimentary bread and butter and tap water then leaving.
I want a proper starter (or two) and a proper main and a proper desert.
I love bread and butter - don't get me wrong but I need more from a sit down meal than to get up and go.
Also... a clitoral orgasm isn't as earth shaking as g spot /a spot.
Penetrate me with your penis goddammit. "
And for dessert, madam 😋 |
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"I'd be happy to do that in reverse but sadly it's never actually worked like that. Turns out men like sticking their penis in me. "
Good grief - what kind of foul perverts do you meet up with Meli? |
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Actually, a FWB asked me once to do this, not just because she loves receiving oral but because she'd been in a couple of relationships since we'd last been intimate and both guys had been...unenthusiastic about going down on her and she was missing it. More than that though, she wanted to re-train her mind to value her own pleasure and so specifically wanted to visit me because she knew I wouldn't mind giving but not receiving, so that the whole thing was about her physical pleasure only. She found it difficult because she felt guilty putting her pleasure above mine but I reassured her that I was having a great time and that she should focus on putting herself first for a change - which she did eventually manage to do. |
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I've met plenty of women who couldn't climax from PiV penetration, so the question to find out is: how would she like to climax, and if there is some energy left, is there something left for me?
Different cultures, different experiences, but 80% of women couldn't let me cum from a BJ as their techniques were... all over the place. But for those who can, -thinking about a lass with ginger hair I met in a Wheterspoons in Hull- I usually get a "oooh... you shot that in the back of my throat with vigour, didn't you'?
Anyway, orgasms are great, with the right people, and with the right click. I find it as much in the head as in between the legs.
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