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Why are larger lady's so much more filthy kinky?
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"Its just you, I am one the kink scene and have found all shapes and sizes to be just as kinky and filthy.
Oh and calling someone fat isn't going to get you far"
im just wondering why, not all skinny girls are boring nor all fat ladies filthy but more often than not |
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By *vaRoseWoman 6 weeks ago
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Kinky Fatty here - well now I’ve found my next username if I decide to go unlos.
OP I don’t mind the word fat, but my opinion isn’t a popular one and for many people it’s a derogatory term. Just a heads up as I can’t see that being taken well.
As for curvy women being filthier than skinny, utter bullshit. I’m not more kinky now than I was at a size 8 or 10. |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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"I love all shapes and sizes but why are fat ladies more filthy? The Slimer they get the more vanilla they get? Or is that just me. "
It’s just you OP, it’s just you
I am not sure that there is any relationship between body size and sexual likes or dislikes
I am neither “fat” or “slimer” (as you call them both) so what category does that put me in? |
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"I love all shapes and sizes but why are fat ladies more filthy? The Slimer they get the more vanilla they get? Or is that just me. "
Hi O.P. I'd like to say that this is down to your way of thinking and making a correlation ( where there isn't any ) between weight and ???? Filth ??? being sexually adventurous.
I'd like to say that it's just you but I can think of reasons why you are considering this to be so ..... some of them to do with you and some of them to do with societal attitudes toward weight. |
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I don't think they are OP.
It could well be down to confirmation bias and assumptions made meaning you're more willing to suggest kinky shit to a fat bird while you don't want to risk it on the perceived "high value" of a skinny one.
I've met kinky women of all shapes and sizes 💜 |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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"I love all shapes and sizes but why are fat ladies more filthy? The Slimer they get the more vanilla they get? Or is that just me. "
Well it's because when the fat ladies go on a diet and start getting slimmer they don't have enough energy due to lack of calories to be quite so filthy as before. Don't worry though because this affliction is merely temporary..  |
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I wouldnt have used the term fat but yes i agree with curvier women being filthier in my experience.
An old fwb who was curvier than my usual type was down for anything, as soon as i walked through the door she was straight on her knees with my cock in her mouth without me asking.
Her linherie collection was the best ive seen, she had tons of toys and loved using them during sex and she was more than happy to indulge in my anal play kink  |
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"I wouldnt have used the term fat but yes i agree with curvier women being filthier in my experience.
An old fwb who was curvier than my usual type was down for anything, as soon as i walked through the door she was straight on her knees with my cock in her mouth without me asking.
Her linherie collection was the best ive seen, she had tons of toys and loved using them during sex and she was more than happy to indulge in my anal play kink "
So this was one woman and you put her sexual behaviour down to her body weight ? |
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"I wouldnt have used the term fat but yes i agree with curvier women being filthier in my experience.
An old fwb who was curvier than my usual type was down for anything, as soon as i walked through the door she was straight on her knees with my cock in her mouth without me asking.
Her linherie collection was the best ive seen, she had tons of toys and loved using them during sex and she was more than happy to indulge in my anal play kink
So this was one woman and you put her sexual behaviour down to her body weight ?"
What else could it be? It was obviously her body weight that buckled under her that had her sinking to her knees.... |
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What a load of nonsense.
You've fucked some apparently fat and kinky women. You've fucked some apparently slim and vanilla women. That's not proof of causation, or even correlation.
Both "fatness" and "kinkiness" are subjective, for a start.
I'm waiting for the "fat women are desperate and will do anything you ask them as they're grateful for the attention" comments/tropes that inevitably come out during these types of conversations.
There's plenty of fat vanilla women and plenty of slim kinky women. Body shape has got nothing to do with it.
If a kinky woman who is fat loses weight, is she suddenly going to change her entire sexuality and stop enjoying all the kinky escapades she got up or previously because she's lost a few stone? |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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What a load of nonsense.
You've fucked some apparently fat and kinky women. You've fucked some apparently slim and vanilla women. That's not proof of causation, or even correlation.
Both "fatness" and "kinkiness" are subjective, for a start.
I'm waiting for the "fat women are desperate and will do anything you ask them as they're grateful for the attention" comments/tropes that inevitably come out during these types of conversations.
There's plenty of fat vanilla women and plenty of slim kinky women. Body shape has got nothing to do with it.
If a kinky woman who is fat loses weight, is she suddenly going to change her entire sexuality and stop enjoying all the kinky escapades she got up or previously because she's lost a few stone? "
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"I love all shapes and sizes but why are fat ladies more filthy? The Slimer they get the more vanilla they get? Or is that just me. "
Just you mate. Two of my long term play partners are size 8, and they are filthy as fuck 😝😝
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Oh, won't you take me home tonight?
Oh, down beside your red firelight
Oh, and you give it all you got
Fat bottomed girls
You make the rockin' world go 'round
Fat bottomed girls
You make the rockin' world go 'round |
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Maybe because us "fat women" have learned not only to embrace our curves, but also our likes and dislikes regarding sex? Maybe we are sticking two fingers to the society telling us that to be "included", you have to be slim, pretty, Instagrammable and flirty but not overly sexual?
But as another poster said, there are people of all shapes and sizes enjoying themselves on both kink scene and swinging scene, neither is just for "pretty people", maybe with the exception of some "exclusive" events. |
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"...why are fat ladies more filthy? The Slimer they get the more vanilla they get? Or is that just me. "
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They're more sublime if they ooze slime, OP. They offer more bounce to the ounce, ready for me to pounce. I think you've sealed your fate on here with the monolithic women. |
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"I love all shapes and sizes but why are fat ladies more filthy? The Slimer they get the more vanilla they get? Or is that just me. "
it's just you OP. I had a skinny lady who was very dirty and taught me a lot |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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"Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but I'm fat and vanilla AF. says the woman with a flogger in hand and a very nice hand print on her arse 🤣🤣🤣
Smoke and mirrors 🤣"
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I had sex with a thin bloke once and I can tell everyone that it's 100% true when I let you know that he was in fact a thin man and that proves that all other thin men are thin too.
Don't you argue with me !!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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"I had sex with a thin bloke once and I can tell everyone that it's 100% true when I let you know that he was in fact a thin man and that proves that all other thin men are thin too.
Don't you argue with me !!!"
Granny is the best |
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"I love all shapes and sizes but why are fat ladies more filthy? The Slimer they get the more vanilla they get? Or is that just me. "
I'm pretty sure general filthiness does not correlate with body size. |
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"I had sex with a thin bloke once and I can tell everyone that it's 100% true when I let you know that he was in fact a thin man and that proves that all other thin men are thin too.
Don't you argue with me !!!"
On the inside Im thin but im covered with muscle on the outside - what can I do Granny? |
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By *aveonMan 6 weeks ago
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I love curvy girls, as sort of said I just think a curvy girl here is relaxed about their bodies and thoughts, and is more relaxed about having fun.
Being relaxed about themselves I just find even more sexy, as I have few hangups also
Not just exclusive to curvy girls but more so, in my experience - I love you all |
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"I love all shapes and sizes but why are fat ladies more filthy? The Slimer they get the more vanilla they get? Or is that just me. "
It’s not really something you can say with any certainty, that weight has anything to do with how vanilla or ’filthy’ a woman is. Obviously. But, and sorry to be boring and a killjoy, I really don’t think a post like this is helpful to women who have to read it. |
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"Sometimes bigger women are more eager to please. 8 know I am a people pleaser.
Is it to do with your weight though?"
I think it plays into it yes. Because of the messages we get from society that we are less desirable. But maybe I would have been the same if I had been slim all my life🤷 |
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Just popping in with cake if anyone wants some? 🍰 😂
I'll have some anything to help make me more kinky, as long as its not vanilla cake, I'm already enough of a vanilla prude!"
Ironically i have kinks but vanilla is my favourite flavour. |
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"Sometimes bigger women are more eager to please. 8 know I am a people pleaser.
Is it to do with your weight though?
I think it plays into it yes. Because of the messages we get from society that we are less desirable. But maybe I would have been the same if I had been slim all my life🤷"
I understand what you’re saying but what you like is what you like. I think the implication from the OP is that bigger women enjoy less vanilla things.
Also I think society has generally just sent the message for so long to women that sex is for a man’s enjoyment.
But even aside from all that, I don’t know that weight is a genuine factor in how vanilla or not you are. Perhaps the OP should do some real research |
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"Sometimes bigger women are more eager to please. 8 know I am a people pleaser.
Is it to do with your weight though?
I think it plays into it yes. Because of the messages we get from society that we are less desirable. But maybe I would have been the same if I had been slim all my life🤷
I understand what you’re saying but what you like is what you like. I think the implication from the OP is that bigger women enjoy less vanilla things.
Also I think society has generally just sent the message for so long to women that sex is for a man’s enjoyment.
But even aside from all that, I don’t know that weight is a genuine factor in how vanilla or not you are. Perhaps the OP should do some real research"
I'm sure he is trying just lacking willing participants. |
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I think it’s a total myth that a girl who is ‘society’s version of attractive’ is vanilla and a pillow princess.
Same myth that bigger girls are dirtier, it does come from the disgusting view that they’ll do anything for attention and to please a man.. never understood it myself OP.
Hope this actually was personal experience and not an excuse to dig at the bigger girls ❤️ |
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"Sometimes bigger women are more eager to please. 8 know I am a people pleaser. "
being a people pleaser isn't down to weight, it's more the way the brain is wired, I know as many slim people pleases as I have women with a fuller figure.
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I'm so utterly grotesque and repulsive being so disgusting and fat. I get no attention so have to be really depraved and filthy just for someone to even consider risking knob rot to go near me...... is that what you want to hear?
What makes someone kinky/filthy/sexy/desirable/dirty comes from within.
I am confident, I have an appetite, I have no shame in hedonistic pleasure, I love to fuck, I love to be fucked, I love to be groped, man handled. I love dressing up, I love to be naked. I'm just a dirty filthy cum slut and it's NOTHING to do with my weight. |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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"I'm so utterly grotesque and repulsive being so disgusting and fat. I get no attention so have to be really depraved and filthy just for someone to even consider risking knob rot to go near me...... is that what you want to hear?
What makes someone kinky/filthy/sexy/desirable/dirty comes from within.
I am confident, I have an appetite, I have no shame in hedonistic pleasure, I love to fuck, I love to be fucked, I love to be groped, man handled. I love dressing up, I love to be naked. I'm just a dirty filthy cum slut and it's NOTHING to do with my weight. "
Well i only know you look amazing and your sexual appetite is amazing too |
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During my adult life, I have been a size 10...I have been a size 24... and I'm currently a size 18. Never, at any given size, have I been any more or any less kinky because of my size and weight.
When I've been less kinky, it's been because situations in real life (family, health issues etc) have lowered my libido. Whenever I feel I'm being MORE kinky, it's because I am in the company of like-minded people and feel comfortable enough with them to experiment and push my kink boundaries.
Weight indeed!! Pfft!  |
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By *AYENCouple 6 weeks ago
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Am I the only person that hates the term filthy? I've never worked out what's filthy about sex, unless you mean literally filthy, as in unwashed or covered in shit - if that's so it seems a bit rude to suggest curvy ladies are filthy. K. |
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"I had sex with a thin bloke once and I can tell everyone that it's 100% true when I let you know that he was in fact a thin man and that proves that all other thin men are thin too.
Don't you argue with me !!!
On the inside Im thin but im covered with muscle on the outside - what can I do Granny? "
Suck it all in Todge..... Suck it all in , Till I can't see you behind a After Eight ... |
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People respond to the vibes of their partners, so it may be related to your attraction to certain types of people and how you help make them feel and engage.
On a side note, you'll not get sponsored by Ozempic OP |
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"People respond to the vibes of their partners, so it may be related to your attraction to certain types of people and how you help make them feel and engage.
On a side note, you'll not get sponsored by Ozempic OP"
Good God I just watch the meat canyon animation on that stuff. 
If you like animations definitely wortha Watch. |
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How ridiculous
I’ve been bigger and smaller, my size has never had an impact on the level of my filth….what has had an impact is the man I’ve been with or how I’ve been feeling at any given time!
Just because I’m fat, that doesn’t mean that I’ll up my filth to try to engage contact with a man!
Donna |
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"People respond to the vibes of their partners, so it may be related to your attraction to certain types of people and how you help make them feel and engage.
On a side note, you'll not get sponsored by Ozempic OP"
BBL Drizzy took that sponsorship |
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"And us medium sized lot .. just must be stuck somewhere in the middle I suppose? Neither kinky filth nor vanilla boring.
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Wonder what will happen if I gain weight or lose some!? "
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If you gain weight we shall address you as Freya773, if loose some it will be Freya7.3 . |
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