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By *izzy69 OP Man 10 weeks ago
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Don't you just hate it when you meet a gorgeous girl, anywhere I mean - at work, socially or even on Fab - and their personality just turns you right off.
I've experienced this numerous times at various work situations where the girl is attractive (the most recent was stunning) but turned out to be the nastiest individual I've known for a long time.
Or would you still fuck'em? |
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By *bi HaiveMan 10 weeks ago
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People of all levels of perceived visual attractiveness can be dickheads OP.
I don't find it any more disappointing when they're more my type than not.
A dickhead is a dickhead.
And no. I wouldn't be the slightest bit interested in getting naked with them just because I found them physically attractive. 🤷♂️ |
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"Don't you just hate it when you meet a gorgeous girl, anywhere I mean - at work, socially or even on Fab - and their personality just turns you right off.
I've experienced this numerous times at various work situations where the girl is attractive (the most recent was stunning) but turned out to be the nastiest individual I've known for a long time.
Or would you still fuck'em?"
She said no, didn't she |
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By *izzy69 OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"Don't you just hate it when you meet a gorgeous girl, anywhere I mean - at work, socially or even on Fab - and their personality just turns you right off.
I've experienced this numerous times at various work situations where the girl is attractive (the most recent was stunning) but turned out to be the nastiest individual I've known for a long time.
Or would you still fuck'em?
She said no, didn't she"
Lmao - oh they all do anyway Wellinever but that isn't what happened. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"Don't you just hate it when you meet a gorgeous girl, anywhere I mean - at work, socially or even on Fab - and their personality just turns you right off.
I've experienced this numerous times at various work situations where the girl is attractive (the most recent was stunning) but turned out to be the nastiest individual I've known for a long time.
Or would you still fuck'em?
She said no, didn't she
Lmao - oh they all do anyway Wellinever but that isn't what happened."
Oh and by the way, I really enjoyed my time in Ayrshire when I worked there. Irvine is a quiet place but the ladies are - what can I say - very sexy and willing;-) |
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"Don't you just hate it when you meet a gorgeous girl, anywhere I mean - at work, socially or even on Fab - and their personality just turns you right off.
I've experienced this numerous times at various work situations where the girl is attractive (the most recent was stunning) but turned out to be the nastiest individual I've known for a long time.
Or would you still fuck'em?"
Nope. I would not. I’ve had this on more than one occasion. Just because you’re good looking doesn’t give you the right to be a twonk.
If you’ve a good personality you can be very, very attractive. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"Don't you just hate it when you meet a gorgeous girl, anywhere I mean - at work, socially or even on Fab - and their personality just turns you right off.
I've experienced this numerous times at various work situations where the girl is attractive (the most recent was stunning) but turned out to be the nastiest individual I've known for a long time.
Or would you still fuck'em?
Nope. I would not. I’ve had this on more than one occasion. Just because you’re good looking doesn’t give you the right to be a twonk.
If you’ve a good personality you can be very, very attractive."
Totally agree.
A simple looking girl with a nice personality just looks way more appealing to me than a horrible stunner. Actually, I'm quite attracted to cute smiles. I think it does wonders to any face (anti aging too apparently) |
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By *izzy69 OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"Can't fuck someone if I don't like them.
Or don't know them...
Need to know that we get on first, at least have a conversation that consists of more than a "Hey" "
Ugh, you scientists are so fussy! Lol |
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Whilst the insides don't always match the outsides, the expectation that they might is laughable and naive at best.
I find the entire premise of this thread nasty tbh.
I'd say there's likely a whole lot more to this than you have detailed.
No one should have to tolerate being perved in a work environment if they have not engaged with matching energy/efforts.
Perhaps this female has given you the tone she needed to, in order to keep you at a professional and more comfortable distance.
Then she gets labelled a nasty piece....
Fairly common reaction by males. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"I've turned down many a good looking man because our personalities didn't match, or he came out with something bigoted.
I'm fucking the whole man.
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Damn Bad Nanna, the "whole" man?
If we ever meet, I'd better be on my A game if you're going to fuck every part of me ;-p |
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"I've turned down many a good looking man because our personalities didn't match, or he came out with something bigoted.
I'm fucking the whole man.
Damn Bad Nanna, the "whole" man?
If we ever meet, I'd better be on my A game if you're going to fuck every part of me ;-p"
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By *izzy69 OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"Whilst the insides don't always match the outsides, the expectation that they might is laughable and naive at best.
I find the entire premise of this thread nasty tbh.
I'd say there's likely a whole lot more to this than you have detailed.
No one should have to tolerate being perved in a work environment if they have not engaged with matching energy/efforts.
Perhaps this female has given you the tone she needed to, in order to keep you at a professional and more comfortable distance.
Then she gets labelled a nasty piece....
Fairly common reaction by males."
Fair call. But just because we perv in our heads doesn't mean we show it. We do understand the difference between professionalism and private thoughts. |
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"Whilst the insides don't always match the outsides, the expectation that they might is laughable and naive at best.
I find the entire premise of this thread nasty tbh.
I'd say there's likely a whole lot more to this than you have detailed.
No one should have to tolerate being perved in a work environment if they have not engaged with matching energy/efforts.
Perhaps this female has given you the tone she needed to, in order to keep you at a professional and more comfortable distance.
Then she gets labelled a nasty piece....
Fairly common reaction by males.
Fair call. But just because we perv in our heads doesn't mean we show it. We do understand the difference between professionalism and private thoughts. "
People give away much more than they realise. Guys get rejected or labelled as creeps in friend groups or workplaces, etc. and have no clue why girls avoid or reject them.
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Years ago went on a date with a woman who I thought was drop dead gorgeous, I thought way out my league.
However, we went to a bar and she was so rude to the bar staff. It really put me off as for years I worked behind bars. |
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I just think theres people like that in all categories. Noones better than anyone we all have great qualities.
But i find even if a man is everything i would go for physically if his personality is none existent/rude this would immediately make them unattractive to me.
Maybe its an ego thing 🤷♀️ but just need to remember you could be the best thing since sliced bread today and tomorrows fish and chip paper.
Stay humble 😄
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There's plenty of men like that too. And absolutely wouldn't touch them with a barge pole not matter how physically attractive they are. If someone has a horrible personality, then they instantly become unattractive to me. |
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"Years ago went on a date with a woman who I thought was drop dead gorgeous, I thought way out my league.
However, we went to a bar and she was so rude to the bar staff. It really put me off as for years I worked behind bars. "
This is a really big thing with me too. I worked with the public all my days in various different roles until just recently and how someone treats service staff, and anyone really, is sooooo worth paying attention to. Huge red flag if you have no decency towards people. |
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On some level, I like to have some connection other than physical desire. Finding out at least a few things about how people think, prior to arranging a meet - even for a social - is important.
Some people can shag away if they like, but I'm happy to scrutinise all contacts until I feel I have a decent picture formed. |
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Used to be a girl who came into a pub we used and yes she was pretty if you like that kind of thing, she had the personality of a bucket but guys still desperately tried to chat her up
I used to prefer a plain Jane nurse who was imo more attractive as she wasn’t all filler and false every thing, great soh, gorgeous smile
But I guess each to their own |
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"Don't you just hate it when you meet a gorgeous girl, anywhere I mean - at work, socially or even on Fab - and their personality just turns you right off.
I've experienced this numerous times at various work situations where the girl is attractive (the most recent was stunning) but turned out to be the nastiest individual I've known for a long time.
Or would you still fuck'em?
She said no, didn't she"
I was thinking the same. Was she nasty, or was she not interested 😂 |
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"Can't fuck someone if I don't like them.
Or don't know them...
Need to know that we get on first, at least have a conversation that consists of more than a "Hey" "
Disagree I fucked a lady a hated for years and became regular just for sex … the hatred was real and angry sex was insane  |
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"Whilst the insides don't always match the outsides, the expectation that they might is laughable and naive at best.
I find the entire premise of this thread nasty tbh.
I'd say there's likely a whole lot more to this than you have detailed.
No one should have to tolerate being perved in a work environment if they have not engaged with matching energy/efforts.
Perhaps this female has given you the tone she needed to, in order to keep you at a professional and more comfortable distance.
Then she gets labelled a nasty piece....
Fairly common reaction by males.
Fair call. But just because we perv in our heads doesn't mean we show it. We do understand the difference between professionalism and private thoughts. "
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"Can't fuck someone if I don't like them.
Or don't know them...
Need to know that we get on first, at least have a conversation that consists of more than a "Hey"
Disagree I fucked a lady a hated for years and became regular just for sex … the hatred was real and angry sex was insane "
That doesn't sound like a healthy relationship with sex |
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I find beautiful women are the nicest and the bitter ones are usually ugly.
The beautiful ones get hate from others and normally are kind to the less fortunate.
This is my experience in the workplace, school or socially.
They engage in less toxicity and narcissism.
It's not the beautiful women who are the man haters.
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"Don't you just hate it when you meet a gorgeous girl, anywhere I mean - at work, socially or even on Fab - and their personality just turns you right off.
I've experienced this numerous times at various work situations where the girl is attractive (the most recent was stunning) but turned out to be the nastiest individual I've known for a long time.
Or would you still fuck'em?"
If it’s a fuck and forget meet then sure why not. I am only interested the now those meets so don’t care for personality if it’s just a pure physical based fuck |
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I have had sex with someone I didn't like, but was sexually attracted to. He didn't like me either. I've met a lot men that claim a lot of women are "b*tches" but given the chance they absolutely would sleep with them. |
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"Don't you just hate it when you meet a gorgeous girl, anywhere I mean - at work, socially or even on Fab - and their personality just turns you right off.
I've experienced this numerous times at various work situations where the girl is attractive (the most recent was stunning) but turned out to be the nastiest individual I've known for a long time.
Or would you still fuck'em?
She said no, didn't she"
Haha. |
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Sadly I've seen this a lot, people think that looks are everything but for us they need to have a good personality and a good attitude too. Nothing turns us off someone faster than a poor attitude and personality.
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I don't hate it at all.
It genuinely doesn't matter to me how amazing someone might look if they don't have the personality to back it up.
I don't fuck anyone I'm not attracted to and I'm not attracted to random people I've never spoken to. |
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"Why is it more disappointing when they're good looking though?  "
Agree and also all this kind of thing is quite subjective. Both beauty and in fact personality traits are. Some people might be attracted to one that you would not touch with a barge pole but to them he/she is god's gift. Usually what wpuld make you gravitate towards someone is the 'whole package' imo |
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"Whilst the insides don't always match the outsides, the expectation that they might is laughable and naive at best.
I find the entire premise of this thread nasty tbh.
I'd say there's likely a whole lot more to this than you have detailed.
No one should have to tolerate being perved in a work environment if they have not engaged with matching energy/efforts.
Perhaps this female has given you the tone she needed to, in order to keep you at a professional and more comfortable distance.
Then she gets labelled a nasty piece....
Fairly common reaction by males."
There is this too.
I've had entire tirades about how disgustingly ugly I am inside when the only two words I'd said to them were "No thanks"
Are some conventionally attractive people just coasting on their looks and have no pleasantness to their personality? Sure. But not all of them, not by a long shot. Same for less conventionally attractive people who are inherently bitter about that.
The work thing did throw me. I'm pretty blunt in normal situations but in a workplace I do shut things down as solidly as possible 💜 |
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"Why is it more disappointing when they're good looking though?
Agree and also all this kind of thing is quite subjective. Both beauty and in fact personality traits are. Some people might be attracted to one that you would not touch with a barge pole but to them he/she is god's gift. Usually what wpuld make you gravitate towards someone is the 'whole package' imo "
So many times I see good looking people branded as 'ugly on the inside' with little or no real evidence. Its as if personality is formed by looks rather above anything else, many beautiful people don't even realise that they are. |
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"...I've met a lot men that claim a lot of women are "b*tches...
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I'm curious to know what type, variant and calibre of men you're meeting... "
I've worked with a lot of men that are like this in various jobs |
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"...I've met a lot men that claim a lot of women are "b*tches...
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I'm curious to know what type, variant and calibre of men you're meeting...
I've worked with a lot of men that are like this in various jobs "
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Graciously clarified. 💜🩶 |
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By *izzy69 OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"I just think theres people like that in all categories. Noones better than anyone we all have great qualities.
But i find even if a man is everything i would go for physically if his personality is none existent/rude this would immediately make them unattractive to me.
Maybe its an ego thing 🤷♀️ but just need to remember you could be the best thing since sliced bread today and tomorrows fish and chip paper.
Stay humble 😄
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By *izzy69 OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"Whilst the insides don't always match the outsides, the expectation that they might is laughable and naive at best.
I find the entire premise of this thread nasty tbh.
I'd say there's likely a whole lot more to this than you have detailed.
No one should have to tolerate being perved in a work environment if they have not engaged with matching energy/efforts.
Perhaps this female has given you the tone she needed to, in order to keep you at a professional and more comfortable distance.
Then she gets labelled a nasty piece....
Fairly common reaction by males.
There is this too.
I've had entire tirades about how disgustingly ugly I am inside when the only two words I'd said to them were "No thanks"
Are some conventionally attractive people just coasting on their looks and have no pleasantness to their personality? Sure. But not all of them, not by a long shot. Same for less conventionally attractive people who are inherently bitter about that.
The work thing did throw me. I'm pretty blunt in normal situations but in a workplace I do shut things down as solidly as possible 💜"
Well maybe I shouldn't have mentioned work but been more general. I only used that as that is where I've experienced it most because that's where I spend most of my time. It's where people tend to show their loyalties/disloyalties, selfishness, politics, scheming etc.
It's funny how some seem to be assuming that I labelled her ugly because of rejection. Says a lot for conscious bias.
She was someone who did all of the above that I've listed and no other reason....and was fired just a couple of weeks ago because she got found out.
However, we do still have another toxic personality who is also gunning for a firing if she's not careful. (Yes I know, doesn't sound like a pleasant place I work in - but I do enjoy the job itself so am in a bit of a dilemma) |
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By *izzy69 OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"...I've met a lot men that claim a lot of women are "b*tches...
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I'm curious to know what type, variant and calibre of men you're meeting...
I've worked with a lot of men that are like this in various jobs "
Yes yes, goes for both men AND women! I didn't mean to be gender specific. |
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"...She was someone who did all of the above that I've listed and no other reason....and was fired just a couple of weeks ago because she got found out.
However, we do still have another toxic personality who is also gunning for a firing if she's not careful. (Yes I know, doesn't sound like a pleasant place I work in - but I do enjoy the job itself so am in a bit of a dilemma)"
All of what above?
What was she actually fired for?
What's the other one gunning for one for? |
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"I'd probably call myself ugly on the outside and ugly on the inside lol
Do you actually have the option to fuck them .....
Always.
Fucking has to be enjoyable, not beautiful 😒 "
Think you missed the point of my question which was aimed at you..... |
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"Don't you just hate it when you meet a gorgeous girl, anywhere I mean - at work, socially or even on Fab - and their personality just turns you right off.
I've experienced this numerous times at various work situations where the girl is attractive (the most recent was stunning) but turned out to be the nastiest individual I've known for a long time.
Or would you still fuck'em?"
Or maybe it's just you.
You seem to have an expectation that a good looking woman should have some form of behaviour or personality that you approve of and it seems if the 'pretty ones' don't live up to your expectation ( you don't even tell us what their personality is devoid of ) you label them 'ugly'
You say it's happened numerous times - so you seem to be the LINK to me.
Put some egg on my face and tell us all what was shit about the personality of all those numerous women...
What was so awful that it put you off even the good looking or stunningly beautiful ones ?
They must have been so upset ...
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"You seem vexed this evening, Granny.
I'll put a pot of tea on and get out my best biscuits."
I'm not vexed Lib but i'll still have a cuppa thanks.....
Make it an Early Grey, slice of orange and the biscuits are to be something plain like a garibaldi. There's a dear |
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