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By *iura1234 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

aberdeen

A question for the ladies.

I’m seeing more and more profiles saying not looking for single guys.

fair enough each to their own.

but im curious to why? Are some single guys too pushy or get attached easily etc

Interested to hear some thoughts on this.

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By *egDaySkipperMan 10 weeks ago

northants

They might prefer girls?

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By *iura1234 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

aberdeen


"They might prefer girls?"

The ones I’m seeing are still looking for men just not single men

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If you untick single males in the seeking options it words it that way rather than just not mentioning it like it does for every other demographic.

Most people just don't want the constant influx of single male mail. Doesn't mean they don't actually like cock 💜

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By *viatrixWoman 10 weeks ago

Redhill

They might prefer to do the searching and contacting themselves.

Or they might be looking to meet women or couples.

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By *hunky GentMan 10 weeks ago

Stamford

I've seen soooooo many complaints from ladies that get bombarded by neanderthals (some guys).

Some find it easier to find guys on their terms.

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By *iura1234 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

aberdeen


"They might prefer to do the searching and contacting themselves.

Or they might be looking to meet women or couples. "

Never thought of the searching for single guys themselves

Makes sense saves a hell of a lot of unwanted messages

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman 10 weeks ago

North West

It's to do with message filters. When I'm bored of 'hey' I switch filters on so men can't message me. So my profile shows not looking and looking at the same time 😂

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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago

Bombarded with stupid messages from men who just don’t have the intelligence to READ my profile but hey that’s why the delete & block facility is there.

Trixie

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By *i versMan 10 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

What they don't seem to understand is if your a single guy that just means you don't have a partner but we have lots of fwb and when you say your bi curious, it doesn't mean you are gay. It means your open to couples and getting sucked off by your cuck living husband lol I'm probably more straight than the once with a wife as they do nothing but want cock

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By *iura1234 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

aberdeen


"Bombarded with stupid messages from men who just don’t have the intelligence to READ my profile but hey that’s why the delete & block facility is there.

Trixie

"

Personally i do always read a profile before messaging but yeah I get what your saying.

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By *heitaliandreamerMan 10 weeks ago

Northampton

They simply don't want to be searched and bombarded with messages by horny men but they want to send the first message.

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By *vaRoseWoman 10 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

It’s just a way to control the inbox. I turn on the filter when I’m bored with the mail

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By *tr8MrEMan 10 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

It's a personal Choice for many.... remember it's technically a swingers site for couples..I'd just live with it and don't sweat over others choices

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By *orphia2003Woman 10 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Because 90% of messages I get from single men clearly show they have no interest in me as a person, it's just the fact I'm a woman. It's blatantly obvious they have either not read or chosen to ignore my profile, they send unsolicited dick pics or offensive/ignorant messages from the off....etc etc.

I'm not saying that this solely happens with single men, but as they account for a vast majority of the messages I receive, it happens far more in this demographic than any other.

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By *martie611Couple 9 weeks ago

staffs

We meet single guys, however they have to meet a certain criteria which 99% of guys who message us don’t fit.

It’s not like we’re searching for the holy grail, we just prefer someone who reads our profile for starters and can understand if we are compatible. We don’t like crude messages or just cock pics.

And if someone is cheating on their wife, just tell us the truth. It’s of no concern to us if you are, we like honesty, just don’t appear evasive.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"What they don't seem to understand is if your a single guy that just means you don't have a partner but we have lots of fwb and when you say your bi curious, it doesn't mean you are gay. It means your open to couples and getting sucked off by your cuck living husband lol I'm probably more straight than the once with a wife as they do nothing but want cock"

I can't say any of that affects the amount of messages that opening the single male filter causes 💜

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By *one_maverickMan 9 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford

As a single guy I feel I can answer this.

From what I've seen and the conversations I have had. Couples mainly want to either explore the females bi side for both of their benefits, or other couples for the same reasons.

When it comes to single guys... Majority of guys in both couples and single guys are straight so doesn't really benefit the guy in the couple overall.

Also you could have the issue of the guy just not wanting the female to play with other men and not all women want that either.

Course there are the exceptions of GBS, cucks and hotwifes but that's pretty rare on this site from what I've seen.

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By *pinningfasterWoman 9 weeks ago

Birmingham

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By *tudleyGoodfuckMan 9 weeks ago

Durham


"It's to do with message filters. When I'm bored of 'hey' I switch filters on so men can't message me. So my profile shows not looking and looking at the same time 😂"

Hey

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By *pinningfasterWoman 9 weeks ago

Birmingham

Because I'm not looking to have sex with single guys. Hope that helps!

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