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Women of fab - do you approach men you find attractive or wait for them to approach you?
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I'm not talking about on fab, I mean in public. Like at a pub or a bar, do you approach men you like? Or do you hold back and wait for men to approach you.
Just wondering. Interested to see what you all say. |
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I've never approached a complete stranger I fancy out in the wild, I'd probably rather a large hole opened up to swallow me  I don't even like talking to strangers in general, let alone a stranger I fancy. I'm a shithead. |
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I'm unlikely to approach a man in a regular pub or bar because trying to explain the whole poly partners thing would blow most people's minds.
At a group social, munch or swingers club. Absolutely yes. |
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Out in general I don't approach anybody. If I'm out in bars I'm out with friends and to socialise with the people I've chosen to be out with.
Clubs and swingers things, more people approach me than I approach. But I do occasionally make the time and space to go talk to someone I'm particularly drawn to 💜 |
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I wonder if women fear rejection and so leave it up to men to approach them 
But more seriously I wonder if society and social norms are part of the reason a woman might not want to approach a man.
Great thread OP. interested to read the replies |
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"I'm unlikely to approach a man in a regular pub or bar because trying to explain the whole poly partners thing would blow most people's minds.
At a group social, munch or swingers club. Absolutely yes. "
Basically this... I enjoy swinging i couldnt go back to monogamny (excuse spelling)...
Plus i don't "date" per say I prefer to meet like minded people in swinging clubs... then meet people in a normal pub or bar  xx |
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"I'm unlikely to approach a man in a regular pub or bar because trying to explain the whole poly partners thing would blow most people's minds.
At a group social, munch or swingers club. Absolutely yes.
Basically this... I enjoy swinging i couldnt go back to monogamny (excuse spelling)...
Plus i don't "date" per say I prefer to meet like minded people in swinging clubs... then meet people in a normal pub or bar xx "
Monogamy is a type of wood isn't it? |
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"I'm unlikely to approach a man in a regular pub or bar because trying to explain the whole poly partners thing would blow most people's minds.
At a group social, munch or swingers club. Absolutely yes.
Basically this... I enjoy swinging i couldnt go back to monogamny (excuse spelling)...
Plus i don't "date" per say I prefer to meet like minded people in swinging clubs... then meet people in a normal pub or bar xx "
MonoGammy I say
(Kidding  ) |
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"I'm unlikely to approach a man in a regular pub or bar because trying to explain the whole poly partners thing would blow most people's minds.
At a group social, munch or swingers club. Absolutely yes.
Basically this... I enjoy swinging i couldnt go back to monogamny (excuse spelling)...
Plus i don't "date" per say I prefer to meet like minded people in swinging clubs... then meet people in a normal pub or bar xx
Monogamy is a type of wood isn't it?"
FFS you!!!!... right on one today.... xx |
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"I'm unlikely to approach a man in a regular pub or bar because trying to explain the whole poly partners thing would blow most people's minds.
At a group social, munch or swingers club. Absolutely yes.
Basically this... I enjoy swinging i couldnt go back to monogamny (excuse spelling)...
Plus i don't "date" per say I prefer to meet like minded people in swinging clubs... then meet people in a normal pub or bar xx
Monogamy is a type of wood isn't it?
FFS you!!!!... right on one today.... xx"
Yes, hard wood  |
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"I'm unlikely to approach a man in a regular pub or bar because trying to explain the whole poly partners thing would blow most people's minds.
At a group social, munch or swingers club. Absolutely yes.
Basically this... I enjoy swinging i couldnt go back to monogamny (excuse spelling)...
Plus i don't "date" per say I prefer to meet like minded people in swinging clubs... then meet people in a normal pub or bar xx
Monogamy is a type of wood isn't it?"
That’s mahogany. The type of pretty wood I provide  |
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"I'm unlikely to approach a man in a regular pub or bar because trying to explain the whole poly partners thing would blow most people's minds.
At a group social, munch or swingers club. Absolutely yes.
Basically this... I enjoy swinging i couldnt go back to monogamny (excuse spelling)...
Plus i don't "date" per say I prefer to meet like minded people in swinging clubs... then meet people in a normal pub or bar xx
Monogamy is a type of wood isn't it?
FFS you!!!!... right on one today.... xx
Yes, hard wood "
uh-huh isnt most wood har... wait... dont answer that!!! |
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I rarely go anywhere other than gigs, cinema or theatre unless it's a Fab social.
Yes I've approached guys at gigs, but generally only because I'm talking about the artist, not because I want to jump them. And really, cinema and theatre are not conducive to chatting someone up! 😂 |
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"My days of meeting men in pubs and bars are long since over.
I would always wait for a man to approach me.
I tried that, and failed.
Well it was a pub and you did approach  "
And I can honestly say - you look even better in person than on your amazing pics. |
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"My days of meeting men in pubs and bars are long since over.
I would always wait for a man to approach me.
I tried that, and failed.
Well it was a pub and you did approach
And I can honestly say - you look even better in person than on your amazing pics. "
Ooo Chunky you're very kind. |
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I do sometimes and typically guage their potential interest, before making contact. Smiles can say an awful lot. I have some caution, typically waiting for them to acknowledge some interest and I am a bit rejection sensitive. |
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"I'm not talking about on fab, I mean in public. Like at a pub or a bar, do you approach men you like? Or do you hold back and wait for men to approach you.
Just wondering. Interested to see what you all say. "
Yes 👍🏻
And women 👍🏻 |
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It's futile OP, you won't get an honest answer out of these slithering sirens. Approaching men at a bar, I ask you. The only time they've approached me is to ask me to step aside so that they can speak to the barman. {shakes fist, spills drink} |
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"It's futile OP, you won't get an honest answer out of these slithering sirens. Approaching men at a bar, I ask you. The only time they've approached me is to ask me to step aside so that they can speak to the barman. {shakes fist, spills drink}"
What? No one is approaching Nero? Ladies you should all be ashamed of yourselves. Nero here, the Roman Emperor is a stallion among men. |
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"It's futile OP, you won't get an honest answer out of these slithering sirens. Approaching men at a bar, I ask you. The only time they've approached me is to ask me to step aside so that they can speak to the barman. {shakes fist, spills drink}"
Sassy as fuck!
I even bought dinner 😘 |
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No, never.
I be too wary that they're a nutter. I think maybe online dating has meant that I've dealt with sooo many 'normal' seeming people that turn cracked completely out of the blue.
I like to take time to let the crazy rise to the top and out itself 😎 |
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"It's futile OP, you won't get an honest answer out of these slithering sirens. Approaching men at a bar, I ask you. The only time they've approached me is to ask me to step aside so that they can speak to the barman. {shakes fist, spills drink}
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Sassy as fuck!
I even bought dinner 😘"
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You have, more than once! 😘
But this isn't the "Who pays/Who goes Dutch" thread. |
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"It's futile OP, you won't get an honest answer out of these slithering sirens. Approaching men at a bar, I ask you. The only time they've approached me is to ask me to step aside so that they can speak to the barman. {shakes fist, spills drink}
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Sassy as fuck!
I even bought dinner 😘
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You have, more than once! 😘
But this isn't the "Who pays/Who goes Dutch" thread. "
You really do get sassier by the day Sassy-Ass 😘 |
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"I'm not talking about on fab, I mean in public. Like at a pub or a bar, do you approach men you like? Or do you hold back and wait for men to approach you.
Just wondering. Interested to see what you all say. "
If I'm chatting to someone I find attractive, usually the banter is enough to show I'm interested |
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"It's futile OP, you won't get an honest answer out of these slithering sirens. Approaching men at a bar, I ask you. The only time they've approached me is to ask me to step aside so that they can speak to the barman. {shakes fist, spills drink}
What? No one is approaching Nero? Ladies you should all be ashamed of yourselves. Nero here, the Roman Emperor is a stallion among men. "
🤣 Nope not doing the approaching! There's only so much rejection a girl can take lol |
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