It’s not a dating site for me. I have had a couple of men say they want to date me but it hasn’t worked out. One was an absolute f***boy and still shagging everything in sight. The other was confused about what he wanted, eyeroll. So personally I would never date anyone from here. |
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"Absolutely not. A dating site people lie about wanting a relationship when they just want a shag. Here, everything is about sex and most wanting no strings "
Are not relationships about sex at the end of the day? |
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It is odd. Been on , off Fab since you could only login if you had desktop or laptop computer. I have since covid. Lot of single female profiles . Now saying in bio. Looking for relationship. I wonder why they join as very clear not dating site. ? |
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It's rapidly turning into another site like AM full of people who are confusing cheating with swinging,two very different things making it difficult for actual swinger's to meet honest genuine people who are just cheating. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 6 weeks ago
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"It is odd. Been on , off Fab since you could only login if you had desktop or laptop computer. I have since covid. Lot of single female profiles . Now saying in bio. Looking for relationship. I wonder why they join as very clear not dating site. ? "
Why is it 'very clear' ?
I've dated via Fab. I met both my current partners via Fab and married my previous one having met on here.
People can choose whether they want no strings hook ups, FWB's, or more. There's nothing stopping people clearly stating that they'd like a relationship. It doesn't mean they'll jump into one with the first person that offers. 🤷♂️ |
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"Absolutely not. A dating site people lie about wanting a relationship when they just want a shag. Here, everything is about sex and most wanting no strings "
I have seen a fair few women's profiles on here which mention them wanting things like 'spending cosy nights in together' which give me the impression that they're probably looking for something that's a bit more than NSA fun. |
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"Absolutely not. A dating site people lie about wanting a relationship when they just want a shag. Here, everything is about sex and most wanting no strings
I have seen a fair few women's profiles on here which mention them wanting things like 'spending cosy nights in together' which give me the impression that they're probably looking for something that's a bit more than NSA fun."
I agree in my earlier post . Seems that for a reason . Females join only to look for relationship. Yet it is a NSA fun site. I wonder how they do get on messaging . Do they make clear no sex . Want relationship. Say social will be a date ? |
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"Absolutely not. A dating site people lie about wanting a relationship when they just want a shag. Here, everything is about sex and most wanting no strings
I have seen a fair few women's profiles on here which mention them wanting things like 'spending cosy nights in together' which give me the impression that they're probably looking for something that's a bit more than NSA fun.
I agree in my earlier post . Seems that for a reason . Females join only to look for relationship. Yet it is a NSA fun site. I wonder how they do get on messaging . Do they make clear no sex . Want relationship. Say social will be a date ? "
Yeah I find it funny when people make crazy demands here... ...I always scratch my head..is this not a sex site?  |
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There's a lot of men going on about it being an NSA fuck site. Seems odd when the focus of the site is swinging according to the name, when swinging is usually based in long standing relationships.
But. People can use the site however they see fit within the site rules. The NSA fuck people can find the other NSA fuck people, the people who want more than that can find the people who want more than that. It's all good 💜 |
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I have seen a fair few women's profiles on here which mention them wanting things like 'spending cosy nights in together' which give me the impression that they're probably looking for something that's a bit more than NSA fun."
I rather like NSA cosy nights in. |
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By *aizyWoman 6 weeks ago
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"Absolutely not. A dating site people lie about wanting a relationship when they just want a shag. Here, everything is about sex and most wanting no strings
I have seen a fair few women's profiles on here which mention them wanting things like 'spending cosy nights in together' which give me the impression that they're probably looking for something that's a bit more than NSA fun.
I agree in my earlier post . Seems that for a reason . Females join only to look for relationship. Yet it is a NSA fun site. I wonder how they do get on messaging . Do they make clear no sex . Want relationship. Say social will be a date ? "
I'm female, I'm not on here looking for a relationship. I also don't want the type of nsa fun you are describing, I like to get to know someone and spend time together not just having sex. |
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By *obboMan 6 weeks ago
Lincoln |
"You can use it for what ever you want it to be. People just need to be honest about what they want or are looking for x"
Agree honesty is the key. Although, I've certainly come across a load of bollocks on here |
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By *AYENCouple 5 weeks ago
Lincolnshire |
I think every relationship I've ever had has started with some chat and then a fuck - I've never seen someone and thought I want a long term relationship with them - it just happens or it doesn't.
It's a site whereby people can meet with honest and open thoughts on their sexual preferences - it can be for a one off or for many years, so it is whatever you want it to be. K. |
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