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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m not new here, but probably naive and have never really taken my time to learn how it all works.
If someone reads a message but doesn’t delete it or reply, does it mean they’re going to reply at some point? I understand women probably get hounded non stop so it may take time to reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not new here, but probably naive and have never really taken my time to learn how it all works.
If someone reads a message but doesn’t delete it or reply, does it mean they’re going to reply at some point? I understand women probably get hounded non stop so it may take time to reply "
It just means NO & it will most likely get bulk deleted when her in box is getting full |
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We have two messages from 5 years ago in our inbox, we won't be replying to them. When you send a message it's best to forget about it and not check if it's been deleted. If they want to reply they will do. |
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"I’m not new here, but probably naive and have never really taken my time to learn how it all works.
If someone reads a message but doesn’t delete it or reply, does it mean they’re going to reply at some point? I understand women probably get hounded non stop so it may take time to reply "
Just bad manners , don't take it personally..
I always reply to every message I get even if it's a no from me..
We are all built differently don't forget..
Brush it off and crack on... |
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It means it was read and left. Like the pile of unsolicited leaflets for political parties and antique fairs and takeaways that builds up on the dresser beside the front door until I get around to actually clearing it all out 💜 |
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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
I respond to messages that fit what I've wasted my time putting in my profile
otherwise I don't reply to those who are just messaging to gallery wank, incompatible or illiterate.
I try to get back to those that seem a mutual match |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Delete your sentbox. It will stop you from looking and wondering and free up your headspace so you're happier when someone does reply.  "
Deleted! I feel better already |
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It doesn't mean anything, except that it's not deleted. You can't interpret it by trying to infer anything, except for that you are wasting your time.
After sending it, ignore the message and who you've sent it to. Move on.
Only put any further attention, if and when you get a reply. Cast your net broadly. |
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