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How hard is it to succeed in getting a meet ?

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By *ustforfun50 OP   Man 11 weeks ago

stevenage

I’ve been in the same relationship for the last 30 yrs and it run its course. Don’t want to change my life but need a sex life. Why am I not successful ? Any help appreciated

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple 11 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

You're in the majority looking for the minority.

You've got no pics on your profile, so nothing to entice.

Your profile is very generic, so nothing to entice.

You have a significant other, which puts many off.

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By *es not the MessiahMan 11 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

Mission impossible

Even ton cruise couldn't get a meet here

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 11 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Probably because you're still in the 30 year old relationship 💜

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By *ustforfun50 OP   Man 11 weeks ago

stevenage

There’s lady’s on here who need discretion because of the other half.

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By *icecouple561Couple 11 weeks ago
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East Sussex


"There’s lady’s on here who need discretion because of the other half. "

There are but there are way more men than women and they will nearly all offer discretion.

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By *ittlebirdWoman 11 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"I’ve been in the same relationship for the last 30 yrs and it run its course. Don’t want to change my life but need a sex life. Why am I not successful ? Any help appreciated "

Your OP has literally answered your own question OP.

You “need” a sex life.

That’s very different to offering someone else one.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 11 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"There’s lady’s on here who need discretion because of the other half. "

Yup. But your dishonesty with someone who thinks you care for them will still put a lot of people off.

Men are generally much more willing to ignore ethics to get their dick wet 💜

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By *aron Van WinkleMan 11 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

If we were playing D&D I would need my charisma 18 or above. And I’d possibly try to buff it out with some kind of spell to add an extra D4s as I guess the DM had a high roll of 25 and above so I’d need to roll with advantage.

Hopefully another player (my wingman) can add some Inspiration too, because as a single guy, you feel the odds are stacked against you.

You are fucked if you are an ogre barbarian, better luck if you are a Bard.

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By *inchestersBitchWoman 11 weeks ago

land of overweight munters

Sometimes childhood sweethearts work together

Sometimes childhood sweethearts are meant to only be childhood if youce been together since you were 13, it's time to grow up and be honest don't you think?

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By *issmorganWoman 11 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

You've got no pics op, that will rule you out for many, right away.

You've also not written much, your bio hints that you're looking to cheat on your partner, without actually stating it.

That will futher reduce your chances with some ladies and couples.

You need to put some effort in, if you want to pique people's interest.

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By *43SomeCouple 11 weeks ago

Staines


"There’s lady’s on here who need discretion because of the other half.

Yup. But your dishonesty with someone who thinks you care for them will still put a lot of people off.

Men are generally much more willing to ignore ethics to get their dick wet 💜"

Couldn’t agree more

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By *issmorganWoman 11 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"There’s lady’s on here who need discretion because of the other half. "

Absolutely, but lots of men don't mind meeting married women, if they get sex.

Many men think it's hot and they feel like they're getting one over on the partner.

You don't openly get as many women, who feel that way towards other women.

Plus there aren't as many women who start threads about cheating on their other halves, thus inviting criticism.

There was one the other day actually, she was cheating and wanted to ask her partner for an open relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago


"You've got no pics op, that will rule you out for many, right away.

You've also not written much, your bio hints that you're looking to cheat on your partner, without actually stating it.

That will futher reduce your chances with some ladies and couples.

You need to put some effort in, if you want to pique people's interest. "

This is spot on

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By *ears-in-the-rainMan 11 weeks ago

Swindon


"If we were playing D&D I would need my charisma 18 or above. And I’d possibly try to buff it out with some kind of spell to add an extra D4s as I guess the DM had a high roll of 25 and above so I’d need to roll with advantage.

Hopefully another player (my wingman) can add some Inspiration too, because as a single guy, you feel the odds are stacked against you.

You are fucked if you are an ogre barbarian, better luck if you are a Bard. "

Could go for a cleric build, comes in helpful with the inspiration side of things

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 11 weeks ago

Central

Read the many posts from single men struggling with advice given. Adopt what's relevant and emphasise why anyone should meet you

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