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By *enegadeM OP   Man 6 weeks ago

Witney

How important is affection to you?

Has fab numbed you of the need for it?

Or, like me, do you get such a turn on from affection….?

Tell me folks

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By *sStephenPickleMan 6 weeks ago

Ends

I enjoy affection. I seem to attract or be attracted to unaffectionate people though which sucks.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman 6 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Affection is the thing I crave the most. Without that, anything else physical for me is utterly worthless.

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By *carlettsWoman 6 weeks ago

Harpenden

I think we all need some sort of affection whatever that may look like.

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By *parkle1974Woman 6 weeks ago

Leeds

Affection doesn't turn me on as I don't see it as sexual.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman 6 weeks ago

your head

Its a huge thing for me. I don't want sex if it doesn't come affection, I'd rather have a wank. I don't lack it in every day life but I still need it in my sex life as well.

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By *mf123Man 6 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Emotion aint my bag had that once it made soft headed i was built to be a rock and became like a cloud for a time so now i dont allow people to be sappy near me

It was harder than removing sugar from a diet when it was gone

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple 6 weeks ago

Swansea

I don't need affection from others, I would say I want to feel lusted for. I get and want affection from my husband.

Mrs

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By *weetiepie99Woman 6 weeks ago

cardiff

I want it. And the affection.

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By *enegadeM OP   Man 6 weeks ago

Witney

All very valid points …. Maybe as one said …comes in many forms ….

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By *olo180Man 6 weeks ago

Blackpool / London

Affection and tenderness come naturally when being intimate with someone…it’s hard to turn it off.

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By *tsJustKateWoman 6 weeks ago

London

I don't need affection from strangers, just sex.

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By *ittlebirdWoman 6 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I adore affection OP and offer it freely to all of my friends whether in a sexual way or not.

Affection isn’t always sexual. It’s just showing the love you have for the other person.

I love to receive it too 😘

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By *isskxxyvWoman 6 weeks ago

Reading


"How important is affection to you?

Has fab numbed you of the need for it?

Or, like me, do you get such a turn on from affection….?

Tell me folks "

Affection is everything for a needy cow like me

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By *ansoffateMan 6 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

No affection in the relationship invariably means no sex.

It doesn't have to be all cutesy cuddles, people express affection in lots of different ways.

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By *eardedguy83Man 6 weeks ago

Worcestershire

Affection is like kissing….necessary x

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By *enda83Man 6 weeks ago

newcastle

I don’t really care if I receive it or not it’s not something ive ever craved

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 6 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Affection is very important for me.

However primal and aggressive the sex can be, if there aren't little soft touches and Eskimo kisses now and again outside of it I'm just not into it 💜

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By *ansoffateMan 6 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"Affection is very important for me.

However primal and aggressive the sex can be, if there aren't little soft touches and Eskimo kisses now and again outside of it I'm just not into it 💜"

Awww, you just melted my heart a little there, what an adorable image. 🥰

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple 6 weeks ago

Bristol

Cuddles, kissing and affectionate touches are key elements of our fab meets anyway, so that hasn't numbed our senses at all.

Think porn causes more of a risk for that than swinging, alot of wanna be doms who immediately start grabbing throats etc, many of whom cannot seduce a lady with affectionate attention

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman 6 weeks ago

Reading

I can't get enough of it. If sex doesn't come with a lot of cuddles and affection then I don't want it.

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By *ansoffateMan 6 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"I can't get enough of it. If sex doesn't come with a lot of cuddles and affection then I don't want it."

I usually get told something like 'you're such a chick' for having that desire. 🙄

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By *wist my nipplesCouple 6 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"I can't get enough of it. If sex doesn't come with a lot of cuddles and affection then I don't want it.

I usually get told something like 'you're such a chick' for having that desire. 🙄"

Fuck that shit, Hans. You cuddle away. X

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By *ansoffateMan 6 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"I can't get enough of it. If sex doesn't come with a lot of cuddles and affection then I don't want it.

I usually get told something like 'you're such a chick' for having that desire. 🙄

Fuck that shit, Hans. You cuddle away. X"

I know right! Don't forget to pop your vibe on charge sweetheart. No cuddles no Hans. x

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By *ora the explorerWoman 6 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I can't get enough of it. If sex doesn't come with a lot of cuddles and affection then I don't want it."

Pretty much this for me too.

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By *hickthighs25Woman 6 weeks ago

Stockton

If you dont want a naked cuddle after im out

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman 6 weeks ago

Next Door

I only want and need affection when im in a relationship.

With a FB/fwb or a meet from here, its just lust that I crave and need and give.

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By *vaRoseWoman 6 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Without affection and intimacy there is no pleasure

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By *a LunaWoman 6 weeks ago

o o OO o o

I don’t get turned on by affection.

However I do like affection in my personal relationships, although I think my skills in that department may be rusty.

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By *luebell888Woman 6 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I haven't really had affection from anyone so don't know what it feels like but I manage fine without it.

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman 6 weeks ago

Reading

I'm naturally affectionate, in both my words and actions but it does depend on the circumstances. If I'm meeting a fwb or longterm partner, then it is non negotiable. If they aren't willing to give or receive those little touches and strokes, and the mental check in with each other, then it won't be going any further. However, if it is just a sexual encounter, I can do without it.

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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago

i like it

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By *ugmesqueezemeMan 6 weeks ago

woburn sands

I'm an affectionate and tactile person. I think on fab meets theres a line between being overly affectionate and giving a kiss cuddle etc.

Some people will run a mile of think you're clingy if you so too much affection. Others will try and marry you...

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By *hickthighs25Woman 6 weeks ago

Stockton


"I'm an affectionate and tactile person. I think on fab meets theres a line between being overly affectionate and giving a kiss cuddle etc.

Some people will run a mile of think you're clingy if you so too much affection. Others will try and marry you...

"

Ah is that were im going wrong ill put the rings away then 🤷‍♀️

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By *ouble-SidedCouple 6 weeks ago

Voldsøy

Super important! I can't get or give enough. I don't think I've met anyone that matches my level of affection. I'm not talking just sexual partners.

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By *hat.coupleCouple 6 weeks ago

Kent

I think affection and intimacy often get confused. Google explains it as below.

"Affection is the feeling of warmth, fondness, and care for someone, while intimacy refers to the deep, close connection between two people"

I think people often seek affection from others thinking that it's the same as intimacy but they are not the same. We all need intimacy to feel truly loved, affection can fill the void of intimacy for a short while, but ultimately intimacy is what we crave.

Mrs x

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By *emorefridaCouple 6 weeks ago

La la land

I don't feel that affection is necessary for a sexual attraction. However, I couldn't be in a relationship without affection. I'm not the most touchy feely person, and express affection in my own way. And I'm happy for others to express theirs in non typical ways.

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