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By *eliWoman 3 days ago
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No. I've told someone this once before and they acted as if I was really weird.
I don't care. It's not for me. I have great, really good quality toys. I'm happy to buy things to use with a person (as I'm not really one for NSA I tend to see people more than once) but I don't want toys used with multiple women used on me. |
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"For some reason, "sex toys" and "men" immediately made me think only of fleshlights and I wondered why they would need to use them on a meet 😆"
That’s what I thought 🤣
In answer to the question no I wouldn’t. I don’t with women either. Only my own. |
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By *ruebameMan 3 days ago
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point of view I have some sex toys that where part of a sex machine with flashlight attachment yes the flashlight has been tried and actually works wonders but I'd never get the machine out on a meet and expect them to try it or suggest using those toys it's a bit like those who prefer bareback im not saying its wrong but it's not my idea of fun  |
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What if the male had sex toys to be used on him.. eg a vibrating toy for a cock etc? Would you use them?
And to pose another thought.. if you had toys that could be unisex what would you say if the meet refused to use one of your toys because he had now idea who it was used on?
It's a tricky one... |
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"What if the male had sex toys to be used on him.. eg a vibrating toy for a cock etc? Would you use them?
And to pose another thought.. if you had toys that could be unisex what would you say if the meet refused to use one of your toys because he had now idea who it was used on?
It's a tricky one..."
If the toys were for the male and belonged to him and used on him then ofcourse....
I was talking about males who seem to have dildos, vibrators etc to use on women.
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By *bi HaiveMan 3 days ago
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"What if the male had sex toys to be used on him.. eg a vibrating toy for a cock etc? Would you use them?
And to pose another thought.. if you had toys that could be unisex what would you say if the meet refused to use one of your toys because he had now idea who it was used on?
It's a tricky one...
If the toys were for the male and belonged to him and used on him then ofcourse....
I was talking about males who seem to have dildos, vibrators etc to use on women.
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Throwing a curveball in here.....
It's easy to slip a condom over an insertable toy such as a dildo. I've done it before. I'm also very OCD with any toy cleaning, having had dozens sent to me to test over the years. Some are obviously unlikely to be requested to be used during meets - I mean who's going to want to pop in a previously used butt plug!
But wands? Easy to clean scrupulously. Likewise glass and steel toys. And nobody ever seems to question using floggers on multiple people. 🤷♂️
There's obviously a huge difference between anything insertable and external toys, but I've met many people over the years who haven't minded using some of the stuff I have. I guess there's as much an element of trust involved in keeping stuff hygienically clean as there is with someone’s own personal hygiene. 🤔 |
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"What if the male had sex toys to be used on him.. eg a vibrating toy for a cock etc? Would you use them?
And to pose another thought.. if you had toys that could be unisex what would you say if the meet refused to use one of your toys because he had now idea who it was used on?
It's a tricky one...
If the toys were for the male and belonged to him and used on him then ofcourse....
I was talking about males who seem to have dildos, vibrators etc to use on women.
Throwing a curveball in here.....
It's easy to slip a condom over an insertable toy such as a dildo. I've done it before. I'm also very OCD with any toy cleaning, having had dozens sent to me to test over the years. Some are obviously unlikely to be requested to be used during meets - I mean who's going to want to pop in a previously used butt plug!
But wands? Easy to clean scrupulously. Likewise glass and steel toys. And nobody ever seems to question using floggers on multiple people. 🤷♂️
There's obviously a huge difference between anything insertable and external toys, but I've met many people over the years who haven't minded using some of the stuff I have. I guess there's as much an element of trust involved in keeping stuff hygienically clean as there is with someone’s own personal hygiene. 🤔"
I would still take my own, at least I know where they have been  |
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"So I've seen a few profiles (men) displaying their sex toys.....if you were to meet them.....
Would you use them????
Only if asked to but yes why not? "
Tbf my question was more aimed at the ladies. |
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