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"How are they "not" bi guys if they are requesting you to play with them ?
That's not my point,my point is why use your wife as bait?"
You said "...supposedly bi guys..." The inference in that sentence is that they're not bi when they obviously are if they want you to suck their dicks before you fuck their wives. |
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"Sounds like a BOGOF deal to me "
If you are bi, but if you are straight it's annoying.
The guy probably knows you not into that and then using his wife as bait... seriously? Shame on him and his wife for being used that way |
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By *WANDTGCouple 5 weeks ago
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"How are they "not" bi guys if they are requesting you to play with them ?
That's not my point,my point is why use your wife as bait?
You said "...supposedly bi guys..." The inference in that sentence is that they're not bi when they obviously are if they want you to suck their dicks before you fuck their wives."
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"I hate it when supposedly bi guys use their wives as bait..then they say if you want to sleep with her you have to sleep with me or at least let me suck your dick...lol  "
If both members of a couple are bi and both want action, what's wrong with them looking for what they want? Are they supposed to look for something *you* want so you have more of a chance of getting your end away? |
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"How are they "not" bi guys if they are requesting you to play with them ?
That's not my point,my point is why use your wife as bait?
You said "...supposedly bi guys..." The inference in that sentence is that they're not bi when they obviously are if they want you to suck their dicks before you fuck their wives."
I personally think they are originally gay,but got married to "keep up appearances, now later in life they want to live the life they should have lived and they using their wives |
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"I hate it when supposedly bi guys use their wives as bait..then they say if you want to sleep with her you have to sleep with me or at least let me suck your dick...lol
If both members of a couple are bi and both want action, what's wrong with them looking for what they want? Are they supposed to look for something *you* want so you have more of a chance of getting your end away? "
If it's that way start by actually saying you are both bi don't pretend to be straight then try to switch up...or pretend saying yes I'm bi but I'm okay with just watching and not take part |
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"How are they "not" bi guys if they are requesting you to play with them ?
That's not my point,my point is why use your wife as bait?
You said "...supposedly bi guys..." The inference in that sentence is that they're not bi when they obviously are if they want you to suck their dicks before you fuck their wives.
I personally think they are originally gay,but got married to "keep up appearances, now later in life they want to live the life they should have lived and they using their wives "
I wouldnt share you  |
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"I hate it when supposedly bi guys use their wives as bait..then they say if you want to sleep with her you have to sleep with me or at least let me suck your dick...lol
If both members of a couple are bi and both want action, what's wrong with them looking for what they want? Are they supposed to look for something *you* want so you have more of a chance of getting your end away? "
Poorly worded opening post aside, I think what the OP is getting at is couples where the male isn't listed as bi but wants some bi action before you get access to his wife.
Have I got that right, OP? |
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"I hate it when supposedly bi guys use their wives as bait..then they say if you want to sleep with her you have to sleep with me or at least let me suck your dick...lol
If both members of a couple are bi and both want action, what's wrong with them looking for what they want? Are they supposed to look for something *you* want so you have more of a chance of getting your end away?
Poorly worded opening post aside, I think what the OP is getting at is couples where the male isn't listed as bi but wants some bi action before you get access to his wife.
Have I got that right, OP?"
100% correct...thank you for clarifying |
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"How are they "not" bi guys if they are requesting you to play with them ?
That's not my point,my point is why use your wife as bait?
You said "...supposedly bi guys..." The inference in that sentence is that they're not bi when they obviously are if they want you to suck their dicks before you fuck their wives.
I personally think they are originally gay,but got married to "keep up appearances, now later in life they want to live the life they should have lived and they using their wives
I wouldnt share you "
I'm sure you could handle me....60% ...lol |
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"I hate it when supposedly bi guys use their wives as bait..then they say if you want to sleep with her you have to sleep with me or at least let me suck your dick...lol
If both members of a couple are bi and both want action, what's wrong with them looking for what they want? Are they supposed to look for something *you* want so you have more of a chance of getting your end away?
Poorly worded opening post aside, I think what the OP is getting at is couples where the male isn't listed as bi but wants some bi action before you get access to his wife.
Have I got that right, OP?
100% correct...thank you for clarifying "
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"I hate it when supposedly bi guys use their wives as bait..then they say if you want to sleep with her you have to sleep with me or at least let me suck your dick...lol
If both members of a couple are bi and both want action, what's wrong with them looking for what they want? Are they supposed to look for something *you* want so you have more of a chance of getting your end away?
If it's that way start by actually saying you are both bi don't pretend to be straight then try to switch up...or pretend saying yes I'm bi but I'm okay with just watching and not take part "
Your original message isn't clear then and I suspect you'll get blowback for it. If you are talking about men who don't say they are bi on their profile and say it once you start talking then you should specify that in the first place.
It doesn't mean they are using the wife as bait. That's a pretty judgemental way of looking at it. A man can get with another man very easily. |
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It's part of the three way dynamic that they want, with mutual interaction. Its what they want, as much as you want straight play. Don't try and change their desires and boundaries, in the same way that you don't want yours changed. If they are not for you, find someone else who is! This just screams 'my terms only, fuck what you want!' |
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I mean if that's their bag, that's their bag
You aren't going to change opinions on bi males in swinging
Hence why so many guys list as straight cos they're "just bi playful" - and some wives support this cos they don't want a bi hubby - I mean if he admits to liking a cock in his gob that makes him less masculine - allegedly |
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So what some of you are saying is it's perfectly acceptable to you if the male of a couple says he's straight on his profile but when you start interacting with them you're told you have to suck his 'straight' dick before you can fuck his wife? |
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"So what some of you are saying is it's perfectly acceptable to you if the male of a couple says he's straight on his profile but when you start interacting with them you're told you have to suck his 'straight' dick before you can fuck his wife? "
Exactly.... |
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"I mean if that's their bag, that's their bag
You aren't going to change opinions on bi males in swinging
Hence why so many guys list as straight cos they're "just bi playful" - and some wives support this cos they don't want a bi hubby - I mean if he admits to liking a cock in his gob that makes him less masculine - allegedly "
I don't have a problem with them being bi, just be honest about it from the beginning or list yourself as a bi couple..or if at first you say you cool not to take part.. don't change your mind halfway through and start asking can I at least give you a bj |
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By *andy2Man 5 weeks ago
Ealing |
When playing as a couple we clearly state we want bi guys to play with both of us
We get so many messages from guys who only want to play with my girlfriend
We just choose not to respond or politely decline
She is not bait, just want what we want |
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"So what some of you are saying is it's perfectly acceptable to you if the male of a couple says he's straight on his profile but when you start interacting with them you're told you have to suck his 'straight' dick before you can fuck his wife?
Exactly...."
Don't worry hornymarshall2014, I've got your back on this one. You go pursue _izequeen. |
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"So what some of you are saying is it's perfectly acceptable to you if the male of a couple says he's straight on his profile but when you start interacting with them you're told you have to suck his 'straight' dick before you can fuck his wife?
Exactly...."
It's not "perfectly acceptable" but it's hardly the end of the world, is it? If you don't want suck him off you're not going to want to whether he declares it first or not.
Some women on here will not consider a man who is bi so some bi men choose not to declare it openly. Tough luck on you. Put your big-boy trousers on and get over it. It doesn't mean the wife is bait. Men can get sex with other men fairly easily without using a woman as bait. |
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"When playing as a couple we clearly state we want bi guys to play with both of us
We get so many messages from guys who only want to play with my girlfriend
We just choose not to respond or politely decline
She is not bait, just want what we want "
If your couple profile has you down as bi then the OP isn't referring to you. If your couple profile has you down as straight then he is. |
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Is the worry more like, you go ahead and meet the Mr first as requested, but the couples meet with the Mrs never materialises ?
Sort of like using the Mrs as a honey trap, is she even real ?
Lol ask for a social first with them both before any sucking of cocks takes place would surely out these so called gay sex predators 😂 |
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"So what some of you are saying is it's perfectly acceptable to you if the male of a couple says he's straight on his profile but when you start interacting with them you're told you have to suck his 'straight' dick before you can fuck his wife?
Exactly....
It's not "perfectly acceptable" but it's hardly the end of the world, is it? If you don't want suck him off you're not going to want to whether he declares it first or not.
Some women on here will not consider a man who is bi so some bi men choose not to declare it openly. Tough luck on you. Put your big-boy trousers on and get over it. It doesn't mean the wife is bait. Men can get sex with other men fairly easily without using a woman as bait. "
I'm going to assume it's Luke that's corresponding here and I'm also going to assume that Luke is one of the 'straight' males that likes getting his dick sucked before you can fuck Hannah. Correct? |
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By *dnxyzMan 5 weeks ago
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Some do not even have a wife or she does not even know there is a profile that involves them.
Not sure many fall for it now.. but I guess people do.
If a profile is straight, then do not try to shag with the guy... |
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"So what some of you are saying is it's perfectly acceptable to you if the male of a couple says he's straight on his profile but when you start interacting with them you're told you have to suck his 'straight' dick before you can fuck his wife?
Exactly....
Don't worry hornymarshall2014, I've got your back on this one. You go pursue _izequeen. "
Lol thank you commander...you are truly a gentleman and a scholar! |
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"Some do not even have a wife or she does not even know there is a profile that involves them.
Not sure many fall for it now.. but I guess people do.
If a profile is straight, then do not try to shag with the guy..."
This is soooooo true, some are not even a couple, just some guy by himself posting old photos before he got divorced then claiming we are a couple |
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By *AYENCouple 5 weeks ago
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"Some do not even have a wife or she does not even know there is a profile that involves them.
Not sure many fall for it now.. but I guess people do.
If a profile is straight, then do not try to shag with the guy...
This is soooooo true, some are not even a couple, just some guy by himself posting old photos before he got divorced then claiming we are a couple "
It's just part and parcel of navigating Fab. It's very clear that a lot of guys on FAB deny their true sexuality. IMO, having a cock picture as your avatar is more likely to attract gay men then women. K. |
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"I hate it when supposedly bi guys use their wives as bait..then they say if you want to sleep with her you have to sleep with me or at least let me suck your dick...lol "
We see lots of bait profiles...usually single female profiles who only ever meet with their male partner...
We're one of those bi couples but I'm not bait and it's not even guaranteed I'll even play...sometimes I just watch...
We have the opposite issue...single guys claiming to be bi because they think if they wave their cock vaguely in my partners direction they'll get their dick wet...hence we dont meet single men...too much time wasting |
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"I hate it when supposedly bi guys use their wives as bait..then they say if you want to sleep with her you have to sleep with me or at least let me suck your dick...lol
We see lots of bait profiles...usually single female profiles who only ever meet with their male partner...
We're one of those bi couples but I'm not bait and it's not even guaranteed I'll even play...sometimes I just watch...
We have the opposite issue...single guys claiming to be bi because they think if they wave their cock vaguely in my partners direction they'll get their dick wet...hence we dont meet single men...too much time wasting"
Ooh my... that's another side of things |
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"I hate it when supposedly bi guys use their wives as bait..then they say if you want to sleep with her you have to sleep with me or at least let me suck your dick...lol "
Happy couple want to play but wife isn’t home right now. Nothing suspicious lol |
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"How are they "not" bi guys if they are requesting you to play with them ?
That's not my point,my point is why use your wife as bait?
You said "...supposedly bi guys..." The inference in that sentence is that they're not bi when they obviously are if they want you to suck their dicks before you fuck their wives.
I personally think they are originally gay,but got married to "keep up appearances, now later in life they want to live the life they should have lived and they using their wives "
That’s a very interesting theory probably the case for a few couples on this site |
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"I hate it when supposedly bi guys use their wives as bait..then they say if you want to sleep with her you have to sleep with me or at least let me suck your dick...lol
Happy couple want to play but wife isn’t home right now. Nothing suspicious lol"
Let's just pull out our cocks and wait for her she will be around shortly |
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By *enelope2UWoman 5 weeks ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
Happens all the time..men want all options when it involves sex that THEY want, but aren't willing to accept that some people have standards and preferences that will exclude them.. |
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"I hate it when supposedly bi guys use their wives as bait..then they say if you want to sleep with her you have to sleep with me or at least let me suck your dick...lol "
I’m confused.
Are these married men “supposedly bi” because they have a wife and also want men. Because that sounds definitely bi.
Or is it a profile where husband is “supposedly straight “ but wants cock fun when you arrive?
Or wife is away, but husband has permission to play alone (getting past all the “no single male” filters) and dangling the possibility of me the wife another time?
Or is it “my wife is running late, let’s start without her“ situations?
Lots of couples have the wife as the main selling point. Profile name implies woman, all photos are of the wife and the husband is virtually invisible. |
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I can't say I blame bi men in couples for making sure the guy they are meeting as a couple is at least orally bi, if that's their dynamics. There are way too many men who don't read profiles and pretend to be bi just to get to the lady. Then, on the meet, they "conveniently" forget they're supposed to play with the guy, too.
There is also the other side of the coin, where some bi men assume every "straight" man on here is actually just "Fab straight", and, given the right "incentive" (like, in your case, OP, access to the wife), they'd play bi.
In both cases, communication is key, as well as setting boundaries and respecting them. |
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"So what some of you are saying is it's perfectly acceptable to you if the male of a couple says he's straight on his profile but when you start interacting with them you're told you have to suck his 'straight' dick before you can fuck his wife?
Exactly....
It's not "perfectly acceptable" but it's hardly the end of the world, is it? If you don't want suck him off you're not going to want to whether he declares it first or not.
Some women on here will not consider a man who is bi so some bi men choose not to declare it openly. Tough luck on you. Put your big-boy trousers on and get over it. It doesn't mean the wife is bait. Men can get sex with other men fairly easily without using a woman as bait.
I'm going to assume it's Luke that's corresponding here and I'm also going to assume that Luke is one of the 'straight' males that likes getting his dick sucked before you can fuck Hannah. Correct? "
No, I'm straight. I have never my dick sucked by a man and don't want to. I just don't have any problem with those that do.
Thank you for your incorrect assumptions about me. |
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"So what some of you are saying is it's perfectly acceptable to you if the male of a couple says he's straight on his profile but when you start interacting with them you're told you have to suck his 'straight' dick before you can fuck his wife?
Exactly....
It's not "perfectly acceptable" but it's hardly the end of the world, is it? If you don't want suck him off you're not going to want to whether he declares it first or not.
Some women on here will not consider a man who is bi so some bi men choose not to declare it openly. Tough luck on you. Put your big-boy trousers on and get over it. It doesn't mean the wife is bait. Men can get sex with other men fairly easily without using a woman as bait.
I'm going to assume it's Luke that's corresponding here and I'm also going to assume that Luke is one of the 'straight' males that likes getting his dick sucked before you can fuck Hannah. Correct?
No, I'm straight. I have never my dick sucked by a man and don't want to. I just don't have any problem with those that do.
Thank you for your incorrect assumptions about me. "
You see Luke, I'm having trouble believing you aren't one of these fab straight guys seeing as you're so vociferous in your defence of the "you can't shag my wife until you suck my straight dick" brigade. But you know what? I'll take your word for it that you're as straight as straight can be 😉 |
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"So what some of you are saying is it's perfectly acceptable to you if the male of a couple says he's straight on his profile but when you start interacting with them you're told you have to suck his 'straight' dick before you can fuck his wife?
Exactly....
It's not "perfectly acceptable" but it's hardly the end of the world, is it? If you don't want suck him off you're not going to want to whether he declares it first or not.
Some women on here will not consider a man who is bi so some bi men choose not to declare it openly. Tough luck on you. Put your big-boy trousers on and get over it. It doesn't mean the wife is bait. Men can get sex with other men fairly easily without using a woman as bait.
I'm going to assume it's Luke that's corresponding here and I'm also going to assume that Luke is one of the 'straight' males that likes getting his dick sucked before you can fuck Hannah. Correct?
No, I'm straight. I have never my dick sucked by a man and don't want to. I just don't have any problem with those that do.
Thank you for your incorrect assumptions about me.
You see Luke, I'm having trouble believing you aren't one of these fab straight guys seeing as you're so vociferous in your defence of the "you can't shag my wife until you suck my straight dick" brigade. But you know what? I'll take your word for it that you're as straight as straight can be 😉"
I could make all kinds of unfounded assertions about you too but I prefer not to be completely wrong about things and wait until I can back things up. You are evidently not too worried about being correct. Some people would consider that a bad thing. You're clearly not one of them. |
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Not all men who have sex with men, such as sucking, are not straight. Ultimately, if you want access to a couple, then you need to be sure that you're all mutually compatible. The sex acts may differ but it's ultimately what we all have to do with all potential partners. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 5 weeks ago
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It's the Internet.
There will be couples that aren't actually couples.
There will be bi guys who like to appear straight because that's what many prefer to see on a profile.
There will be straight guys that will agree to light bi play, or at least twllmpeople they will, just to get access to a woman.
There will be those willing to jump through any hoops asked in order to have sex.
There will be those asking for hoops to be jumped through.
Everyone is entitled to ask for whatever they wish, from whoever they choose. But then equally everyone has the power to say no. Nobody is forces to agree to do anything they don't want or meet people they don't want to meet. We're all adults.
If you're not happy and comfortable with anything that arises in a conversation then why would you even continue it, let alone contemplate meeting someone? 🤦♂️🤦♂️
There's plenty of people on here and in life that are open and honest about what they're looking for. Why not just focus your time and efforts on them instead? It would save all the stress, drama and disappointment. 🤷♂️ |
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We don't want to meet couples who are not married.
I think loads of men are using sex workers as bait.
Or fuck buddies.
Or situationships.
We would rather have fun with couples who are committed to eachother.
And also we would rather a couple who don't sleep around with lots of other people all the time. So we can do couples things together not just sex.
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Like come dine with me and camping trips but the erotic version.
Watching eachother fuck in the same room and possibly swapping.
Or bdsm kinky role play femdom scenarios.
Go to events and weekends away with the same married couple.
Maybe an experienced femdom flr couple so they can mentor us and our relationship in a serious way. (Because we aren't having a kinky fling only we have serious lives and a serious marriage)
But not some guy using a sex worker or someone else's wife as bait.
Because they won't be able to relate to a real marriage. |
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"So what some of you are saying is it's perfectly acceptable to you if the male of a couple says he's straight on his profile but when you start interacting with them you're told you have to suck his 'straight' dick before you can fuck his wife?
Exactly....
It's not "perfectly acceptable" but it's hardly the end of the world, is it? If you don't want suck him off you're not going to want to whether he declares it first or not.
Some women on here will not consider a man who is bi so some bi men choose not to declare it openly. Tough luck on you. Put your big-boy trousers on and get over it. It doesn't mean the wife is bait. Men can get sex with other men fairly easily without using a woman as bait.
I'm going to assume it's Luke that's corresponding here and I'm also going to assume that Luke is one of the 'straight' males that likes getting his dick sucked before you can fuck Hannah. Correct?
No, I'm straight. I have never my dick sucked by a man and don't want to. I just don't have any problem with those that do.
Thank you for your incorrect assumptions about me.
You see Luke, I'm having trouble believing you aren't one of these fab straight guys seeing as you're so vociferous in your defence of the "you can't shag my wife until you suck my straight dick" brigade. But you know what? I'll take your word for it that you're as straight as straight can be 😉
I could make all kinds of unfounded assertions about you too but I prefer not to be completely wrong about things and wait until I can back things up. You are evidently not too worried about being correct. Some people would consider that a bad thing. You're clearly not one of them. "
I call it as I see it, Luke. Sometimes I'm wrong, most times I'm not. I feel you're a 'not'. Anyways, you take care 👋🏾 |
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"I hate it when supposedly bi guys use their wives as bait..then they say if you want to sleep with her you have to sleep with me or at least let me suck your dick...lol "
Turn that on its head and Why use a bi guy to get to a woman?
We see this all time guys pretending to be bi to try to get to the female
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I would offer to suck them off or fuck them without involving the wife. Sex is hard enough to find on here without a woman getting involved. If they insist on bringing a woman she could make the tea or go out for a box of Jaffa Cakes. |
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The couples that message for a meet later on the same day tend to be just guys using their wife’s (real, imaginary or not interested) as bait. I had one wife arranged a hotel met and then said only her husband was coming.
On the other hand some straight guys, get super horny in the moment and try new things. |
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"Sounds like a BOGOF deal to me
If you are bi, but if you are straight it's annoying.
The guy probably knows you not into that and then using his wife as bait... seriously? Shame on him and his wife for being used that way"
I’d estimate that over 90% of the men we meet their profiles says they are straight. And we only play MM. |
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