Compliments on how I look
Kindness and generosity of time spent with you.
Regularly being checked in on.
Great intimacy
Affection
Holding hands in public
Patience and care
Accountability
It's hard to get these things so when you get it I value it very highly |
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Pamper day mate, spa, hair cut (proper Turkish style with the close shave) massage then maybe some retail therapy for new underwear and something nice to wear all ready for a night out.
Woman are great at this stuff with their pals, it’s like a support network for reinstalling the sass.
We confuse there pampering for madness and think it’s unnecessary but that stuff works. |
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"Pamper day mate, spa, hair cut (proper Turkish style with the close shave) massage then maybe some retail therapy for new underwear and something nice to wear all ready for a night out.
Woman are great at this stuff with their pals, it’s like a support network for reinstalling the sass.
We confuse there pampering for madness and think it’s unnecessary but that stuff works. "
I think this is fantastic. You’re on to something.
I love getting my hair done and cut. |
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Looks, touch and words from people who cause a stir inside me, give me all those luscious brain chemical spikes. The exciting grrrrrrs, the mushy shudders and occasionally that mixture, which causes the rabbit in the headlights sensation. |
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"I need to feel sexy again. Desired.
Tell me what helps you feel sexy? "
Better health - physical and mental
Feeling sexy comes from within
If you're down on yourself, no amount of compliments and re-assurances will help
I am in a slump currently - a mix of grief and weight gain through medication
It's dragging its arse lifting this time
I do, however, have every confidence that it will lift
I just need to give it, and me, time |
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"I need to feel sexy again. Desired.
Tell me what helps you feel sexy?
Better health - physical and mental
Feeling sexy comes from within
If you're down on yourself, no amount of compliments and re-assurances will help
I am in a slump currently - a mix of grief and weight gain through medication
It's dragging its arse lifting this time
I do, however, have every confidence that it will lift
I just need to give it, and me, time"
Insightful 
Set a timescale and make some small wins you’ll be back on it soon, grieving is important too |
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"I need to feel sexy again. Desired.
Tell me what helps you feel sexy?
Looking like Brad Pitt would help, if you can manage it. "
I don’t think he’s attractive at all so looking like him wouldn’t help🤣 |
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"Pamper day mate, spa, hair cut (proper Turkish style with the close shave) massage then maybe some retail therapy for new underwear and something nice to wear all ready for a night out.
Woman are great at this stuff with their pals, it’s like a support network for reinstalling the sass.
We confuse there pampering for madness and think it’s unnecessary but that stuff works.
I think this is fantastic. You’re on to something.
I love getting my hair done and cut. "
Honestly it’s something I’ve learned about me as I’ve got older, i say it to my mates and there like fuck off the game starts at 3 lol, men are shit at self care if you have a current FWB then honestly plan a spa day then dinner and drinks, if you can help it get ready separately and enjoy the process before meeting for dinner 😉 |
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