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I didn't realise I was that bad to look at till joining up.
I literally get nothing not even a rejection from any female or couple
I may aswell be on fabguys
All I get is attention from lads
Is it only me? Am I really that bad?
Feel like giving up on here. One way to knock ya confidence join fabswingers lol
Hope you have way way way more Interactions than I do at this stage even a message to say fuck off would be nice right now lol
Good luck
I know I need it |
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"I didn't realise I was that bad to look at till joining up.
I literally get nothing not even a rejection from any female or couple
I may aswell be on fabguys
All I get is attention from lads
Is it only me? Am I really that bad?
Feel like giving up on here. One way to knock ya confidence join fabswingers lol
Hope you have way way way more Interactions than I do at this stage even a message to say fuck off would be nice right now lol
Good luck
I know I need it "
It's because there are too many men on here who talk to women like a piece of shit. They send rude and abusive messages like " fancy a fuck, giz a fuck" and stuff like that. Things they wouldn't dream of saying to them in a pub or club or something. But behind the screens at home they feel big and bad and cocky. And it just ruins it for all the other guys on here who try |
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You need confidence to be here
Rejection is part of the experience for many, but especially for men
Fabguys is no better - I used to be there many moons ago
It's cool if you want meaningless fucks with anonymous guys who want you as nothing more than a notch on the bedpost
I've found a much warmer reception here
Getting a good reception doesn't always equate to sex though
If you want sex, visit a professional
If you want to be desired, it takes time and it takes effort
There is no quick or easy solution I'm afraid
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"I didn't realise I was that bad to look at till joining up.
I literally get nothing not even a rejection from any female or couple
I may aswell be on fabguys
All I get is attention from lads
Is it only me? Am I really that bad?
Feel like giving up on here. One way to knock ya confidence join fabswingers lol
Hope you have way way way more Interactions than I do at this stage even a message to say fuck off would be nice right now lol
Good luck
I know I need it
It's because there are too many men on here who talk to women like a piece of shit. They send rude and abusive messages like " fancy a fuck, giz a fuck" and stuff like that. Things they wouldn't dream of saying to them in a pub or club or something. But behind the screens at home they feel big and bad and cocky. And it just ruins it for all the other guys on here who try "
I certainly don’t blame the actions of other guys and their behaviour for how I behave on here, had quite a few meets before and met some wonderful people on here.
End of the day, your behaviour, not theirs, is what makes you stand out. 🤷♂️ |
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It's because there are too many men on here who talk to women like a piece of shit. They send rude and abusive messages like " fancy a fuck, giz a fuck" and stuff like that. Things they wouldn't dream of saying to them in a pub or club or something. But behind the screens at home they feel big and bad and cocky. And it just ruins it for all the other guys on here who try "
While I agree there are a large number of twatwaffles on here it doesn’t ruin it for anyone. Everyone is an individual and we’re all masters of our own destiny. Just like He-Man 😘 |
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Fab isn’t a great place to look for sex mate (for men anyway) it’s more about connecting with someone with particular tastes in sex.
Your profile screams frustration and will be a turn off to most woman, so maybe lighten it up a bit.
Believe it or not I’ve rejected a few woman on here and it felt worse than the rejections I’ve received from them. If I had to do it 50-100 times a day my experience on Fab would be miserable.
It’s unfair to ask woman to reduce there Fab experience to a series of polite rejections or they would never be able to muster the energy to make the connections they want.
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By *lowupdollTV/TS 4 weeks ago
Herts/Beds/Leeds/London |
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It's because there are too many men on here who talk to women like a piece of shit. They send rude and abusive messages like " fancy a fuck, giz a fuck" and stuff like that. Things they wouldn't dream of saying to them in a pub or club or something. But behind the screens at home they feel big and bad and cocky. And it just ruins it for all the other guys on here who try
While I agree there are a large number of twatwaffles on here it doesn’t ruin it for anyone. Everyone is an individual and we’re all masters of our own destiny. Just like He-Man 😘"
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It's because there are too many men on here who talk to women like a piece of shit. They send rude and abusive messages like " fancy a fuck, giz a fuck" and stuff like that. Things they wouldn't dream of saying to them in a pub or club or something. But behind the screens at home they feel big and bad and cocky. And it just ruins it for all the other guys on here who try
While I agree there are a large number of twatwaffles on here it doesn’t ruin it for anyone. Everyone is an individual and we’re all masters of our own destiny. Just like He-Man 😘
A muscle man who rides a big pussy? "
Yep. I preferred the pussy tbh 😘 |
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Honestly OP, your bio is scary to me. I'm sure it's just your way of writing how you say it, with your own sense of humour, but it would scare me.
You haven't asked for profile advice so I'll say nowt. |
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By *lowupdollTV/TS 4 weeks ago
Herts/Beds/Leeds/London |
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It's because there are too many men on here who talk to women like a piece of shit. They send rude and abusive messages like " fancy a fuck, giz a fuck" and stuff like that. Things they wouldn't dream of saying to them in a pub or club or something. But behind the screens at home they feel big and bad and cocky. And it just ruins it for all the other guys on here who try
While I agree there are a large number of twatwaffles on here it doesn’t ruin it for anyone. Everyone is an individual and we’re all masters of our own destiny. Just like He-Man 😘
A muscle man who rides a big pussy?
Yep. I preferred the pussy tbh 😘"
Dolls for boys really. Just makes people gay. |
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Unfortunately people think sites like these will offer immediate results .. They don't,and from talking to friends most sites now are the same ....whether it's rejection by no contact,reply or a swipe on some sites it's modern life I'm afraid ....the joy of technology possibly to blame ... |
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Your profile is honest OP , maybe you just need to participate in the forums for now, let the females on fab see what you are about and for the right woman to come along and message you. Glass half full. Mx  |
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By *lowupdollTV/TS 4 weeks ago
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"When a gay guy sends me a message I see it as very kind, and it boosts my confidence.
See it a complement mate"
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By *bi HaiveMan 4 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Honestly OP, your bio is scary to me. I'm sure it's just your way of writing how you say it, with your own sense of humour, but it would scare me.
You haven't asked for profile advice so I'll say nowt."
It's allowed if relevant to the thread, which given the theme is pretty much 'why am I not having any luck', it would be.
OP - if you're wondering why women aren't responding then maybe it's down to the negativity and content on your profile? People like positive people. Bemoaning not getting replies from your target audience and being critical of them won't tend to inspire them to reply.
And yes. Many single guys do well on Fab (swingers, not guys) but equally many don't, and that's often down to expectations. |
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"Honestly OP, your bio is scary to me. I'm sure it's just your way of writing how you say it, with your own sense of humour, but it would scare me.
You haven't asked for profile advice so I'll say nowt.
It's allowed if relevant to the thread, which given the theme is pretty much 'why am I not having any luck', it would be.
OP - if you're wondering why women aren't responding then maybe it's down to the negativity and content on your profile? People like positive people. Bemoaning not getting replies from your target audience and being critical of them won't tend to inspire them to reply.
And yes. Many single guys do well on Fab (swingers, not guys) but equally many don't, and that's often down to expectations. "
I see your logic Obi, however other mods may not have that same logic so thanks, but I'll wait for the magic words 'advice for my profile ' from the OP's themselves  |
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By *bi HaiveMan 4 weeks ago
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"Honestly OP, your bio is scary to me. I'm sure it's just your way of writing how you say it, with your own sense of humour, but it would scare me.
You haven't asked for profile advice so I'll say nowt.
It's allowed if relevant to the thread, which given the theme is pretty much 'why am I not having any luck', it would be.
OP - if you're wondering why women aren't responding then maybe it's down to the negativity and content on your profile? People like positive people. Bemoaning not getting replies from your target audience and being critical of them won't tend to inspire them to reply.
And yes. Many single guys do well on Fab (swingers, not guys) but equally many don't, and that's often down to expectations.
I see your logic Obi, however other mods may not have that same logic so thanks, but I'll wait for the magic words 'advice for my profile ' from the OP's themselves "
Just for anyone's future reference.....
"Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere." |
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"In your status you’re looking for convincing sissy’s or TVs so maybe you’re sending out mixed messages? "
I'm bisexual if you could say that i think everyone as there own preception off what makes someone gay/bi, to most I'm probably bi lol
And if someone isn't OK with that that's fine tell me it's the ignorance that's annoying tell me I'm not for you at least |
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"Honestly OP, your bio is scary to me. I'm sure it's just your way of writing how you say it, with your own sense of humour, but it would scare me.
You haven't asked for profile advice so I'll say nowt.
It's allowed if relevant to the thread, which given the theme is pretty much 'why am I not having any luck', it would be.
OP - if you're wondering why women aren't responding then maybe it's down to the negativity and content on your profile? People like positive people. Bemoaning not getting replies from your target audience and being critical of them won't tend to inspire them to reply.
And yes. Many single guys do well on Fab (swingers, not guys) but equally many don't, and that's often down to expectations. "
The problem here is my bio has been updated just today I'm a positive person am also understanding too so criticism and rejection doesn't hurt me it improves I'm the type off lad that no matter what gets chucked his way he will adapt and overcome and neve let life get him down
And that's really getting tested recently with life ATM but that's another story
Today I've just got fed up I guess and had to express myself
Ant advice is good advice thanks for the comment appreciated |
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"Attention.
There's some attention for you. "
From a man my point exactly hahaha
No seriously I am not seeking attention I'm not ten
But how can any type off communication start when I'm trying and getting nothing
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"Maybe change your approach?
I get replies so women and couples do exist."
I don't know what approach to take? I've tried numerous maybe am just not up to any kind off benchmark
I mean I've had someone say there looking for me basically described to a Tew
I message get ignored
I want to be told no or not my type or owt like that but I don't get anything
Lol Mr lonely over here |
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By *olo180Man 4 weeks ago
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"Maybe change your approach?
I get replies so women and couples do exist.
I don't know what approach to take? I've tried numerous maybe am just not up to any kind off benchmark
I mean I've had someone say there looking for me basically described to a Tew
I message get ignored
I want to be told no or not my type or owt like that but I don't get anything
Lol Mr lonely over here "
Women get hundreds of messages a day and can’t possibly read or reply to them all.
Just something you have to accept and get used too. If you can’t then this site not for you I guess |
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"Maybe change your approach?
I get replies so women and couples do exist.
I don't know what approach to take? I've tried numerous maybe am just not up to any kind off benchmark
I mean I've had someone say there looking for me basically described to a Tew
I message get ignored
I want to be told no or not my type or owt like that but I don't get anything
Lol Mr lonely over here "
Most people will look at your profile before messaging back. So it’s likely your profile that is the issue OP.
You haven’t asked for advice on it so I can’t give it. However, if you messaged me I would delete it. Way way too negative. Hope this helps 🌈 |
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"Talk about attention seeking post he is after a pity shag.
Lets see how many females if any go for it 😁
You have been on 4 month it says when joining the ratio of men to women is crazy."
Assuming there I think
Im after no pity at all it's funny how you can jump on to someone claim to know what they want yet have no clue about them?
If you actually did know me you'd know I don't want pit now or never shit happens get over it lol
Frustration was the reason tbh and even if I got no "attention" on the post the outcome is the same the reason is the same
No bad vibes
Peace
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"Honestly OP, your bio is scary to me. I'm sure it's just your way of writing how you say it, with your own sense of humour, but it would scare me.
You haven't asked for profile advice so I'll say nowt.
It's allowed if relevant to the thread, which given the theme is pretty much 'why am I not having any luck', it would be.
OP - if you're wondering why women aren't responding then maybe it's down to the negativity and content on your profile? People like positive people. Bemoaning not getting replies from your target audience and being critical of them won't tend to inspire them to reply.
And yes. Many single guys do well on Fab (swingers, not guys) but equally many don't, and that's often down to expectations.
The problem here is my bio has been updated just today I'm a positive person am also understanding too so criticism and rejection doesn't hurt me it improves I'm the type off lad that no matter what gets chucked his way he will adapt and overcome and neve let life get him down
And that's really getting tested recently with life ATM but that's another story
Today I've just got fed up I guess and had to express myself.
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Ant advice is good advice thanks for the comment appreciated "
Ant advice, well I'd stay clear of them big fuckers like the ones in indiana jones😲
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"Maybe change your approach?
I get replies so women and couples do exist.
I don't know what approach to take? I've tried numerous maybe am just not up to any kind off benchmark
I mean I've had someone say there looking for me basically described to a Tew
I message get ignored
I want to be told no or not my type or owt like that but I don't get anything
Lol Mr lonely over here
Most people will look at your profile before messaging back. So it’s likely your profile that is the issue OP.
You haven’t asked for advice on it so I can’t give it. However, if you messaged me I would delete it. Way way too negative. Hope this helps 🌈"
Thanks for replying
I'd happily take any advice
Now ignoring what I've wrote today (was a moody bum this morning) the bottom half off the bio is what was there originally
So I guess my whole profile was a shambles lol |
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I think I should point out one fact, you have been here for 4 months.
There are guys who have been here 4 years and still looking for their first meet.
You are just one in a thousand single guys.
Think of your profile as a shop window, but with words as well as pictures.
Ak yourself what makes you stand out against the rest of the single males.
Get yourself known at socials and organised events, put yourself out there in the real rather than just being a keyboard swinger |
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"Maybe change your approach?
I get replies so women and couples do exist.
I don't know what approach to take? I've tried numerous maybe am just not up to any kind off benchmark
I mean I've had someone say there looking for me basically described to a Tew
I message get ignored
I want to be told no or not my type or owt like that but I don't get anything
Lol Mr lonely over here
Most people will look at your profile before messaging back. So it’s likely your profile that is the issue OP.
You haven’t asked for advice on it so I can’t give it. However, if you messaged me I would delete it. Way way too negative. Hope this helps 🌈
Thanks for replying
I'd happily take any advice
Now ignoring what I've wrote today (was a moody bum this morning) the bottom half off the bio is what was there originally
So I guess my whole profile was a shambles lol "
It must have been 🤣
If you need a rant my advice is not to do it on your profile. It’s your shop window on fab.
If you’re bisexual then put it. Be honest. Be you. Be real. Not everyone is for everyone else. If it means you’re not interesting to some then they’re probably not for you anyway.
And take your time. Make friends on here. It’s not all about getting your rocks off. Because we all love to get our rocks off, and we all have the ability to have a wank. In my case… a ladywank.
Hope this helps. And go have a wank for god sake do get rid of some of that pent up frustration 🌈
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"Honestly OP, your bio is scary to me. I'm sure it's just your way of writing how you say it, with your own sense of humour, but it would scare me.
You haven't asked for profile advice so I'll say nowt.
It's allowed if relevant to the thread, which given the theme is pretty much 'why am I not having any luck', it would be.
OP - if you're wondering why women aren't responding then maybe it's down to the negativity and content on your profile? People like positive people. Bemoaning not getting replies from your target audience and being critical of them won't tend to inspire them to reply.
And yes. Many single guys do well on Fab (swingers, not guys) but equally many don't, and that's often down to expectations.
The problem here is my bio has been updated just today I'm a positive person am also understanding too so criticism and rejection doesn't hurt me it improves I'm the type off lad that no matter what gets chucked his way he will adapt and overcome and neve let life get him down
And that's really getting tested recently with life ATM but that's another story
Today I've just got fed up I guess and had to express myself.
.
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Ant advice is good advice thanks for the comment appreciated
Ant advice, well I'd stay clear of them big fuckers like the ones in indiana jones😲
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Belive it or not I'm allergic to ants hahaha
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"Maybe change your approach?
I get replies so women and couples do exist.
I don't know what approach to take? I've tried numerous maybe am just not up to any kind off benchmark
I mean I've had someone say there looking for me basically described to a Tew
I message get ignored
I want to be told no or not my type or owt like that but I don't get anything
Lol Mr lonely over here
Most people will look at your profile before messaging back. So it’s likely your profile that is the issue OP.
You haven’t asked for advice on it so I can’t give it. However, if you messaged me I would delete it. Way way too negative. Hope this helps 🌈
Thanks for replying
I'd happily take any advice
Now ignoring what I've wrote today (was a moody bum this morning) the bottom half off the bio is what was there originally
So I guess my whole profile was a shambles lol
It must have been 🤣
If you need a rant my advice is not to do it on your profile. It’s your shop window on fab.
If you’re bisexual then put it. Be honest. Be you. Be real. Not everyone is for everyone else. If it means you’re not interesting to some then they’re probably not for you anyway.
And take your time. Make friends on here. It’s not all about getting your rocks off. Because we all love to get our rocks off, and we all have the ability to have a wank. In my case… a ladywank.
Hope this helps. And go have a wank for god sake do get rid of some of that pent up frustration 🌈
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I've changed it back to what it was would you say that's to boring or?
And haha I've let go off the frustration from this morning now
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"Maybe change your approach?
I get replies so women and couples do exist.
I don't know what approach to take? I've tried numerous maybe am just not up to any kind off benchmark
I mean I've had someone say there looking for me basically described to a Tew
I message get ignored
I want to be told no or not my type or owt like that but I don't get anything
Lol Mr lonely over here
Most people will look at your profile before messaging back. So it’s likely your profile that is the issue OP.
You haven’t asked for advice on it so I can’t give it. However, if you messaged me I would delete it. Way way too negative. Hope this helps 🌈
Thanks for replying
I'd happily take any advice
Now ignoring what I've wrote today (was a moody bum this morning) the bottom half off the bio is what was there originally
So I guess my whole profile was a shambles lol
It must have been 🤣
If you need a rant my advice is not to do it on your profile. It’s your shop window on fab.
If you’re bisexual then put it. Be honest. Be you. Be real. Not everyone is for everyone else. If it means you’re not interesting to some then they’re probably not for you anyway.
And take your time. Make friends on here. It’s not all about getting your rocks off. Because we all love to get our rocks off, and we all have the ability to have a wank. In my case… a ladywank.
Hope this helps. And go have a wank for god sake do get rid of some of that pent up frustration 🌈
I've changed it back to what it was would you say that's to boring or?
And haha I've let go off the frustration from this morning now
Frustration free "
Yep definitely better. But being straight on your profile and looking for t-girls still doesn’t gel. Be honest. Be you 😘 |
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"Maybe change your approach?
I get replies so women and couples do exist.
I don't know what approach to take? I've tried numerous maybe am just not up to any kind off benchmark
I mean I've had someone say there looking for me basically described to a Tew
I message get ignored
I want to be told no or not my type or owt like that but I don't get anything
Lol Mr lonely over here
Most people will look at your profile before messaging back. So it’s likely your profile that is the issue OP.
You haven’t asked for advice on it so I can’t give it. However, if you messaged me I would delete it. Way way too negative. Hope this helps 🌈
Thanks for replying
I'd happily take any advice
Now ignoring what I've wrote today (was a moody bum this morning) the bottom half off the bio is what was there originally
So I guess my whole profile was a shambles lol
It must have been 🤣
If you need a rant my advice is not to do it on your profile. It’s your shop window on fab.
If you’re bisexual then put it. Be honest. Be you. Be real. Not everyone is for everyone else. If it means you’re not interesting to some then they’re probably not for you anyway.
And take your time. Make friends on here. It’s not all about getting your rocks off. Because we all love to get our rocks off, and we all have the ability to have a wank. In my case… a ladywank.
Hope this helps. And go have a wank for god sake do get rid of some of that pent up frustration 🌈
I've changed it back to what it was would you say that's to boring or?
And haha I've let go off the frustration from this morning now
Frustration free
Yep definitely better. But being straight on your profile and looking for t-girls still doesn’t gel. Be honest. Be you 😘"
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Never even realised ill get to changing it and anything else you'd recommend I'll take on bored thanks
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"I think I should point out one fact, you have been here for 4 months.
There are guys who have been here 4 years and still looking for their first meet.
You are just one in a thousand single guys.
Think of your profile as a shop window, but with words as well as pictures.
Ak yourself what makes you stand out against the rest of the single males.
Get yourself known at socials and organised events, put yourself out there in the real rather than just being a keyboard swinger"
I've had different profile a while back came off for a year or so and am back
I've taken a chill pill now so I've came to my senses haha |
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"Your not bad looking but you say your straight, so why would you be on fabguys"
I have adjusted this I'm bisexual to most to me i am a guy who can have sex with either but don't see myself in a relationship with a male like I could female so I don't know yeah am bi but |
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"Your not bad looking but you say your straight, so why would you be on fabguys
I have adjusted this I'm bisexual to most to me i am a guy who can have sex with either but don't see myself in a relationship with a male like I could female so I don't know yeah am bi but "
Good for you OP. I’m glad you have 🌈 |
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By *bi HaiveMan 4 weeks ago
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"Your not bad looking but you say your straight, so why would you be on fabguys
I have adjusted this I'm bisexual to most to me i am a guy who can have sex with either but don't see myself in a relationship with a male like I could female so I don't know yeah am bi but
Good for you OP. I’m glad you have 🌈"
Profile text looks much better now. There's never any harm in asking for advice/suggestions, and it makes a nice change to see someone take the feedback of others on board. 👌
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