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Soooo I finally managed a meet with someone not on this site last night and when I turned up at the door, well shall we say she wasn't really my cup of tea in the flesh.
As we chatted away it became obvious that nothing was going to happen to loosen the bed screws that night. But the conversation was great so I suggested that we make use of the time and go and get some dinner which turned in to a nice meal with lots of laughter.
I could have been rude and just left when it was obvious nowt was going to happen but I'm so glad I didn't as now I have a new friend.  |
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"Soooo I finally managed a meet with someone not on this site last night and when I turned up at the door, well shall we say she wasn't really my cup of tea in the flesh.
As we chatted away it became obvious that nothing was going to happen to loosen the bed screws that night. But the conversation was great so I suggested that we make use of the time and go and get some dinner which turned in to a nice meal with lots of laughter.
I could have been rude and just left when it was obvious nowt was going to happen but I'm so glad I didn't as now I have a new friend. "
Hope she’s nae on here OP🙃🤣!
I like to think I’m polite, even if I feel mislead and they are not what they presented online. It’s nice to be nice, never nice to hurt someone more than needed. |
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"Soooo I finally managed a meet with someone not on this site last night and when I turned up at the door, well shall we say she wasn't really my cup of tea in the flesh.
As we chatted away it became obvious that nothing was going to happen to loosen the bed screws that night. But the conversation was great so I suggested that we make use of the time and go and get some dinner which turned in to a nice meal with lots of laughter.
I could have been rude and just left when it was obvious nowt was going to happen but I'm so glad I didn't as now I have a new friend. "
Good for you OP! Just cos you don’t fancy someone doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy your time with them! And like you say a new friend gained!! |
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"Soooo I finally managed a meet with someone not on this site last night and when I turned up at the door, well shall we say she wasn't really my cup of tea in the flesh.
As we chatted away it became obvious that nothing was going to happen to loosen the bed screws that night. But the conversation was great so I suggested that we make use of the time and go and get some dinner which turned in to a nice meal with lots of laughter.
I could have been rude and just left when it was obvious nowt was going to happen but I'm so glad I didn't as now I have a new friend.
Hope she’s nae on here OP🙃🤣!
I like to think I’m polite, even if I feel mislead and they are not what they presented online. It’s nice to be nice, never nice to hurt someone more than needed."
Nope she's not on here. You never know when somebody else might need a friend or just some company!
I'm taking last night as a win. |
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Is it being polite or a decent human being?
No one has to be let down in a hurtful way.
I once met a lady socially, we chatted, had a great time, and things went further.
She confessed to me that halfway through the social she was going to make her excuses and leave, but I licked my lips in such a way it made her flutter.
If she had bailed out immediately on first sight, things would have been different. It would have also damaged my (at the time) fragile ego.
Sometimes people meet and are only meant to be friends  |
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Good for you OP. Making a new friend and finding someone you like to spend time with even if it’s not sexually really should be seen as the norm… not a win.
Make friends. Be happy. Wear sunscreen. Yada yada 😘 |
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"I’m coming straight from the underground 
Your mothers basement by the looks of it
Yeah I got it bad cos I’m brown. "
I ain’t going looking at your pics I’m just shooting the shit mate I’m a super polite gentleman |
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This reads a little like give me props for being kind/generous to the ugly when I didn't need to be and I hope that wasn't your intention.
Also, it's not impolite to tell someone they're not what you're looking for and to give that time back. |
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By *eliWoman 3 weeks ago
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You can politely leave if you're not feeling chemistry - impolite is in how you handle the situation.
It's great you have a new friend OP! I'd say I'm fairly polite. Not great at the social politeness that often accompanies conversation - I don't want to discuss the weather or have to ask how someone is when I only want to ask a quick question. I try and politely navigate it though.  |
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"This reads a little like give me props for being kind/generous to the ugly when I didn't need to be and I hope that wasn't your intention.
Also, it's not impolite to tell someone they're not what you're looking for and to give that time back. "
Certainly not my intention at all. I won't go in to details but neither of us found each other sexually attractive. She even described me as a "double bagger" which she later explained to me and is still making me laugh now! |
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Im polite … the connection is there or it isnt - it doesn’t matter if she is the most breathtaking looking woman (like Sparkle74) or looks like shes been ducking for apples in a chip pan ( you know who you are !!) they deserve respect and compassion and like OP says you might connect in an entirely unexpected way  |
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"Soooo I finally managed a meet with someone not on this site last night and when I turned up at the door, well shall we say she wasn't really my cup of tea in the flesh.
As we chatted away it became obvious that nothing was going to happen to loosen the bed screws that night. But the conversation was great so I suggested that we make use of the time and go and get some dinner which turned in to a nice meal with lots of laughter.
I could have been rude and just left when it was obvious nowt was going to happen but I'm so glad I didn't as now I have a new friend.
Hope she’s nae on here OP🙃🤣!
I like to think I’m polite, even if I feel mislead and they are not what they presented online. It’s nice to be nice, never nice to hurt someone more than needed.
Nope she's not on here. You never know when somebody else might need a friend or just some company!
I'm taking last night as a win."
That's good OP, Ye obviously connected in some way if ye went to dinner together & had a nice evening, Maybe your new found friend may be a slow burner for you.....Who Knows 😉 |
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I've had it where I've been told that I was too nice.. polite way of saying not interested..
I was a young pup then..
Being too nice can send out the wrong signals..
But as long as your not rude if their not your type and you never know what will happen..
I dated a girl who I didn't fancy straight away..become the best 14 years ever..and the sex was amazing |
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"Soooo I finally managed a meet with someone not on this site last night and when I turned up at the door, well shall we say she wasn't really my cup of tea in the flesh.
As we chatted away it became obvious that nothing was going to happen to loosen the bed screws that night. But the conversation was great so I suggested that we make use of the time and go and get some dinner which turned in to a nice meal with lots of laughter.
I could have been rude and just left when it was obvious nowt was going to happen but I'm so glad I didn't as now I have a new friend. "
If I’m reading this correctly, it was a dating site? So it’s pretty normal to continue with the date anyway.
If I met someone off of fab that I wasn’t attracted to then I wouldn’t offer to take them out. It’s a nice thing to do, definitely. But I’m not on here to go on dates or make new friends. |
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"Fuck the polite
Was that NWA or Public Enemy?
Do you mean fuck the police
Yeah that’s the joke I was making  "
I got it don't worry!! I was at school when it came out. Proper gangster rap not this pathetic drill shite
"We didn't get no play from the ladies with six n*ggas in a car are you crazy?" |
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"Fuck the polite
Was that NWA or Public Enemy?
Do you mean fuck the police "
Reminds of a story.
An old school friend of mine whilst being spoken to by a WPC, tried to flirt with her. It didn't go down well with her  |
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"I try to be very polite but some people on this site make it very difficult!
Agreed, patience and tolerance definitely gets tested to the limit on occasion. "
Couldn’t agree more, I think there are quite a few tremendously rude ppl on here… I could retaliate, but think I’d get banned and a few have blocked me, don’t think I fitted in.. but bolox to em…
As for meeting people in real life, I’m wonderfully polite, met quite a few ladies and if there was a no spark, then hey, what’s wrong in staying for a drink with em and chatting, nothing.. great to meet nice ppl … politeness costs nothing, !!
I’ll wait for the reply’s lol 😂.. here kitty kitty |
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