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"I like a bit of soft play with a man. Jerking, sucking, licking etc. but repulsed by the idea of kissing or anal with a man.
My question to the forum is. Is it only gay if you do anal?"
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"I like a bit of soft play with a man. Jerking, sucking, licking etc. but repulsed by the idea of kissing or anal with a man.
My question to the forum is. Is it only gay if you do anal?"
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It's very simple, if you like to do sexual things with men and women you are bisexual. Regardless of whether you have sex with men or not, you are bisexual if we are throwing labels around. Alternatively, you could be like me and just do whatever makes you happy sexually and f#ck what everyone else thinks! Lol
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Is it though?
If you fuck a woman in the arse isn't that pragmatically the same?
I tend to think if you're going to base it on acts it would only be relevant to gender specific parts.
An asshole is an asshole. A mouth is a mouth. It's only really direct interaction with someone else's vagina or penis that really matters, no? |
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"I like a bit of soft play with a man. Jerking, sucking, licking etc. but repulsed by the idea of kissing or anal with a man.
My question to the forum is. Is it only gay if you do anal?
Prison rules - only gay of you receive "
I'm not gay but my boyfriend is |
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"Is it though?
If you fuck a woman in the arse isn't that pragmatically the same?
I tend to think if you're going to base it on acts it would only be relevant to gender specific parts.
An asshole is an asshole. A mouth is a mouth. It's only really direct interaction with someone else's vagina or penis that really matters, no?"
Year's back my brother was bragging about having anal for the first time with his girlfriend..as a brother I couldn't resist in saying exactly what you just said..what's the difference to fucking a guys ass.. After the fight we made up by getting d*unk..lol |
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By *ertiBMan 3 weeks ago
Bournemouth |
If you get turned on by both male and female bodies you’re not gay. You’re Bi - bi-curious if it’s more a one off for experiment’s sake, bisexual if it regularly gives you a hard-on.
Gay men aren’t turned on by women.
And let’s face it, if you’re worshipping a big cock and greedily guzzling down cum, then saying “but it didn’t go in my arse so I’m straight!” is going to get you laughed out of town. |
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"My question to the forum is. Is it only gay if you do anal?"
I know people who consider themselves gay and don't like anal.
There are guys in the States, often cowboys, who have sex together when away from home for a long time but don't view themselves as gay.
Do you find men attractive, could you see yourself in a long-term relationship with a man?
You may well not be gay.
Certainly not straight.
Likely fall into bi or het exible |
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It can't be gay if you also like women! 'Gay' is just some bs invented by whatever king or queen it was think back past that to days of the Romans, Samurai's etc!
Labels are only there to divide people and cause unnecessary drama! If it's enjoyable, consensual and not hurting anyone why should anyone give a fuck? |
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By *AYENCouple 3 weeks ago
Lincolnshire |
"I like a bit of soft play with a man. Jerking, sucking, licking etc. but repulsed by the idea of kissing or anal with a man.
My question to the forum is. Is it only gay if you do anal?
Prison rules - only gay of you receive "
Life rules - it's only gay if it turns you on and you get hard. |
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By *ickD80Man 3 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
I once heard Stephen Fry say that even though he’s gay he has never done anal (neither giving or receiving) and he has no desire to ever do it as he isn’t turned on by anal sex and that it’s not uncommon for gay men to not want to do anal.
So whether you’re gay or not isn’t entirely determined by if you have anal sex with another man. |
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I'm bi and enjoy sex with women and men. I've found many women are turned off when they realise I've had sex with guys which I find interesting - is it because they're appalled by guys having sex together; feel I'm less of a man for having sex with a guy or want me exclusively for them. I don't regard myself as gay - as bi I'm aware of and found my feminine inner self alongside my masculine, and it's the best. |
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"I like a bit of soft play with a man. Jerking, sucking, licking etc. but repulsed by the idea of kissing or anal with a man.
My question to the forum is. Is it only gay if you do anal?"
Forget labels; do what you enjoy and don’t worry about what others think. |
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By *AYENCouple 3 weeks ago
Lincolnshire |
"I like a bit of soft play with a man. Jerking, sucking, licking etc. but repulsed by the idea of kissing or anal with a man.
My question to the forum is. Is it only gay if you do anal?
Forget labels; do what you enjoy and don’t worry about what others think. "
Accept labels, (they're just short descriptions of what's inside) do what you enjoy and don't worry about what others think. |
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