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Is this site for me? Input appreciated.
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I'm 30 years old, I've only ever slept with 6 different people.
Never been to a nightclub or club of any type. I get there's a lot of competition out there but it seems very difficult to even be given a chance at just a conversation.
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If your looking for single woman then yeah I would probably try somewhere else.
Try not get frustrated, remember a lot of woman join the site looking for something very specific, a fantasy or kink they want to explore.
Unless you stand out in way that suggests you fit that fantasy they probably won’t engage. Don’t take it personally pal they simply don’t have the time to message everyone that appears in their inbox. |
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By *lowupdollTV/TS 2 weeks ago
Herts/Beds/Leeds/London |
I think you need to be brutally honest with yourself and ask yourself what is it you actually want from this site? When you know that you’ll have a better experience because you can tailor your profile and approach to getting it. |
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I don't think you need to know what you want. You can definitely come here and try different things and make discoveries.
Fab offers quite a bit of variety in it's opportunities to meet people. The more you explore those the better you'll be able to answer your question. |
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I'm in my 40s and only slept with 6 people
It's important to shop around, but really it's all the same shit.
The real difference is personality, so focus on that, which you won't really get here, imo, this is for us weirdos. |
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Just come with no expectations. You are a cute guy so that should help. Just read profiles and only message those you fit and who fit you. Delete your sent messages so you don't track who answers you back then if they do answer it's a nice surprise. This then will give you an idea if this site is for you. |
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I think the answer is... do you want it to be?? Tbh we've been on and off the site for well over a decade and still can't decide if it is for me/us 😆
I would echo previous post, if you're mostly interested in straight MF your efforts will have more effect elsewhere. But if you're curious about recreational sex, threesomes/moresomes, voyeurism, stick about, see what's happening and what you might like to pursue. You'll probably adjust your profile/approach many times and yes as a solo man the defeaning silence can get boring at best, demoralising at worst. But at points you'll get a good contact and have a little adventure. |
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Thank you for the responses so far.
The reason I joined fab was because I want to expand my horizons, I want to explore and try new things, I really want to find myself sexually and I thought this would be a good place to do that. |
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By *KloganMan 2 weeks ago
Ramsbottom |
"Thank you for the responses so far.
The reason I joined fab was because I want to expand my horizons, I want to explore and try new things, I really want to find myself sexually and I thought this would be a good place to do that."
This is definitely the place for all of that buddy, just make your corner of the site the best it can be (as everyone has stated above) and relax into it. And genuinely don’t worry about the yellow box, it happens.. stay confident, have a good look around and just be yourself.
You’ve a lot going for you champ 🫵💪 |
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If you want to get involved in swinging and embrace it all, then no it's not the wrong site for you.There are clubs and socials you can go to, to meet other like minded people,if you're willing to get involved in them.
If you want to just get more sex, then it's possibly not the right place and you may he luckier using other websites.
That's only from what I've seen other men write on these forums.
It can be a tough place for single men, due to the amount of other men on here, many who join thinking they'll be having meets every might. When the reality isn't the same.
However there are some very successful single males on here, who do put in effort, put themselves out there etc.
So, I'd say it depends what you want out of the site and how much you're willing to put into it.
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"If you want to get involved in swinging and embrace it all, then no it's not the wrong site for you.There are clubs and socials you can go to, to meet other like minded people,if you're willing to get involved in them.
If you want to just get more sex, then it's possibly not the right place and you may he luckier using other websites.
That's only from what I've seen other men write on these forums.
It can be a tough place for single men, due to the amount of other men on here, many who join thinking they'll be having meets every might. When the reality isn't the same.
However there are some very successful single males on here, who do put in effort, put themselves out there etc.
So, I'd say it depends what you want out of the site and how much you're willing to put into it.
L"
I'm willing to put in whatever it takes. And definitely not about getting more sex. I know this is a massive community and I'd love to broaden my horizons |
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By *AYENCouple 2 weeks ago
Lincolnshire |
If I was a single guy on here I'd probably do horrendously badly. In real life I've met many fantastically beautiful and sexy ladies.
So unless you feel you're an archetypal women's fantasy type man, I would forget this place and stick with real life.
Anything you're after on here is available in real life, and perhaps easier to obtain. K. |
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