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By *bi HaiveMan 5 days ago
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"Hey there we are new to this and have noticed that a lot of couples profiles have either no or hardly any pics of the male half. We find it makes it hard to decide to make first contact. "
This has been a 'thing' since the dawn of Fab.
If you're only looking for straight single guys then I guess there's no issue.
Looking for couples or women or bi guys? I'd guess they'll want to see photos of the guy in a couple as much as the woman. And if they don't they may move on to a profile where they can. Not including any potentially leads to disappointment when/if any are eventually shared later down the line and it becomes apparent there's no attraction/interest in him. Nobody likes the notion of taking one for the team.
It helps everyone if there's clear visuals of both. Odds are it'll never be a 50/50 split, but having none, or just one or two (often just dick pics) of him will surely result in a harder time finding compatible others.
There's nothing better than seeing images of a couple together, rather than separately too. Clothed, semi naked or whatever. It's another step in reassuring people you're an actual couple.
But people will often go down the easy route of using her as eye candy and bait. And they'll then wonder why they struggle to get as much interest as they hope for. 🤷♂️ |
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"Hey there we are new to this and have noticed that a lot of couples profiles have either no or hardly any pics of the male half. We find it makes it hard to decide to make first contact. "
You are right. What did you do with your profile and pics to redress that ?? |
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"Hey there we are new to this and have noticed that a lot of couples profiles have either no or hardly any pics of the male half. We find it makes it hard to decide to make first contact. "
we have a good selection we feel of us both but I take way more photos than he does lol xz
We do need some more to be fair x |
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"Hey there we are new to this and have noticed that a lot of couples profiles have either no or hardly any pics of the male half. We find it makes it hard to decide to make first contact. "
Don't make first contact with them. If there's no pictures of the man and they're looking for him to be involved there is always a reason why they don't show him. |
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"Hey there we are new to this and have noticed that a lot of couples profiles have either no or hardly any pics of the male half. We find it makes it hard to decide to make first contact. "
Agreed. But also a number of single men only have photos of random women’s bodies with maybe his hand touching her. I can’t understand why they think this is helpful when deciding if I’m attracted to him |
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Yep it's v frustrating, as a straight woman who is half a couple, it's the man I'd be interested in.
On our joint profile, we have loads of my other half, as we are looking for partner swaps.
We wouldn't expect any couples to meet us, without seeing us both, but it's the norm for many couples here, to show just her and one of his pecker.
If it's just the lady that plays, I totally get why some couples just show the lady.
If they're looking for ladies, like most are, or other couples, they should show one or two of him, it reduces their chances otherwise.
It's a good filter though, we delete messages from profiles that just show one of them. In the past we chatted and it took forever to get a pic of the man, then often there was no attraction. |
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"Hey there we are new to this and have noticed that a lot of couples profiles have either no or hardly any pics of the male half. We find it makes it hard to decide to make first contact.
You are right. What did you do with your profile and pics to redress that ??"
We put pics of both of us on the profile! |
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