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Do you talk about sexual interests before having sex?
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Very dependent on how many people involved and how much deviation from the "norm". Generally the better outcomes IME are with people who can verbalise what they most want, and for us to make a rough plan if more than two are involved. But not so much you go into wanking fantasy territory 😅 |
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By *ripfillMan 1 day ago
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When I am professionally Massaging for well being or sexual pleasure … I do go through a menu of delight on the first meet so that the lady is comfortable relaxed and zoned in on what is likely to happen
It’s important to gain trust |
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"I have a flow chart that I ask her to memorise beforehand, timestamps down to the second and a 25 question examination (no multiple choice) and require 80% for a passing grade, no retakes"
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By *JA1980Man 1 day ago
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"I have a flow chart that I ask her to memorise beforehand, timestamps down to the second and a 25 question examination (no multiple choice) and require 80% for a passing grade, no retakes
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Get the feeling you'd struggle to get even 50% though unfortunately 😜 |
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"General likes, dislikes and hard limits usually. If we meet again we will go into more depth. "
Similar approach, it’s important to find some common ground prior. I’m more likely to delve deeper into it on a second meet. |
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"I have a flow chart that I ask her to memorise beforehand, timestamps down to the second and a 25 question examination (no multiple choice) and require 80% for a passing grade, no retakes
🤣🤣🤣🤣 i like this
Get the feeling you'd struggle to get even 50% though unfortunately 😜"
I know gutted 🤷♀️ |
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"When you’re meeting someone for the sex and to be the first time you’ve done it, do you discuss sexual interests or do you go with the flow?"
Absofuckinglutely I do. It’s part of a good conversation being open about likes and dislikes. And not in a porn sense either. More of what the turn ons and turn offs are for each other 😘 |
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By *eliWoman 12 hours ago
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Brought up some sex stuff before, yes- mutual shared interests, dislikes, any hard boundaries (always), sexual health. I prefer going with the flow and I don't really enjoy the scripted nonsense. Always makes my vagina dry up.
I like being organic but... well things like boundaries are really important to me. |
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