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"Lol gigglesnort is a brilliant description x"
It's the only word I can think of for the reaction to those sharp little bits of humour that really catch you out.
Not a polite chuckle at a staged joke, or a laugh to diffuse awkwardness. Just that genuine fuck that got me kind of funny 💜 |
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By *eliWoman 2 weeks ago
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I don't think I've ever instantly been attracted to a man. Do people know instantly if they fancy someone or not? Attraction for me is complicated and wanes/grows in an odd fashion. 
But things that make me more interested in a man?
When they're kind to people. Interact with people (not just those they want to have sex with) with kindness and good humour. That genuine good nature is 👌.
The passionate thing has been covered above by other posters - that's a big yes. I end up daydreaming about what it would be like to be the recipient of that passion. In a similar vein - dorky/nerdiness.
Oh and I like when men open up. Are open with me. I don't mean tell me your deepest, darkest secrets before your penis is inside me. It's more... when people are aware they're flawed, they're comfortable with owning that. When I can discuss topics and feel I can be open.
Men who are good communicators are instantly a little bit hotter. |
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"I don't think I've ever instantly been attracted to a man. Do people know instantly if they fancy someone or not? Attraction for me is complicated and wanes/grows in an odd fashion.
But things that make me more interested in a man?
When they're kind to people. Interact with people (not just those they want to have sex with) with kindness and good humour. That genuine good nature is 👌.
The passionate thing has been covered above by other posters - that's a big yes. I end up daydreaming about what it would be like to be the recipient of that passion. In a similar vein - dorky/nerdiness.
Oh and I like when men open up. Are open with me. I don't mean tell me your deepest, darkest secrets before your penis is inside me. It's more... when people are aware they're flawed, they're comfortable with owning that. When I can discuss topics and feel I can be open.
Men who are good communicators are instantly a little bit hotter."
Meli the ex is buried in the garden, hang on  we talking about the same thing here 
I know what you mean. |
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Chemistry doesn't really have a recipe.
Matching my effort and enthusiasm, hitting the sweet spot of doing enough to be engaging but not too much that feels creepy.
Some things just flow and fit right.
Humour and depth are very hot. |
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The ability to make me belly laugh and can make me giggle throughout the day.
Who accepts me for me and all my quirks. Extra points if he finds them cute or cutely annoying.
Someone who I am compatible with. Someone I can strike up a conversation with about anything and it's fun, thought provoking or just interesting. Or someone I can be silent with doing whatever and it doesn't feel awkward.
So basically I have just described the Mr. Obviously some of these you find out as you go along, but that's how I tend to fancy someone. It's isn't a lust at first sight thing, it's more how the person/friendship grows and you get to know someone.
That's for me anyway x |
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"Self aware, passionate about something (doesn't matter what particularly) men who listen and kindness being apparent.
All top tier for me.
Inky and kinky doesn't hurt either ha ha  "
Inky and Kinky - Love that!
Also agree with everything you've said. |
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"Voice sometimes
Oh voice is a good one. Some men sound like velvet. Fuckable, smooth velvet I want to dr*pe myself in and wank over constantly."
Oh yes! An Irish accent does this for me....🥵🥵 Could listen to it all day and has me instantly horny 🤣 |
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"Voice sometimes
Oh voice is a good one. Some men sound like velvet. Fuckable, smooth velvet I want to dr*pe myself in and wank over constantly.
Oh yes! An Irish accent does this for me....🥵🥵 Could listen to it all day and has me instantly horny 🤣 "
Arrrrh, to be sure.  |
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"Voice sometimes
Oh voice is a good one. Some men sound like velvet. Fuckable, smooth velvet I want to dr*pe myself in and wank over constantly.
Oh yes! An Irish accent does this for me....🥵🥵 Could listen to it all day and has me instantly horny 🤣 "
Did someone say Irish accent..  |
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"Voice sometimes
Oh voice is a good one. Some men sound like velvet. Fuckable, smooth velvet I want to dr*pe myself in and wank over constantly.
Oh yes! An Irish accent does this for me....🥵🥵 Could listen to it all day and has me instantly horny 🤣
Did someone say Irish accent.. "
Irish accents  100% agree with this!! |
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"Voice sometimes
Oh voice is a good one. Some men sound like velvet. Fuckable, smooth velvet I want to dr*pe myself in and wank over constantly.
Oh yes! An Irish accent does this for me....🥵🥵 Could listen to it all day and has me instantly horny 🤣
Did someone say Irish accent.. "
It drives me wild 😆 |
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"Voice sometimes
Oh voice is a good one. Some men sound like velvet. Fuckable, smooth velvet I want to dr*pe myself in and wank over constantly.
Oh yes! An Irish accent does this for me....🥵🥵 Could listen to it all day and has me instantly horny 🤣 "
How about a Pakistani accent, but I'll shut up and put Mrs brown's boys on the telly? |
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