"Do you need a partner to be kinky? Or is it just preferred? Or would you rather they weren’t into kink at all? Or what?"
If I'm honest, it's not a need for me. If they are great. If not, it's not a problem. As long as our connection is strong, everything else is a bonus😎😎😎😎😎 |
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Yes depending what your idea of kinky is I suppose.
I would say adventurous might be a better word as in if I say I would like to try something that might have an element of kink it wouldn’t be dismissed out of hand.
What I want to avoid is being with a partner that puts no real emphasis on sex beyond a monthly requirement to stay regular.
I could also overlook kink in favour of passion, as sometimes kink takes the place of passion, best case scenario she brings both. |
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In a partner, where it's romantic or we are close FWBs, my preference would be someone at least a little kinky. My kinks are wide ranging though, so they have a wide varieties of boxes they could tick.
I could live with someone really vanilla if we got on perfectly in every other way, and I could still scratch some of my kink itches elsewhere. But if it was monogamous, I'm not sure how satisfied I would be long term unless it was the best vanilla sex I'd ever had and the chemistry was off that scale. |
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It depends on the partner, and the level of connection I have with them. I've been lucky to have experimented with some really kinky stuff with a partner that I was wholly into. I would never have gone near some of the stuff he wanted to experiment with, but because I saw how much it turned him on, I found it very arousing. Yet, other partners have been almost entirely vanilla and I've enjoyed the intimacy with them just as much. |
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"Do you need a partner to be kinky? Or is it just preferred? Or would you rather they weren’t into kink at all? Or what?"
I do like your threads. If there is anyway to keep an eye on your every thread I’d love to do that.
Are you a mind reader or something?  |
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"It depends on the partner, and the level of connection I have with them. I've been lucky to have experimented with some really kinky stuff with a partner that I was wholly into. I would never have gone near some of the stuff he wanted to experiment with, but because I saw how much it turned him on, I found it very arousing. Yet, other partners have been almost entirely vanilla and I've enjoyed the intimacy with them just as much."
I've never met anybody really kinky but I think it could be really fun to have a really kinky partner but at the same time I've had some really good vanilla relationships and not thought I've missed out. |
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"Do you need a partner to be kinky? Or is it just preferred? Or would you rather they weren’t into kink at all? Or what?"
I’d rather they didn’t have a kink to be honest. People with kinks tend to be selfish lovers. It’s all about them getting their kink satisfied. And it gets old real fast.
Much prefer an adventurous and passionate lover, where the focus is having fun and good sex.
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If it’s a hook up partner no. I don’t mix kink with casual sex.
Long terms relationship again I don’t need kink but it’s nice to enjoy if they are into it. But if not it’s not a deal breaker. (In fact it’s been about a year and a half since I enjoyed kinky play) |
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