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By *adyBugs OP Woman 3 weeks ago
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Do you get a lot of them?
How do you decide to reply any?
Or do you not bother?
If you do, how many conversations do you have on the go at once?
I have 40 something since probably Wednesday and I’m naff a replying but I have instadeleted a few. |
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Yes.
Currently sitting at 314 unread, it’s not that we can’t cope it’s that we don’t respond to anything we feel isn’t right for us.
The friends mail box is a great tool and helps make sure we don’t miss anything from them.
We do have a few conversations with new people open and respond quickly when active  |
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I receive a healthy number per week, enough to keep me amused and enthused.
If I receive a "Hi" or a photo of a quim I don't bother replying. (The latter is a rarity, thankfully)
I have {redacted} conversation/s on the go. |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman 3 weeks ago
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"Yes.
Currently sitting at 314 unread, it’s not that we can’t cope it’s that we don’t respond to anything we feel isn’t right for us.
The friends mail box is a great tool and helps make sure we don’t miss anything from them.
We do have a few conversations with new people open and respond quickly when active "
Wait. There’s a friends mail box?
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"Yes.
Currently sitting at 314 unread, it’s not that we can’t cope it’s that we don’t respond to anything we feel isn’t right for us.
The friends mail box is a great tool and helps make sure we don’t miss anything from them.
We do have a few conversations with new people open and respond quickly when active
Wait. There’s a friends mail box?
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Yep, you can filter just messages from friends |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman 3 weeks ago
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"about 10 a day which get deleted immediately because they don't follow my instructions. 1 conversation (practically dead) with some i've met before but otherwise inbox has tumblew3 eds."
It’s hard for some to read and type and wank at the same time. We can’t blame them for that but it is disappointing. |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman 3 weeks ago
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"I receive a healthy number per week, enough to keep me amused and enthused.
If I receive a "Hi" or a photo of a quim I don't bother replying. (The latter is a rarity, thankfully)
I have {redacted} conversation/s on the go."
You get quim photos??? |
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Cause I've been uploading pics again the box has been fuller than it normally has.
If the message is interesting I may reply, dont like to ha e too many conversations going at once its like hard work doing that |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman 3 weeks ago
cognito |
"Yes.
Currently sitting at 314 unread, it’s not that we can’t cope it’s that we don’t respond to anything we feel isn’t right for us.
The friends mail box is a great tool and helps make sure we don’t miss anything from them.
We do have a few conversations with new people open and respond quickly when active
Wait. There’s a friends mail box?
Yep, you can filter just messages from friends"
Taa |
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I have a few conversations going. Some with people I've met, and others I have yet to have the pleasure.
I even have conversations going with people I will never meet.
It's just nice to chat to some people. Other's, not so much.
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By *adyBugs OP Woman 3 weeks ago
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"Cause I've been uploading pics again the box has been fuller than it normally has.
If the message is interesting I may reply, dont like to ha e too many conversations going at once its like hard work doing that "
It so is! I forget what I’m saying sometimes too but maybe that’s more my age  |
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"I receive a healthy number per week, enough to keep me amused and enthused.
If I receive a "Hi" or a photo of a quim I don't bother replying. (The latter is a rarity, thankfully)
I have {redacted} conversation/s on the go.
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You get quim photos??? "
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Yes. Seldom. |
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"about 10 a day which get deleted immediately because they don't follow my instructions. 1 conversation (practically dead) with some i've met before but otherwise inbox has tumblew3 eds.
It’s hard for some to read and type and wank at the same time. We can’t blame them for that but it is disappointing."
there's voice to text tools. actually let me just try it real quick testing 1212. it works! |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman 3 weeks ago
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"I have a few conversations going. Some with people I've met, and others I have yet to have the pleasure.
I even have conversations going with people I will never meet.
It's just nice to chat to some people. Other's, not so much.
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I can imagine you are pretty chatty |
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I have a small number of conversations going at any one time. I delete a lot of messages though. Anything sexual straight away, anything that looks boring, anything that is copy/pasted. When it's just one question in their message? I'll delete that. |
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Haven't had a message in about 2ish months.
I try to strike up conversation with people whether it be relating to a status or something in their profile but 99.999998% of the time, no reply.
0.000001% I'll get a reply but then conversation ends as they never reply again.
Similar can be said to messages to people off of here as well  |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman 3 weeks ago
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"I have a small number of conversations going at any one time. I delete a lot of messages though. Anything sexual straight away, anything that looks boring, anything that is copy/pasted. When it's just one question in their message? I'll delete that. "
Is 6 unanswered messages too many? And 4 of them being the same cut & paste? |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman 3 weeks ago
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"A few a week from people miles away. Usually they are low effort and I ignore them.
A couple of conversations ongoing-ish.
I don't message people often so it's all too be expected"
All the cute ones are so far away from me  |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman 3 weeks ago
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"Haven't had a message in about 2ish months.
I try to strike up conversation with people whether it be relating to a status or something in their profile but 99.999998% of the time, no reply.
0.000001% I'll get a reply but then conversation ends as they never reply again.
Similar can be said to messages to people off of here as well "
I’m terrible. Sometimes it takes me weeks to find the mental capacity to read them let alone reply. 😔 |
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"Not many.
If I do get any, I'll respond as long as they're worth responding to. I'm a bit of a yapper 
That’s way more polite than me "
Well they're not inappropriate, inconsiderate or rude so I don't mind replying |
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"A few a week from people miles away. Usually they are low effort and I ignore them.
A couple of conversations ongoing-ish.
I don't message people often so it's all too be expected
All the cute ones are so far away from me "
I know, especially when the profile is hilarious like yours |
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"Cause I've been uploading pics again the box has been fuller than it normally has.
If the message is interesting I may reply, dont like to ha e too many conversations going at once its like hard work doing that
It so is! I forget what I’m saying sometimes too but maybe that’s more my age "
I feel ya, I dont have the mental energy to multi chat like I used to 🤣 |
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As a woman I think it’s crazy different:
Over 2000 unread messages at the moment which is mental..
It’s hard to catch a good message when 90% of the inbox is 💩
I try and respond to any that stand out, but worry a lot of the good ones do get lost which is a shame x |
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By *eliWoman 3 weeks ago
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I get a few. I'm more likely to reply to them if they're not solely about sex. If they give me something to work with. If I'm interested in talking to someone in that moment. Or if I'm ovulating.
Oh and if they're okay with me not replying to them daily. I hate the inane small talk just to have something to say. To be in touch. |
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We receive a fair few messages each week. But as for conversations, they’re virtually nil. We’ve now blocked single guys from messaging, we can’t be doing with guys who knuckles drag in the dirt and there idea of a conversation is quite frankly nonexistent. If we receive a decent message from anyone, we’ll reply in kind. |
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Currently have zero
But I reply to most that are polite, if I get sent unsolicited genitalia (yes I’ve had them from women too!) pics I block right away,
I am happy to chat but most of my conversations have actually fizzled out,
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"messages - Do you get a lot of them?
How do you decide to reply any?
Or do you not bother?
If you do, how many conversations do you have on the go at once?
I have 40 something since probably Wednesday and I’m naff a replying but I have instadeleted a few. "
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My inbox is pretty constant, replying depends on my mood and the quality of their message.
FABmin is very time consuming and usually after a couple of wines the 'delete all' button comes into play
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By *ookie46Woman 3 weeks ago
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My filters are tight and I very rarely message regularly on here as not looking for anything new. There are a few friends I check in with occasionally
Outside of here I message more regularly to the people who matter most to me |
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"Do you get a lot of them?
How do you decide to reply any?
Or do you not bother?
If you do, how many conversations do you have on the go at once?
I have 40 something since probably Wednesday and I’m naff a replying but I have instadeleted a few. "
Hardly any
Yes it exciting to receive 1 usually fizzles out pretty quickly 
Fab is overpopulated by sausage |
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"messages - Do you get a lot of them?
How do you decide to reply any?
Or do you not bother?
If you do, how many conversations do you have on the go at once?
I have 40 something since probably Wednesday and I’m naff a replying but I have instadeleted a few.
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My inbox is pretty constant, replying depends on my mood and the quality of their message.
FABmin is very time consuming and usually after a couple of wines the 'delete all' button comes into play
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Noooooooooooooo |
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Not really but that's also because i haven't been sending any messages out myself lately.... chat with someone on my friends list occasionally and the odd one if we've been interacting on the forums. |
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As of now we get 5-6 a day. We will reply to the ones that put effort in and will avoid any that just say "hey".
We have a few convos going but they are mostly dying out as we can't host during the kids holidays and nobody is willing to go halves on hotels 🤷 |
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I do get a few. I always reply, as you wouldn't ignore someone speaking to you in real life, so I don't see why cyber talk should be different. Often some of the men seeking men on here are bottoms, and two bottoms aren't compatible, so I have to politely decline. |
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"I do get a few. I always reply, as you wouldn't ignore someone speaking to you in real life, so I don't see why cyber talk should be different. Often some of the men seeking men on here are bottoms, and two bottoms aren't compatible, so I have to politely decline."
if someone shoved their naked privates in my face and spoke to me when i have made it clear** i won't be speaking to anyone shoving their privates in my face and only talk to people coming to me as you would irl aka showing your face, then yes, I'd absolutely ignore them and that's what i do here too.
**it was clear on my profile until today but i have gotten my profile content deleted twice now so its pretty bare atm lol |
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"Why are women so quick to block? I said something funny but rereading it, it comes over wrong and I was blocked?!?! No recourse to explaine or anything"
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Focus on the person with whom you're going to chat with next and care less about the person who's just blocked you.
They missed out on a quality bonk. |
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I travel a lot then turn my location on then hey presto several men offer to suck my cock sometimes I say no thanks sometimes I ignore depends if I can be bothered. Otherwise just a very few choice people I converse with |
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When my filters are down I can get a fair number.
I only reply to something that sparks my attention and enthusiasm and that’s not often.
I don’t even read those asking to meet or telling me what they would do to me. They’re straight forward delete and block. Unless I’ve had a particularly good day, then they get the benefit of the doubt and just delete |
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