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By (user no longer on site) OP 2 weeks ago
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How do you lads convince your missus to do this, trying to get my gf to do something like this but not sure if it's her thing and don't want her going crazy |
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"How do you lads convince your missus to do this, trying to get my gf to do something like this but not sure if it's her thing and don't want her going crazy"
Whisper some low key scenarios whist having a session! See what her reaction is! If she’s against it just say I was trying to add a bit of our 1:1 life with. Bit of fantasy stuff! If she’s gushes your in with a chance |
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"How do you lads convince your missus to do this, trying to get my gf to do something like this but not sure if it's her thing and don't want her going crazy"
If you don't know her well enough to know what her reaction will be then you need to start there. Get to know her better, work on your communication emotional and sexual then you can ask these questions without fear of her reaction.
Almost every man who asks this question seems to want an easy way to get their partner into swinging. There isn't one. |
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"How do you lads convince your missus to do this, trying to get my gf to do something like this but not sure if it's her thing and don't want her going crazy
Whisper some low key scenarios whist having a session! See what her reaction is! If she’s against it just say I was trying to add a bit of our 1:1 life with. Bit of fantasy stuff! If she’s gushes your in with a chance"
That proper made me laugh 😂😂 |
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"How do you lads convince your missus to do this, trying to get my gf to do something like this but not sure if it's her thing and don't want her going crazy"
When you say 'do this' what EXACTLY do you mean ? What is 'this' to you ?
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"What flavour pizza was it?
Pineapple obvs ! The Swingers Pizza
Oh yuck - maybe swinging isn’t for us  "
You could play pineapple roulette....... like pick a piece off n do a forfeit ,person to pick the last piece off gets to choose the taboo of their choice with no cop outs. |
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By *latandTCouple 2 weeks ago
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"What flavour pizza was it?
Pineapple obvs ! The Swingers Pizza
Oh yuck - maybe swinging isn’t for us
You could play pineapple roulette....... like pick a piece off n do a forfeit ,person to pick the last piece off gets to choose the taboo of their choice with no cop outs."
Like the way your thinking |
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Sometimes I come onto the forums and blink lots because I just can’t believe what I’m reading 👀 but I am thankful for the natural filters…
Coercion is not the same as consent. If you have to “persuade” your partner to join in then you are engaging in a whole world of unacceptable conduct. |
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The best way is to find a guy on here without her knowing. Then get him to meet you both somewhere with the plan that he seduces her, and you end up having a threesome. It never fails to have spectacular effects.
Oh, and you might want to have an appointment booked with a divorce lawyer for the morning after. |
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"Sometimes I come onto the forums and blink lots because I just can’t believe what I’m reading 👀 but I am thankful for the natural filters…
Coercion is not the same as consent. If you have to “persuade” your partner to join in then you are engaging in a whole world of unacceptable conduct. "
same .... then I give thanks that I am single |
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"How do you lads convince your missus to do this, trying to get my gf to do something like this but not sure if it's her thing and don't want her going crazy"
Don't fucking try.. and certainly don't try and coerce her, that shit isn't cool |
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"How do you lads convince your missus to do this, trying to get my gf to do something like this but not sure if it's her thing and don't want her going crazy
Don't fucking try.. and certainly don't try and coerce her, that shit isn't cool"
You fuckin tell him ☘️ |
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"How do you lads convince your missus to do this, trying to get my gf to do something like this but not sure if it's her thing and don't want her going crazy
Don't fucking try.. and certainly don't try and coerce her, that shit isn't cool
You fuckin tell him ☘️"
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"In an open relationship, swinging has never came up in conversation and not sure on how to bring it up"
Again, you sit down with her and have an open honest conversation with her about it.
If you are in a open relationship it isn't a big stretch to ask about. |
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"In an open relationship, swinging has never came up in conversation and not sure on how to bring it up"
I think your definitions of “open” might not be aligned…I suggest sitting down together and reading the dictionary then having a good old fashioned debate of a cup of tea like civilised human beings. |
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Every relationship I’ve had, I’ve always been open about what I’ve got up to, and asked the question. It’s mostly been no, with a couple of curiosity conversations. My ex wife gave it 2 weeks of thought but said no after she cuddled up to my then bestie and said it’d put her off thinking what might happen.
In all honesty, if OP is struggling to ask the question then he probably knows what the answers going to be. |
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