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By *hagTonight OP Man 4 days ago
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I saw this fun quote and I want to see what you think of it, in my opinion, fucking is for pure gratification only, just two people going at it because they are feeling randy, just raw sex, it is hot and wild most of the time, it doesnt have the same meaning as making love.
On the other hand, making love involves feelings and emotions. wanting to be as close to a person as humanly possible because of the love you feel for them.
It would be interesting to see what you think of it, do you agree with me that it is 2 completely different things. do you also agree with what I said what the difference is too?  |
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By *sWyldWoman 4 days ago
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I think sometimes you can fuck with feelings and it lead to love.
I think you can be deeply in love and still fuck (your partner and others)
I also think that some use sex as a way to find intimacy and love those feelings just as much or possibly even more than the actual sex.
I also think you can fuck because you just love it. |
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Not difficult for me.
People often confuse the two.
Sex is sex and love is love. The two are totally separate.
This is not my opinion.
One is physical the other psychological and emotional.
Don't be the first dick to tell me that sex can lead to love and sex is better with love and it can be and it can't be and it is and it isnt. That wasn't the question ...... Is fucking love ? No.
Fucking is not love.
People who are in love can fuck though... but so can people who aren't in love. |
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I still fuck the people I love.
It doesn't morph into some inherently soft sensual thing just because there's feelings involved, there's still plenty of raw lust to it.
I don't have to love someone to fuck them. But if I don't see much point wasting my time on random people to satisfy animal lust when I could use that time with someone I'm actually interested in, and satisfy my lust there 💜 |
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I don't use the term making love when I have sex with someone I don't love.
I genuinely feel I only make love when I'm truly madly, deeply in love with someone. It deepens the bond and enables the intimacy outside of the sexual act to increase.
I think it's important to have the distinction between the two. A lot of men have thrown around the term making love to me when we've not even met or met a couple of times when there's no possibility of love ever being involved.
To me that is a person who has never truly loved or they would know there's a very big difference.
Just my opinion.
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 4 days ago
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Both involve sex.
One only involves sex.
With the other, sex is the physical dimension of an emotional, spiritual and interpersonal connection.
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I've only ever made love with one person, and that's how it will stay. |
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sex purely for the pleasure is not love, that's true
sex between partners, to have offspring, I would say is within the space of love, because in a sincere sense, both partners are not solely focused on the pleasure aspect of it, even though that does come into it as the byproduct of the engaging in the act itself |
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Sex with only feelings of lust is just sex . Making love is like long passionate dance it can go on and fill your mind and body with somthing that raw sex can’t get close too. Why it’s rear and special. X |
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"Sex with only feelings of lust is just sex . Making love is like long passionate dance it can go on and fill your mind and body with somthing that raw sex can’t get close too. Why it’s rear and special. X"
I like this description 👌 |
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"I saw this fun quote and I want to see what you think of it, in my opinion, fucking is for pure gratification only, just two people going at it because they are feeling randy, just raw sex, it is hot and wild most of the time, it doesnt have the same meaning as making love.
On the other hand, making love involves feelings and emotions. wanting to be as close to a person as humanly possible because of the love you feel for them.
It would be interesting to see what you think of it, do you agree with me that it is 2 completely different things. do you also agree with what I said what the difference is too? "
Yes definitely 2 different things although I have to like someone a fair bit to be fucking them. Also sometimes making love isn't always great sex. It's about the closeness and the need to be with someone. So it feels like it's great because of the emotions rather than the actual sex...
When the love is gone you realise the sex wasn't that great at all!
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By *hagTonight OP Man 4 days ago
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"I think sometimes you can fuck with feelings and it lead to love.
I think you can be deeply in love and still fuck (your partner and others)
I also think that some use sex as a way to find intimacy and love those feelings just as much or possibly even more than the actual sex.
I also think you can fuck because you just love it. " Hi _swyld, yes, you are right there, sometimes you can fuck with feelings and it lead to love too  |
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Fuxking is fun, sex with my partner alone is intimate and very different to fucking. Has my husband fucked me? Yep! And it was damn good fun. But, we have far more sensual and loving sex that we have in private. that's love x
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By *hagTonight OP Man 4 days ago
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"I saw this fun quote and I want to see what you think of it, in my opinion, fucking is for pure gratification only, just two people going at it because they are feeling randy, just raw sex, it is hot and wild most of the time, it doesnt have the same meaning as making love.
On the other hand, making love involves feelings and emotions. wanting to be as close to a person as humanly possible because of the love you feel for them.
It would be interesting to see what you think of it, do you agree with me that it is 2 completely different things. do you also agree with what I said what the difference is too?
Yes definitely 2 different things although I have to like someone a fair bit to be fucking them. Also sometimes making love isn't always great sex. It's about the closeness and the need to be with someone. So it feels like it's great because of the emotions rather than the actual sex...
When the love is gone you realise the sex wasn't that great at all!
" Hi _exyscientists, yes, you are right there, it is 2 different things with different feelings too  |
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By *hagTonight OP Man 4 days ago
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"Not difficult for me.
People often confuse the two.
Sex is sex and love is love. The two are totally separate.
This is not my opinion.
One is physical the other psychological and emotional.
Don't be the first dick to tell me that sex can lead to love and sex is better with love and it can be and it can't be and it is and it isnt. That wasn't the question ...... Is fucking love ? No.
Fucking is not love.
People who are in love can fuck though... but so can people who aren't in love. " Hi, yes, you are right there, the two are totally separate too  |
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It's strange, I've only truly loved one woman in my life, she was also the most conservative & boring person in bed too. But yet she's also the one I was happy with. My other ladies were all better in bed, yet I never loved any of them. It's a strange world sometimes. |
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By *hagTonight OP Man 4 days ago
From the land of haribos. |
"I still fuck the people I love.
It doesn't morph into some inherently soft sensual thing just because there's feelings involved, there's still plenty of raw lust to it.
I don't have to love someone to fuck them. But if I don't see much point wasting my time on random people to satisfy animal lust when I could use that time with someone I'm actually interested in, and satisfy my lust there 💜" Hi _reytothefairies, that is good you dont have to love someone to fuck them too |
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You dont have to be in love to fuck someone, neither do you have to love someone to make love to them. You just need to he in the moment
Obviously when you do love them it takes it all to a different level |
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By *indergirlWoman 4 days ago
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No I dont think so, I can fuck someone i love, equally as much as I make love to them and it have the same feeling. Same goes for someone I dont love, if there is chemistry and connection then the two equally have the same feeling |
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By *hagTonight OP Man 3 days ago
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"It can be, if you love the person you are fucking. There are all sorts of ways to have sex, it’s the person you have it with that makes it magical (or not).
" Hi luna, yes, you are right there, it can be that, yes, there are all sorts of ways to have sex too  |
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i think there is a differnce,
to me , fucking is , just that ,
making love, is more sencial , careing , being respectfull , taking your time with each outher, kissing , cuddling etc . |
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If I didn't want to fk the ever loving bones out of someone I would not consider myself in love with them.
To love someone is to want them in every speed, style and flavour.
Which is to say I think there are 2 points here.
Fkg can be desperately intense and intimate full of emotion, or it can be empty and functional. |
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