Yes. Once. Those were the days of innocence when there were no dating apps or other convenient avenues of courtship and paramours were established within the workplace.
It didn't affect our working relationship. We both worked in disparate departments.
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We got married. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"Hs anyone dated or had some fun with a work friend? If so how did it affect your working relationship afterwards?"
Work travel fun… was kinda awkward afterwards.. she sadly got made redundant and moved away.
Was great fun while it lasted.
Amazing fun and fuck |
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Had a disastrous fling in the office.
She wanted to leave her husband, children involved etc.
Senior management questioned my professionalism.
Managed to get an unsteady peace, I left the company a year later to a better job.
Bizarrely, we’re ‘Facebook’ friends now.
There’s a small chance it can work. Mostly bad though. |
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Dabbled recently with a younger woman at work.
Just swapped a few messages and pics and discussed how we were both playing in our own rooms on a work trip a few months back.
Gone cold now so I guess she got bored lol ! |
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Only once, never went any further than flirtatious chatting and a few teasing photos. Very nearly went further on a Christmas piss-up, but common sense and self control stopped it at the door (literally🥵) |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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A few relationships at work have gone the whole distance, but loads of them crash + burn... and the shit show that generally follows is a nightmare.
Thank goodness for wfh 🤣🤣 |
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I fucked a work colleague a long time ago. Found out after so had a few other guys…
We don’t talk anymore, not because she has fucked others, we were only fuck buddies but because she’s a nasty cunt and makes trouble for people just for the hell of it. Had I known that in the beginning, I wouldn’t have gone near her. Fortunately I don’t have to see her anymore at work. Different department. |
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"Yep, I married him and now he is an ex. But we did have 23 years together and not all of it was bad.
Thats a long time tbf. "
Absolutely, We both left the company not long after we got together and changed careers a number of times in that time as well. |
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By *os19Man 39 weeks ago
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I had a couple of what one off sex with two colleagues who were the same work grade as me which went no further.I also had a 6 month thing with a higher manager who would give me Fridays off on the condition I come to her house for sex.Things ended when she transferred to another office. |
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I usually advise against it.
But, I have been seeing the guy who sits on the desk next to me at work for over 18 months and it's working pretty well still.
I like to think we're both adult enough that if it all goes tits up we can still work together 💜 |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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Yes and I regretted it, even though she was hot and just generally nice. Unprofessional and a bit awkward afterwards - we weren't ever going to be able to even carry it on as a fling, never mind a proper relationship, so it was always just a shared horny d*unken mistake that brought a slightly weird edge to our working relationship. |
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By *ibs74Man 3 weeks ago
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"Yes. Once. Those were the days of innocence when there were no dating apps or other convenient avenues of courtship and paramours were established within the workplace.
It didn't affect our working relationship. We both worked in disparate departments.
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We got married." I married mine too. Together nearly 30 years. |
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By *am450Man 3 weeks ago
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Sorry, doesn't count as a work relationship but in my first job back in '84 my boss "interfered" with me quite regularly over a period. I was seventeen and had no sexual experience apart from wanking. Fucking hated it should have reported him but back then the victim/perpetrator distinction wasn't as black and white as now. Scared of being regarded as being my fault or any stigma resulting,let alone family or friends finding out. Years later,around 2014, by sheer chance I found out he'd been nicked for having kiddy porn on his home computer, felt sick all over again. Very few "positive or enjoyable" in past experiences is probably partly what brought me here.
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By *PS81Man 3 weeks ago
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"Hs anyone dated or had some fun with a work friend? If so how did it affect your working relationship afterwards?"
still doing, I'm not the only guy at work she's seeing either, we're actually keeping it quiet too, well, trying, but a few people are onto us.. I love the little kisses in the hallway, the under the desk touching, the glances across the office, so exciting, been going for about 3 months now
first day I saw her, she put her number in my phone..
second day, I gave her a lift home and dropped her off..
third night I gave her a lift home, stayed up until 7am doing the dance with no pants..
since then, we've seen each other loads, and both agreed 'no relationship'
honestly loving life |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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It got messy. Hooked up with a colleague who lived near work. We took lunch breaks to work out together on her mattress and came back all glistening and smirky. Immediately rumbled. But we fell out and I ended taking long routes around her office to avoid awkward meetings. |
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Yeah i jave in the padt and yeah it effected it as we were partnered up quite often and it went a bit sour so had to then switch partners...and that was crap as before hand we had a good relationship and worked well together. |
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Was seen as the innocent guy at the business. Ended up trying my luck with a colleague after shift... We fucked for a couple of months (vids on profile) but wasn't allowed to work with her again......
She would suck my cock under the counter whilst I serve customers, meet up on lunch break to fill her up with cum
Once I found out she would openingly tell the other colleagues at work of what we was doing on site, it got tooooo awkward for me to work |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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"Hs anyone dated or had some fun with a work friend? If so how did it affect your working relationship afterwards?"
Yep… whilst with someone else… ended badly |
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