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Is anal sex getting more popular with women?
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Think people realising it needs to be more relaxed and slow buildup in real life has helped. Porn where unlubed cocks get shoved deep into the arse didn't do anything for making it pleasurable for many. |
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"Think people realising it needs to be more relaxed and slow buildup in real life has helped. Porn where unlubed cocks get shoved deep into the arse didn't do anything for making it pleasurable for many. "
That’s because in shoots the anus is already prelubed before filming |
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"Think people realising it needs to be more relaxed and slow buildup in real life has helped. Porn where unlubed cocks get shoved deep into the arse didn't do anything for making it pleasurable for many.
That’s because in shoots the anus is already prelubed before filming "
TIL! I always wondered about that thinking that can't be comfortable for the arse or the cock 😂 |
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"Think people realising it needs to be more relaxed and slow buildup in real life has helped. Porn where unlubed cocks get shoved deep into the arse didn't do anything for making it pleasurable for many.
That’s because in shoots the anus is already prelubed before filming
TIL! I always wondered about that thinking that can't be comfortable for the arse or the cock 😂"
On sets we always just prelubed the talent. Plus dont forget it’s all piece meal shooting The final scene is not how the scene was constructed.
Now I have seen amateurs just shove it with spit and whince |
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No idea if it's getting more popular because I don't know how popular it was before.
I do know that in times where sex education was less available it was rare but not unheard of for married couples to visit doctors about infertility only to discover that they'd been having anal sex in the belief that that was how you did it. |
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"Think people realising it needs to be more relaxed and slow buildup in real life has helped. Porn where unlubed cocks get shoved deep into the arse didn't do anything for making it pleasurable for many.
That’s because in shoots the anus is already prelubed before filming
TIL! I always wondered about that thinking that can't be comfortable for the arse or the cock 😂
On sets we always just prelubed the talent. Plus dont forget it’s all piece meal shooting The final scene is not how the scene was constructed.
Now I have seen amateurs just shove it with spit and whince "
And they're the real heroes! |
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No one should feel pressured into anything.
I love it. Nowadays there’s so much helpful info online if you look in the right places to help people learn the right way. Anal plug sets to stretch, different lubes to help. If it hurts, you’re doing it wrong. |
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"No one should feel pressured into anything.
I love it. Nowadays there’s so much helpful info online if you look in the right places to help people learn the right way. Anal plug sets to stretch, different lubes to help. If it hurts, you’re doing it wrong. "
Would you mind hovering over my face so I can practice on you?  |
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I don't think so. I think there's always been women that enjoy it though.
The only conversations I've had with my single women friends about anal is when one of us had to go to the GP for anal tearing. |
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"I think it's more men putting pressure on women to do it.
There's definitely sone of this that goes on. Some women do not always feel like they can say no. "
Then hopefully the guy would learn not to be selfish if he realises she apprehensive |
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There are some men who seem to see it as an expectation. Strangely those are the ones who aren’t quite to keen for me to put my dildo up their arse first so they see how it feels 🤷♀️
Caveat - I know some men would love that! |
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An excellent point well made! Kelly loves it, however I'd be horrified if I thought any lady was giving it up because I expected it. My expectations are only ever that everyone involved is consenting and comfortable whatever the vibe is at the time
"There are some men who seem to see it as an expectation. Strangely those are the ones who aren’t quite to keen for me to put my dildo up their arse first so they see how it feels 🤷♀️
Caveat - I know some men would love that!"
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I'm not a fan and I have felt pressured in the past by men.
Someone kept asking me, almost begging me tbh, if he could "fuck me in the arse because my arse is so fuckable" in the middle of sex the first time we were in bed, I said no every time he asked (which was several and was pissing me off) but he kept pulling his cock out of my pussy and prodding my bum hole with it even though I kept saying no. Or aggressively shoving his finger in my bum hole while fucking me doggy.
It absolutely turned me off and I did not see him again.
Or when they tease the head of their cock against your bum hole when you're getting to ready to fuck and I say "it's not going in there" and they say... "yet..."  just fuck off. |
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It's on the rise with younger people as they see it as the perfect solution to avoiding pregnancy 
Can we normalise the use of condoms and contraception please. So many practicing unsafe sex without a thought for STIs |
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"I'm not a fan and I have felt pressured in the past by men.
Someone kept asking me, almost begging me tbh, if he could "fuck me in the arse because my arse is so fuckable" in the middle of sex the first time we were in bed, I said no every time he asked (which was several and was pissing me off) but he kept pulling his cock out of my pussy and prodding my bum hole with it even though I kept saying no. Or aggressively shoving his finger in my bum hole while fucking me doggy.
It absolutely turned me off and I did not see him again.
Or when they tease the head of their cock against your bum hole when you're getting to ready to fuck and I say "it's not going in there" and they say... "yet..." just fuck off. "
There are so many men that do this sadly! WTAF! It's my body not yours! |
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By *latandTCouple 3 weeks ago
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"I'm not a fan and I have felt pressured in the past by men.
Someone kept asking me, almost begging me tbh, if he could "fuck me in the arse because my arse is so fuckable" in the middle of sex the first time we were in bed, I said no every time he asked (which was several and was pissing me off) but he kept pulling his cock out of my pussy and prodding my bum hole with it even though I kept saying no. Or aggressively shoving his finger in my bum hole while fucking me doggy.
It absolutely turned me off and I did not see him again.
Or when they tease the head of their cock against your bum hole when you're getting to ready to fuck and I say "it's not going in there" and they say... "yet..." just fuck off. "
Wow sounds like a complete disregard of boundaries  |
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"I'm not a fan and I have felt pressured in the past by men.
Someone kept asking me, almost begging me tbh, if he could "fuck me in the arse because my arse is so fuckable" in the middle of sex the first time we were in bed, I said no every time he asked (which was several and was pissing me off) but he kept pulling his cock out of my pussy and prodding my bum hole with it even though I kept saying no. Or aggressively shoving his finger in my bum hole while fucking me doggy.
It absolutely turned me off and I did not see him again.
Or when they tease the head of their cock against your bum hole when you're getting to ready to fuck and I say "it's not going in there" and they say... "yet..." just fuck off.
Wow sounds like a complete disregard of boundaries "
Yep 🫤 sadly some men will just push and push hoping you relent |
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"I'm not a fan and I have felt pressured in the past by men.
Someone kept asking me, almost begging me tbh, if he could "fuck me in the arse because my arse is so fuckable" in the middle of sex the first time we were in bed, I said no every time he asked (which was several and was pissing me off) but he kept pulling his cock out of my pussy and prodding my bum hole with it even though I kept saying no. Or aggressively shoving his finger in my bum hole while fucking me doggy.
It absolutely turned me off and I did not see him again.
Or when they tease the head of their cock against your bum hole when you're getting to ready to fuck and I say "it's not going in there" and they say... "yet..." just fuck off.
There are so many men that do this sadly! WTAF! It's my body not yours! "
Exactly. It's more common that it should be sadly. |
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By *rad670Man 3 weeks ago
South Lakes |
From personal experience talkng and playing with couples the main reason it has not been popular is the lack of any restrain or sensuality on the part of the male, just ramming in there univited and forcefully is not going to make it a regular popular occurence. I always respect boundaries but during some very exciting and erotic experiences with wives/couples it has gone from an absolute no because of past bad experiences to trying it and mostly turning into the sensual experience it should be. Just be gentle guys, let the woman control the speed and depth, be prepared for a refusal at the fence, don't force the issue and you might just get the icing on the cake. |
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By *abluesbabyMan 3 weeks ago
Gibraltar/Cheshire/London |
For what we do - hosting gangbangs - then yes, a definite increase over recent years.
Once upon a time it would be maybe (I'm only roughly guessing here of course) around 10% of women we've met who either already enjoyed or wanted to try anal.
These days I would say its as high as maybe 60%
Of course in "normal life" I'm not sure but its certainly seems less taboo etc..
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By *rad670Man 3 weeks ago
South Lakes |
"I first had anal sex when I was 22. I am now a big fan and find it easy to do.
Ive seen a few of your videos.
You definitely enjoy it. Ooft. "
Same here, I've become a regular visitor to this ladies profile. |
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"I think it's more men putting pressure on women to do it.
Yeah. Apparently more and more women going to hospital with tearing too because it’s not being done properly. Porn shit. "
Mostly the tearing is from poor hygiene from men with looking after finger nails. Not porn |
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"There are some men who seem to see it as an expectation. Strangely those are the ones who aren’t quite to keen for me to put my dildo up their arse first so they see how it feels 🤷♀️
Caveat - I know some men would love that!"
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"I think its dirty. And men who love to bum women are definitely a bit lost in my own oponion. Leave it to the guys if you ask me...
What a funny opinion 🤣
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People are allowed them.
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Now..... fancy some bum sex??? 😋 |
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"I think its dirty. And men who love to bum women are definitely a bit lost in my own oponion. Leave it to the guys if you ask me..."
* the only time it could ever be exceptional is when double vaginal doesn't work, with a condom anal may be an exceptional case |
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"I think its dirty. And men who love to bum women are definitely a bit lost in my own oponion. Leave it to the guys if you ask me...
* the only time it could ever be exceptional is when double vaginal doesn't work, with a condom anal may be an exceptional case"
Straight men who enjoy giving anal to a woman who loves it definitely aren’t lost. 😜 sounds like right place, right time to me. |
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"I think its dirty. And men who love to bum women are definitely a bit lost in my own oponion. Leave it to the guys if you ask me...
* the only time it could ever be exceptional is when double vaginal doesn't work, with a condom anal may be an exceptional case
Straight men who enjoy giving anal to a woman who loves it definitely aren’t lost. 😜 sounds like right place, right time to me. "
You're right, theres something for everyone, we can all be happy if we find it... I don't mean to come across obnoxious  |
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I didnt have anal sex until I was 25 and married. My ex husband and I joked that I should of saved my virginity to him. That got us round to having anal sex
The first time was horrendous dont know why I did it again but it was fine. Ive never had anal sex on a first.meet or on aa club I need to feel comfortable with the person |
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"I don't want anything up my bum.
Same!"
Being aged 67 The NHS has suddenly taken a big interest in my Jacksie for my enlarged prostrate . If its a male doing the examination. Its rubber glove lube one finger and a quick in and out. When its a female its the same except its two fingers and a right good rummage around. First time that happened I thought someone is getting their revenge on my ass.As I hobbled out it felt like a Telegraph pole had been up there. |
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"I really want to learn to love it.... (mrs)
Your inbox is about to fill with guys offering free lessons. 😆 "
In all honesty, there isn't much i wouldn't do with another guy other than my partner, but anal would be one of them, 1 because it's nice to have something just us and 2 he won't judge me if I accidentally shit on it 🤣🤣🤣🤣 |
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By *eliWoman 3 weeks ago
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"After browsing the pics and videos, I've noticed quite a few where women are enjoying sex the anal way.
What is your preference ladies?"
It might be that it's more popular but I think the reason for photos/videos is there's still something taboo about it - seen as kinkier than piv.
I've never had proper anal sex, don't want that to change any time soon. It can look hot sometimes, other times...  . |
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I don't understand anal sex the appeal of it. I've never done it & never will, my ass is a one way street ⬇️ . Toxic waste comes out of everyone's ass, yes sh*t can be toxic & why anyone would wanna put their penis up there, I don't get it.
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"I think it's more men putting pressure on women to do it."
I think you may be correct. I think it was done once upon a time too to avoid pregnancy.
Only 1 guy I was ever with wanted anal sex but no way was I doing it. |
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"I don't understand anal sex the appeal of it. I've never done it & never will, my ass is a one way street ⬇️ . Toxic waste comes out of everyone's ass, yes sh*t can be toxic & why anyone would wanna put their penis up there, I don't get it.
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Well I understand what your saying and that's the reason for most besides the content factor.
Girls have a choice, hence not really understanding or able to appreciate the pleasure of anal.
It's down to preparation. Nobody wants a log jam or a smelly surprise.
But playing both sides of the game, I can tell you that anal is incredibly different and so much more hotter than a pussy.
Feels better which is why most guys will blow their load almost straight away.
But it's not an endless tube so some of you might not get in all the way.
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"I don't understand anal sex the appeal of it. I've never done it & never will, my ass is a one way street ⬇️ . Toxic waste comes out of everyone's ass, yes sh*t can be toxic & why anyone would wanna put their penis up there, I don't get it.
Well I understand what your saying and that's the reason for most besides the content factor.
Girls have a choice, hence not really understanding or able to appreciate the pleasure of anal.
It's down to preparation. Nobody wants a log jam or a smelly surprise.
But playing both sides of the game, I can tell you that anal is incredibly different and so much more hotter than a pussy.
Feels better which is why most guys will blow their load almost straight away.
But it's not an endless tube so some of you might not get in all the way.
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I appreciate that & yes I have heard on fab that anal is way tighter but that may depend on the pussy too.
Texture would be different too & some women prefer anal sex too to vaginal, it's just not for me 👍 |
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By *eckard25Man 3 weeks ago
North West Durham |
It's definitely more popular, but I'm still old school where it wasn't the norm when I was first sexually active and I definitely don't see it as the norm now. I like it but would never initiate or request it with a woman, only when they suggest it. |
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Tried it once cos I had thrush but was feeling horny🙈
It was with a long term partner, we used lube and a condom and went nice and slow. It was kinda like a second virginity moment for both of us so that was nice and special.
It didnt have as much sensation and control for me as I like so wouldn't bother doing it again to be honest.
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I think FAB, if you find the right people, allows you to expand your sexual map.
C had not been curious about women at all before FAB, hadn’t done anal, hadn’t ever had multiple orgasms.
The more she explored herself, the more of Pandora’s box she opened, the more she enjoyed everything and it became a sexual circle of exploration and enjoyment.
FAB really helped her open her mind and she enjoys trying different things. Her anal orgasms are much stronger than vaginal.
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"Tried it once cos I had thrush but was feeling horny🙈
It was with a long term partner, we used lube and a condom and went nice and slow. It was kinda like a second virginity moment for both of us so that was nice and special.
It didnt have as much sensation and control for me as I like so wouldn't bother doing it again to be honest.
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What???? 👀🤮 |
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We have been long time fans of anal. Sarah asked me to try it in her very early 20s after reading a bit in cosmo, we regularly have anal and the last few years enjoy others fucking her in ass.
Strangely I now love a good pegging also and working up to perhaps taking real thing |
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I must admit after years of trying i finally got it in fully and wow
Yes im a big fan now
Obviously I prefer vaginal sex but there’s no getting away with anal being a very welcome addition to
Both holes at same time is absolutely amazingly intense
cock and dildo is all for DP
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Just the other day, a lady told me I'll never have enough birthdays to let me put mine in her bum, I certainly haven't seen a rise in people doing anal, apart from people seen to like to be pegged more. |
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