Do you mean for a relationship? No I wouldn't get in a relationship with someone who wanted me to leave the lifestyle as we wouldn't be compatible. Been there, done that. It didn't work and he was cheating on me on tinder behind my back anyway. |
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"I tried monogamous relationships before, not for me.
Did you just find them.boring? X"
Not boring, my sex drive eventually became a problem. Men were finding it a great turn on at first, then they couldn't catch up. It's probably a bit different now, with my sex drive taking a bit of a dive lately, but I enjoy my variety too much..l |
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"I tried monogamous relationships before, not for me.
Did you just find them.boring? X
Not boring, my sex drive eventually became a problem. Men were finding it a great turn on at first, then they couldn't catch up. It's probably a bit different now, with my sex drive taking a bit of a dive lately, but I enjoy my variety too much..l"
Does that mean you may consider a more settled life then x |
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"No. My next relationship (if I were to ever have one again) would include the lifestyle.
I dont trust anyone now to have a monogamous relationship with x"
Is this due to cheating? You haveabtrust issue X |
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"No. My next relationship (if I were to ever have one again) would include the lifestyle.
I dont trust anyone now to have a monogamous relationship with x
Is this due to cheating? You haveabtrust issue X "
Yes so I would rather have someone do it with me than behind my back x |
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"No. My next relationship (if I were to ever have one again) would include the lifestyle.
I dont trust anyone now to have a monogamous relationship with x
Is this due to cheating? You haveabtrust issue X
Yes so I would rather have someone do it with me than behind my back x"
Nothing wrong with that x |
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"I tried monogamous relationships before, not for me.
Did you just find them.boring? X
Not boring, my sex drive eventually became a problem. Men were finding it a great turn on at first, then they couldn't catch up. It's probably a bit different now, with my sex drive taking a bit of a dive lately, but I enjoy my variety too much..l
Does that mean you may consider a more settled life then x"
Who says I haven't got a settled life now? I have a partner, a couple of FWBs and some "lifestyle friends", who are not necessarily "play partners". I believe my life is quite settled, just in a non-traditional way. |
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I'm fully open about my lifestyle before anything sexy/serious happens.
My boyfriend is accepting of my lifestyle, but eventually he will settle down with just one person and that won't be me. This isn't HIS lifestyle. For now we are simply enjoying each other and our time together. |
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If I had the chance of ending up with a certain person I know (from experience) that I didn't want anyone else. I also know that he'd never ask me for monogamy either. So it wouldn't matter. For those reasons and that I'll never end up with him. |
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It's part of me and defines me. So no, I would not renounce it. Not would I expect a partner/lover/wife to either, if that was their thing either. We can be deeply committed to each other, but the autonomies of our bodies are our own choices. |
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