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Do orgasms cloud your judgement?
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Maybe in the past.
But I need more than just amazing orgasms from people I'm doing the sex with. If they can't (or won't) give me those things, then I put myself first and do what I need to do to protect myself - in every sense of protecting myself. |
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Yes, it's so rare for someone to be able to make me cum easily I have overlooked stuff in the past when someone has mastered the ability to give me orgasms. In the longterm though I usually come to my senses 😂 |
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"Maybe in the past.
But I need more than just amazing orgasms from people I'm doing the sex with. If they can't (or won't) give me those things, then I put myself first and do what I need to do to protect myself - in every sense of protecting myself."
Oh I'm not necessarily talking about there being red flags in terms of relationshipy things. More so ... I was reading the dirty talk thread earlier and realised the last person I had sex with said way too much and I wasn't enjoying all the words. And then thinking about it there were other things that made me realise maybe we weren't so compatible in other areas. But like, up until now I was thinking 'holy shit, it was amazing' with him.  |
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"Yes, for sure. But on the flip side, there's nothing quite like post orgasm clarity.
Well, this is like three weeks later with the clarity  "
Better late than never....aaaaand you've had 3 weeks of filthy thoughts and knowing smiles 😆 |
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"Yes, it's so rare for someone to be able to make me cum easily I have overlooked stuff in the past when someone has mastered the ability to give me orgasms. In the longterm though I usually come to my senses 😂"
 How much later? The shit thing is, if my person had been better with the communication I probably would have had lots more sex with him before I realised. |
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"Yes, it's so rare for someone to be able to make me cum easily I have overlooked stuff in the past when someone has mastered the ability to give me orgasms. In the longterm though I usually come to my senses 😂
How much later? The shit thing is, if my person had been better with the communication I probably would have had lots more sex with him before I realised. "
It varies but usually a few months maybe 🤔 once the novelty has worn off and I stop willfully ignoring things that I don't like 😂 or I get fed up of the bad kissing, or they just say one too many things that are 🚩🚩🚩 |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"Yes, it's so rare for someone to be able to make me cum easily I have overlooked stuff in the past when someone has mastered the ability to give me orgasms. In the longterm though I usually come to my senses 😂
How much later? The shit thing is, if my person had been better with the communication I probably would have had lots more sex with him before I realised. "
As a sweeping generalisation, men (I'm assuming it was a man) are shit at communicating. I know I have been in the past. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Women (in general) rarely give me orgasms, sadly. I don’t think I’d overlook sexual incompatibility just because I managed to cum but if they made me cum there would probably be a fair amount of compatibility for me |
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"Yes, it's so rare for someone to be able to make me cum easily I have overlooked stuff in the past when someone has mastered the ability to give me orgasms. In the longterm though I usually come to my senses 😂
How much later? The shit thing is, if my person had been better with the communication I probably would have had lots more sex with him before I realised.
It varies but usually a few months maybe 🤔 once the novelty has worn off and I stop willfully ignoring things that I don't like 😂 or I get fed up of the bad kissing, or they just say one too many things that are 🚩🚩🚩 "
Oh thank you. I am feeling so much better about myself having realised this after one shag |
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"Yes, it's so rare for someone to be able to make me cum easily I have overlooked stuff in the past when someone has mastered the ability to give me orgasms. In the longterm though I usually come to my senses 😂
How much later? The shit thing is, if my person had been better with the communication I probably would have had lots more sex with him before I realised.
As a sweeping generalisation, men (I'm assuming it was a man) are shit at communicating. I know I have been in the past."
I wouldn't say I'm the best at communication either. But in this case, I mostly just meant if he hadn't fallen down on one basic thing I probably would have carried on with him! |
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"Women (in general) rarely give me orgasms, sadly. I don’t think I’d overlook sexual incompatibility just because I managed to cum but if they made me cum there would probably be a fair amount of compatibility for me"
On the one hand, that sounds a little sad. But at least it gives you a bit of clarity? Not sure. |
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"Yes, for sure. But on the flip side, there's nothing quite like post orgasm clarity.
Well, this is like three weeks later with the clarity
That’s a pretty long orgasm OP 🤣"
We had to take a break mid session because the orgasms were coming so quick and strong There was a lotttt of clouding of judgement going on. |
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I'd not compromise my standards for an orgasm or 50, no.
Not sure my experience would count for this, it wasn't so much the orgasms and more a case of not wanting to start the search for a new person over from scratch. It's exhausting training someone up in how I like my sex 😂
I have kept on seeing someone past the time we ought to have ended naturally because I genuinely enjoyed them and their sex and their friendship. Ultimately our lives are on different paths though so we had to end eventually. Bittersweet 🙃 |
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By *eliWoman 45 weeks ago
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Women can have multiple orgasms? Surely not. :D
Not sexual compatibility, no. I wouldn't be able to orgasm with someone if there wasn't any but that's how my body works. Every woman is different.
I have/ do overlook personality traits that aren't too compatible with mine - my vagina is easily content, my head less so. Less than pleasant behaviour because I think "oh when we're together it's great". And then at some point I'm not able to.
On the flipside - if the sex isn't great I'm a lot less tolerable. Adopt an is it worth it approach and that's quite handy.
Luckily most of the time everything is compatible. Minus time and distance.
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"Yes, for sure. But on the flip side, there's nothing quite like post orgasm clarity.
Well, this is like three weeks later with the clarity
That’s a pretty long orgasm OP 🤣
We had to take a break mid session because the orgasms were coming so quick and strong There was a lotttt of clouding of judgement going on."
🤣 well you take the rough with the smooth I guess! |
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On the flip side from a guy perspective I have continued to see a woman even after I broke up with her. Because she tried hard to continue things, when I knew the relationship was not for me.
This one in particular even used sex as a weapon to entice me. Whilst the sex continued for a while, I had decided to move on mentally 🤷🏽♂️ |
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