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By *lexBlack30 OP Man 2 weeks ago

Leeds

How open are you with friends and family members about not being monogamous?

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By *exxyyDy11Man 2 weeks ago

North West

Some friends know I'm on here as they recommended it to me.

As for family, no I don't intend to tell them.

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman 2 weeks ago

Hereabouts

I almost went to the same swingers party as my mum about 10 years ago... So I'm real glad I figured that one out before we both got there.

My dad doesn't know but wouldn't give a shit anyway.

My sisters know.

And most of my friends know 🤷🏻

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By *estructionDollyWoman 2 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

I'm very open about non-monogamy. All my family know and most of my friends, the only people who don't are work friends.

Fab and sex clubs is slightly different.

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By *a LunaWoman 2 weeks ago

o o OO o o

I’m not. But then I’m not non monogamous either. I’m just single.

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By *risxbrisxMan 2 weeks ago

Bristol

"I almost went to the same swingers party as my mum about 10 years ago... So I'm real glad I figured that one out before we both got there.

My dad doesn't know but wouldn't give a shit anyway.

My sisters know.

And most of my friends know 🤷🏻"

Lol how did you find out and dodge that one?

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By *aomilatteCouple 2 weeks ago

Midlands

We don't even talk about our sex life with family and friends so there's no chance of telling anyone we're swingers. We only talk about swinging with other swingers.

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By *orthern_nudieMan 2 weeks ago

leeds

Completely open! Happy for them to ask questions if they want to

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By *lexBlack30 OP Man 2 weeks ago

Leeds

"I almost went to the same swingers party as my mum about 10 years ago... So I'm real glad I figured that one out before we both got there.

My dad doesn't know but wouldn't give a shit anyway.

My sisters know.

And most of my friends know 🤷🏻"

Sucking a D next to mum would have been crazy! That was a close call!

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By *lexBlack30 OP Man 2 weeks ago

Leeds

"I’m not. But then I’m not non monogamous either. I’m just single."

Totally makes sense

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By *randMrsNorthernBeeCouple 2 weeks ago

Carlisle

No one asked and we haven’t felt the need to pop it in our Christmas round robin 🤷

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By *IXEN200Woman 2 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

I told my kids and parents I was on here, so I'm very open.

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By *orthern_nudieMan 2 weeks ago

leeds

"I told my kids and parents I was on here, so I'm very open."

Best way to be! Hope they took it well and are supportive

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By *bi HaiveMan 2 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"We don't even talk about our sex life with family and friends so there's no chance of telling anyone we're swingers. We only talk about swinging with other swingers. "

This 💯%

None of their business just as I'd never ask them about their sex lives as it's none of mine.

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman 2 weeks ago

somewhere, someplace

Jeez no as far as my mum knows i've only had sex twice cause I gave 2 kids 😂😂😂

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By *partharmonyCouple 2 weeks ago

Ruislip

Generally we don't talk about our sex lives with many people so this wouldn't come up. We have been open with a few friends but I can't see my relatives want want us to talk about our sex life with them.

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By *astlancsMan 2 weeks ago

Burnley

Not that open with friends as shes a nurse, some close family know

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By *lexBlack30 OP Man 2 weeks ago

Leeds

"Jeez no as far as my mum knows i've only had sex twice cause I gave 2 kids 😂😂😂"

Lol.

That's so different to a colleague of mine talks bdsm stuff with her mum

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By * aime la biteWoman 2 weeks ago

wonderland

I'm a private person so I don't share very often.

I'll openly talk about sex to most people if the subject comes up. But what I get upto is private.

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By *SCouple81Couple 2 weeks ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

Our closest friends know about it.

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By *idssissyTV/TS 2 weeks ago

Nr cricket ground birm

Direct family know I'm into kink

Not much they know about here but as have only done oral not sure people would call me a swinger

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By *ellinever70Woman 2 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"I told my kids and parents I was on here, so I'm very open."

Purely out of curiosity...why?

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By *orthern_nudieMan 2 weeks ago

leeds

All my friends know and some work colleagues.

If family found out I wouldn’t mind at all, happy for them to ask questions

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By *enk15Man 2 weeks ago

Evesham

My friends know.

It's never really come up in conversation with the family, but if they ask I won't lie to them.

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By *layfull pairingCouple 2 weeks ago

Bristol

Nobody knows and wouldn’t want them to know as it’s our business and nobody else’s ... having said that, we have bumped into people we know at clubs, distant family members and close neighbours, especially while out dogging... (Bit awkward at first when you see a guy or a couple from a few doors away, even though your miles and miles away from home).. but everyone has been very cool about it.

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By *raceystickWoman 2 weeks ago

lincs

My sister knows as I sometimes use her for child care lol xxx

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple 2 weeks ago

Between Sudbury n Haverhill

Nobody knows it’s no one else’s business what we do within our sex life

Mrs

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman 2 weeks ago

Norwich

"I’m not. But then I’m not non monogamous either. I’m just single."

Me too. I'm not a swinger as such just single.

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