"Do you ever look at someone on here, who's the same sex as you, and think 'how do I compete with that?'. They have perfect pecs, perfect boobs, are devilishly attractive. How do you handle it? 🤓"
All the time but then I remember that they probably feel the same about someone else. And that the people that want and desire me do so because of my features and personality not because of how I compare to someone else. And wine, lots of wine! |
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By *bi HaiveMan 2 weeks ago
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Nope.
What's the point? I'm me, they're them.
I'm not in competition with anyone else on here. What others do doesn't affect me and what I do will never affect anyone else's Fab experience. 🤷♂️ |
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"Nope.
What's the point? I'm me, they're them.
I'm not in competition with anyone else on here. What others do doesn't affect me and what I do will never affect anyone else's Fab experience. 🤷♂️"
What he said |
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By *h86Man 2 weeks ago
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Nah, when youve gone through life feeling like the rejected potato you learn not to give a crap about the 'competition'
We aint competing, Im just being me, but props for looking so fine though |
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"Do you ever look at someone on here, who's the same sex as you, and think 'how do I compete with that?'. They have perfect pecs, perfect boobs, are devilishly attractive. How do you handle it? 🤓"
Yes I do, and after that little voice gets in my head I tell myself that everyone has their own taste, so I am grounding myself saying you’ll be some people’s liking and not all of them. The people who really like you, like you for you, with the flaws and all. And I honestly couldn’t wish for more.  |
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"Do you ever look at someone on here, who's the same sex as you, and think 'how do I compete with that?'. They have perfect pecs, perfect boobs, are devilishly attractive. How do you handle it? 🤓
Yes I do, and after that little voice gets in my head I tell myself that everyone has their own taste, so I am grounding myself saying you’ll be some people’s liking and not all of them. The people who really like you, like you for you, with the flaws and all. And I honestly couldn’t wish for more. "
Yeah, the voice....🙄 |
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"Do you ever look at someone on here, who's the same sex as you, and think 'how do I compete with that?'. They have perfect pecs, perfect boobs, are devilishly attractive. How do you handle it? 🤓"
Yes lots. Cling to the hope that everyone has different preferences and maybe I fit some of them. |
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Yes, somewhat, sometimes, but not to the detriment of my enjoyment on here.
It's not difficult to ignore the wondrousness in other people. I just forge ahead and play with the cards that I've been dealt. |
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"Do you ever look at someone on here, who's the same sex as you, and think 'how do I compete with that?'. They have perfect pecs, perfect boobs, are devilishly attractive. How do you handle it? 🤓"
Never.
I'm not here to compete with anyone as fab for me isn't a competition x |
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There are some super hot women about. Especially around these parts and my local updates are pretty impressive in terms of women too.
I don't see any point comparing myself against them I know I'm average and that's OK, I do alright on here 🤷♀️ |
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"If after comparing yourself to others you’re not happy or feel like you can’t compete then instead of looking for sympathy make changes and better yourself "
 there's always an expert on here isn't there ☠️ |
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"There are some super hot women about. Especially around these parts and my local updates are pretty impressive in terms of women too.
I don't see any point comparing myself against them I know I'm average and that's OK, I do alright on here 🤷♀️"
Wanna turn " alright on here " into " slightly better but not by much " ?? Then I'm your man  |
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I've always said bodies are more for living in than working on. Yes I take care of myself more these days but that's for wellbeing. I'll never again put the effort in for a six pack. Well done if you have one but I'm a thick body and it nigh killed me!
I don't compare myself, I'm proud of who I am, imperfections and all. I don't have to compete or be everyone's cup of tea. I'm authentic and that's what matters. |
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I’ll be real, I don’t really. Which maybe sounds arrogant but nice bodies don’t really mean much to me. If a guy had a gorgeous face I’d be more likely to feel intimidated but in all honesty (God forgive me) I rarely see men on here who make me feel ugly or unattractive. I think the only person I ever did feel that over is my ex’s partner and that’s no longer a problem. |
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"There are some super hot women about. Especially around these parts and my local updates are pretty impressive in terms of women too.
I don't see any point comparing myself against them I know I'm average and that's OK, I do alright on here 🤷♀️
Wanna turn " alright on here " into " slightly better but not by much " ?? Then I'm your man "
Hmu   |
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You have to love yourself in this life, honestly. I truly believe I’m not ugly. Sure I’m not the most objectively attractive person but I have more than enough women in my life who tell me I’m beautiful for me to believe it.
Or maybe I’m just an arrogant fucker who thinks I’m decent looking. Either way, loving myself is what helps. |
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"If after comparing yourself to others you’re not happy or feel like you can’t compete then instead of looking for sympathy make changes and better yourself
there's always an expert on here isn't there ☠️"
And the award for the unhappiest person on the thread goes to 🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁 that knob end |
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Not so much physically, because the only reference I can use for that is profile photos (as I prioritise other galleries 😂). However, if we extend attractiveness to the way they talk / confidence / pull (or my perception of these things), then absolutely. |
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I definitely see lots of women who I think are insanely hot. I’ll occasionally have a moment of envy but I’d never think “how do I compete with that”. I know I have my own qualities and try to focus on that. |
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"Do you ever look at someone on here, who's the same sex as you, and think 'how do I compete with that?'. They have perfect pecs, perfect boobs, are devilishly attractive. How do you handle it? 🤓"
Be yourself and if you have the gift of the gab you'll succeed
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