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By *inx000 OP Couple 40 weeks ago
Manchester |
How long have you been on fab for?
Are you a newbie or been here for quite a while?
Have you found what you were looking for or are you not searching for anything intimate and maybe just here for socials and making new friends?
Has anything changed since you joined fab,maybe you wanted certain things but now you’re looking for something different?
When I first joined fab I wasn’t really looking for anything just enjoyed the banter on the forums and going on cam for a bit of fun but things change,people change and I found my happiness with someone special on fab and we enjoy exploring new things together which is what this site is all about right?Making connections and exploring your sexual desires?! |
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On here as a couple for about 18 months, but we both had singles profiles for years before that.
I've probably been in here myself for about 15 years, on and off |
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As a single 12 years but left the account dormant whilst being a swinging couple for 8 years. I enjoy being on here and the people although it's very rare I message anybody. |
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By *assy69Man 40 weeks ago
Wales/Sussex |
"How long have you been on fab for?
Are you a newbie or been here for quite a while?
Have you found what you were looking for or are you not searching for anything intimate and maybe just here for socials and making new friends?
Has anything changed since you joined fab,maybe you wanted certain things but now you’re looking for something different?
When I first joined fab I wasn’t really looking for anything just enjoyed the banter on the forums and going on cam for a bit of fun but things change,people change and I found my happiness with someone special on fab and we enjoy exploring new things together which is what this site is all about right?Making connections and exploring your sexual desires?!"
Was about 2006 ish when I first joined, fab had much more of a community feel for me at that time, like all things in life, over time it had changed and evolved, sometimes for the better, sometimes not |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Under present username a couple of months, but on an earlier profile I was on here for well over 10 years. Had lot's of meets and made some very good friends, both Male and Female |
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Approx 15 months. Been very lucky and met some wonderful people ❤️ |
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On and off, 7 years. This is my longest continuous single membership profile at about 5 years.
4 Couples profiles have started and been fun and then our couple time has come to an end.
Have i found what i was looking for?
I thought i had, with maybe 1 or 2 of the ladies i started couples accounts with but as they have fallen by the wayside, perhaps not
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Joined in 2016 just looking for experiences.
This is my 4th profile in that time and it's about 6 years old but I haven't been meeting for 5 years for personal reasons.
I didn't start using the forums until I set up this profile. |
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3 months total. Was looking for extra fun, we are having it 😅🫶🏻 |
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About 8 years. Twice I've left and come back after a few months off. |
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About 11 years I think. Found what I wanted a few times x |
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About 7 years I think. I used to try and meet people through here. I'd be potentially open to it if I stumbled upon someone now but I'm not actively looking for it. I mostly use this site now to pass boredom on the forums and sometimes keep up with people I know from clubs and group socials. |
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By *ingsysMan 40 weeks ago
Scunthorpe |
In total probably 8 years in total, on third account though |
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3 months on this profile
2 years on my couples profile |
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About 6 years.
Crikey. I need to get out more. 😆 |
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Just over a year, I joined cos of my fwb at the time told me about it. I haven't found exactly what I am looking for, but I have met some great people on here so...can't complain |
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Newbie-ish.....it has it's moments
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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8 years on snd off. Usually get fed up around 2 to 4 month point and delete... but always end up back 🤷♂️😝 |
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I've been on this profile for 4 years. I had joined before on another profile just to nosey but didn't become active and start meeting people til I started this account.
When I joined I simply wanted to find one fwb who was happy to have sex without the baggage of a relationship or expectations of dating. That quickly changed and I've been on quite a journey of sexual exploration over the last 3 or so years.
I am still here because I find it the best way to meet others on my wavelength and who I am sexually compatible with. I still have lots of sexual desires I want to experience. I love variety and sex with different people gives me different things. I'm greedy and want it all  |
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I first joined fab in 2011 after my partner at the time showed me his account. I was on here on a woman's account but we met people together, I carried on with the account after we split up after 10 years together. I deleted that account last year after some hassle from someone and started this one (decided it was time for a new begining). I have had a couples account on here before but deleted that after about 6 or 7 months as the relationship didn't work out (met him on here couple of years ago, was with him for 9 Months)
Since I joined what I wanted has changed many times, I've gone through different phases of what I wanted from 1 on 1 to threesomes, foursomes, fwb relationship, full relationship ect. At this moment I'm time I don't actually know what I want from this, I just know that I'm enjoying what I'm doing and making great friends along the way. If a relationship comes along I'd be open to it, but if it didn't I'm also ok with that, I'm having too much fun to overthink it |
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By *aizyWoman 40 weeks ago
west midlands |
5 yrsish I think. |
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By *aizyWoman 40 weeks ago
west midlands |
"5 yrsish I think."
And not looking for anything in particular. |
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A year or 2 on a couples account.
A year or 2 as a single. Never found what I am looking for here. Found it once or twice away from here.
So just here to pass some time occasionally. |
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Been on here via this profile for just over 5 and a half years with no breaks, December will be my 6 fab anniversary.
Didn’t come on here “looking” for anything in particular at the start but ended up meeting my lovely girlfriend who ill been with for 3 years in October. We’re happier and stronger than ever and and luckily for me we were, and still are on the same page when it came down to the type of dynamic we wanted from a swinging relationship. Both of us happy to be romantically/emotionally closed, but sexually open to, and with others. |
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I think we’ve been on here for about 2-3 years now. We came here looking for hot guys and have found several and it’s been a lot of fun so far xx 😄
We’ve also used the site to find out about different clubs and events and have made plenty of friends that way so all in all a good experience for us here xx |
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15ish years.
Used to get a lot more messages back then. I think that since I've been a pensioner might have something to do with it!!  |
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11 years give or take as I take breaks every now and then....usually on other site more these days.
Never really joined with an idea what I wanted, found some gems along the way and some not so gems.
All in all it's been an alright journey but one I can take or leave x |
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I’ve been here for 6 and a half years, I deleted my old profile thinking I was never coming back, think I lasted 2 weeks 🤣 |
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14 years for me. 18 years old and needed 11 wanks a day to get by. |
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6 years
Meeting people in clubs, having a laugh on the forums |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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I first joined 12 years ago and have had many accounts since then. I did leave thinking I was leaving forever ( ) but things didn't work out and returned around 18 months ago after a 5 year gap |
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I’m not sure how long I’ve been here, I’d check my profile but as we all know, single men don’t read profiles. 😏
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I think 7 or 8 years…
I love it here. Love the adoration and the adulation. Saccharine if you like but still sweetens things haha 
And yes, I have found my exhilarating experiences I was seeking. Many of them in fact. And just when Fab falls into a lull and I start yawning 🥱… BANG! It hits again so strong… love it. Absolutely love it. 😍 |
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For us it's been about six years.
We have always found it difficult to meet couples. We made a great connection early on but then they broke up. We have since met a couple and we see them every now and again.
It frustrates us greatly that so few couples think including a picture of the man in their gallery is relevant. It baffles us.
We have literally never gone out looking for single women but have never had any shortage of interest from women who contact us. We have only had threesomes with one of them though. A few others have become friends.
This scene is something we dabble in only occasionally so I think that makes things harder for us. |
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Originally stumbled across fabs when I was 27,so 23 years ago ! Jesus I feel old…… so very early days of the site, it was dial up !! For those old enough who remember that 😂 I’ve popped on and of ever since, x |
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I originally joined around 2008 and have been on and off with a few breaks. Came back on a couple of months ago after a 9 year absence. Surprising to see many whom I met with and chatted to all those years ago. Good to be back in touch.
When I originally joined, it was all about the sex.
Now I find it’s more about connections and chemistry. I’m not into ONS and prefer longterm friends (with benefits of course!)
It has changed on here since my earlier days. The ratio of men to women now is much higher; lots more fake profiles and time-wasters; manners and general politeness years ago was much higher.
I think returning now and being in the 50+ age bracket I have fewer messages and photo likes!
Other than that, it’s still a fun place to be  |
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14 years or so... it’s all good |
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"How long have you been on fab for?"
About 4½ years.
"Have you found what you were looking for...?"
Yes, I have. The socials have been enjoyable, the forums keep me suitably engaged. The intimacy part — for which I'm ostensibly here for — has been fulfilling, however the vast distances sometimes impedes the frequency. I would prefer more.
"Has anything changed since you joined fab,maybe you wanted certain things but now you’re looking for something different?"
I'm not a swinger. I joined as a proponent for all things vanilla. I'm now 'enhanced vanilla'.
Fab addresses my needs in every way but I'm looking for one or two more paramours. |
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13 years.
I've had this profile 11 years and I had one before, that I deleted when life got a bit busy.
I've had a couple profile for 9 years too. |
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By *UNKIEMan 40 weeks ago
south east |
Lost count how many years tbh all i can say is from when fab first started however long ago that was  |
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By *UNKIEMan 40 weeks ago
south east |
"Lost count how many years tbh all i can say is from when fab first started however long ago that was "
I believe its about 17-18 years going by veris on our cpls profile |
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For years, on and off.
Curiosity brings us back,mainly to chat. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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About 5 yrs, dunno why I have lasted this long. Single men are ignored by the majority. Hoping one day I may be lucky, not holding my breath though |
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Been a fabster for about twenty years firstly as a married couple , then after divorce as a swinging FWB/ girlfriend & as a single profile. I have seen many changes as the atmosphere has changed from convivial to adversarial of elite cliques than social niceties. Much of the time chatting to old friends & acquaintances & occasionally a social. Been to many meets over the years though only a few stand out for special memories |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Used to be on here for years under an old name (JagerMorgan), took a break and decided to come back under my current profile.
Fab has certainly changed a fair bit since back then, now it’s got a lot more single guys, questionable posts and some rather bizarre DM’s flung my way.
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Going on year and a half. Nope.
Just login have a look at the forums and post and that's about it. |
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By *mmaleiaWoman 40 weeks ago
Trowbridge |
Been here 18 months, found 2 decent guys, still looking for my elusive FWB |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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I've been here 5 months or so on this profile, had a couple of other profiles that only lasted a few weeks, I quickly got bored and deleted them.
Only found the forums on this account about 3 months ago or so and have enjoyed them so far.... most of you are nice |
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"I've been here 5 months or so on this profile, had a couple of other profiles that only lasted a few weeks, I quickly got bored and deleted them.
Only found the forums on this account about 3 months ago or so and have enjoyed them so far.... most of you are nice "
I’m finding it nice to make forum friends 🫶🏻 |
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On my couple profile with B, coming up to 3 years. On this solo profile, just over a year. And on my couple profile with S, a month or so, although we’ve been together much longer than that.
I didn’t really know what I was looking for but I love what I have found. Confidence, a wide range of incredible experiences, some very good friends and most unexpectedly, love. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"I've been here 5 months or so on this profile, had a couple of other profiles that only lasted a few weeks, I quickly got bored and deleted them.
Only found the forums on this account about 3 months ago or so and have enjoyed them so far.... most of you are nice
I’m finding it nice to make forum friends 🫶🏻"
Absolutely!.... hope some of you feel the same about me |
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Two years, but a break between two profiles. |
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"I've been here 5 months or so on this profile, had a couple of other profiles that only lasted a few weeks, I quickly got bored and deleted them.
Only found the forums on this account about 3 months ago or so and have enjoyed them so far.... most of you are nice "
Yes, You are lovely too |
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4 years I think
In a few different guises.
I found what I was initially searching for - I soon bored of that and have since found quite a few things that I wasn’t searching for. It’s been a steep learning curve at times.
I don’t think I’ll find what I really want. But in the meantime I enjoy the forums.
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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To long |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"I've been here 5 months or so on this profile, had a couple of other profiles that only lasted a few weeks, I quickly got bored and deleted them.
Only found the forums on this account about 3 months ago or so and have enjoyed them so far.... most of you are nice
Yes, You are lovely too "
Thank you, so are you |
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"How long have you been on fab for?
Are you a newbie or been here for quite a while"
On and off here since maybe 2010. I’ve been here as a single, as a MF couple, as a group, paired up with a straight team mate as MM, but mainly here as a single
"Have you found what you were looking for or are you not searching for anything intimate and maybe just here for socials and making new friends?"
I’ve found a regular group and regular MF here several times, which is my reason for being here.
People come and go which make it difficult to keep a long term regular thing going
"Has anything changed since you joined fab,maybe you wanted certain things but now you’re looking for something different?"
The site isn’t as active with parties and meets like when I first joined. People are more cautious and selective when it comes to single males. In my opinion, there’s a lot of new people with different attitudes and opinions of what fab is all about who have joined over the years and see fab and an Amazon like service where you message people and will receive sex. That’s been a driver for the shift for the reluctance of some in entertaining single guys. In addition to the ratio of single guys increasing
As I’ve explored and tried new things over the years, my needs and wants have changed.
I’ve had some truly amazing experiences, things I thought I would never try, let alone enjoy.
Also some lessons learned from meeting and trusting the wrong people.
Both of which have shaped what I’m now looking for, what I’m avoiding, my relationship with fab and how I approach fab |
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Around 4 years was more active at first but gone very quite round here |
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I think i joined in covid so 5 years? |
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6 months. Have I found what I was looking for when I joined, yes and no. I didn't join expecting to meet someone instantly, expectations were not high in that sense and as yet, have not met anyone. I do have fun looking through the forums though and I'm getting bolder in posting more. I've also enjoyed the chat rooms where I've had some really good conversations. Overall my experience has been a positive one. |
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By *ayRyuMan 40 weeks ago
Harrogate |
On and off since 2007 after being introduced by a friend!
Had a few incarnations on here since then. |
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Joined in 2014.
Was a single guy then.
We’ve been on our couples profile since 2018 |
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I can't remember but when we joined this was all fields |
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By *vmarisaTV/TS 40 weeks ago
Motherwell |
15 years and have had the time of my life with some of the people I have met and I am still meeting new people too, so the adventures go on. Mx  |
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We’ve been here around 10 years |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Been on for about 2 years now but had been on before
I just wish Fab was around when we first started over about 45 years ago and we were both young - I'm sure we would have met many, many more men. When we statered out it was paying a fiver to Gumtree peronal adds where you got an envolope sent back with blokes contact details etc - it was a long-winded process
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"How long have you been on fab for?"
I remember when all this were fields … |
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By *ookie46Woman 40 weeks ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
Been here eight years
Not looking to make any new connections here for socials and the friends I already have
Had one long term relationship from here that lasted four years and wasn’t particularly looking for one but ticked lots of new sexual experiences off and it was great while it lasted |
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10 years. Definitely notice the lack of connections since hitting 50 😬🤓 |
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Ive been here 19 years. Fab has always been good to me, met lots of lovely people. Never had a no show or cancellation and very little abuse.
Now I've given up swinging and just stay for the forumd |
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By *k_123Man 40 weeks ago
the north |
8 years with a year gap. After 4 years. I seem to find winter better than summer for new meets :0 |
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Been on about 17 year, after already having been swinging for a few years. I came to expand my choices and to have more potential partners. I've met a lot of people and still want more friends and sex.
It's changed, including from the pandemic which affected all of u. I'm a fair bit better at using it which helps. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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I only joined last year. Had no idea it even existed prior to that so had zero expectations. I’ve had fun but currently I’m just here for the forum chats |
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"A few weeks…still green"
You're getting there.
Youre a quick learner  |
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Over 10 years but many periods of not logging in at all for a fair few years in-between.
Now I am on the prowl for a real live Dom who lives local. So step forward if ya do! |
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"Over 10 years but many periods of not logging in at all for a fair few years in-between.
Now I am on the prowl for a real live Dom who lives local. So step forward if ya do! "
But the wannabe Doms, you just stay where ya are... so tired of the faux Doms.  |
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3 weeks here, still yet to find anyone but I know I haven’t been here that long so I’m not expecting anyone just yet. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Been on three weeks, and enjoying my time on here, I've been on before albeit briefly, but this time I'm embracing it more... Had a meet, getting involved in the forum etc so yeah, excellent |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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On and off since I was 18 |
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By *im_86Man 40 weeks ago
liverpool |
Third time on fab, back 2 weeks now |
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Originally joined as a couple a few years ago having been told about it by a couple we were playing with at a club. We mainly used it to stay in touch with people we had met in person at clubs rather than to find new people.
On this profile, it’s about 6 months. I decided to come back when I felt ready to start meet other people again. I wanted to make friends in the lifestyle so came and joined the forums. I’ve made some good friends where we have just clicked even though we’ve not always met in person. |
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About 15 years on and off, in and out, up and down, lol |
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Just over a year and I guess I'm still looking for what I'm after. |
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A rather long time to have seen far too many people come and go. Have attend the Secret Tea Parties, the original MLS and subsequent follow on ones.
Sadly have lost a few to the big FAB club in the sky. 😪
But still here have the craic, drifting in and out at times. |
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"Just over a year and I guess I'm still looking for what I'm after."
I know a classic rock/pop tune that jumped in to my head when I read this. 😉 |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Joined in 2016
That’s nearly 10 years 🤯
I’m shooketh. |
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"Joined in 2016
That’s nearly 10 years 🤯
I’m shooketh."
And never been kissed |
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"Been here eight years
Not looking to make any new connections here for socials and the friends I already have
Had one long term relationship from here that lasted four years and wasn’t particularly looking for one but ticked lots of new sexual experiences off and it was great while it lasted "
Here's to more socials and longer chats. 😉 |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Joined as a single in 2015.
Have sampled most of what fab and the swinging experience has to offer.
Found my ideal match here nearly a year ago. She'd been on my hotlist for years, admired from a distance
S |
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10 years here.. found it getting harder to find genuine people as the years go by |
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3 years. It's rapidly going downhill. More and more time wasters and fantisists. |
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Two years nearly getting a bit quiet lately |
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"3 years. It's rapidly going downhill. More and more time wasters and fantisists."
Not all of us. |
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By *ucka39Man 40 weeks ago
Newcastle |
10 year ISH
Made some great memories and friends |
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"3 years. It's rapidly going downhill. More and more time wasters and fantisists.
Not all of us."
I know. Still some amazing people here, which is why I stay. |
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By *rad670Man 40 weeks ago
South Lakes |
Over 4 years now, after a few chats and meets my perspective changed on what I was looking for and I found I preferred meeting couples, I also discovered sides to me I didn't know existed and to this day realise you have to be patient and thick skinned to reap the occasional benefits of nice genuine serious members. |
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By *olgateMan 40 weeks ago
on the road to nowhere in particular |
I come and go, haven’t been here much recently, I still chat to a few people from here, if anyone remembers me, they can can say hi |
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Maybe 9 years total, many times deleted and came back ha |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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I first ventured on here in the latter part of 2018 although I have left and returned a couple of times since then x |
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"3 years. It's rapidly going downhill. More and more time wasters and fantisists.
Not all of us.
I know. Still some amazing people here, which is why I stay."
Good, me too |
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15 years with the same profile. Had some really good times, some barron times but enjoy the fun, especially the forums.
Currently with a partner for 3 years who knows I'm here and had her own profile. She still reads the forums and likes the fun. She's not keen of the site or the attention her solo or our couples profile recieved so we closed them and just kept mine going. She loves swingers clubs and naturist lifestyle but not the "sexually entitled" opinions of many here who spoil it for the rest of us. |
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By *elloWoman 40 weeks ago
alpha centauri |
I joined 26th Nov 2009  |
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By *eys00Man 40 weeks ago
have boots will travel |
"I joined 26th Nov 2009 "
Wow!! Thank you for your service 🫡😍 |
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Around 15 years ago..aww the good old days |
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Since April. Using it mainly to see what’s on at clubs and keeping in with people we meet. |
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As a couple, just a month, various singles and couples profiles for the last eight yrs.
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By *sWyldWoman 40 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
13 years on and off.
I've found what I was looking for a few times.
I stay for the possibilities. |
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We tried Fab almost 20years ago as it was being used to organise a party we had been invited to. We tried yo access that account just over three year ago but had no idea of password so created this account.
Had a few meets and met dome nice people. We are not sure how long we will stay on here for but whilst it remains fun, we will be here |
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By *ace400Man 40 weeks ago
near knock |
I joined 4 months ago so fairly new. Enjoying the time here and just going with the flow.
Best way I have found to meet or even chat is from socials. |
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"How long have you been on fab for?
Are you a newbie or been here for quite a while?
Have you found what you were looking for or are you not searching for anything intimate and maybe just here for socials and making new friends?
Has anything changed since you joined fab,maybe you wanted certain things but now you’re looking for something different?
When I first joined fab I wasn’t really looking for anything just enjoyed the banter on the forums and going on cam for a bit of fun but things change,people change and I found my happiness with someone special on fab and we enjoy exploring new things together which is what this site is all about right?Making connections and exploring your sexual desires?!"
Well over 10 years
I’ve had so many accounts I get bored leave forget my password after to start again
But I must enjoy it really or I wouldn’t keep coming back |
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Been on and off here for 10+ years |
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Had dabbled a few years back when single, then was in a 2 year relationship in my "vanilla" world.
When that ceased, rejoined as there were lots of things I wanted to tick off my FuckIt List before I become a dribbling crippled vegetable that has no scooby what day of the week it is.
Happily single, high sex drive, great confidence builder plus have explored & discovered things that I would never had contemplated or encountered in vanilla life. Have pushed boundaries & experienced adventurous activities that I have developed a liking for.
Plus it's great to meet open minded, fun individuals that are non judgmental & know how to enjoy themselves & no fucks given!(literary sense obviously).
I mean I want a variety of fucks given to me please, that's why I'm here & I'm kinda greedy like that! |
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By *olgateMan 28 weeks ago
on the road to nowhere in particular |
"Had dabbled a few years back when single, then was in a 2 year relationship in my "vanilla" world.
When that ceased, rejoined as there were lots of things I wanted to tick off my FuckIt List before I become a dribbling crippled vegetable that has no scooby what day of the week it is.
Happily single, high sex drive, great confidence builder plus have explored & discovered things that I would never had contemplated or encountered in vanilla life. Have pushed boundaries & experienced adventurous activities that I have developed a liking for.
Plus it's great to meet open minded, fun individuals that are non judgmental & know how to enjoy themselves & no fucks given!(literary sense obviously).
I mean I want a variety of fucks given to me please, that's why I'm here & I'm kinda greedy like that!"
This |
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12 years give or take a few months.
Various profiles in the old days as I encountered the ‘single man frustration’. Then I chilled out 🤣 |
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Coming up 8yrs
8years & only 3.5 Meets ☹️ |
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About 14 years. On and off. I should of just stuck with my original profile. That had all the veris. |
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with this profile and my couples profile combined 10 years |
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Before my pubes went grey and my labia shrank. |
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By *afkaMan 28 weeks ago
Nottingham |
"Coming up 8yrs
8years & only 3.5 Meets ☹️"
How did you get the .5 ?? |
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By *olgateMan 28 weeks ago
on the road to nowhere in particular |
"Coming up 8yrs
8years & only 3.5 Meets ☹️
How did you get the .5 ?? "
Maybe it didn’t go well |
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"Coming up 8yrs
8years & only 3.5 Meets ☹️
How did you get the .5 ??
Maybe it didn’t go well "
Yep. Long story |
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5 months on fab, only 6 months from deciding to share ourselves.
Came on board with some wishes, but generally an open mind. If anything, fab has narrowed down our field of vision. Some things we've been offered we never imagined would exist. We know much more of what we don't want now.
But, we've had some great experiences. Some that we never could have imagined would ever happen. There's been just one bad experience, but that's taught us a lot about ourselves & each other.
Overall, it's been & hopefully continues to he a very positive time in our lives. |
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2014 I first joined. On this profile 6 years. |
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8 years.
And it’s been quite the journey!
I came here kind of looking for validation- and I got that in buckets haha. I met great people, started going to socials, I was having a ball!
I have met incredible people and have had amazing times.
So yes, I have definitely got what I wanted from the website. This summer saw me coming back from a bad injury and I was a bit of a girl in a sweetshop again, but come this grey autumn it is probably safe to say that I am calming down now . Things are picking up with my FWB of 6 years, who I met on here, yes, so quite happy to spend my free time exploring with him. Packing my glass dildos and my Louboutins as I type… 🎀
I also met my best friend ever on here 2 years ago and we have shared so many Fab (and vanilla!) adventures together… to keep us going when we’re really old and wrinkly and we look back on our Fab times. |
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By *olgateMan 28 weeks ago
on the road to nowhere in particular |
"Coming up 8yrs
8years & only 3.5 Meets ☹️
How did you get the .5 ??
Maybe it didn’t go well
Yep. Long story "
There is always a story, some good and some bad |
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I’m straight and been on a couple weeks, amount of messages I’m getting from guys makes me wish I was gay! 🤣 Starting to think I should explore my bi side 🙊 |
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"I’m straight and been on a couple weeks, amount of messages I’m getting from guys makes me wish I was gay! 🤣 Starting to think I should explore my bi side 🙊 "
You can block them if you wish |
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"I’m straight and been on a couple weeks, amount of messages I’m getting from guys makes me wish I was gay! 🤣 Starting to think I should explore my bi side 🙊
You can block them if you wish "
Let’s not be too hasty 😜 |
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By *hagTonightMan 28 weeks ago
From the land of haribos. |
I have been here 15 years, no, so far. I havent found what I am looking for, the forum is comedy gold |
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"I have been here 15 years, no, so far. I havent found what I am looking for, the forum is comedy gold "
Yeah forums are a nonstop source of amusement observing people’s behaviours |
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10 but not continuous, some long breaks |
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2 and a half years now, I take decent breaks and come back to it
I think I joined to explore my sexuality and now I'm embracing my sluttyness |
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First joined in early 2016. Left after about 6 weeks following a very dangerous and disturbing first meet.
Came back and left a couple of times since so this is profile number 4 and the one that has lasted the longest which is just over 6 years now.
It's also the only one of the 4 that I've used to post on the forums. |
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"First joined in early 2016. Left after about 6 weeks following a very dangerous and disturbing first meet.
Came back and left a couple of times since so this is profile number 4 and the one that has lasted the longest which is just over 6 years now.
It's also the only one of the 4 that I've used to post on the forums. "
Are you prepared to elaborate on dangerous & disturbing? Not in a pervy way, just so we know a little more of what to look out for & avoid. Pm if you'd prefer. |
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By *olgateMan 28 weeks ago
on the road to nowhere in particular |
Here today gone tomorrow, can’t remember how long ago now? |
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Been on here ever since I first heard about it! |
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"First joined in early 2016. Left after about 6 weeks following a very dangerous and disturbing first meet.
Came back and left a couple of times since so this is profile number 4 and the one that has lasted the longest which is just over 6 years now.
It's also the only one of the 4 that I've used to post on the forums.
Are you prepared to elaborate on dangerous & disturbing? Not in a pervy way, just so we know a little more of what to look out for & avoid. Pm if you'd prefer."
I've told the story a few times here.
I met a woman twice socially and we agreed to meet for a third time in an hotel.
Just after getting undressed she punched me in the face without warning and when I said wtf and started to get dressed again she told me it was her kink to have me retaliate.
I told her she had picked the wrong guy and she apologised and begged me to stay. She said she hadn't mentioned it before because she was afraid I wouldn't turn up.
I agreed to stay but an hour later as I walked out of the bathroom she was standing to one side of the door and drove her knee into my balls.
I had paid for the room but I got dressed and left at that stage and left fab a couple of days later thinking everyone here was a crazy as her.
If the roles had been reversed I dread to thing what could have happened. As it was she was half my size so I didn't feel threatened but it changed the way I chat to people ever since and made me more wary and fussy about who I meet. |
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6 years ish, we've had a couple of joint profiles plus our solos. Back again after a break |
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My photo verification is dated 2022 but my previous profile was probably active 6 years before that at least |
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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago
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Are you a newbie or been here for quite a while?
Have you found what you were looking for or are you not searching for anything intimate and maybe just here for socials and making new friends?
Has anything changed since you joined fab,maybe you wanted certain things but now you’re looking for something different?
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Been on and off here 16 years, part of the furniture a bit.
I like coming on for the chat rooms, seeing any club events etc... oh and finding a fuck now and then on the occasion where i have the time to get a fuck haha. Made a lot of friends over the years and had a lot of good times on here
Like with all things in life... things change, the site hasnt so much but the people on it have. Just the way of the world. I still enjoy myself on here. If there ever comes a time its causing far too much hassle i may leave or go quiet for a few months. Time will tell. |
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By *orba69Man 28 weeks ago
driffield |
I’ve been on & off for years around 6 or 7 I guess , had a few good meets & 1 scary 1 !! … I’ll b moving on2 the Yorkshire Wolds in the new year, so I could only b perving online!! |
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About 10 months. And no I haven't gotten anywhere. But then I've not engaged all that much, so that was my choice. |
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8 years on and off …. I’m about to get back on again lol |
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Since 1807.
Things have changed a lot over the years, wot.
Indeed, the advent of computers and indeed the Internet have allowed me to send out a plethora of ‘FAF?’ messages that previously would take me literally hours to compose by handwritten note to all the wanton fillies. |
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Been on and off here for about 10 years. This current profile I’ve been much more active. Going to socials and clubs, have made lots of friends that I care about immensely so can’t see myself leaving anytime soon.
I joined to get some validation I still had it after a failed relationship. Now, I’m happy being single and having a fwb or three to see occasionally 😉 |
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Been here a while, still a newbie to meets |
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Her - 10 years on and off
Him - 2 years |
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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago
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This account probably 9-10 years now but did come away for a few years. Been back now around 18 months roughly |
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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago
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I must have been here on and off for about 15 years now. Mostly just chatting with people but always open minded. I can’t even remember what I was looking for now |
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By *vmarisaTV/TS 28 weeks ago
Motherwell |
15 years and fab has been exactly what I thought it would be,once you get past the idiots, fantasists ,time wasters and wankers(literally) a very adult playground with exotica Mx 👿 |
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