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By *inx000 OP Couple 3 days ago
Manchester |
How long have you been on fab for?
Are you a newbie or been here for quite a while?
Have you found what you were looking for or are you not searching for anything intimate and maybe just here for socials and making new friends?
Has anything changed since you joined fab,maybe you wanted certain things but now you’re looking for something different?
When I first joined fab I wasn’t really looking for anything just enjoyed the banter on the forums and going on cam for a bit of fun but things change,people change and I found my happiness with someone special on fab and we enjoy exploring new things together which is what this site is all about right?Making connections and exploring your sexual desires?! |
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By *assy69Man 3 days ago
sussex and Wales |
"How long have you been on fab for?
Are you a newbie or been here for quite a while?
Have you found what you were looking for or are you not searching for anything intimate and maybe just here for socials and making new friends?
Has anything changed since you joined fab,maybe you wanted certain things but now you’re looking for something different?
When I first joined fab I wasn’t really looking for anything just enjoyed the banter on the forums and going on cam for a bit of fun but things change,people change and I found my happiness with someone special on fab and we enjoy exploring new things together which is what this site is all about right?Making connections and exploring your sexual desires?!"
Was about 2006 ish when I first joined, fab had much more of a community feel for me at that time, like all things in life, over time it had changed and evolved, sometimes for the better, sometimes not |
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On and off, 7 years. This is my longest continuous single membership profile at about 5 years.
4 Couples profiles have started and been fun and then our couple time has come to an end.
Have i found what i was looking for?
I thought i had, with maybe 1 or 2 of the ladies i started couples accounts with but as they have fallen by the wayside, perhaps not
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Joined in 2016 just looking for experiences.
This is my 4th profile in that time and it's about 6 years old but I haven't been meeting for 5 years for personal reasons.
I didn't start using the forums until I set up this profile. |
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About 7 years I think. I used to try and meet people through here. I'd be potentially open to it if I stumbled upon someone now but I'm not actively looking for it. I mostly use this site now to pass boredom on the forums and sometimes keep up with people I know from clubs and group socials. |
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I've been on this profile for 4 years. I had joined before on another profile just to nosey but didn't become active and start meeting people til I started this account.
When I joined I simply wanted to find one fwb who was happy to have sex without the baggage of a relationship or expectations of dating. That quickly changed and I've been on quite a journey of sexual exploration over the last 3 or so years.
I am still here because I find it the best way to meet others on my wavelength and who I am sexually compatible with. I still have lots of sexual desires I want to experience. I love variety and sex with different people gives me different things. I'm greedy and want it all  |
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I first joined fab in 2011 after my partner at the time showed me his account. I was on here on a woman's account but we met people together, I carried on with the account after we split up after 10 years together. I deleted that account last year after some hassle from someone and started this one (decided it was time for a new begining). I have had a couples account on here before but deleted that after about 6 or 7 months as the relationship didn't work out (met him on here couple of years ago, was with him for 9 Months)
Since I joined what I wanted has changed many times, I've gone through different phases of what I wanted from 1 on 1 to threesomes, foursomes, fwb relationship, full relationship ect. At this moment I'm time I don't actually know what I want from this, I just know that I'm enjoying what I'm doing and making great friends along the way. If a relationship comes along I'd be open to it, but if it didn't I'm also ok with that, I'm having too much fun to overthink it |
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Been on here via this profile for just over 5 and a half years with no breaks, December will be my 6 fab anniversary.
Didn’t come on here “looking” for anything in particular at the start but ended up meeting my lovely girlfriend who ill been with for 3 years in October. We’re happier and stronger than ever and and luckily for me we were, and still are on the same page when it came down to the type of dynamic we wanted from a swinging relationship. Both of us happy to be romantically/emotionally closed, but sexually open to, and with others. |
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I think we’ve been on here for about 2-3 years now. We came here looking for hot guys and have found several and it’s been a lot of fun so far xx 😄
We’ve also used the site to find out about different clubs and events and have made plenty of friends that way so all in all a good experience for us here xx |
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11 years give or take as I take breaks every now and then....usually on other site more these days.
Never really joined with an idea what I wanted, found some gems along the way and some not so gems.
All in all it's been an alright journey but one I can take or leave x |
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I think 7 or 8 years…
I love it here. Love the adoration and the adulation. Saccharine if you like but still sweetens things haha 
And yes, I have found my exhilarating experiences I was seeking. Many of them in fact. And just when Fab falls into a lull and I start yawning 🥱… BANG! It hits again so strong… love it. Absolutely love it. 😍 |
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For us it's been about six years.
We have always found it difficult to meet couples. We made a great connection early on but then they broke up. We have since met a couple and we see them every now and again.
It frustrates us greatly that so few couples think including a picture of the man in their gallery is relevant. It baffles us.
We have literally never gone out looking for single women but have never had any shortage of interest from women who contact us. We have only had threesomes with one of them though. A few others have become friends.
This scene is something we dabble in only occasionally so I think that makes things harder for us. |
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Originally stumbled across fabs when I was 27,so 23 years ago ! Jesus I feel old…… so very early days of the site, it was dial up !! For those old enough who remember that 😂 I’ve popped on and of ever since, x |
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I originally joined around 2008 and have been on and off with a few breaks. Came back on a couple of months ago after a 9 year absence. Surprising to see many whom I met with and chatted to all those years ago. Good to be back in touch.
When I originally joined, it was all about the sex.
Now I find it’s more about connections and chemistry. I’m not into ONS and prefer longterm friends (with benefits of course!)
It has changed on here since my earlier days. The ratio of men to women now is much higher; lots more fake profiles and time-wasters; manners and general politeness years ago was much higher.
I think returning now and being in the 50+ age bracket I have fewer messages and photo likes!
Other than that, it’s still a fun place to be  |
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"How long have you been on fab for?"
About 4½ years.
"Have you found what you were looking for...?"
Yes, I have. The socials have been enjoyable, the forums keep me suitably engaged. The intimacy part — for which I'm ostensibly here for — has been fulfilling, however the vast distances sometimes impedes the frequency. I would prefer more.
"Has anything changed since you joined fab,maybe you wanted certain things but now you’re looking for something different?"
I'm not a swinger. I joined as a proponent for all things vanilla. I'm now 'enhanced vanilla'.
Fab addresses my needs in every way but I'm looking for one or two more paramours. |
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Been a fabster for about twenty years firstly as a married couple , then after divorce as a swinging FWB/ girlfriend & as a single profile. I have seen many changes as the atmosphere has changed from convivial to adversarial of elite cliques than social niceties. Much of the time chatting to old friends & acquaintances & occasionally a social. Been to many meets over the years though only a few stand out for special memories |
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Used to be on here for years under an old name (JagerMorgan), took a break and decided to come back under my current profile.
Fab has certainly changed a fair bit since back then, now it’s got a lot more single guys, questionable posts and some rather bizarre DM’s flung my way.
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I've been here 5 months or so on this profile, had a couple of other profiles that only lasted a few weeks, I quickly got bored and deleted them.
Only found the forums on this account about 3 months ago or so and have enjoyed them so far.... most of you are nice |
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"I've been here 5 months or so on this profile, had a couple of other profiles that only lasted a few weeks, I quickly got bored and deleted them.
Only found the forums on this account about 3 months ago or so and have enjoyed them so far.... most of you are nice "
I’m finding it nice to make forum friends 🫶🏻 |
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On my couple profile with B, coming up to 3 years. On this solo profile, just over a year. And on my couple profile with S, a month or so, although we’ve been together much longer than that.
I didn’t really know what I was looking for but I love what I have found. Confidence, a wide range of incredible experiences, some very good friends and most unexpectedly, love. |
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"I've been here 5 months or so on this profile, had a couple of other profiles that only lasted a few weeks, I quickly got bored and deleted them.
Only found the forums on this account about 3 months ago or so and have enjoyed them so far.... most of you are nice
I’m finding it nice to make forum friends 🫶🏻"
Absolutely!.... hope some of you feel the same about me |
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"I've been here 5 months or so on this profile, had a couple of other profiles that only lasted a few weeks, I quickly got bored and deleted them.
Only found the forums on this account about 3 months ago or so and have enjoyed them so far.... most of you are nice "
Yes, You are lovely too |
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4 years I think
In a few different guises.
I found what I was initially searching for - I soon bored of that and have since found quite a few things that I wasn’t searching for. It’s been a steep learning curve at times.
I don’t think I’ll find what I really want. But in the meantime I enjoy the forums.
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"I've been here 5 months or so on this profile, had a couple of other profiles that only lasted a few weeks, I quickly got bored and deleted them.
Only found the forums on this account about 3 months ago or so and have enjoyed them so far.... most of you are nice
Yes, You are lovely too "
Thank you, so are you |
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"How long have you been on fab for?
Are you a newbie or been here for quite a while"
On and off here since maybe 2010. I’ve been here as a single, as a MF couple, as a group, paired up with a straight team mate as MM, but mainly here as a single
"Have you found what you were looking for or are you not searching for anything intimate and maybe just here for socials and making new friends?"
I’ve found a regular group and regular MF here several times, which is my reason for being here.
People come and go which make it difficult to keep a long term regular thing going
"Has anything changed since you joined fab,maybe you wanted certain things but now you’re looking for something different?"
The site isn’t as active with parties and meets like when I first joined. People are more cautious and selective when it comes to single males. In my opinion, there’s a lot of new people with different attitudes and opinions of what fab is all about who have joined over the years and see fab and an Amazon like service where you message people and will receive sex. That’s been a driver for the shift for the reluctance of some in entertaining single guys. In addition to the ratio of single guys increasing
As I’ve explored and tried new things over the years, my needs and wants have changed.
I’ve had some truly amazing experiences, things I thought I would never try, let alone enjoy.
Also some lessons learned from meeting and trusting the wrong people.
Both of which have shaped what I’m now looking for, what I’m avoiding, my relationship with fab and how I approach fab |
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6 months. Have I found what I was looking for when I joined, yes and no. I didn't join expecting to meet someone instantly, expectations were not high in that sense and as yet, have not met anyone. I do have fun looking through the forums though and I'm getting bolder in posting more. I've also enjoyed the chat rooms where I've had some really good conversations. Overall my experience has been a positive one. |
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Been on for about 2 years now but had been on before
I just wish Fab was around when we first started over about 45 years ago and we were both young - I'm sure we would have met many, many more men. When we statered out it was paying a fiver to Gumtree peronal adds where you got an envolope sent back with blokes contact details etc - it was a long-winded process
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By *ookie46Woman 3 days ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
Been here eight years
Not looking to make any new connections here for socials and the friends I already have
Had one long term relationship from here that lasted four years and wasn’t particularly looking for one but ticked lots of new sexual experiences off and it was great while it lasted |
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Ive been here 19 years. Fab has always been good to me, met lots of lovely people. Never had a no show or cancellation and very little abuse.
Now I've given up swinging and just stay for the forumd |
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Been on about 17 year, after already having been swinging for a few years. I came to expand my choices and to have more potential partners. I've met a lot of people and still want more friends and sex.
It's changed, including from the pandemic which affected all of u. I'm a fair bit better at using it which helps. |
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"Over 10 years but many periods of not logging in at all for a fair few years in-between.
Now I am on the prowl for a real live Dom who lives local. So step forward if ya do!   "
But the wannabe Doms, you just stay where ya are... so tired of the faux Doms.  |
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Originally joined as a couple a few years ago having been told about it by a couple we were playing with at a club. We mainly used it to stay in touch with people we had met in person at clubs rather than to find new people.
On this profile, it’s about 6 months. I decided to come back when I felt ready to start meet other people again. I wanted to make friends in the lifestyle so came and joined the forums. I’ve made some good friends where we have just clicked even though we’ve not always met in person. |
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A rather long time to have seen far too many people come and go. Have attend the Secret Tea Parties, the original MLS and subsequent follow on ones.
Sadly have lost a few to the big FAB club in the sky. 😪
But still here have the craic, drifting in and out at times. |
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"Been here eight years
Not looking to make any new connections here for socials and the friends I already have
Had one long term relationship from here that lasted four years and wasn’t particularly looking for one but ticked lots of new sexual experiences off and it was great while it lasted "
Here's to more socials and longer chats. 😉 |
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Joined as a single in 2015.
Have sampled most of what fab and the swinging experience has to offer.
Found my ideal match here nearly a year ago. She'd been on my hotlist for years, admired from a distance
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By *rad670Man 3 days ago
South Lakes |
Over 4 years now, after a few chats and meets my perspective changed on what I was looking for and I found I preferred meeting couples, I also discovered sides to me I didn't know existed and to this day realise you have to be patient and thick skinned to reap the occasional benefits of nice genuine serious members. |
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15 years with the same profile. Had some really good times, some barron times but enjoy the fun, especially the forums.
Currently with a partner for 3 years who knows I'm here and had her own profile. She still reads the forums and likes the fun. She's not keen of the site or the attention her solo or our couples profile recieved so we closed them and just kept mine going. She loves swingers clubs and naturist lifestyle but not the "sexually entitled" opinions of many here who spoil it for the rest of us. |
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We tried Fab almost 20years ago as it was being used to organise a party we had been invited to. We tried yo access that account just over three year ago but had no idea of password so created this account.
Had a few meets and met dome nice people. We are not sure how long we will stay on here for but whilst it remains fun, we will be here |
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"How long have you been on fab for?
Are you a newbie or been here for quite a while?
Have you found what you were looking for or are you not searching for anything intimate and maybe just here for socials and making new friends?
Has anything changed since you joined fab,maybe you wanted certain things but now you’re looking for something different?
When I first joined fab I wasn’t really looking for anything just enjoyed the banter on the forums and going on cam for a bit of fun but things change,people change and I found my happiness with someone special on fab and we enjoy exploring new things together which is what this site is all about right?Making connections and exploring your sexual desires?!"
Well over 10 years
I’ve had so many accounts I get bored leave forget my password after to start again
But I must enjoy it really or I wouldn’t keep coming back |
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Had dabbled a few years back when single, then was in a 2 year relationship in my "vanilla" world.
When that ceased, rejoined as there were lots of things I wanted to tick off my FuckIt List before I become a dribbling crippled vegetable that has no scooby what day of the week it is.
Happily single, high sex drive, great confidence builder plus have explored & discovered things that I would never had contemplated or encountered in vanilla life. Have pushed boundaries & experienced adventurous activities that I have developed a liking for.
Plus it's great to meet open minded, fun individuals that are non judgmental & know how to enjoy themselves & no fucks given!(literary sense obviously).
I mean I want a variety of fucks given to me please, that's why I'm here & I'm kinda greedy like that! |
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) but things didn't work out and returned around 18 months ago after a 5 year gap
