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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 days ago
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Genuine question, does it actually matter?
I got rejected because I wasn't above 8 inches. I have a 6.5 inch with lots of girth personally so does it really make that much of a difference? |
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"Genuine question, does it actually matter?
I got rejected because I wasn't above 8 inches. I have a 6.5 inch with lots of girth personally so does it really make that much of a difference? "
Maybe it does to some women, who are wide as the Clyde.
Judt stick it up her botty. Everything feels HUGE up there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 days ago
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"Everyone likes what they like, and is entitled to do so 😊"
Don't get me wrong not telling people they can't like what they like, but people who try and humiliate you based on that is what grinds my gears. |
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"...I got rejected because I wasn't above 8 inches."
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At what point did you get rejected? During the initial chat? Or in the bedroom? Or did someone peruse your profile and assume that you didn't fit their criteria? |
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OP, if you press "Reply + Quote" people will be able to see who you are replying to 
Also, it matters to some people and not others. Your experience is annoying and, in my opinion, something she should have enquired about before things got that far. Don't take it personally, concentrate your energy elsewhere and I'm sure you will be balls deep again before long! |
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"Genuine question, does it actually matter?
I got rejected because I wasn't above 8 inches. I have a 6.5 inch with lots of girth personally so does it really make that much of a difference? "
To some it will to others it won’t. Some want bigger some want smaller. |
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If size were that important to her, she should have indicated that clearly before the meet - either in her profile or during your conversations. Why would she 'waste' her time without having checked first?
With the greatest respect OP either you missed that, or it feels to me as though she just didn't want to have sex with you - for whatever reason, and that was an easy 'out' for her. |
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Not anther size debate … she may have just used it as excuse ie didn’t like scene .. panicked . Second thoughts and used the old size kicker as excuse …. I know there are size queens but also many women like any size as long as connection is right… you may not have connected … but move on.. you can’t change the size of your member .. |
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By *vaRoseWoman 5 days ago
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It matters to some. At 6.5 you’re still above the average in the U.K. but there will be people for whome you’re too big and others too small. If it’s such an important factor for them then I’d say it’s down to them not being clear on their wants and needs during initial chats. |
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By *vaRoseWoman 5 days ago
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With the greatest respect OP either you missed that, or it feels to me as though she just didn't want to have sex with you - for whatever reason, and that was an easy 'out' for her."
This seems most likely. It’s a rather cruel way to get an “easy out” though. |
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Everyone likes what they like I guess. I'm 7 inches and not big enough for some, but it is fine. It is what it is.
Though sometimes I question whether or not porn has given people an unhealthy expectations of penis size. Not everyone is hung like a horse. Most guys aren't. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 days ago
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With the greatest respect OP either you missed that, or it feels to me as though she just didn't want to have sex with you - for whatever reason, and that was an easy 'out' for her.
This seems most likely. It’s a rather cruel way to get an “easy out” though. "
That's what I'm beginning to think, I'd rather honesty more than anything, if she wasn't feeling it ect I would of been totally understanding. |
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Them saying no to my cock size, is no different to me saying no to someone because they dont mentally stimulate me. Everyone has their preference, so dont take it as humiliation or anything. You've not been rejected, youve been informed that your not what a person's looking for.
I nearly got my cock blown off. Ive had surgery to it and its about 6inchs length and average girth, that if on the day it decides it wants to work. I get people saying all the time not for them, im not humiliated when they say no, I just carry on with the tool I've got, because someone will enjoy it.
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"Genuine question, does it actually matter?
I got rejected because I wasn't above 8 inches. I have a 6.5 inch with lots of girth personally so does it really make that much of a difference?
Maybe it does to some women, who are wide as the Clyde.
Judt stick it up her botty. Everything feels HUGE up there "
The tone of this response is quite unnecessary.
It's either coming from an insecure or uninformed place. Either way it's not pretty. |
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"It matters to some. At 6.5 you’re still above the average in the U.K. but there will be people for whom you’re too big and others too small. If it’s such an important factor for them then I’d say it’s down to them not being clear on their wants and needs during initial chats."
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I completely agree with this.
I chat for weeks or months and, in passing, invariably inject with some humour that if she's looking for well endowed then it's not happening with me. That usually mitigates any misconceptions when it comes to our first date.
Fortunately it's never been an issue. |
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It does matter to quite a few on here, though not necessarily the way you think. There are some people, not just women, who want as big as possible, they may see it as a challenge or they just like the very full feeling. Then there are others who prefer average or so as then there is no need to be careful with positions etc. |
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"OP, if you press "Reply + Quote" people will be able to see who you are replying to
Also, it matters to some people and not others. Your experience is annoying and, in my opinion, something she should have enquired about before things got that far. Don't take it personally, concentrate your energy elsewhere and I'm sure you will be balls deep again before long!"
Same with titts .... yours are wonderful |
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Same here at 7” and never been turned down for size, like others have said you are above average anyway.
Don’t take it personally because to others you are huge
Google sizes around the world and that will answer your question for sure, some men in Asia is only 3.5” average |
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Your comment about humiliating you, could mean that she behaved inappropriately or you just interpreted it as humiliation.
I think most people who have very exacting needs will investigate and filter up front rather than in the moment. It thus sounds like a get out option being used |
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There are lots of people oh here who don’t want WE and not only the male of a couple feeling a little smaller, but not all women want one. Although there are many men who want to see their wife with one and many women who want one. So swings and roundabouts. |
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"Genuine question, does it actually matter?
I got rejected because I wasn't above 8 inches. I have a 6.5 inch with lots of girth personally so does it really make that much of a difference? "
Fir some if that’s a preference yes much like colour / height / age / sexuality etc |
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Definately fab distorts normal averages, as rightly plenty of people are looking for more out of the ordinary experiences, hence size queens, only want 6 packs, bulls etc.
Definately fab avg cock size is well above the uk avg of 5.19" x 4.5".
But still plenty arent bothered about size on here too, just about finding the right match. |
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