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They are so insulting a lot of the time too.
I had a guy who messaged me and said his son had been at a basketball tournament at The UEA, which is a university near me.
He said he was charging his car locally and was I free?
The cheek. Yes I'll drop everything, even my knickers, for a guy I've never met or spoken to before and will never see again. Sure yes I'll sprint there now!
Where in profile does it say I'll be remotely interested in that? Some men are unbelievable.
Ffs!
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"I send them the postcode for the local mental health offices. (I only know the address because I'm there frequently myself)
Cause they need support if they think that's gonna work. "
Love that! I may adopt something similar... Maybe the local sexual health clinic 🤔 mwah ha ha |
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"Nope! Once a guy sent me a faf message and then said we could have a social in his van. Strangely, I said no.
Would you have said yes to a car? Just so we know? "
No. I always have socials in a public place, just in case. |
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"Nope! Once a guy sent me a faf message and then said we could have a social in his van. Strangely, I said no.
Would you have said yes to a car? Just so we know?
No. I always have socials in a public place, just in case. "
The M60 is public. |
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Never, in fact it makes me dryer than the Sahara those messages. The exception is if I’ve already had sex with them and had a good time with them I may be tempted if I was able to. Strangers definitely not . |
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"I send them the postcode for the local mental health offices. (I only know the address because I'm there frequently myself)
Cause they need support if they think that's gonna work. "
That's where I know you from x |
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"Nope! Once a guy sent me a faf message and then said we could have a social in his van. Strangely, I said no.
Would you have said yes to a car? Just so we know?
No. I always have socials in a public place, just in case.
The M60 is public. "
But it's a motorway so not safe as a pedestrian. Not meeting anyway so problem solved! |
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"I send them the postcode for the local mental health offices. (I only know the address because I'm there frequently myself)
Cause they need support if they think that's gonna work. "
Haha what an amazing idea!! |
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"Nope! Once a guy sent me a faf message and then said we could have a social in his van. Strangely, I said no.
Would you have said yes to a car? Just so we know?
No. I always have socials in a public place, just in case.
The M60 is public.
But it's a motorway so not safe as a pedestrian. Not meeting anyway so problem solved!"
I was just messing, I wasn’t being serious. 🙏 |
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"Just curious has any woman or couple ever received a “ you fuck now” message and gone “yes that’s exactly the amount of effort I’m looking for, let’s meet now”"
Get them quite often and never meet them.
The other favourite is if we have a meet up and someone we’ve never spoken to just asks for our address. |
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I’d love to think that there’s a woman out there with the same mentality of me
If I was a woman with someone offer that I would say yes to them, build up a longish chat going with them so they think it’s definitely going to happen and arrange a meet up point (ideally in sight of a coffee shop) have a brew and see how long they wait there for before realising |
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We also get these regularly - most of the time we just ignore, however, when i (Mr) am feeling particularly jovial after a few drinks of a weekend - i do sometimes reply - absolutely - come round now (not meaning it of course)... 99% of the time no response....lol |
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"We also get these regularly - most of the time we just ignore, however, when i (Mr) am feeling particularly jovial after a few drinks of a weekend - i do sometimes reply - absolutely - come round now (not meaning it of course)... 99% of the time no response....lol"
Haha we do this, it's great fun winding up the thirstier ones 🤣🤣
Gave a guy the address to the local comedy club once 😬 |
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"We also get these regularly - most of the time we just ignore, however, when i (Mr) am feeling particularly jovial after a few drinks of a weekend - i do sometimes reply - absolutely - come round now (not meaning it of course)... 99% of the time no response....lol
Haha we do this, it's great fun winding up the thirstier ones 🤣🤣
Gave a guy the address to the local comedy club once 😬"
We did that. Gave him the address of Glee in Brum and said to tell his jokes in there 😂 |
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I’ve received three or four, one from a group of single women at a hen party at a lodge, a single woman on a business trip staying nearby and a couple of couples who were in hotels, feeling frisky / let down by a meet.
I’ve maybe sent out a handful of… ‘fancy meeting up if you’re free’ invites; some have resulted in meets.
They’ve all been quite exciting actually.
Never underestimate the power of the horn, a fuckitwhynot attitude and likely facing a boring evening alone; it brings people together 😈🔥
It helps if you don’t look like an axe murderer, have a good profile with nice pictures other than just your cock from 20 different angles and have good verifications |
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"You people that agree to meet and then send a fake address are absolute arseholes 😠 - regardless of the “FAF now?” and otherwise shit messages. Just ignore / block.
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Agree i've never stitched anyone up regardless of what a twat they are. Just block |
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"We had one of those earlier, saying they are parked up the mountain and waiting. Well he's going to be there forever if he thinks we respond to nonsense messages like that.
Mrs"
No SOS to help him then? 😂 |
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"Just curious has any woman or couple ever received a “ you fuck now” message and gone “yes that’s exactly the amount of effort I’m looking for, let’s meet now”"
Oh sh1t, is that how we are supposed to respond??? Think I've been doing this site all wrong  |
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"Just curious has any woman or couple ever received a “ you fuck now” message and gone “yes that’s exactly the amount of effort I’m looking for, let’s meet now”"
Nope! That's not what I'm looking for |
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By *hamboCouple 7 days ago
Gloucestershire |
"We had one of those earlier, saying they are parked up the mountain and waiting. Well he's going to be there forever if he thinks we respond to nonsense messages like that.
Mrs"
Hurry up it’s freezing up here🤣 |
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By *elloWoman 7 days ago
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"Just curious has any woman or couple ever received a “ you fuck now” message and gone “yes that’s exactly the amount of effort I’m looking for, let’s meet now”"
I've never respond to those messages but I'm ashamed to say I have sent a message like this once or twice men do seem a little more accepting to this type of message than ladies are. |
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Occasionally when I’m feeling like I need a laugh I’ll reply to those lovely messages with a ‘Oh yes please, I’d love nothing more!’ Or something along those lines 😁 The crazy thing is - they actually believe me 🙄 I do finish my message with a very polite no though… |
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I get loads of those type of dms OP from total strangers
i.e.........
"Meet Now"
"Fuck Now"
"I'm In Your Area, Meet Me At My Hotel"
"Come Over" (with their full address attached)
& Similar type dms
(Mainly from a certain Country 🤭 & it's not the UK) |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 6 days ago
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I get these with monotonous regularity. Yes, I'm sitting fully dressed, made up and douched, all ready to slide down your pole like a demented crossdressing firefighter!
When I, in exasperation, said something like this to one if these guys the other day (and pointed out that my profile says I'm not meeting), his response was, "don't dress then". 🙄🙄🙄🙄 |
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You'd be surprised how many I get of these from couples. Never once one from a single lady though. It always seems to be late evening or early in the morning, if I were a sceptical man I would say they are off their tits through drink or drugs. Not a chance I'm responding. |
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I've unblocked all men for awhile today in my message filters & I've received at least 8 dms already from total strangers with the thread topic or similar, some are asking can I meet at a Dublin Airport Hotel Hotel.......I just marked the ones I fully opened as unread
Crazy Isn't It! |
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"I've unblocked all men for awhile today in my message filters & I've received at least 8 dms already from total strangers with the thread topic or similar, some are asking can I meet at a Dublin Airport Hotel Hotel.......I just marked the ones I fully opened as unread
Crazy Isn't It!"
Complete weirdos |
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When I lived in London I met a couple of women that sent messages asking if I wanted to hook up asap .
One of them was in same road as me but at a hotel other was just 20 min on tube
Very rare though. Now men I get messages constantly asking for meet now from Portsmouth to Brighton |
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I've had a nearby couple message with something similar. We got chatting and ended up meeting up within the hour. They were a hot couple too!
I much prefer people getting straight to the point with me, I'm not here for endless conversations. |
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"I've unblocked all men for awhile today in my message filters & I've received at least 8 dms already from total strangers with the thread topic or similar, some are asking can I meet at a Dublin Airport Hotel Hotel.......I just marked the ones I fully opened as unread
Crazy Isn't It!
Complete weirdos "
One guy isn't even meet verified, & he actually expected me to go to a Hotel today & meet him, We never ever chatted before....... (stranger danger)
I did reply & said "you're having a laugh yea" but he said he wasn't & that he could meet me @4pm 😲
Sometimes I'm not sure if I'm amused at the sense of entitlement of some Men........
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"I've unblocked all men for awhile today in my message filters & I've received at least 8 dms already from total strangers with the thread topic or similar, some are asking can I meet at a Dublin Airport Hotel Hotel.......I just marked the ones I fully opened as unread
Crazy Isn't It!"
I don't get it. What do they expect you to do? Drop everything you're doing right this instance and a meet a stranger, you've never spoken too nor interacted with? |
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"Nope! Once a guy sent me a faf message and then said we could have a social in his van. Strangely, I said no."
I was offered sweets to get into a van once.
They never asked me again as I wouldn’t share the bag 😅 |
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"Just curious has any woman or couple ever received a “ you fuck now” message and gone “yes that’s exactly the amount of effort I’m looking for, let’s meet now”
I've never respond to those messages but I'm ashamed to say I have sent a message like this once or twice men do seem a little more accepting to this type of message than ladies are. "
But alpha centauri is so far away (even at warp speed) |
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"Just curious has any woman or couple ever received a “ you fuck now” message and gone “yes that’s exactly the amount of effort I’m looking for, let’s meet now”"
Agree a time & place to meet them, tell them you want them to wear fancy dress so you know it's them and send a pic of themselves when they're there   |
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"Nope! Once a guy sent me a faf message and then said we could have a social in his van. Strangely, I said no.
Would you have said yes to a car? Just so we know?
No. I always have socials in a public place, just in case.
The M60 is public.
But it's a motorway so not safe as a pedestrian. Not meeting anyway so problem solved!
I was just messing, I wasn’t being serious. 🙏"
🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭 |
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"Nope! Once a guy sent me a faf message and then said we could have a social in his van. Strangely, I said no.
Would you have said yes to a car? Just so we know?
No. I always have socials in a public place, just in case.
The M60 is public.
But it's a motorway so not safe as a pedestrian. Not meeting anyway so problem solved!
I was just messing, I wasn’t being serious. 🙏
🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭"
sounds sketchy. A disaster waiting to happen |
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If a guy asks that it immediately outs them as having zero appreciation for a really fine, top quality experience.
Because if he did, he'd know the effort a woman goes to for a man she wants to enjoy and be enjoyed by.
End of story.
A grubby grabby fumble in a layby with a 2-pump wonder is nowhere on my to-do list. |
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"If a guy asks that it immediately outs them as having zero appreciation for a really fine, top quality experience.
Because if he did, he'd know the effort a woman goes to for a man she wants to enjoy and be enjoyed by.
End of story.
A grubby grabby fumble in a layby with a 2-pump wonder is nowhere on my to-do list."
I hear that but what you need to take into consideration when a the site we’re on. It’s a site to hook up and fuck if we’re being honest. But I totally get your point |
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"If a guy asks that it immediately outs them as having zero appreciation for a really fine, top quality experience.
Because if he did, he'd know the effort a woman goes to for a man she wants to enjoy and be enjoyed by.
End of story.
A grubby grabby fumble in a layby with a 2-pump wonder is nowhere on my to-do list.
I hear that but what you need to take into consideration when a the site we’re on. It’s a site to hook up and fuck if we’re being honest. But I totally get your point "
I don't accept crappy efforts in anything. Do a thing well or don't bother.
Bad sex is not a goal |
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