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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man 6 days ago

Bristol/Newcastle

A man sitting on his own in a pub, would you go to speak to him if you were with hub/bf and looking for some fun?!

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple 6 days ago

Between Sudbury n Haverhill

No

Mrs

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 6 days ago

Carlisle usually

No.

Generally if someone is alone it's either because they want to be alone, or because nobody else wants to be around them.

I'll stick with the usual do not make eye contact, do not engage rule 💜

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By *morousCouple8Couple 6 days ago

Cumbria

Nope

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By *parkle1974Woman 6 days ago

Leeds

No

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man 6 days ago

Bristol/Newcastle

Interesting!

I'm on my own but not through choice.

I sometimes go to a pub for a chat/pint and nothing sexual etc, just to chat.

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man 6 days ago

Bristol/Newcastle

I'm not at all judgemental, just very interesting that I've had more conversation here than I would have if I was sat on my own in a pub

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman 6 days ago

Niche

That's the job of the bar staff not paying customers.

It's one thing to make polite chitchat waiting on your drink at the bar.

It's another to approach a random man sat alone in a pub.

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man 6 days ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"That's the job of the bar staff not paying customers.

It's one thing to make polite chitchat waiting on your drink at the bar.

It's another to approach a random man sat alone in a pub."

Interesting take on it but I respect your opinion

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man 6 days ago

Bristol/Newcastle

I really am interested in this!

You are interested in males up to 48 but wouldn't engage with them?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 6 days ago

Crumpet Castle

Yes ...... if

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By *ucka39Man 6 days ago

Newcastle

Communication is the key op don't expect it to come to you if you want it

Strike up a conversation at the bar if others are there the small talk stuff

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By *egnMaxCouple 6 days ago

Nottingham

Nope.

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By *hickthighs25Woman 6 days ago

Stockton

Nar.

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By *am_OconnellMan 6 days ago

south east

Man alone? nope - I’m straight.

Woman alone? nope - I’m terrified

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman 6 days ago

Niche


"I really am interested in this!

You are interested in males up to 48 but wouldn't engage with them?"

Is this a question for me?

Slight distinction, I'm not interested in males OVER 48.

That doesn't mean that I'm automatically interested in every male 48 or less.

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By *parkle1974Woman 6 days ago

Leeds


"I really am interested in this!

You are interested in males up to 48 but wouldn't engage with them?"

How would you know the age of some random???

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman 6 days ago

Norwich


"That's the job of the bar staff not paying customers.

It's one thing to make polite chitchat waiting on your drink at the bar.

It's another to approach a random man sat alone in a pub."

I don't actually think it's the bar staffs job either tbf. Be polite yes but nothing more.

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By *aizyWoman 6 days ago

west midlands


"I really am interested in this!

You are interested in males up to 48 but wouldn't engage with them?

How would you know the age of some random???"

You'd have to ask them and if they say 49 you say thats a shame and walk away!

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman 6 days ago

Niche


"That's the job of the bar staff not paying customers.

It's one thing to make polite chitchat waiting on your drink at the bar.

It's another to approach a random man sat alone in a pub.

I don't actually think it's the bar staffs job either tbf. Be polite yes but nothing more. "

I suppose it depends on the pub. I'm thinking of an olde worlde pub where everyone knows your name

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man 6 days ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"I really am interested in this!

You are interested in males up to 48 but wouldn't engage with them?

How would you know the age of some random???

You'd have to ask them and if they say 49 you say thats a shame and walk away! "

Brilliant 👍

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man 6 days ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"That's the job of the bar staff not paying customers.

It's one thing to make polite chitchat waiting on your drink at the bar.

It's another to approach a random man sat alone in a pub.

I don't actually think it's the bar staffs job either tbf. Be polite yes but nothing more.

I suppose it depends on the pub. I'm thinking of an olde worlde pub where everyone knows your name"

What if I looked like George Clooney??

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman 5 days ago

Niche


"That's the job of the bar staff not paying customers.

It's one thing to make polite chitchat waiting on your drink at the bar.

It's another to approach a random man sat alone in a pub.

I don't actually think it's the bar staffs job either tbf. Be polite yes but nothing more.

I suppose it depends on the pub. I'm thinking of an olde worlde pub where everyone knows your name

What if I looked like George Clooney?? "

Have you seen Dahmer?

Crazy comes in pretty packaging too

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man 5 days ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"That's the job of the bar staff not paying customers.

It's one thing to make polite chitchat waiting on your drink at the bar.

It's another to approach a random man sat alone in a pub.

I don't actually think it's the bar staffs job either tbf. Be polite yes but nothing more.

I suppose it depends on the pub. I'm thinking of an olde worlde pub where everyone knows your name

What if I looked like George Clooney??

Have you seen Dahmer?

Crazy comes in pretty packaging too"

Was he pretty?!

Ok I get that but I'm just talking chatting here

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman 5 days ago

Niche

That's what HE said 🔪🔪🔪

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man 5 days ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"That's what HE said 🔪🔪🔪"

You can't be too cautious I guess!!

What if it was a social via this site?

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman 5 days ago

Niche


"That's what HE said 🔪🔪🔪

You can't be too cautious I guess!!

What if it was a social via this site?"

I'd never go to one of those. People on here are unstable

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man 5 days ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"That's what HE said 🔪🔪🔪

You can't be too cautious I guess!!

What if it was a social via this site?

I'd never go to one of those. People on here are unstable"

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman 5 days ago

Niche


"That's what HE said 🔪🔪🔪

You can't be too cautious I guess!!

What if it was a social via this site?

I'd never go to one of those. People on here are unstable

"

^^^^ keep it to the thread OP.

I'm done now.

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man 5 days ago

Bristol/Newcastle

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By *hole Nuts n ChillCouple 5 days ago

B’stoke

OP, we think you forgot to add inspite the guy sitting alone needs to exuberantly demonstrate some personality , finesse, charm and good vibes.

On second thought that’s a give away for some psychos and serial killers 🤨

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man 5 days ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"OP, we think you forgot to add inspite the guy sitting alone needs to exuberantly demonstrate some personality , finesse, charm and good vibes.

On second thought that’s a give away for some psychos and serial killers 🤨"

Jeez a bit extreme

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By *hole Nuts n ChillCouple 5 days ago

B’stoke

Boy - the world needs to be seen from others point of view. If you were sitting alone - looked like George clooney n etc etc - it’s doesn’t matter to nobody.

Your mindset is in taking mode !

Switch it to giving mode and experience the world change around you. Reach out to, buy someone a drink , compliment someone , engage and make somone feel special….forget George clooney , you would like a god to them.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple 5 days ago

Between Sudbury n Haverhill


"A man sitting on his own in a pub, would you go to speak to him if you were with hub/bf and looking for some fun?!"

OP would you approach a single woman sitting alone in a pub?

Mrs

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man 5 days ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"A man sitting on his own in a pub, would you go to speak to him if you were with hub/bf and looking for some fun?!

OP would you approach a single woman sitting alone in a pub?

Mrs"

Maybe 20 years ago but not now & especially after some of the comments here

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By *enelope2UWoman 5 days ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

No that's not my idea of fun in any shape

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By *enelope2UWoman 5 days ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

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By *enelope2UWoman 5 days ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances


"Interesting!

I'm on my own but not through choice.

I sometimes go to a pub for a chat/pint and nothing sexual etc, just to chat.

"

Then stop using the term looking for fun... because on fab that ONLY IMPLIES sexual ... unfortunately the vocabulary of males is limited on this site

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By *hole Nuts n ChillCouple 5 days ago

B’stoke


"

Then stop using the term looking for fun... because on fab that ONLY IMPLIES sexual ... unfortunately the vocabulary of males is limited on this site

"

🤣😂🤣

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By *Clem-Fandango-Woman 5 days ago

Yarm

I'll happily chat to a stranger if they seem like they want a conversation but it wouldn't be sexual. I used to run pubs and hotels so probably just ingrained in me now.

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By *andadbodMan 5 days ago

Liverpool

a lot of people prefer their own company and like to be left alone, i’ve drank alone a couple of times in the past, usually read a paper or just people watch out a window.

You’d only get people coming up to you if they were three sheets to the wind and couldn’t walk in a straight line, and that’s the kind of company I wouldn’t want.

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By *arleycplWoman 5 days ago

Leyburn

Nope

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By *icolerobbieCouple 5 days ago

walsall

What’s so terrible about people communicating, socialising and interacting?

A world without any form of interaction with other humans sounds like an awfully lonely existence to me.

Strangers are just friends you haven’t met!

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By *reeneggsandsamMan 5 days ago

Perpignan and cap

Let have a little context please.

Is he dressed well, clean shaven with some nice cologne in a nice part of town or...

Smells like he's shit himself, odd shoes, hair with some old crisps in it muttering under his breath?

Two totally different sinarios.

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By *eorgesdad69Man 5 days ago

Long Eaton

If I were on my own and he made eye contact I would chat to him and see what he was in too🤪 Hopefully, men🤪

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By *FallenAngel-Woman 5 days ago

Home

No 😳

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman 5 days ago

Gloucester

No

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By *exxyyDy11Man 5 days ago

North West

I think it depends on whether or not he wants conversation. Sometimes people sitting by themselves just want to be left alone.

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By *issmorganWoman 5 days ago

Calderdale innit

No I wouldn't.

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