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By *urvyMilf4BlackMen OP   Woman 48 weeks ago

Norwich

It's never crossed my mind to do it but I'm in an age bracket where I still attract some attention at least.

Does it matter?

Why do people do it?

Do you have a fun story about it?

Has it crossed your mind to do it?

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By *ertcoupleCouple 48 weeks ago

Welwyn Garden City

Mr here, I lie about my age, I say I'm 56 but as you can clearly see I'm 36

To be honest why lie, it's about the person not a number

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

I guess that nearly everyone that lies about their age, is doing it to bypass age restricted filters.

The rest……I’ve no idea.

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By *arlo56Man 48 weeks ago

Newcastle


"Mr here, I lie about my age, I say I'm 56 but as you can clearly see I'm 36

To be honest why lie, it's about the person not a number "

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By *urvyMilf4BlackMen OP   Woman 48 weeks ago

Norwich


"Mr here, I lie about my age, I say I'm 56 but as you can clearly see I'm 36

To be honest why lie, it's about the person not a number "

Tbf I do think age does matter as that's why we can have age filters on our profiles if we wish.

However I don't see why you would lie about it as it will come to light soon enough.

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By *ABflirtyWoman 48 weeks ago

Norfolk

I am told its about restricted filters. why alot do it.

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By *aven RedWoman 48 weeks ago

the land of BOBFOC x

Never have, never will. Pointless to do in my opinion x

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By *entleman.kMan 48 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Im 60 and some people say I look good for my age,and yes my age does come out over a lot of fabbers age restrictions what they are looking for, but who is missing out on that experience. Doesn’t really bother me.

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By *andadbodMan 48 weeks ago

Liverpool

A few guys have lied about their age when they’ve met the mrs, mainly to bypass the age filter.

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By *urvyMilf4BlackMen OP   Woman 48 weeks ago

Norwich


"Never have, never will. Pointless to do in my opinion x"

I agree

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By *urvyMilf4BlackMen OP   Woman 48 weeks ago

Norwich


"A few guys have lied about their age when they’ve met the mrs, mainly to bypass the age filter."

So do you get to the stage of meeting them or when they send pics do you realise then?

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By *estructionDollyWoman 48 weeks ago

Manchester

Mostly to get around age filters, but also plausible deniabity when it comes to identity as well sometimes.

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By *hisIsMe58Man 48 weeks ago

Winchester

I never thought of lying about my age when I joined and I still don't. If I don't meet people's age filters, so be it, it's their choice and I wouldn't feel comfortable deceiving them.

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

I’m actually 45 , shaved 3 years off. But spoke to a guy who age was “34” I said no thank you too young for me. He then told me he was actually 56!!! 22years is a bit wild!!! 😂

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By *wing.Man 48 weeks ago

Thatcham

I've seen a profile thats been 48 for the last 3/4 years, don't know how admin have kept changing it. I dont see the point in lying, if it does end up leading to a meet you'd both just end up disappointed when you turn up and you're early older than you say

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By *andadbodMan 48 weeks ago

Liverpool


"A few guys have lied about their age when they’ve met the mrs, mainly to bypass the age filter.

So do you get to the stage of meeting them or when they send pics do you realise then? "

it tends to come up in conversation, when you look at someone claiming they’re in their 40s and they’re clearly older than the pic they sent, basically it’s a way of getting your foot in the door 🤷‍♂️

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By *eliWoman 48 weeks ago

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To get around filters.

So they can attract people who might believe that wrinkles are a sign of youth.

Because someone once told them they could pass for ten years younger and since then? It must be the truth.

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By *arlo56Man 48 weeks ago

Newcastle

Like I said in another thread about this.

Why lie about your age you will only get caught out if you go on a meet and they realised that you lied about your age.

The meet would finish before it started.

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By *ougarsilkWoman 48 weeks ago

Pleasure heaven

Some say its because they entered the wrong DOB. E.g entered 1987 when it should be 1978 so makes them 38 and not 47 and vv.

Others it's to pass the filters because they like mature women haha

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By *aomilatteCouple 48 weeks ago

Midlands

Funny stories;

When the hosts of an under 40s night became 40, they deleted their profile and became 30

A Woman age 40 on her profile held her 60th Birthday party at a club

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By *imi_RougeWoman 48 weeks ago

Hampshire

I didn't before, I do now.

Mostly to avoid certain people.

And I still get told I don't look that age.

I always tell people I'm meeting my actual age.

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By *viatrixCouple 48 weeks ago

Gatwick

I get much more attention now tham when I was in my 40s and I first joined this site. 🤷‍♀️

I’ve never lied about my age.

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By *allipygousMan 48 weeks ago

Leicester

Ok, confession time. I am in fact 73 years old 😕

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By *ealitybitesMan 48 weeks ago

Belfast

My age has never been an issue or a barrier here so I've never had any reason to lie about it.

I wouldn't anyway because I'm proud of how I look for my age.

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

I figure as a woman I've probably got till I'm 60 before I have to start reassessing my fab practices. Currently the only way I lie about my age, is in the fact I dye my hair, as I do look about 10 years older with only grey hair

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By *urvyMilf4BlackMen OP   Woman 48 weeks ago

Norwich


"Funny stories;

When the hosts of an under 40s night became 40, they deleted their profile and became 30

A Woman age 40 on her profile held her 60th Birthday party at a club "

🤣🤣🤣

That's quite extreme! Tee hee.

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

If you can lie about that you can lie about anything trust gone without trust on here you have nothing

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 48 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Does it matter? The lying does, the age doesn't. A couple of months out for the sake of privacy and not having everyone know your date of birth is fine. A few years out to get around people's filters and try to sleep with people that have specified that they don't want to sleep with your age group is a shitbag move.

Why do people do it? Because they think they can get away with a lie that increases their chances of getting laid.

Do you have a fun story about it? No, liars aren't fun for me.

Has it crossed your mind to do it? No 💜

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 48 weeks ago

Central

A guy did it, to help his struggling great grandfather, who turned up at the meet with me, to get a shag

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By *r TripitakaMan 48 weeks ago

Torquay

Some years ago I met a woman who told me she was 59

I was about 45 I reckon.

No big deal.

She must have been 69. Maybe 70.

But she looked great.

In the room, I undid her bra and had to have cat like reflexes in order to catch her tits before they hit the hotel carpet and did her burn damage.

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By *haft10Man 48 weeks ago

Wandsworth

It’s usually done to appeal to a particular age group.

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By *imiTheSweetMan 48 weeks ago

Halesowen

It makes no sense to do so especially if you're serious about meeting up! I had to wait for my recent Birthday to finally be able to msg someone I was eyeing up whose older than me!

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By *onnie 90Woman 48 weeks ago

Leeds


"It's never crossed my mind to do it but I'm in an age bracket where I still attract some attention at least.

Does it matter?

Why do people do it?

Do you have a fun story about it?

Has it crossed your mind to do it?"

When someone is prepared to lie about their age you have to ask what else are they prepared to lie about.

Without doubt there are many profiles on fab that are pure works of fiction.

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By *ellowshipOfTheSwingCouple 48 weeks ago

Manchester

We’ve been around on this site long enough to remember when many popular forumites who were older than Sam 10 years ago are now younger than him.

We don’t find it funny, it’s not an amusing anecdote, it’s consent violation

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By *ellinever70Woman 48 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"Some years ago I met a woman who told me she was 59

I was about 45 I reckon.

No big deal.

She must have been 69. Maybe 70.

But she looked great.

In the room, I undid her bra and had to have cat like reflexes in order to catch her tits before they hit the hotel carpet and did her burn damage."

You said she looked great. No need for the catty comment about her tits

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 48 weeks ago

Reading

Yes and when he turned up delighted in telling me he lied because he defiant look his real age. He did. I have no idea what mirror he is using.

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By *ellinever70Woman 48 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"We’ve been around on this site long enough to remember when many popular forumites who were older than Sam 10 years ago are now younger than him.

We don’t find it funny, it’s not an amusing anecdote, it’s consent violation "

Isn't that only true if it's to deceive someone into an unlawful situation?

Like if someone claimed to be over 18 but was in fact around 3 years younger?

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By *ABflirtyWoman 48 weeks ago

Norfolk


"If you can lie about that you can lie about anything trust gone without trust on here you have nothing "
A a lot here do lie about everything if it gets then to sex . And move to the next.

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By *avie65Man 48 weeks ago

In the west.

In this day and age I don’t think anyone should give their exact age on here or another platform because of all the scammers and identity theft. I don’t mean people should take years off or even add years on, they should alter it by a few months.

We all reveal personal details about ourselves through the forums, which along with your age or DoB can be used to build up a comprehensive profile about you.

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By *ealitybitesMan 48 weeks ago

Belfast

I remember a man in a fab chat group in 2018 who had a profile age of 55 but he admitted in the group to knocking 3 years off and that he was really 58.

He has left or been removed a number of times and returned with different profiles including a couples one.

In that time his fab age has varied between 50 and 55 and the couples profile was running alongside his single one for a while and he was 50 on one and 48 on the other. I can't remember which way round.

His most recent profile had him at 55 but if what he said in that group was correct his actual age now would be 65.

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By *carlettsWoman 48 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

People do it all the time. When I've questioned a guy they have either said they have had a hard life or because of peoples age ranges

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman 48 weeks ago

Bognor Regis

Never lied about my age on fab. I am sure I did it as a teen getting into clubs though ha.

I think it's pointless, if you're meeting someone then surely you just ruin it for yourself.

I have had someone turned up for a social who was obviously using photos 10 years old. I left I'm not entertaining that.

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By *eneral Lee WillyMan 48 weeks ago

Cirencester


"People do it all the time. When I've questioned a guy they have either said they have had a hard life or because of peoples age ranges"

No it's just mainly Women, that lie about there age.

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By *ABflirtyWoman 48 weeks ago

Norfolk


"It's never crossed my mind to do it but I'm in an age bracket where I still attract some attention at least.

Does it matter?

Why do people do it?

Do you have a fun story about it?

Has it crossed your mind to do it?"

what about when profiles say looking to meet woman 21/99 years old . Shows they really don’t care how old .

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By *eneral Lee WillyMan 48 weeks ago

Cirencester

It's seems to be only women that are lying about their age..not just on fab in life..as we All know a man's prime starts at 30.. where as a when a Woman hits 30 panic sets in.

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By *gly duck cdTV/TS 48 weeks ago

middlesbrough

It’s deceiving to get past peoples filters , got to admit some are missing a few cells as they have their dob in their username , personally I wouldn’t do it as I’d rather be honest about my age

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By *CExeCouple 48 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter


"It's seems to be only women that are lying about their age..not just on fab in life..as we All know a man's prime starts at 30.. where as a when a Woman hits 30 panic sets in."

The obvious trolling is getting a bit dull now, and ban hammer will no doubt be waved soon.

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By *ABflirtyWoman 48 weeks ago

Norfolk


"It's seems to be only women that are lying about their age..not just on fab in life..as we All know a man's prime starts at 30.. where as a when a Woman hits 30 panic sets in."
I am only now hitting my prime . As first time from age 19 been single . I know men here who lie about age and it’s about them getting over filters .

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By *carlettsWoman 48 weeks ago

Somewhere out there


"People do it all the time. When I've questioned a guy they have either said they have had a hard life or because of peoples age ranges

No it's just mainly Women, that lie about there age. "

That's your opinion which of course you are entitled too...as a man

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By *carlettsWoman 48 weeks ago

Somewhere out there


"It's seems to be only women that are lying about their age..not just on fab in life..as we All know a man's prime starts at 30.. where as a when a Woman hits 30 panic sets in."

Ha shows how little you know about women and most men..trust me life begins at 40 and the guys love an older woman

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By *ellowshipOfTheSwingCouple 48 weeks ago

Manchester


"We’ve been around on this site long enough to remember when many popular forumites who were older than Sam 10 years ago are now younger than him.

We don’t find it funny, it’s not an amusing anecdote, it’s consent violation

Isn't that only true if it's to deceive someone into an unlawful situation?

Like if someone claimed to be over 18 but was in fact around 3 years younger?"

No. If I only want to meet someone under 45 and they lie to circumvent that, I’ve not consented to that

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By *oeBeansMan 48 weeks ago

Derby

I lie about my age. I'm really an 84 year old man using these pics to catfish women into seeing me. The con was that I like younger women in their 50s all along!

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By *en ItaliaWoman 48 weeks ago

your lap

Oddly I met someone who made themselves older to bypass age filters.

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By *carlettsWoman 48 weeks ago

Somewhere out there


"I lie about my age. I'm really an 84 year old man using these pics to catfish women into seeing me. The con was that I like younger women in their 50s all along!"

Hot 84 year old! Bed bath time

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

I think it’s cute when women knock a couple of years off their age

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By *oeBeansMan 48 weeks ago

Derby


"I lie about my age. I'm really an 84 year old man using these pics to catfish women into seeing me. The con was that I like younger women in their 50s all along!

Hot 84 year old! Bed bath time"

You gonna be the one to do it?

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By *carlettsWoman 48 weeks ago

Somewhere out there


"I lie about my age. I'm really an 84 year old man using these pics to catfish women into seeing me. The con was that I like younger women in their 50s all along!

Hot 84 year old! Bed bath time

You gonna be the one to do it? "

If needs be, yes help the aged week or my good deed for the day...bend over, roll on your side

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By *oeBeansMan 48 weeks ago

Derby


"I lie about my age. I'm really an 84 year old man using these pics to catfish women into seeing me. The con was that I like younger women in their 50s all along!

Hot 84 year old! Bed bath time

You gonna be the one to do it?

If needs be, yes help the aged week or my good deed for the day...bend over, roll on your side"

Wait, that's not a sex thing! 😳

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

I dont see the point in lying , wish people would just be themselves, make for a much better site

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By *carlettsWoman 48 weeks ago

Somewhere out there


"I lie about my age. I'm really an 84 year old man using these pics to catfish women into seeing me. The con was that I like younger women in their 50s all along!

Hot 84 year old! Bed bath time

You gonna be the one to do it?

If needs be, yes help the aged week or my good deed for the day...bend over, roll on your side

Wait, that's not a sex thing! 😳"

It could be

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By *itvclaireTV/TS 48 weeks ago

Birmingham

Don't see the point in lying about my age. If I fall outside of someone's preferred age range, then so be it.

XX

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By *oeBeansMan 48 weeks ago

Derby


"I lie about my age. I'm really an 84 year old man using these pics to catfish women into seeing me. The con was that I like younger women in their 50s all along!

Hot 84 year old! Bed bath time

You gonna be the one to do it?

If needs be, yes help the aged week or my good deed for the day...bend over, roll on your side

Wait, that's not a sex thing! 😳

It could be"

Are you threatening me with a good time? 😜

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By *issmorganWoman 48 weeks ago

Yorks

My age is out by a few weeks and makes me older for a short time.

That's just for privacy though.

I don't see the point in lying, even though I always get told I look much younger than 51.

There a man on my updates who has gone backwards, he leaves, rejoins and loses a few years in the process.

If people lie about their age, it does tend to make me wonder what else they lie about. Especially when they've often changed their age to get round a filter.

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By *carlettsWoman 48 weeks ago

Somewhere out there


"I lie about my age. I'm really an 84 year old man using these pics to catfish women into seeing me. The con was that I like younger women in their 50s all along!

Hot 84 year old! Bed bath time

You gonna be the one to do it?

If needs be, yes help the aged week or my good deed for the day...bend over, roll on your side

Wait, that's not a sex thing! 😳

It could be

Are you threatening me with a good time? 😜"

I dunno how scared are you right now outta 10?

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By *oeBeansMan 48 weeks ago

Derby


"I lie about my age. I'm really an 84 year old man using these pics to catfish women into seeing me. The con was that I like younger women in their 50s all along!

Hot 84 year old! Bed bath time

You gonna be the one to do it?

If needs be, yes help the aged week or my good deed for the day...bend over, roll on your side

Wait, that's not a sex thing! 😳

It could be

Are you threatening me with a good time? 😜

I dunno how scared are you right now outta 10?"

1. My body is ready!

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By *izandpaulCouple 48 weeks ago

merseyside

We've no need as we are both old.

But we have met people in clubs who are "49", but not in very good nick.

We are very cautious talking to someone a lot younger, mainly in clubs, as don't want to appear a bit creepy. We're generally not happy playing with people a lot younger than us but lots of young guys seem happy to attend my gangbangs and the mix of young and mature men at meets is delightful.

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By *carlettsWoman 48 weeks ago

Somewhere out there


"I lie about my age. I'm really an 84 year old man using these pics to catfish women into seeing me. The con was that I like younger women in their 50s all along!

Hot 84 year old! Bed bath time

You gonna be the one to do it?

If needs be, yes help the aged week or my good deed for the day...bend over, roll on your side

Wait, that's not a sex thing! 😳

It could be

Are you threatening me with a good time? 😜

I dunno how scared are you right now outta 10?

1. My body is ready!"

Mind is screaming F%£k Nooooo!!

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By *oeBeansMan 48 weeks ago

Derby


"I lie about my age. I'm really an 84 year old man using these pics to catfish women into seeing me. The con was that I like younger women in their 50s all along!

Hot 84 year old! Bed bath time

You gonna be the one to do it?

If needs be, yes help the aged week or my good deed for the day...bend over, roll on your side

Wait, that's not a sex thing! 😳

It could be

Are you threatening me with a good time? 😜

I dunno how scared are you right now outta 10?

1. My body is ready!

Mind is screaming F%£k Nooooo!!"

I'm sure when we start, my body would scream that too 😂

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By *ravelling ChappieMan 48 weeks ago

Stroud

What is the point? Mine is out by a few days, as dob can be a security risk, but not the years I know some deduct! Tbh it is not a primary concern of mine.

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By *carlettsWoman 48 weeks ago

Somewhere out there


"I lie about my age. I'm really an 84 year old man using these pics to catfish women into seeing me. The con was that I like younger women in their 50s all along!

Hot 84 year old! Bed bath time

You gonna be the one to do it?

If needs be, yes help the aged week or my good deed for the day...bend over, roll on your side

Wait, that's not a sex thing! 😳

It could be

Are you threatening me with a good time? 😜

I dunno how scared are you right now outta 10?

1. My body is ready!

Mind is screaming F%£k Nooooo!!

I'm sure when we start, my body would scream that too 😂"

Yikes not the advert I was hoping for, yes please, please some more miss anything but fuck no or the words oh no, not that again!

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By *ellinever70Woman 48 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"We’ve been around on this site long enough to remember when many popular forumites who were older than Sam 10 years ago are now younger than him.

We don’t find it funny, it’s not an amusing anecdote, it’s consent violation

Isn't that only true if it's to deceive someone into an unlawful situation?

Like if someone claimed to be over 18 but was in fact around 3 years younger?

No. If I only want to meet someone under 45 and they lie to circumvent that, I’ve not consented to that"

Hmmm...I'm not convinced that would hold up in court

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By *oeBeansMan 48 weeks ago

Derby


"I lie about my age. I'm really an 84 year old man using these pics to catfish women into seeing me. The con was that I like younger women in their 50s all along!

Hot 84 year old! Bed bath time

You gonna be the one to do it?

If needs be, yes help the aged week or my good deed for the day...bend over, roll on your side

Wait, that's not a sex thing! 😳

It could be

Are you threatening me with a good time? 😜

I dunno how scared are you right now outta 10?

1. My body is ready!

Mind is screaming F%£k Nooooo!!

I'm sure when we start, my body would scream that too 😂

Yikes not the advert I was hoping for, yes please, please some more miss anything but fuck no or the words oh no, not that again!"

You're right! I rescind my previous statement 😉

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By *icecouple561Couple 48 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

My date of birth isn't correct on here, it a few months out. The year is right though and next month I will reach the sexiest fab age possible. Apparently...

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By *ellowshipOfTheSwingCouple 48 weeks ago

Manchester


"We’ve been around on this site long enough to remember when many popular forumites who were older than Sam 10 years ago are now younger than him.

We don’t find it funny, it’s not an amusing anecdote, it’s consent violation

Isn't that only true if it's to deceive someone into an unlawful situation?

Like if someone claimed to be over 18 but was in fact around 3 years younger?

No. If I only want to meet someone under 45 and they lie to circumvent that, I’ve not consented to that

Hmmm...I'm not convinced that would hold up in court "

Is consent only a legal matter?

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By *r SensualMan 48 weeks ago

London

Never done it, nor has the thought crossed my mind. I understand why people do it though.

If you have to lie about something of which you have no control over in order to appeal to someone, then they’re really not worth trying to appeal to & it makes you as the person lying less appealing too.

Honesty is the best policy.

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman 48 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

Noone ever believes me when i tell them my age, always have me a lot younger, doesnt mean I'll lie about it on here though, I dont see the point 🤷‍♀️

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

Just to overcome the filters.

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By *onnie 90Woman 48 weeks ago

Leeds


"People do it all the time. When I've questioned a guy they have either said they have had a hard life or because of peoples age ranges

No it's just mainly Women, that lie about there age. "

Can you please provide irrefutable proof of this? Or did you just make it up?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 48 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"People do it all the time. When I've questioned a guy they have either said they have had a hard life or because of peoples age ranges

No it's just mainly Women, that lie about there age.

Can you please provide irrefutable proof of this? Or did you just make it up?"

Man there is top tier research from trust me bro university out there I'm sure 💜

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By *pthillMan 48 weeks ago

st shithole

Be honest or don’t bother

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By *ellowshipOfTheSwingCouple 48 weeks ago

Manchester


"People do it all the time. When I've questioned a guy they have either said they have had a hard life or because of peoples age ranges

No it's just mainly Women, that lie about there age.

Can you please provide irrefutable proof of this? Or did you just make it up?"

It’s from the time honoured studies of Troll university.

I’ve never known a woman to change their age but have plenty of experience of guys doing it

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By *ove2LurveCouple 48 weeks ago

Dartford

Probably happens a lot, we don't question peoples ages as it's more about the person(s) themselves. Our only experience where it did have an impact was a meet with a '70 year old woman and her 73 year old bloke'. To MsL2L's disappointment, he turned out to be really quite frail looking, when I mentioned this to the woman (separate room full swap) it turned out that he was actually 86.....

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 48 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"People do it all the time. When I've questioned a guy they have either said they have had a hard life or because of peoples age ranges

No it's just mainly Women, that lie about there age.

Can you please provide irrefutable proof of this? Or did you just make it up?

It’s from the time honoured studies of Troll university.

I’ve never known a woman to change their age but have plenty of experience of guys doing it"

Oh I've known both men and women to lie about their age.

Obviously I see more of men doing it because of the demographic that contacts me most.

But both genders do have some culprits 💜

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By *elaninMaverickWoman 48 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"It's never crossed my mind to do it but I'm in an age bracket where I still attract some attention at least.

Does it matter?

Why do people do it?

Do you have a fun story about it?

Has it crossed your mind to do it?

"

I'm insecure but I can't deal with those who have the level of insecurity to lie about their age.

It just makes me think what else are they lying about/ are they insecure about.

Usually the age lie is just the tip of the iceberg.

No, I don't need an older male mature sugar daddy....my father is still alive and he's enough work on his own and at some point I'll have the unenviable task of sorting out his power of attorney end of life care and estate debts. I do not need to do that for a sexual/romantic partner right now.

No, I don't need a sugar baby boy. Because how I value myself is not tied up in youth and I don't need to be a mother to a grown adult. They either have already a mother or a wife or paid dominatrix who can do that for them.

I have limited spoons in middle age and I would like to enjoy middle age as much as possible before I become I kick the bucket or become a senior citizen. I'd like to be with people similarly middle aged in outlook.

If people feel the need to connect to people several generations older or younger that's up to them but not for me.

The funny thing is I've never lied about my age but people think I am lying about it.

It's all odd to my autistic brain. I'm going to be able to tell in person if you are much older or much younger than me so the lie puts me off and devalues you in my eyes.

That may come off as judgmental but I have trauma and autism so my brain can be very judgmental in a way that I never asked for. My brain thinks people who lie are not safe people so I will always have my guard up around them.

Who wants to have their guard up while having sex? no one.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman 48 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"Funny stories;

When the hosts of an under 40s night became 40, they deleted their profile and became 30

A Woman age 40 on her profile held her 60th Birthday party at a club "

This is too much autistic spoons for me. I have other things to do.

mainly doing men and tying men up with rope without asking them their age or them asking me my age. We are the right age because we showed ID to get into the club and we are the right mentality because we are in a club and not hiding and lying behind a computer.

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By *xxxMan 48 weeks ago

Bedfordshire & Chester

There'd be little point in me trying to pass off as younger, but I've been tempted to put a few of extra years on. The main reason being that I now find myself too old to compete with the young guns (too much Guinness), but not old enough to fit in to most people's age related kink.

I understand and respect an age limit but we all mature and have had so many differing life experiences that shape our behaviour and body shape. Ruling people out because of age just seems shallow, if you like the look and the mind connects, who cares about age (as long as they're legal).

Sorry rant over

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By *elaninMaverickWoman 48 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"If you can lie about that you can lie about anything trust gone without trust on here you have nothing "

Trust isn't important to a lot of people...especially a lot of men...or rather it's important when they get lied to but not when they are doing the lying.

Bizarre double standard.

Which is why I'm in the bondage scene...Trust is super important.

I can't tie up a man who is 60 with arthritis and cardiac surgery the same way I would tie up a 40-year-old man with no health conditions. You lie you risk dying!

You are more prone to injuries and temperature changes at a certain age.. Please lie to the vanilla missionary sex position people only...do not lie to the bondage people. You could get physically, psychologically or fatally hurt.

See 55-year-old man who got d*unk and was on meds and asked an inexperienced 31-year-old OF woman to put him in cling film....Yup it suppressed his breathing and he died.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman 48 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"There'd be little point in me trying to pass off as younger, but I've been tempted to put a few of extra years on. The main reason being that I now find myself too old to compete with the young guns (too much Guinness), but not old enough to fit in to most people's age related kink.

I understand and respect an age limit but we all mature and have had so many differing life experiences that shape our behaviour and body shape. Ruling people out because of age just seems shallow, if you like the look and the mind connects, who cares about age (as long as they're legal).

Sorry rant over "

My mind doesn't connect sexually with most Boomers and as an Old Millenial, I end up trying to mother most of Gen Z. I don't have the mentally energy to finagle my brain into forcing a sexual connection too far outside my generation.

Might be shallow but that's the reality of how my brain and personality works.

My brain feels most relaxed, engaged and turned on with Millennials and Gen X. I'ma age out with them.

It would be ridiculous for me to compete with younger women and I do make the 60 plus men out of breath. I'm not trying to give anyone a heart attack or a broken pelvis.

Staying in my age bracket until I kick the bucket.

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By *allipygousMan 48 weeks ago

Leicester


"It would be ridiculous for me to compete with younger women and I do make the 60 plus men out of breath. I'm not trying to give anyone a heart attack or a broken pelvis.

Staying in my age bracket until I kick the bucket."

So when you're in your 60s will the men of your age group suddenly become fitter or do you think you'll be less capable of wearing out the old geezers?

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By *icecouple561Couple 48 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"If you can lie about that you can lie about anything trust gone without trust on here you have nothing

Trust isn't important to a lot of people...especially a lot of men...or rather it's important when they get lied to but not when they are doing the lying.

Bizarre double standard.

Which is why I'm in the bondage scene...Trust is super important.

I can't tie up a man who is 60 with arthritis and cardiac surgery the same way I would tie up a 40-year-old man with no health conditions. You lie you risk dying!

You are more prone to injuries and temperature changes at a certain age.. Please lie to the vanilla missionary sex position people only...do not lie to the bondage people. You could get physically, psychologically or fatally hurt.

See 55-year-old man who got d*unk and was on meds and asked an inexperienced 31-year-old OF woman to put him in cling film....Yup it suppressed his breathing and he died."

You couldn't tie anybody up with arthritis and cardiac surgery in the same way. I'm wondering what you think 60 looks like 🤔.

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By *ambertMan 48 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"If you can lie about that you can lie about anything trust gone without trust on here you have nothing

Trust isn't important to a lot of people...especially a lot of men...or rather it's important when they get lied to but not when they are doing the lying.

Bizarre double standard.

Which is why I'm in the bondage scene...Trust is super important.

I can't tie up a man who is 60 with arthritis and cardiac surgery the same way I would tie up a 40-year-old man with no health conditions. You lie you risk dying!

You are more prone to injuries and temperature changes at a certain age.. Please lie to the vanilla missionary sex position people only...do not lie to the bondage people. You could get physically, psychologically or fatally hurt.

See 55-year-old man who got d*unk and was on meds and asked an inexperienced 31-year-old OF woman to put him in cling film....Yup it suppressed his breathing and he died.

You couldn't tie anybody up with arthritis and cardiac surgery in the same way. I'm wondering what you think 60 looks like 🤔. "

I would say it looks above 59 and below 61 🤣

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By *icecouple561Couple 48 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

^^ well, yes.

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By *ambertMan 48 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I've got the blink song stuck in my head now.

."what's my age again"

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By *ambertMan 48 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"^^ well, yes.

"

🤣🤣

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By *allipygousMan 48 weeks ago

Leicester


"See 55-year-old man who got d*unk and was on meds and asked an inexperienced 31-year-old OF woman to put him in cling film....Yup it suppressed his breathing and he died."

I think you'll find it's the plastic bag she secured over his head that didn't agree with him.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman 48 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"It would be ridiculous for me to compete with younger women and I do make the 60 plus men out of breath. I'm not trying to give anyone a heart attack or a broken pelvis.

Staying in my age bracket until I kick the bucket.

So when you're in your 60s will the men of your age group suddenly become fitter or do you think you'll be less capable of wearing out the old geezers?"

We both will be old so less capable of breaking each other's pelvis or giving each other a heart attack. My vagina will be dry and his cock won't work so we will have to rely on sex toys,anal/pegging and oral. Lol!

Less rumpy pumpy swinging from the ceiling.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman 48 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"If you can lie about that you can lie about anything trust gone without trust on here you have nothing

Trust isn't important to a lot of people...especially a lot of men...or rather it's important when they get lied to but not when they are doing the lying.

Bizarre double standard.

Which is why I'm in the bondage scene...Trust is super important.

I can't tie up a man who is 60 with arthritis and cardiac surgery the same way I would tie up a 40-year-old man with no health conditions. You lie you risk dying!

You are more prone to injuries and temperature changes at a certain age.. Please lie to the vanilla missionary sex position people only...do not lie to the bondage people. You could get physically, psychologically or fatally hurt.

See 55-year-old man who got d*unk and was on meds and asked an inexperienced 31-year-old OF woman to put him in cling film....Yup it suppressed his breathing and he died.

You couldn't tie anybody up with arthritis and cardiac surgery in the same way. I'm wondering what you think 60 looks like 🤔. "

People who are 60 with conditions need to be tied differently is what I think 60 looks like.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman 48 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"See 55-year-old man who got d*unk and was on meds and asked an inexperienced 31-year-old OF woman to put him in cling film....Yup it suppressed his breathing and he died.

I think you'll find it's the plastic bag she secured over his head that didn't agree with him."

People put cover people's heads with plastic bags, etc. in bondage. That's normal in bondage. But one of the bondage protocols is to be sober and not on depressant meds!! People literally have forms you have to fill out about health conditions and medication before engaging in bondage play. It's not a game.

You lie you might end up dead. Our lungs and hearts are weaker the older we are.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman 48 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"See 55-year-old man who got d*unk and was on meds and asked an inexperienced 31-year-old OF woman to put him in cling film....Yup it suppressed his breathing and he died.

I think you'll find it's the plastic bag she secured over his head that didn't agree with him."

I'm sure you know what breath play is. P0rn hub it.

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By *allipygousMan 48 weeks ago

Leicester


"See 55-year-old man who got d*unk and was on meds and asked an inexperienced 31-year-old OF woman to put him in cling film....Yup it suppressed his breathing and he died.

I think you'll find it's the plastic bag she secured over his head that didn't agree with him.

I'm sure you know what breath play is. P0rn hub it."

The above reads as if you're saying being wrapped in cling film killed him. I'm saying having a plastic bag over his head did the trick.

You'll find there are plenty of sexagenarians that have healthy pelvises, don't have dry vaginas and their penises work perfectly fine. Hopefully you'll discover this should you get there.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS 48 weeks ago

Chichester

Tbh if I find someone physically sexy to look at. Then I don’t care with age. If they look hot to fuck then a fuck they shall get hot like I am going to be meeting them again In must situations tbh

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By *elaninMaverickWoman 48 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"See 55-year-old man who got d*unk and was on meds and asked an inexperienced 31-year-old OF woman to put him in cling film....Yup it suppressed his breathing and he died.

I think you'll find it's the plastic bag she secured over his head that didn't agree with him.

I'm sure you know what breath play is. P0rn hub it.

The above reads as if you're saying being wrapped in cling film killed him. I'm saying having a plastic bag over his head did the trick.

You'll find there are plenty of sexagenarians that have healthy pelvises, don't have dry vaginas and their penises work perfectly fine. Hopefully you'll discover this should you get there."

Well I don't meet plenty in the wild in real life. Maybe it's because I live in London. Most swingers I meet are in their 40s and 50s in the clubs. Unless it's sort of a private party held mainly for 60-year-olds, held at their house. I dont' go to private house parties.

My 60-year-old friends are definitely not swingers. They might have been when they were younger but not now for sure.

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By *icecouple561Couple 48 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"See 55-year-old man who got d*unk and was on meds and asked an inexperienced 31-year-old OF woman to put him in cling film....Yup it suppressed his breathing and he died.

I think you'll find it's the plastic bag she secured over his head that didn't agree with him.

I'm sure you know what breath play is. P0rn hub it.

The above reads as if you're saying being wrapped in cling film killed him. I'm saying having a plastic bag over his head did the trick.

You'll find there are plenty of sexagenarians that have healthy pelvises, don't have dry vaginas and their penises work perfectly fine. Hopefully you'll discover this should you get there.

Well I don't meet plenty in the wild in real life. Maybe it's because I live in London. Most swingers I meet are in their 40s and 50s in the clubs. Unless it's sort of a private party held mainly for 60-year-olds, held at their house. I dont' go to private house parties.

My 60-year-old friends are definitely not swingers. They might have been when they were younger but not now for sure."

Our friends would say that about us...

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By *izandpaulCouple 48 weeks ago

merseyside


"See 55-year-old man who got d*unk and was on meds and asked an inexperienced 31-year-old OF woman to put him in cling film....Yup it suppressed his breathing and he died.

I think you'll find it's the plastic bag she secured over his head that didn't agree with him.

I'm sure you know what breath play is. P0rn hub it.

The above reads as if you're saying being wrapped in cling film killed him. I'm saying having a plastic bag over his head did the trick.

You'll find there are plenty of sexagenarians that have healthy pelvises, don't have dry vaginas and their penises work perfectly fine. Hopefully you'll discover this should you get there.

Well I don't meet plenty in the wild in real life. Maybe it's because I live in London. Most swingers I meet are in their 40s and 50s in the clubs. Unless it's sort of a private party held mainly for 60-year-olds, held at their house. I dont' go to private house parties.

My 60-year-old friends are definitely not swingers. They might have been when they were younger but not now for sure."

Most of our friends and work colleagues wouldn't think we were swingers.

We love the fact it's our secret life.

I think you would be surprised how many over 60s still enjoy their swinging lives.

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By *uvs2watchherCouple 48 weeks ago

newcastle

Im only 1 year younger than hubby but some say ive aged better. Lost lots weight. But I still think hubby has the best body. Just not the important equipment!! Xxxx. Ha dee

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