I've had this a few times in the last few weeks.
I've been asked to meet up made arrangements and then twice in the space of 4 weeks they have just stopped talking about an hour before an arranged meet up that they persued  |
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"I've had this a few times in the last few weeks.
I've been asked to meet up made arrangements and then twice in the space of 4 weeks they have just stopped talking about an hour before an arranged meet up that they persued "
exact same as me, i was in their town and ghosted. was a rough drive back |
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Without more context it is impossible to say, only you and them know what happened.
I had a meet planned and arranged, we had discussed limits, and I cancelled an hour before because he kept pushing about bare when I'd said no. So I decided last minute that I didn't feel comfortable.
Pretty sure he called me a time waster for that. I think the important thing to remember on here is that anyone can change they're mind at any time for any reason..it sucks and it's rude but I wouldn't book hotels unless it's someone you have met a few times and trust to show up |
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Super frustrating I know. But everyone involved has the right to cancel at any time. Could be a number or reasons some has nothing to do with you or a change of heart but more out of their control like family issues |
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"Super frustrating I know. But everyone involved has the right to cancel at any time. Could be a number or reasons some has nothing to do with you or a change of heart but more out of their control like family issues "
Totally get that and I'd never mind for whatever reason but I'd always drop them a message to let them know if I wasn't going to go.
I think sometimes it's down to pure nerves |
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"I've had this a few times in the last few weeks.
I've been asked to meet up made arrangements and then twice in the space of 4 weeks they have just stopped talking about an hour before an arranged meet up that they persued "
I’d never let you down |
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It's not great op, but maybe something has genuinely come up.
We can't help illness or a family problem like childcare etc.We're all only human after all.
At least they let you know though and you can decide if you think it was a real cancellation or they were stringing you along. |
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That's why we very rarely use this site for 121 meets, find other sites much better.
Not that there isn't genuine people on here but its far too much effort to sift through the timewasters, dreamers the delusional and nutters.
We stick to parties, clubs and holidays where everyone attending has made an effort 👌 |
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