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"It’s working fine for me. I don’t see any real change but then maybe the way I use the site is different to you." The majority of the site is looking for 9” cocks, so glad you’re making the most of that 👍 | |||
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"It’s working fine for me. I don’t see any real change but then maybe the way I use the site is different to you. The majority of the site is looking for 9” cocks, so glad you’re making the most of that 👍" Well I'm in trouble then.  | |||
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"It’s working fine for me. I don’t see any real change but then maybe the way I use the site is different to you." I see so many profiles from couples, women etc who mention wanting hung/VWE | |||
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"So you try and chat, send the nice messages, actual real convo no fake robot rubbish, and do you get any reply....nothing not a no thanks or even read, but then see the status thats people open to anything and chat to all, on many profile as you know i read them. Anybody else finding this is going down hill and profiles are made, deleted and remade almost the same with pics aswell multiple times?" Come on mate don’t be like that, you should still be dancing in the street from Lyle Fosters last minute winner not complaining about fab 
On a serious note we struggle with replies and ing through the fakes too. | |||
"1. You have no public pictures 2. Your bio doesn't say what you're after only your job and when you're free 3 and most importantly, you're a single guy. Single women and couples get hundreds of messages a day, so even if your messages was fine, they don't get the time to read it and prefer profiles that have a pictures I struggle to get replies but that's what being a single guy is like unfortunately " Spot on here, if you have no public photos we'll pass by. | |||
"So you try and chat, send the nice messages, actual real convo no fake robot rubbish, and do you get any reply....nothing not a no thanks or even read, but then see the status thats people open to anything and chat to all, on many profile as you know i read them. Anybody else finding this is going down hill and profiles are made, deleted and remade almost the same with pics aswell multiple times?" It's a very sunny Monday..don't let other's drag you down. The site, itself, has not changed but the attitudes of the people using has...in my opinion. Many now are joining up expecting immediate hookups. Some get them, some don't. I cannot speak for anyone else, only myself, but from the messages I receive men seem to think that I'm spread-eagled on the bed, waiting for action, whenever I log in. There is often a difference of opinion - they think we are an ideal match...I don't. Regarding the unread messages and the lack of response, I think that users are unwilling to reply because a reply saying no is often taken as an opening for negotiations. Many of my exchanges go as follows ' Them - 'You free to come over for for a fuck tonight?'. Me - 'No, I'm not looking for anything at the moment! Thanks though. Hope you find some fun!'. Them - 'What about tomorrow night? Or Saturday?'. Me - 'Thanks, but I will not be free. Take care. Them - 'When are you free for a meet then?'. Me - 'Even if free I wouldn't be looking for one on one. Take care x'. Them - 'Find a guy to join us and you can bring him over, too.'. Me - 'I am not free for any meets at the moment. Best you look elsewhere!'. (10 minutes later they've started wanking). Them - 'Bet you love anal!'. 5 minutes later...it's turned into an angry wank.... Them - 'Knew you weren't real. Your earrings in your third pic are different to those in the second. There's a pube in your fourth pic that is missing in the others!'. Many people just don't want to put up with it, so they don't engage. The site itself encourages users to take the no reply as a 'not interested', and that's what many do - they show they're not interested by not replying. The problem then is that people stop putting effort into their messages, expecting no reply while they are composing it. It's a vicious circle. As for going UNLOS and then reappearing a week later...I see it all the time when looking at the local updates. As someone who prefers more than one meet with someone, I don't engage with those who are on and off regularly. Don't take it personally and don't let it get to you. If you find it's getting you down, watch some good porn, have a good wank and sleep it off. Come back on when you're feeling better. | |||
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"Seriously! Hang them upside down and flog them, that’s what I say" Humour  | |||
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"So you try and chat, send the nice messages, actual real convo no fake robot rubbish, and do you get any reply....nothing not a no thanks or even read, but then see the status thats people open to anything and chat to all, on many profile as you know i read them. Anybody else finding this is going down hill and profiles are made, deleted and remade almost the same with pics aswell multiple times?" How odd, the rest of us are getting laid right, left & centre. | |||
"was a lot more friendlier and easier 20 years ago" You were 20 years younger then, so maybe that's a clue  | |||
"was a lot more friendlier and easier 20 years ago You were 20 years younger then, so maybe that's a clue "ouch 😂 | |||
"So you try and chat, send the nice messages, actual real convo no fake robot rubbish, and do you get any reply....nothing not a no thanks or even read, but then see the status thats people open to anything and chat to all, on many profile as you know i read them. Anybody else finding this is going down hill and profiles are made, deleted and remade almost the same with pics aswell multiple times? It's a very sunny Monday..don't let other's drag you down. The site, itself, has not changed but the attitudes of the people using has...in my opinion. Many now are joining up expecting immediate hookups. Some get them, some don't. I cannot speak for anyone else, only myself, but from the messages I receive men seem to think that I'm spread-eagled on the bed, waiting for action, whenever I log in. There is often a difference of opinion - they think we are an ideal match...I don't. Regarding the unread messages and the lack of response, I think that users are unwilling to reply because a reply saying no is often taken as an opening for negotiations. Many of my exchanges go as follows ' Them - 'You free to come over for for a fuck tonight?'. Me - 'No, I'm not looking for anything at the moment! Thanks though. Hope you find some fun!'. Them - 'What about tomorrow night? Or Saturday?'. Me - 'Thanks, but I will not be free. Take care. Them - 'When are you free for a meet then?'. Me - 'Even if free I wouldn't be looking for one on one. Take care x'. Them - 'Find a guy to join us and you can bring him over, too.'. Me - 'I am not free for any meets at the moment. Best you look elsewhere!'. (10 minutes later they've started wanking). Them - 'Bet you love anal!'. 5 minutes later...it's turned into an angry wank.... Them - 'Knew you weren't real. Your earrings in your third pic are different to those in the second. There's a pube in your fourth pic that is missing in the others!'. Many people just don't want to put up with it, so they don't engage. The site itself encourages users to take the no reply as a 'not interested', and that's what many do - they show they're not interested by not replying. The problem then is that people stop putting effort into their messages, expecting no reply while they are composing it. It's a vicious circle. As for going UNLOS and then reappearing a week later...I see it all the time when looking at the local updates. As someone who prefers more than one meet with someone, I don't engage with those who are on and off regularly. Don't take it personally and don't let it get to you. If you find it's getting you down, watch some good porn, have a good wank and sleep it off. Come back on when you're feeling better. " That exchange made me snort laugh tea everywhere | |||
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"It’s working fine for me. I don’t see any real change but then maybe the way I use the site is different to you." Yeah, it's a tougher life for the LWE on Fab! | |||
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