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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago
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"Woman.
A man offers something different.
Another woman? Open up more questions."
And to clarify, I wouldn’t be chuffed or forgive their cheating with either sex. Just if they cheated with a man I could understand if it was because they wanted the cock. |
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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago
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It's just bad news period, matters not what gender because infidelity disrupts the most important form of commitment: the knowledge, knowing, living, and understanding that each person in a couple is a team and has the back of the other.
"Satan said to the good scholar: "grades are bread and butter on your table! If you don't cheat you won't eat as good!"
Temptation is a fucker, only the strong can resist.
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My bf is bi so it really wouldn’t matter what sex, but the fact he decided to conceal it rather than say, would be far more hurtful.
That said he just prefers me, so we make it work. Technically I cheat on him, but he knows when I meet, and realises I need it. |
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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago
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...and let's not discrimate since all genders are far from pure, we are but human and some are weak and others are strong (it's as simple as that, i.e. some can resist temptation of lust and stay true to love).
Not saying it's easy but none of us are really ever innocent, there's good and bad in all of us.
I've yet to find love, not been so lucky in life to have ever experienced true love.
If I did, I'd know not to cheat. |
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One of my close has had this discussion in our group. 4 women 1 man and 1 trans woman (me)
Amazingly to my surprise all of them said if their partner cheated on them with a trans person would be the worse as they would find it very conflicting in terms of rivalry/ jealousy / reasoning why / competitive.
Found it interesting answer
My take is cheating is cheating and you are excommunicated  |
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By *ANiCURE OP TV/TS 28 weeks ago
Winchester |
"One of my close has had this discussion in our group. 4 women 1 man and 1 trans woman (me)
Amazingly to my surprise all of them said if their partner cheated on them with a trans person would be the worse as they would find it very conflicting in terms of rivalry/ jealousy / reasoning why / competitive.
Found it interesting answer
My take is cheating is cheating and you are excommunicated "
Interesting |
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By *kibirdWoman 28 weeks ago
Gillingham ( Dorset, not Kent) |
In my mind they’re all as bad as each other but it’s interesting to read people thinking cheating with a trans person is worst of all. So much to unpack with that statement , it’s easy to have a knee jerk reaction to that as transphobia but I wonder is something deeper is going on there ? |
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"In my mind they’re all as bad as each other but it’s interesting to read people thinking cheating with a trans person is worst of all. So much to unpack with that statement , it’s easy to have a knee jerk reaction to that as transphobia but I wonder is something deeper is going on there ? "
Yes I did try get my friend group to elaborate more but they all clammed up abit I think incase they offended me or something. I told them I am mental leviathan of not getting emotional over things as I like black white / logic answers but I guess they felt awkward
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"Both as bad for me but do agree if I found out a hetrosexual partner cheated on me with a man but I was unaware e.g he hadn't admitted he was bi that would hurt more  living a lie"
Whst if it was a one off experiment as many dudes seem to use that line and they didn’t like it remotely tskevout the cheating part should kill it regardless anyway |
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Ive been cheated on in the past a few times first time i never found out until i caught them in the act when getting home from work. second time it was just messaging but in my opinion and this is both ways if your open to let another man/woman become inimate or talk in secret behind your partners back thats still cheating and worst of it all it fucking sucks |
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"Both as bad for me but do agree if I found out a hetrosexual partner cheated on me with a man but I was unaware e.g he hadn't admitted he was bi that would hurt more living a lie
Whst if it was a one off experiment as many dudes seem to use that line and they didn’t like it remotely tskevout the cheating part should kill it regardless anyway "
One time, two times...I feel a fugee song coming on
If being honest I would hope they could say hey I once tried it with a guy wasn't for me. It's nothing to be ashamed of but honesty is the best policy worse when it comes out later down the line |
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"Both as bad for me but do agree if I found out a hetrosexual partner cheated on me with a man but I was unaware e.g he hadn't admitted he was bi that would hurt more living a lie
Whst if it was a one off experiment as many dudes seem to use that line and they didn’t like it remotely tskevout the cheating part should kill it regardless anyway
One time, two times...I feel a fugee song coming on
If being honest I would hope they could say hey I once tried it with a guy wasn't for me. It's nothing to be ashamed of but honesty is the best policy worse when it comes out later down the line"
Deception is never a good thing I agree. X |
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By *agic.MMan 28 weeks ago
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"Both as bad for me but do agree if I found out a hetrosexual partner cheated on me with a man but I was unaware e.g he hadn't admitted he was bi that would hurt more living a lie
Whst if it was a one off experiment as many dudes seem to use that line and they didn’t like it remotely tskevout the cheating part should kill it regardless anyway "
Does it matter though if it was a one off? How long have these cravings and urges to sleep with another man been going on? Months? Years? Because that don't happen overnight...and the reality is that you will be second guessing if you made him feel like he wasn't able to trust you with this secret. There's also the social stigma of being the woman that "turned him gay" - as silly as that sounds, there will be people in your social circles that will think that. I think it would be much harder for a woman to come to terms with him cheating with another man. |
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"This site is full of guys who cheap on their wives with other men.
Its also full of wives who cheat"
I say no married men or woman as would of hated it done to me. But some here are good at lying. |
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"This site is full of guys who cheap on their wives with other men.
Its also full of wives who cheat I say no married men or woman as would have hated it done to me. But some here are good at lying."
Too many find it easier to lie than tell the truth sadly |
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