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By *hagTonight OP   Man 28 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I watched an interesting program about relationships and they talked about if the perfect partner exist or not, they mentioned many things about it and one thing of it was how many people are looking for the negatives in their soon to be partner rather than the positives, because marrying the right person will make your life easier.

I agree with them that most people are looking for the negatives more rather than the positives, by doing that, the person will end up lonely, because they have unrealistic expectations for that person, because perfection is unrealistic, instead one should focus on finding a good enough partner who is compatible with you.

It would be interesting to see what your view about this is, do you also agree that people nowadays have unrealistic expectations of finding the perfect partner? If you are a couple, did you focus both the negatives and the positives in the person and if they were compatible with you too?

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By *etwife8230Couple 28 weeks ago

Newport

Yep I married him x

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By *ipperbangMan 28 weeks ago

Sittingbourne

Love the above message

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By *ellinever70Woman 28 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Perfect? Probably not

Good enough? Absolutely

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 28 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Partners are humans and humans are flawed. Looking for perfection is silly. Looking for someone who brings you joy is key 💜

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By *kibirdWoman 28 weeks ago

Gillingham ( Dorset, not Kent)


"Partners are humans and humans are flawed. Looking for perfection is silly. Looking for someone who brings you joy is key 💜"

Absolutely, it takes work work between two invested people to make a perfect partnership but we’re all humans and prone to error and flaws , that’s what makes us unique and makes a relationship so special

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By *oughmanMan 28 weeks ago

Sunderland

Nothing is perfect, including myself. It makes life a little more interesting. So yes it's unrealistic to look for it.

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman 28 weeks ago

Bliss

For me no. However, with having 3 ltr partners, all of my needs are perfectly met

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By *olyGlamorousWoman 28 weeks ago

Chester

'DOES THE PERFECT PARTNER EXIST'?

YES! I married him and he let's me fck other men 😈

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By *wistedTooCouple 28 weeks ago

Frimley

We have found we are perfect for each other. Now, that’s a better way to describe it since perfect is subjective anyway. And since we have had an amazing, easy and work free relationship for a decade and still act silly, show lots of affection, have amazing daily sex and share each other, we feel perfect for each other. Sammi doesn’t work so she’s at home and I do work but from home, we spend 24 hours a day together and still haven’t become bored of each other after more hours together than most 20+ couples, we are pretty confident in our ability to go the longest distance

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By *hagTonight OP   Man 28 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"Yep I married him x"
Hi wetwife, that is good you got married to him as well x

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS 28 weeks ago

Chichester

Yes I am here

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By *ornucopiaMan 28 weeks ago

Bexley

Does the perfect partner exist?

Yes.

Whichever hand one wanks with!

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By *verageHoesCouple 28 weeks ago

Bessacarr

I don’t agree that most people look for the negatives. If anything, it’s more likely they overlook them in that neurochemically induced infatuation stage, and end up settling with someone who isn’t quite compatible once the honeymoon phase wears off.

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By *issmorganWoman 28 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Nobody's perfect, I think you have to find the one who is the right one for you, warts and all.

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By *007ManMan 28 weeks ago

Worthing

Yes still looking though. She must like me more than "him on telly".

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By *estructionDollyWoman 28 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

Nobody is perfect, but sometimes asking for more than the bare minimum from some men is like asking for the stars!

I don't think it's a bad thing to know what you do/don't want from a partner for your own happiness. But I don't think perfect really exists.

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By *hefoxesofpenCouple 28 weeks ago

chester

Hubby. Perfect? Not by a long shot. By his own admission.

Perfect for me? Absolutely. We adore each other more now than when we met.

He's is the one person I can 100% rely upon to put me first and never (deliberately) let me down.

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By *atthew78Man 28 weeks ago

Winsford

Sometimes it's the imperfections the differences that make something special

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By *offeeLoverMan 28 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Depends on what a perfect partner is to you. Sometimes you're not always gonna have someone who has exactly the same interests and like all the things you like. If you're standards are too high then maybe you're setting yourself up for failure

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By *hagTonight OP   Man 28 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"Nobody's perfect, I think you have to find the one who is the right one for you, warts and all. "
Hi _issmorgan, yes, you are right there, you have to find the one who is the right one for for you too

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 28 weeks ago

Leeds

Perfect - no.

Good - yes.

Perfection shouldn't be the aim, no ones perfect, relationships take work, communication, trust.

Finding that person who you can truly be yourself with, be comfortable even when life just isn't lifing, make you feel safe, comfort you when your down, make you smile, is by your side through everything - good, bad, ugly, sad, happy and so on.

Good sex helps 😂

The honeymoon stage is all well and good but that person you can sit with in your comfies with, that brings you peace and feels like home, that's pretty close to perfect and very difficult to find.

I found my person, he's not perfect, I'm not perfect - together we make a whole person 😂 he's a cunt, I'm too nice, we balance each other well.

Perfection is - meh.....

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

I think it's finding that person that is perfect for you.

I've given up on finding someone. I'm divorced & undateable. I've accepted that I will probably be single for the remainder of my life 😒

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By *arand25Couple 28 weeks ago

Crowborough

We met 7 months ago, we both feel we're perfect for each other & that's what matters

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By *hagTonight OP   Man 28 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"We met 7 months ago, we both feel we're perfect for each other & that's what matters "
Hi sarand, that is good how you feel perfect for each other too, yes, that is what matters as well

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By *hilloutMan 28 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Perfection doesn't exist.

I used to believe that near completely ideal was a possibility.

No longer.

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By *olo180Man 28 weeks ago

Greater London

If you search for perfection you will continually be disappointed.

It’s the anomalies and faults that also make someone who they are and can add to the attraction

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By *recticWoman 28 weeks ago

taunton


"Yes I am here "

This energy

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By *hagTonight OP   Man 28 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"Perfect - no.

Good - yes.

Perfection shouldn't be the aim, no ones perfect, relationships take work, communication, trust.

Finding that person who you can truly be yourself with, be comfortable even when life just isn't lifing, make you feel safe, comfort you when your down, make you smile, is by your side through everything - good, bad, ugly, sad, happy and so on.

Good sex helps 😂

The honeymoon stage is all well and good but that person you can sit with in your comfies with, that brings you peace and feels like home, that's pretty close to perfect and very difficult to find.

I found my person, he's not perfect, I'm not perfect - together we make a whole person 😂 he's a cunt, I'm too nice, we balance each other well.

Perfection is - meh.....

Mrs "

Hi knightso, yes, you are righg there, perfection shouldnt be the aim, that is good how both of you balance each other well too

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By *enelope2UWoman 28 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Yes and having had it you know what you won't ever not accept from anything or anyone who's not doing those minimums..

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By *unguy2429Man 28 weeks ago

worthing

Noo way

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman 28 weeks ago

Reading

Yes, I think so. There are certainly people who bring out the best in me that make me want to do/be better in the best way. That challenge me as well as make me laugh and give me the things I need to feel secure in a relationship. I don't think it's easy or common to find people who you connect with on multiple different levels but I know it's possible and I'm on the lookout!

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman 28 weeks ago

Reading

Case in my point, it felt like a 'perfect' partnership with my ex. We're still friends and he's been telling me about his foray into penny stocks on reddit. And I just told him about how into turnip sales I got playing Animal Crossing and he laughed. He's so perfect for me.

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By *artin84Man 28 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I'm pretty darn close, just waiting for someone to realise it 😇 😆

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By *adyBugsWoman 28 weeks ago

not local even if it says I am

No. They are only perfect for a brief moment in time. Humans are constantly evolving…or devolving in some cases 🙄 so perfection is fleeting.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman 28 weeks ago

Niche

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman 28 weeks ago

Niche

I don't believe people are perfect but I do think you can pair up with someone who balances your strengths and weaknesses perfectly enough to make life wonderful.

The point where you both come together is an ever-changing line though. You have to work at relearning who eachother is every new day.

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple 28 weeks ago

Westbury (Wiltshire)

Yes, I married her. She is my rock, my bestest ever mate, my absolute confidant and my filthy play mate.

We have grown and evolved together over our years together, yet its still very fresh.

I fancy her so much and adore and love how we fit together in life.

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By *og and MuseCouple 28 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

You need to be aligned on all the big issues from sex , finance, politics, health. Otherwise, you’ll slowly start to dislike who they are, sex will stop and next thing you know it will be affairs & secret fab accounts!

The small stuff is irrelevant as long as all the big stuff is right.

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By *eys00Man 28 weeks ago

have boots will travel


"Yes, I married her. She is my rock, my bestest ever mate, my absolute confidant and my filthy play mate.

We have grown and evolved together over our years together, yet its still very fresh.

I fancy her so much and adore and love how we fit together in life.

"

This is very sweet ❤️

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By *atthew78Man 28 weeks ago

Winsford


"Yes, I married her. She is my rock, my bestest ever mate, my absolute confidant and my filthy play mate.

We have grown and evolved together over our years together, yet its still very fresh.

I fancy her so much and adore and love how we fit together in life.

"

You are lucky never let it go

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By *orthern StarsCouple 28 weeks ago

Durham

There is no such thing as a perfect person. We all have our faults and flaws.

However, 2 people can meet and be perfect for each other.

Accepting that each other has their faults but loving each other for who they are, including their faults.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman 28 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Every time I think he does the rug is pulled from underneath me. So I’m not convinced yet. My expectations are really low as well. Random sex and chocolate it is. I’m allergic to cats so at least I know I won’t be eaten while I’m dying alone.

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By *atthew78Man 28 weeks ago

Winsford


"Every time I think he does the rug is pulled from underneath me. So I’m not convinced yet. My expectations are really low as well. Random sex and chocolate it is. I’m allergic to cats so at least I know I won’t be eaten while I’m dying alone. "

You won't always be alone even the crazy ones get snapped up

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman 28 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"Every time I think he does the rug is pulled from underneath me. So I’m not convinced yet. My expectations are really low as well. Random sex and chocolate it is. I’m allergic to cats so at least I know I won’t be eaten while I’m dying alone.

You won't always be alone even the crazy ones get snapped up "

Yesssss!!!! There’s someone out there for me still

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By *atthew78Man 28 weeks ago

Winsford


"Every time I think he does the rug is pulled from underneath me. So I’m not convinced yet. My expectations are really low as well. Random sex and chocolate it is. I’m allergic to cats so at least I know I won’t be eaten while I’m dying alone.

You won't always be alone even the crazy ones get snapped up

Yesssss!!!! There’s someone out there for me still "

I am one of the crazy ones mind it's the best way be some people never go crazy what truly horrible lives they must lead one of my favourite quotes

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman 28 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"Every time I think he does the rug is pulled from underneath me. So I’m not convinced yet. My expectations are really low as well. Random sex and chocolate it is. I’m allergic to cats so at least I know I won’t be eaten while I’m dying alone.

You won't always be alone even the crazy ones get snapped up

Yesssss!!!! There’s someone out there for me still

I am one of the crazy ones mind it's the best way be some people never go crazy what truly horrible lives they must lead one of my favourite quotes "

Oh. I haven’t heard that one before.

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By *atthew78Man 28 weeks ago

Winsford

It's by one of my favourite writers

I don't hate people I just feel better when they're not around

Another by the same guy

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By *icked-GameCouple 28 weeks ago

Antarctica

Perfect doesn't exist as nobody will ever like absolutely everything about anyone, there will always be at least one thing that's negative like snoring etc.

Having said that we've been together for a year and we're perfect enough for each other 😍

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By *dinburghLad10Man 28 weeks ago

Midlothian

I’d say you’ll always be left disappointed if you are looking for the perfect partner from the very start.

I do believe people who have been married a long time or been together a long time can say they’re with the perfect partner. That’s because they’ve built that relationship, built that trust with each other and accepted each others flaws. You’ve just got to be willing to give it that time

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By *atthew78Man 28 weeks ago

Winsford


"Perfect doesn't exist as nobody will ever like absolutely everything about anyone, there will always be at least one thing that's negative like snoring etc.

Having said that we've been together for a year and we're perfect enough for each other 😍"

The very concept of perfect is impossible as we all have different likes, tastes, ideas and beliefs if you can find that something or someone that makes life worthwhile then take it hold it and run with it

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By *outhwestwillyMan 28 weeks ago

hayle


"Every time I think he does the rug is pulled from underneath me. So I’m not convinced yet. My expectations are really low as well. Random sex and chocolate it is. I’m allergic to cats so at least I know I won’t be eaten while I’m dying alone. "
I would absolutely eat you in the right way lol.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man 28 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"Perfect doesn't exist as nobody will ever like absolutely everything about anyone, there will always be at least one thing that's negative like snoring etc.

Having said that we've been together for a year and we're perfect enough for each other 😍"

Hi wickedgame, yes, you are right there, perfect doesnt exist, that is good how you have been together for a year and that you are perfect enough for each other too

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By *icked-GameCouple 28 weeks ago

Antarctica


"Perfect doesn't exist as nobody will ever like absolutely everything about anyone, there will always be at least one thing that's negative like snoring etc.

Having said that we've been together for a year and we're perfect enough for each other 😍Hi wickedgame, yes, you are right there, perfect doesnt exist, that is good how you have been together for a year and that you are perfect enough for each other too "

We weren't looking for serious but it found us and we have lots in common and looking for same thing 😍

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By *uksungCouple 28 weeks ago

wednesbury

Yep. Jen, she beautiful, sexy, intelligent. She'll do anything for me, sex or otherwise.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man 28 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"Perfect doesn't exist as nobody will ever like absolutely everything about anyone, there will always be at least one thing that's negative like snoring etc.

Having said that we've been together for a year and we're perfect enough for each other 😍Hi wickedgame, yes, you are right there, perfect doesnt exist, that is good how you have been together for a year and that you are perfect enough for each other too

We weren't looking for serious but it found us and we have lots in common and looking for same thing 😍"

Hi wickedgame, that is good it came to you when you werent looking for it and how you have lots in common and looking for the sane thing too

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