I haven't read your profile mainly because I don't give specific advice and always recommend that people don't give profile advice.
The reason being that the profile then becomes a mishmash of ideas from lots of different people rather than a true reflection of the person behind the profile.
The fact that you say you have changed it so many times without success suggests that you don't really know what you want and haven't taken ownership of your own profile.
Most people will respect a profile that is clear and concise about why they are here and what they have to offer rather than a box ticking one. |
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"I haven't read your profile mainly because I don't give specific advice and always recommend that people don't give profile advice.
The reason being that the profile then becomes a mishmash of ideas from lots of different people rather than a true reflection of the person behind the profile.
The fact that you say you have changed it so many times without success suggests that you don't really know what you want and haven't taken ownership of your own profile.
Most people will respect a profile that is clear and concise about why they are here and what they have to offer rather than a box ticking one."
Hi, thanks for responding, I do feel I express what I ha e to offer and what I'm looking for, when I say I've changed is, it's due to some saying it's too short and other's saying it's too wordy, so I've hopefully got the balance now, just don't seem to get many people showing interest or even texting to see how I respond |
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"Explain what you want.
Explain what you offer.
Message in a way that’s not obsequious or crude and gives people something to reply to. "
I do like to please women and hope that I come across that way, but not in a sub/ obedient manner? |
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