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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago
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"Have you ever had that meet that you couldn't get away from quick enough. Why? "
I think lots have. As we only meet at clubs its easier to walk away. But we did bump into a man that gave me a parking ticket the week before. Or i think it was him. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago
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Yep...he was that d*unk he fell off the bed. I kid you not.
Eventually, I went into the bathroom,looked in the mirror, thought 'what the F am I doing'. Walked out into the room, got dressed, said "this isn't working" & left.
Proud I did that as the old me wouldn't have had the balls to walk. |
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By *otstuff77Woman 28 weeks ago
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Yeah,last weekend. He was pissed and struggled to hold a conversation. Luckily his sober friend was with him (he's on here,too) and he was lovely. I spent most of my time talking to him before making a fast getaway 😂 |
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By *rego69Man 28 weeks ago
Chelmsford |
I had a meet with a lady at her place. Spent an evening together ended up in bed. But things started getting more weird and eventually the evening came to an end.
I had not intended to pursue things and was also under the weather with a cold. But suddenly this woman is on my door step. I was looking and feeling crap but took her straight back to the station. Startled that I had been tracked down. |
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Guy messaged his F'd up fantasy I said I wasn't intrested. He kept persisting and eventually we chatted daily for 6-7weeks.
We were supposed to have a social but he rang the night before, explained his dad was in town and could he possibly come to mine tonight instead. We'd just chill, chat maybe abit of play but main focus social as that's what we had agreed. (can you hear the coersion already).. After abit of pressure/'reassurance' I agreed..
Well he turned up and enacted his initally message from the moment the door shut.
Immediately held up the wall by my throat and I'm sure you can guess the rest. |
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"Guy messaged his F'd up fantasy I said I wasn't intrested. He kept persisting and eventually we chatted daily for 6-7weeks.
We were supposed to have a social but he rang the night before, explained his dad was in town and could he possibly come to mine tonight instead. We'd just chill, chat maybe abit of play but main focus social as that's what we had agreed. (can you hear the coersion already).. After abit of pressure/'reassurance' I agreed..
Well he turned up and enacted his initally message from the moment the door shut.
Immediately held up the wall by my throat and I'm sure you can guess the rest. "
Thats awful hope your ok now? |
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"Guy messaged his F'd up fantasy I said I wasn't intrested. He kept persisting and eventually we chatted daily for 6-7weeks.
We were supposed to have a social but he rang the night before, explained his dad was in town and could he possibly come to mine tonight instead. We'd just chill, chat maybe abit of play but main focus social as that's what we had agreed. (can you hear the coersion already).. After abit of pressure/'reassurance' I agreed..
Well he turned up and enacted his initally message from the moment the door shut.
Immediately held up the wall by my throat and I'm sure you can guess the rest. "
My god 
That is terrible ! |
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"Guy messaged his F'd up fantasy I said I wasn't intrested. He kept persisting and eventually we chatted daily for 6-7weeks.
We were supposed to have a social but he rang the night before, explained his dad was in town and could he possibly come to mine tonight instead. We'd just chill, chat maybe abit of play but main focus social as that's what we had agreed. (can you hear the coersion already).. After abit of pressure/'reassurance' I agreed..
Well he turned up and enacted his initally message from the moment the door shut.
Immediately held up the wall by my throat and I'm sure you can guess the rest. "
wtf that's tape you should report him, just because you met on a swinging site no one has the right to do that against your will. Are they still on here? |
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"Guy messaged his F'd up fantasy I said I wasn't intrested. He kept persisting and eventually we chatted daily for 6-7weeks.
We were supposed to have a social but he rang the night before, explained his dad was in town and could he possibly come to mine tonight instead. We'd just chill, chat maybe abit of play but main focus social as that's what we had agreed. (can you hear the coersion already).. After abit of pressure/'reassurance' I agreed..
Well he turned up and enacted his initally message from the moment the door shut.
Immediately held up the wall by my throat and I'm sure you can guess the rest. "
that is extremely horrible to hear never mind experience... and no doubt very very frightening at that moment.. |
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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago
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Not quiet what the opp means, but i (mrs ) am a firefighter and we had to do a fire inspection on a local club. Being local to us we hadnt been there but my fellow men just kept on laughing as we went around. (Children). |
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That is awful. We have had quite a few over many years from someone having an "accident" whilst squirting on our brand new white company sheets and sitting in it to a couple where when he took off his shirt he had bullet holes and proceeded to throw his partner around the room . |
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I invited a guy I'd been speaking to for months round to mine. Told him he wasn't staying the night as my son would be home from work at 6am. He turned up with 6 cans of beer and a change of clothes. I warned him again he wasn't staying over and not to drink as he'd have to drive home. He still had 4 cans and then got pissy with me when I said he'd have to leave. Offered to get him a taxi but he insisted on driving home. Never met him again. |
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Immediately held up the wall by my throat and I'm sure you can guess the rest. wtf that's tape you should report him, just because you met on a swinging site no one has the right to do that against your will. Are they still on here?"
Apologies... The question was asked I answered and now I'm sat here questioning life's choices.
And no I didn't report, can you imagine the police would have a field day.
The guy left and messaged to say he needed to think about his conduct and then he blocked me.
A less dark bad social meet was turning up at a restaurant and before we had even ordered he was quizzing me like I was going to be his sub, how would I service his needs, rules on how my body is already his and discribing chaining me up before starters had arrived 😂 |
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By *onx89Man 28 weeks ago
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Immediately held up the wall by my throat and I'm sure you can guess the rest. wtf that's tape you should report him, just because you met on a swinging site no one has the right to do that against your will. Are they still on here?
Apologies... The question was asked I answered and now I'm sat here questioning life's choices.
And no I didn't report, can you imagine the police would have a field day.
The guy left and messaged to say he needed to think about his conduct and then he blocked me.
A less dark bad social meet was turning up at a restaurant and before we had even ordered he was quizzing me like I was going to be his sub, how would I service his needs, rules on how my body is already his and discribing chaining me up before starters had arrived 😂"
I was about to comment on the first story only to read this one 👀💀 .. seriously consider myself lucky with my meets so far, hope you're ok OP |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 28 weeks ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
I hadn't douched to his satisfaction, and when he withdrew, horror of horrors, there was a bit of something on the condom. You know what? Sometimes despite your best efforts, it happens. He was a big guy, and stood shouting abuse at me while I cowered in the middle of the bed in my bra and stockings. I've never felt so vulnerable. I was practically in tears by the time I was able to pull on my clothes and get out of there. I honestly thought he was going to hit me. 😟 |
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Not from fab, but many years ago on yahoo messenger, I got speaking to a girl and I was invited over to indulge in some BDSM now, I can play at being Dimme no problem, but this woman wanted me to full on batter her. Full power strikes, bruising and claret everywhere. I did NOT take her up on the idea. An hour or so later, she drinks a lot, smokes the devils lettuce, then her boyfriend calls and is put on speakerphone. He seemed really nice. Then she closed her eyes and I quietly left.
It struck me later that if I HAD have gone and done it, it'd be front page news on every paper about how this innocent woman had been subjected to a vyolent r-pe in her own home and my DNA would be everywhere.
And what would I say in defence? She was asking for it?
It messed me up for a long time afterwards. |
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Apologies... The question was asked I answered and now I'm sat here questioning life's choices.
And no I didn't report, can you imagine the police would have a field day.
The guy left and messaged to say he needed to think about his conduct and then he blocked me.
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This really hit me. I was sexually assaulted twice by the same person a good while back. For various reasons I tried to deal with it alone.
When I finally (by persuasion by others) reported it to the police, they were kind, compassionate, professional, and supportive. The fact that I am a swinger was a way bigger deal in my head than it was to them, and in no way affected how they treated me.
Reading this post has sharply reminded me why I always social in a public place first, and why hubby always knows where I am. I worry about people who meet alone.
Hope you’re okay x
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We've had 2
1st. Guy wanted to be pegged. Guess he never touched due to runny brown stuff going down his leg afterwards.
2nd. Having to call police to evict a person who wouldn't leave and was turning aggressive towards his other half. Think he had a night in the cells to cool down. |
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The worst and really the funniest it's a long story that is generally told in person let's say they had absolutely no sense of humour.. one scenario involved them getting a case of rubber wear from the garage they lived in a flat so I heard this case being pulled up the stairs when they got into the flat.. I said you'll have to cut me up if you're gonna put me in that..😹... straight over there fucking head that one went.. they opened the case ...straight away the room was enveloped with the stench of mold,. they asked me if I wanted to try something on ...I declined... |
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I can't say that I've had any particularly bad meets off here. Some obviously were more memorable than others, but on straight dating sites that was something else! Too many dating disasters to mention, but at least I got my own sanity reassured on a regular basis, with us swingers seeming frighteningly normal! |
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"First meet I ever had on here, he was very intoxicated, I managed to leave fairly quickly, he constantly makes new profiles now and messages me horrible things
I have learnt a lot since then"
What a douche move, why go out of your way to spread negativity.
He should chalk it up to experience and move on! Why persist in hounding someone, really shows a person's character. |
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"Guy messaged his F'd up fantasy I said I wasn't intrested. He kept persisting and eventually we chatted daily for 6-7weeks.
We were supposed to have a social but he rang the night before, explained his dad was in town and could he possibly come to mine tonight instead. We'd just chill, chat maybe abit of play but main focus social as that's what we had agreed. (can you hear the coersion already).. After abit of pressure/'reassurance' I agreed..
Well he turned up and enacted his initally message from the moment the door shut.
Immediately held up the wall by my throat and I'm sure you can guess the rest. "
sorry to hear this, and hope you get any support that you need. I suggest you report him to the police, you can ask to speak to only female police officers,doing this you'll avoid any misogynist attitude. |
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By *G LanaTV/TS 28 weeks ago
Gosport |
"Guy messaged his F'd up fantasy I said I wasn't intrested. He kept persisting and eventually we chatted daily for 6-7weeks.
We were supposed to have a social but he rang the night before, explained his dad was in town and could he possibly come to mine tonight instead. We'd just chill, chat maybe abit of play but main focus social as that's what we had agreed. (can you hear the coersion already).. After abit of pressure/'reassurance' I agreed..
Well he turned up and enacted his initally message from the moment the door shut.
Immediately held up the wall by my throat and I'm sure you can guess the rest. "
That is absolutely atrocious, I hope you are OK now. |
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I went to a ladies house and it took me 45 minutes to get there, even though it was nowhere near where she claimed to live. Anyways, I turned up at hers and someone had sprayed the word 'SLUT' on her front door. Red flags were being waved before my very eyes, but fuck it, she might give good head. I knocked at the door, she answers... looking absolutely nothing like her pictures. 45 minute drive was whirling around in my head. Walked in and there was cat and dog shit everywhere, the smell was horrendous, rubbish filled every inch of the floor in the living room. I was physically sick and had to swallow it, there's no way I was cleaning up after me. She said "Sorry about the mess, do you want to go straight to the bedroom"? I replied, "Nah, I'm off home", and walked out. Tip for fellow fabbers, try and get a video of a persons gaff before going there. 🤮 |
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"I went to a ladies house and it took me 45 minutes to get there, even though it was nowhere near where she claimed to live. Anyways, I turned up at hers and someone had sprayed the word 'SLUT' on her front door. Red flags were being waved before my very eyes, but fuck it, she might give good head. I knocked at the door, she answers... looking absolutely nothing like her pictures. 45 minute drive was whirling around in my head. Walked in and there was cat and dog shit everywhere, the smell was horrendous, rubbish filled every inch of the floor in the living room. I was physically sick and had to swallow it, there's no way I was cleaning up after me. She said "Sorry about the mess, do you want to go straight to the bedroom"? I replied, "Nah, I'm off home", and walked out. Tip for fellow fabbers, try and get a video of a persons gaff before going there. 🤮"
Blimey!! |
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"I went to a ladies house and it took me 45 minutes to get there, even though it was nowhere near where she claimed to live. Anyways, I turned up at hers and someone had sprayed the word 'SLUT' on her front door. Red flags were being waved before my very eyes, but fuck it, she might give good head. I knocked at the door, she answers... looking absolutely nothing like her pictures. 45 minute drive was whirling around in my head. Walked in and there was cat and dog shit everywhere, the smell was horrendous, rubbish filled every inch of the floor in the living room. I was physically sick and had to swallow it, there's no way I was cleaning up after me. She said "Sorry about the mess, do you want to go straight to the bedroom"? I replied, "Nah, I'm off home", and walked out. Tip for fellow fabbers, try and get a video of a persons gaff before going there. 🤮
Blimey!! "
Oh, and I got a speeding ticket going home. That was my fault though 😂 |
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"That is awful. We have had quite a few over many years from someone having an "accident" whilst squirting on our brand new white company sheets and sitting in it to a couple where when he took off his shirt he had bullet holes and proceeded to throw his partner around the room ."
See, this is what worries me about squirting, loosing control of all my bodily functions 😱😱 |
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"I hadn't douched to his satisfaction, and when he withdrew, horror of horrors, there was a bit of something on the condom. You know what? Sometimes despite your best efforts, it happens. He was a big guy, and stood shouting abuse at me while I cowered in the middle of the bed in my bra and stockings. I've never felt so vulnerable. I was practically in tears by the time I was able to pull on my clothes and get out of there. I honestly thought he was going to hit me. 😟"
Sounds like he was the douche 💞 |
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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago
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… well all I will say is there is a particular Travelodge in Hampshire where my shoe is still behind the counter
Having had to make a fast exit dressing while running along a corridor
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Worst meet was was my first, around 6 months ago (he's not in my verifications,he didn't verify me, nor I him)
I didn't like how he spoke to me, after we'd had sex. I got up, to freshen up in the bathroom and he asked 'where are you going'.it sounds like nothing, but maybe I'm not describing it well, it was the tone.
We started going for a second round, and he went full force into my arsehole without lube, I freaked, he clamied it was an accident. Bull shit.
I asked him to leave, he didn't want to as we'd already agreed he'd stay the night and had been drinking. He did sleep on the sofa though and didn't bother me all night after that.
He'd been messaging stuff like, I'm his now, not wanting me to be available to anyone else, really intense stuff..
Lesson learned!
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 28 weeks ago
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"Worst meet was was my first, around 6 months ago (he's not in my verifications,he didn't verify me, nor I him)
I didn't like how he spoke to me, after we'd had sex. I got up, to freshen up in the bathroom and he asked 'where are you going'.it sounds like nothing, but maybe I'm not describing it well, it was the tone.
We started going for a second round, and he went full force into my arsehole without lube, I freaked, he clamied it was an accident. Bull shit.
I asked him to leave, he didn't want to as we'd already agreed he'd stay the night and had been drinking. He did sleep on the sofa though and didn't bother me all night after that.
He'd been messaging stuff like, I'm his now, not wanting me to be available to anyone else, really intense stuff..
Lesson learned!
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Some people are such arses! |
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Nothing major for me as I tend to get the feel what they like before meeting
One I did turn and run, hour drive. place was such a mess I though it been bombed, she said husband out so it’s good to go, oh sorry I not staying I wanted to see and get to know you a little first
Lame excuse I know, she didnt like that looking at her face so I left
Hygiene is a pet hate
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"Guy messaged his F'd up fantasy I said I wasn't intrested. He kept persisting and eventually we chatted daily for 6-7weeks.
We were supposed to have a social but he rang the night before, explained his dad was in town and could he possibly come to mine tonight instead. We'd just chill, chat maybe abit of play but main focus social as that's what we had agreed. (can you hear the coersion already).. After abit of pressure/'reassurance' I agreed..
Well he turned up and enacted his initally message from the moment the door shut.
Immediately held up the wall by my throat and I'm sure you can guess the rest. "
Then some people wonder/moan when you'll you only meet socially, in a public place first.
The kept persisting bit is kind of disrespectful for starters.
Hope it didn't put you off meets too much. |
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My worst experience, is probably the man who stood me up, for a social meet.
We'd been chatting during the day and were meeting after work for a drink. The time came and went, I messaged him and he told me he'd decided I wasn't his type.
I said he could have decided that a bit earlier, since we'd chatted a few weeks.
Anyway, he left the site.
Fast-forward a couple of months, he rejoins on a new profile and asks to meet me!. I reminded him I wasn't his type, to which he said he'd lost his nerve.
That was rubbish as he was well verified. I told him no and he said he just wanted the chance to make it right, no way was he getting another chance.
I think it was partly out of spite, I used to look after a family member and work, so it took me a good while to be able to meet him (he knew this from the start of chatting). |
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Yes, second social I'd had, they turned up in joggers, trainers, a dirty t-shirt and a cardigan, didn't offer or buy themselves a drink, kept checking their phone during the meet and asked for a kiss when we left. I couldn't get away quick enough |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 28 weeks ago
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Nothing that bad.
3 stand out.
1, a couple that obviously weren't on the same page about what they wanted from the meet and that was awkward. I was glad to get out.
2, an alleged single guy who turned out not to be bloody single. I did wonder why he was so anxious that I got there early - I suspect his wife got in from work at some time after 8pm. The kicker was that to get to and from his house, I had to walk by all of his neighbour's living rooms, which faced out onto the footpath and I'd gone in full porn star mode, so my tits were exploding out of a low cut top. Some of his neighbours would likely have seen me and either twigged about me being Trans or if they hadn't, would have assumed I was on a good rate for visiting.
3, was a social night out with another Tgirl. She didn't have face pics, but made a big thing about being 'convincing'. I'm not going to claim I always pass as a woman, but seem to get away with it. However, in her case, she really didn't and to be honest, really looked like she needed someone to sit her down and teach her the basics. Her make up was that bad a lass reapplied a lot of it on the spot in a bar. To make matters worse, every time a girl came up and asked if they could have a selfie with me, she tried her best to get a telephone number from her. That made me feel quite uncomfortable. |
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I had a guy that every time I touched him or started giving him head, he came. I think it was 4 or 5 times in around 30 mins. He just kept saying "don't worry, I'll come again, just carry on".
2 guys (separate days) did a runner immediately after they came from a BJ meet. Literally made an excuse to nip to their car and drove away. Made me feel a bit shit for a day or so.
One guy had a micro penis, which he'd not mentioned. I'm no size queen but I would have liked a bit of forewarning. Maybe that's on me for not asking for a dick pic though. He was a great looking guy and he enjoyed his BJ, so it wasn't an awful meet. Please don't come at me for dick shaming. I can work with any size put in front of me, it's all good 
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