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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
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Just been reading a report on the new drug for women, Lybrido, which is being hailed as the Viagra for women. On a programme this morning reporter Kelly Rose Bradford said that women should take it as they 'have a responsibility to keep their libidos high' for their partners.
I am utterly astonished that this kind of comment could be spoken not only in the 21st century, but by a woman! |
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"I am utterly astonished that this kind of comment could be spoken not only in the 21st century, but by a woman!"
How are you astonished? I am sure the drug company paid well for that comment. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Alternatively, men with a female partner going through a period of low libido (early menopause, very young children etc.) could take something to lower their libidos for a couple of years. |
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"Alternatively, men with a female partner going through a period of low libido (early menopause, very young children etc.) could take something to lower their libidos for a couple of years. "
Gosh no....how could you posdibly expect a man to think of somebody else rather than how hes next going to empty his fucking balls  |
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"Alternatively, men with a female partner going through a period of low libido (early menopause, very young children etc.) could take something to lower their libidos for a couple of years.
Gosh no....how could you posdibly expect a man to think of somebody else rather than how hes next going to empty his fucking balls "
God you really do talk some sense girl   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Alternatively, men with a female partner going through a period of low libido (early menopause, very young children etc.) could take something to lower their libidos for a couple of years. "
I did. It's called Guinness.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I didnt see the show so I am not gonna wade in with my own uninformed opinion, it does scare me to think that I could end up in a relationship where I still want sex and my partner doesn't.
I really don't know what I would do in that situation  |
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i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too. |
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"Just been reading a report on the new drug for women, Lybrido, which is being hailed as the Viagra for women. On a programme this morning reporter Kelly Rose Bradford said that women should take it as they 'have a responsibility to keep their libidos high' for their partners.
I am utterly astonished that this kind of comment could be spoken not only in the 21st century, but by a woman!"
I'm not astonished. Having read some of the comments on the thread about lads mags, in which people seem unable to see that objectifying women sexually is a bad thing to be doing I'm not surprised that an impressionable woman would think that she would need to take a drug so that she is ever ready for her man. Am I the only one who can see the connection between pouting, breast thrusting babes in the newsagents and this? |
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too."
Please don't generalise about women in this way. |
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too."
And women don't work?  |
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too.
And women don't work? "
Only for pin money and they sit down all day filing their nails mostly |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I didnt see the show so I am not gonna wade in with my own uninformed opinion, it does scare me to think that I could end up in a relationship where I still want sex and my partner doesn't.
I really don't know what I would do in that situation "
You don't plan for it. I know women who went from every night and twice on Sunday to not being able to even muster the energy for the goodnight kiss. It's not what they wanted either. The ones I know have seen their libidos return when life has improved and, importantly, their partner made the effort to show he still found them desirable. |
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too.
Please don't generalise about women in this way."
I get very tired working everyday full time and having a house to run with two teenage sons ... I agree don't generalise about us women like this |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Just been reading a report on the new drug for women, Lybrido, which is being hailed as the Viagra for women. On a programme this morning reporter Kelly Rose Bradford said that women should take it as they 'have a responsibility to keep their libidos high' for their partners.
I am utterly astonished that this kind of comment could be spoken not only in the 21st century, but by a woman!
I'm not astonished. Having read some of the comments on the thread about lads mags, in which people seem unable to see that objectifying women sexually is a bad thing to be doing I'm not surprised that an impressionable woman would think that she would need to take a drug so that she is ever ready for her man. Am I the only one who can see the connection between pouting, breast thrusting babes in the newsagents and this?"
I see the connection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too.
And women don't work? "
yes of course they do, but if they dont want sex with their hubbys there is always someone else who does. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didnt see the show so I am not gonna wade in with my own uninformed opinion, it does scare me to think that I could end up in a relationship where I still want sex and my partner doesn't.
I really don't know what I would do in that situation "
I do understand that but I can honestly say if I ended up with a partner who went off sex I would rather not have it with him than have sex knowing he's only doing it for me, I would get no pleasure at all knowing my partner was taking pills to make themselves do something they really didn't want to |
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too.
Please don't generalise about women in this way.
I get very tired working everyday full time and having a house to run with two teenage sons ... I agree don't generalise about us women like this "
Oh and I am going through the menopause and its not fun at times  |
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"Just been reading a report on the new drug for women, Lybrido, which is being hailed as the Viagra for women. On a programme this morning reporter Kelly Rose Bradford said that women should take it as they 'have a responsibility to keep their libidos high' for their partners.
I am utterly astonished that this kind of comment could be spoken not only in the 21st century, but by a woman!
I'm not astonished. Having read some of the comments on the thread about lads mags, in which people seem unable to see that objectifying women sexually is a bad thing to be doing I'm not surprised that an impressionable woman would think that she would need to take a drug so that she is ever ready for her man. Am I the only one who can see the connection between pouting, breast thrusting babes in the newsagents and this?
I see the connection."
Yea but I sort of feel I'm preaching to the converted  |
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too.
And women don't work?
yes of course they do, but if they dont want sex with their hubbys there is always someone else who does."
of course, that's what these sites are for |
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too.
And women don't work?
yes of course they do, but if they dont want sex with their hubbys there is always someone else who does."
What happened to working it out between you? |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too."
When I was married I worked full time - a lot longer hours than my hubby. And I was also the main carer for my mother who was very severely disabled with MS. I would go straight from work to her house, cook her a meal, do jobs around the house which needed doing and then wash her, change her and put her to bed, like a baby. I would often get a call out in the middle of the night too - often at 3am and still have to get up at 6am to get ready for work.
Needless to say my libido suffered. Some magic pill to bring it back would not have helped and would probably driven me to have either a stroke or heart attack - both of which would be likely as I also have hypertension.
The idea that women have it easy is actually quite offensive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too.
And women don't work?
yes of course they do, but if they dont want sex with their hubbys there is always someone else who does.
What happened to working it out between you?"
or maybe she hasn't gone off sex, just sick of the sight of him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I actually read a similar story.
Although there are differences in what was said in it.
Isn't the guy supposed to get her horny?
What does it say about the guy if the only way she can get the horn is with Viagra?
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too.
And women don't work?
yes of course they do, but if they dont want sex with their hubbys there is always someone else who does.
What happened to working it out between you?
or maybe she hasn't gone off sex, just sick of the sight of him "
Maybe I can see a nice little sideline in supplying paperbags to go with the tablets |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too.
And women don't work?
yes of course they do, but if they dont want sex with their hubbys there is always someone else who does.
What happened to working it out between you?
or maybe she hasn't gone off sex, just sick of the sight of him
Maybe I can see a nice little sideline in supplying paperbags to go with the tablets"
its a point tho, I never had sex with my ex for 8 years before we split and my libido was fine, I just didn't want sex with him and i'm sure i'm not the only women who's just gone off their hubby |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I actually read a similar story.
Although there are differences in what was said in it.
Isn't the guy supposed to get her horny?
What does it say about the guy if the only way she can get the horn is with Viagra?
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Women can lose libido and no matter what a man does she just may not get aroused. It happens. |
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too."
Astonishing! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Viagra was not developed to deal with ED. The side effects of dealing with ED and the rest were noted in the trials. When it didn't work as heart medicine it was shelved and then someone hit on the idea of using it for ED.
This is a whole different ball game and smacks of other medical interventions into women's sexual health and the sort of quick fix that some would seek rather than work through what is going on for them and between them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Women can lose libido and no matter what a man does she just may not get aroused. It happens."
Well, those "women" ..havent met Ben 
I know, I know that's lame right. |
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"I actually read a similar story.
Although there are differences in what was said in it.
Isn't the guy supposed to get her horny?
What does it say about the guy if the only way she can get the horn is with Viagra?
Women can lose libido and no matter what a man does she just may not get aroused. It happens."
I think you make a very valid point. There are all sorts of reasons that women lose their libido, medication, relationship problems, hormonal problems, stress...I could go on. Using a pill to re start it wont solve the problems that caused it. I can see its uses for specific cases but not because its a womans responsibility to keep her libido high for her man.
I can't speak for men (not being one) so can't comment on viagra. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was lucky with my ex we both worked full time altho I worked longer hours than him when I got home at nite kids were in pjs house clean clothes washed and ironed my tea on and a bath ran 4 me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too."
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By (user no longer on site)
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In defence of men, and couples in particular. There are many men in long term relationships who lose their libido due to reasons outside the relationship They may well use drugs to balance out their libido to maintain their relationship.
Why shouldn't women have the same option?
No it's not a responsibility, No the drug companies should not play up the issue to sell more.
But a loving couple with an imbalance of libido's either way would probably be pleased that there are alternatives that may or may not work for either or both partners.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Can't think of any bigger turn off than a woman wanting/having to out of a sense of duty. Roll in the sheets with me because you desire me and vice versa otherwise lets not simply go through the motions |
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By *adkatWoman
over a year ago
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too."
Read a booklet that said something similar once think it was from the 1940s. |
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"Can't think of any bigger turn off than a woman wanting/having to out of a sense of duty. Roll in the sheets with me because you desire me and vice versa otherwise lets not simply go through the motions "
Ohhhh I desire |
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too."
I wonder what I was doing at 7am this morning at my desk....I am sure I was working...that really is a bold statement to make on what piece of research do you base that statement on.... |
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too.
I wonder what I was doing at 7am this morning at my desk....I am sure I was working...that really is a bold statement to make on what piece of research do you base that statement on...."
Yes but you cant possible have worked as hard as any poor hard done by bloke |
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The key issue here, I think, is not that there is Lybrido, but rather the way in which this particular person presented its use - as 'a duty'.
Which is fundamentally wrong. Just as wrong as if it had been said of men and Viagra.
I can imagine that Viagra has saved many relationships and marriages. I would hope that Lybrido will do the same. There must be nothing more heart wrenching for someone to love someone but for a physical, mental or emotional reason cannot achieve a level of sexual desire to allow them to express that love physically.
...and for every person (be it male or female) gobbling these magic pills down like tic-tacs so they can go all night in a swinging club or an orgy, I choose to focus on the hundreds of people taking these drugs to help support and (sometimes) reclaim a part of their own emotional and physical well-being.
Just because some asshat reporter has 1950's values, it shouldn't tarnish all the good that Lybrido could achieve.
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
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"In defence of men, and couples in particular. There are many men in long term relationships who lose their libido due to reasons outside the relationship They may well use drugs to balance out their libido to maintain their relationship.
Why shouldn't women have the same option?
No it's not a responsibility, No the drug companies should not play up the issue to sell more.
But a loving couple with an imbalance of libido's either way would probably be pleased that there are alternatives that may or may not work for either or both partners.
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I would agree. Many women really do genuinely SUFFER from a lack of libido. It can ruin their lives and it can happen to women who are relatively young - not just post-menopausal. Such medication may be the breakthrough they have been hoping for.
But for anyone to suggest that it is almost a woman's 'duty' to take it for her husband (not for herself because women don't REALLY enjoy sex, they do it for their partners) is just so offensive it makes me want to scream! And I wish there was an angry face smiley! |
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too."
Unbelievable I'm speechless |
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"The key issue here, I think, is not that there is Lybrido, but rather the way in which this particular person presented its use - as 'a duty'.
Which is fundamentally wrong. Just as wrong as if it had been said of men and Viagra.
I can imagine that Viagra has saved many relationships and marriages. I would hope that Lybrido will do the same. There must be nothing more heart wrenching for someone to love someone but for a physical, mental or emotional reason cannot achieve a level of sexual desire to allow them to express that love physically.
...and for every person (be it male or female) gobbling these magic pills down like tic-tacs so they can go all night in a swinging club or an orgy, I choose to focus on the hundreds of people taking these drugs to help support and (sometimes) reclaim a part of their own emotional and physical well-being.
Just because some asshat reporter has 1950's values, it shouldn't tarnish all the good that Lybrido could achieve.
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
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"The key issue here, I think, is not that there is Lybrido, but rather the way in which this particular person presented its use - as 'a duty'.
Which is fundamentally wrong. Just as wrong as if it had been said of men and Viagra.
I can imagine that Viagra has saved many relationships and marriages. I would hope that Lybrido will do the same. There must be nothing more heart wrenching for someone to love someone but for a physical, mental or emotional reason cannot achieve a level of sexual desire to allow them to express that love physically.
...and for every person (be it male or female) gobbling these magic pills down like tic-tacs so they can go all night in a swinging club or an orgy, I choose to focus on the hundreds of people taking these drugs to help support and (sometimes) reclaim a part of their own emotional and physical well-being.
Just because some asshat reporter has 1950's values, it shouldn't tarnish all the good that Lybrido could achieve.
Spot on "
I wasn't trying to tarnish it in my original post. I was criticising the response of that particular reporter. I have no problem with the drug per se. Just people's attitude to it and to why women should use it. |
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Just because some asshat
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***Ben is totally stealing that word in his ever expansive common insult library***
Great word! Love that haha!
Asshat. Great. |
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Just because some asshat
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***Ben is totally stealing that word in his ever expansive common insult library***
Great word! Love that haha!
Asshat. Great. "
I cannot take credit for it. Its a Dean Winchester special.... |
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"Can't think of any bigger turn off than a woman wanting/having to out of a sense of duty. Roll in the sheets with me because you desire me and vice versa otherwise lets not simply go through the motions "
Ditto that, I wouldn't want to be with someone just going thru the motions, I want the passion and sensual sex  |
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too."
Are you serious?!!
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"i dont agree with taking drugs like viagra realy, but i think women should make more of an effort to please their partners. women say they are tired, well hubby being at work all day gets tired too.
Are you serious?!!
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I think she was... |
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"Just been reading a report on the new drug for women, Lybrido, which is being hailed as the Viagra for women. On a programme this morning reporter Kelly Rose Bradford said that women should take it as they 'have a responsibility to keep their libidos high' for their partners.
I am utterly astonished that this kind of comment could be spoken not only in the 21st century, but by a woman!
I'm not astonished. Having read some of the comments on the thread about lads mags, in which people seem unable to see that objectifying women sexually is a bad thing to be doing I'm not surprised that an impressionable woman would think that she would need to take a drug so that she is ever ready for her man. Am I the only one who can see the connection between pouting, breast thrusting babes in the newsagents and this?"
I'm not surprised either, you only have to read some of the comments made by women on this thread!
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"does it make clits bigger, cos i want my arse fucked by a real female hardon"
No but there is expensive and painful surgery that removes all a womans sensation yet makes.her able to do that. I think all women should get it done to.please their men.
PS that was a joke and I know your post was too |
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"Just been reading a report on the new drug for women, Lybrido, which is being hailed as the Viagra for women. On a programme this morning reporter Kelly Rose Bradford said that women should take it as they 'have a responsibility to keep their libidos high' for their partners.
I am utterly astonished that this kind of comment could be spoken not only in the 21st century, but by a woman!
I'm not astonished. Having read some of the comments on the thread about lads mags, in which people seem unable to see that objectifying women sexually is a bad thing to be doing I'm not surprised that an impressionable woman would think that she would need to take a drug so that she is ever ready for her man. Am I the only one who can see the connection between pouting, breast thrusting babes in the newsagents and this?
I'm not surprised either, you only have to read some of the comments made by women on this thread!
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Unfortunately I think you're right, and which is why so many people....mainly guys don't understand why they get poor responses to requests for 'fancy a shag'.
We live in a very sexualised society, some may say liberated, but its a shame that over exposure results in pressure on both sexes to be something or possibly face being branded as a prude or the astonishing stigma of not fulfilling their duty ! Objectifying womenis a bad thing...fact. the sooner those folk realise that women who believe this aren't bra burning nutters, the sooner they will realise, they may have better experiences by engaging in the woman's interests too?
Lets face it there are numerous reasons for taking viagra or this female alternative, and its main reason was to assist those who suffer poor libido, or have medical conditions.
If someone feels they have to take it, or act out of a sense of duty, then they really need to look at the person requesting them to do so and realise they are rather self centred.
Just realised its Thursday
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By *adkatWoman
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Just because some asshat
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***Ben is totally stealing that word in his ever expansive common insult library***
Great word! Love that haha!
Asshat. Great.
I cannot take credit for it. Its a Dean Winchester special.... "
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