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By *errywild OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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As a mature woman who resents ageing because it shortens my time on Earth and does ugly things to my body and mind, I've always wondered why younger (objective term) men prefer or just really like mature women, MILFs ? |
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For me it’s that they appreciate the more finer things in life and when a man acts like a caring gentleman they notice it and have lived so as be able to hold a conversation about life and there past young girls only seem to be interested in how they look and wanting 15 minutes of fame or altering there body |
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By *errywild OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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"For me it’s that they appreciate the more finer things in life and when a man acts like a caring gentleman they notice it and have lived so as be able to hold a conversation about life and there past young girls only seem to be interested in how they look and wanting 15 minutes of fame or altering there body "
I very much care how I look and admittedly would happily alter one or two body parts  |
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"As a mature woman who resents ageing because it shortens my time on Earth and does ugly things to my body and mind, I've always wondered why younger (objective term) men prefer or just really like mature women, MILFs ? "
Confidence, experience. Just a general world wiseness that does away with some of the neurosis of youth. |
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By *errywild OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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"Is your query open to all (those who were once young) or just the extant younger men? 🙂"
Sorry, see, tapped post before I answered! 
Anyone who has something to say can say it, free country and all that  |
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"As a mature woman who resents ageing because it shortens my time on Earth and does ugly things to my body and mind, I've always wondered why younger (objective term) men prefer or just really like mature women, MILFs ? "
I think that there are lots of different reasons for this so I can only speak from my own point of view. I have always been attracted to mature, womanly women and that attraction is based on a number of things. Life experience, outlook, perception, emotional maturity and self-assuredness are all very attractive traits. I certainly found this hugely attractive as a younger man, as well as the fact that I have always found mature women’s bodies very sensual and arousing.
From a physical point of view, I find a mature woman’s body phenomenally attractive. I’m quite a primal sort of man and I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about this and I’m not sure that I have an ‘answer’ as such.
I’m not sure that any of the above helps, or answers the question, but I certainly don’t subscribe to the idea that a woman’s attractiveness is defined by age. Quite the reverse in fact. |
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"As a mature woman who resents ageing because it shortens my time on Earth and does ugly things to my body and mind, I've always wondered why younger (objective term) men prefer or just really like mature women, MILFs ? "
Short answer....porn |
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I think it's a mixture of a belief that we have more confidence and experience and a type of nostalgia for that mum of a friend that they lusted over. Some is a true preference but others it's a tick box mission. |
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By *eyeYCouple 22 weeks ago
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While too old to be the younger guy for most now, I have had a number of 'interactions' with older ladies through my 20/30's and will answer honestly in my experience.
The way a confident woman carries herself, the assured sexuality, less self conscious worries, able to frankly express her desires, ability to live in the moment and less 'will he respect me tomorrow' (his problem) overall a point of self acceptance (regardless of "bits" you might change) I will speak for the majority of men in saying we are far less hung up on a little extra of life's addition than many women may believe.
A confident, sexy and self assured woman who wants me will always gain more attention than one playing it coy and more interested in games..
I hope that is a reasonable observation and I don't get roasted too much.. 🤷😉
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Who knows? I don't. But here are my random musings...
Emotional stability, conversational maturity, not burdened with immature traits, sense and sensibilities that are intact and not skewed, they offer humility, are less capricious than those of their own age...? |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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My first wife was a MILF. She was 36 and I was 19. She had her life more or less sorted, but turned out that I coming along made it complete(ish). She wanted someone capable and willing to try in and out of the bedroom. We were together for 10 years when she moved on to a younger model. Anyway, aside from great sex for 9 years and us building a life together, which established both of us, we were great together. So what can seem like a short-term fuck can become something. |
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Sadly no longer a younger man and don't have a preference for a particular age or motherhood status.
When I was younger though, often noticed the difference in general confidence / experience. On some level a degree of self consciousness / insecurity can be endearing (if not extreme).
You appear perfectly ripe though OP, so I wouldn't worry 🙂 |
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By *errywild OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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"Sadly no longer a younger man and don't have a preference for a particular age or motherhood status.
When I was younger though, often noticed the difference in general confidence / experience. On some level a degree of self consciousness / insecurity can be endearing (if not extreme).
You appear perfectly ripe though OP, so I wouldn't worry 🙂"
Well thank you, so ripe I am nearly bursting at seams! |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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Most of the Milfs are just women around my own age these days, but I’ve always had a thing for older women, I’ve always found that they tend to know exactly what they want and don’t tend to play games etc |
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By *errywild OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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"I love married milfs and at my age most of them love the idea of me but never commit "
No offence, young man, but just had a peek at your profile,not only you are around my offspring's age but also your status is another reason why I am not one of the women you talk about. On the other hand, even older men think that putting up a similar status is somehow sexy. |
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I have obsessed, chased and craved older ladies since being a teenager! Love the confidence or sometimes just the down to earth attitude an older lady seems to have. I love curves, skinny, small boobs, big boobs, bums, tums, battle scars, the list is endless as to why I love older ladies
Thing is, now I’m actually being taken seriously by older ladies I’m catching you up age wise!  |
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By *errywild OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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"Eerrr not at all that kind of explosion!
Oops, in that case I hope your (Berry 🫐 nice) seams resist the pressure 🤞"
So do I! Current situation is not helping my generally already somewhat weak willpower. I allow myself till end of year, then a new regime must commence to keep the seams intact! |
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As an older woman that has attracted the interest of younger men I am intrigued by this thread and the posted responses.
To age is such a gift so I am embracing my grey hair, wrinkles and a little bit of weight gain with good grace.
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By *errywild OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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"As an older woman that has attracted the interest of younger men I am intrigued by this thread and the posted responses.
To age is such a gift so I am embracing my grey hair, wrinkles and a little bit of weight gain with good grace.
I envy you, although appreciate many have not been as fortunate to live to my age, I still not like it
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"For me it’s that they appreciate the more finer things in life and when a man acts like a caring gentleman they notice it and have lived so as be able to hold a conversation about life and there past young girls only seem to be interested in how they look and wanting 15 minutes of fame or altering there body
I very much care how I look and admittedly would happily alter one or two body parts "
You look gorgeous, wouldn't change a thing x |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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For any lady who has body insecurities (be that belly, boobs /small/saggy/massive, bum) there is another site that will have a community for the very thing you are insecure about where 1000’s of people visit on the daily to admire photos of [insert whatever the body issues is].
Folk like what they like, simple as that. Don’t question it, enjoy it. Have a bit more confidence in yourself! |
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C is an older woman to me by a few years but I can see how she appeals to younger guys than me too.
She has an inner confidence; an aura of acceptance of herself and her body and knows how to dress/carry herself. Her FAB experiences and open mind have led her to expand her sexual map and push her boundaries and she just enjoys letting go like she’s got no cares sexually now.
Being in a previous long term relationship suppressed a lot of her urges or needs and so she’s just enjoying being herself and is free to just be.
I see that with a number of woman and that’s what I find sexy about women as they get older. They are at a ‘I don’t give a fuck stage’ and that confidence and acceptance is sexy AF 😈
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"For any lady who has body insecurities (be that belly, boobs /small/saggy/massive, bum) there is another site that will have a community for the very thing you are insecure about where 1000’s of people visit on the daily to admire photos of [insert whatever the body issues is].
Folk like what they like, simple as that. Don’t question it, enjoy it. Have a bit more confidence in yourself!"
100% this!!!! 💪 |
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"As a mature woman who resents ageing because it shortens my time on Earth and does ugly things to my body and mind, I've always wondered why younger (objective term) men prefer or just really like mature women, MILFs ? "
If your body is ugly now I'd love to see a 21 year old you, stunning xx
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By *ilva69Man 22 weeks ago
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"As a mature woman who resents ageing because it shortens my time on Earth and does ugly things to my body and mind, I've always wondered why younger (objective term) men prefer or just really like mature women, MILFs ? "
It’s a lot of young men’s dream/fantasy of being with an older woman. I don’t know if it’s the maternal thing., I remember having such thoughts in my late teens early 20s |
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I think personally, it comes down to interactions and their personality. They seem to have more confidence to lead a conversation which helps bring me out of my shell a bit and after a while, I then become more confident speaking to them. It's not something that happens on purpose, I just find that dynamic helps. |
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"As a mature woman who resents ageing because it shortens my time on Earth and does ugly things to my body and mind, I've always wondered why younger (objective term) men prefer or just really like mature women, MILFs ? "
I'm seeing no issues with your body 🔥🤓🥷 |
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They are mainly attracted to them for hookups and not much else. Just like majority of women with older men.
It's about experience and more often than not... The taboo fantasy of a crush on a friend's parent growing up. |
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"In my opinion I think that younger guys think we have loads of experience when it comes to sex"
Probably right, but also from my perspective as a young old person who liked the older lady and people my own age, as I’ve reached each age, has found, boobs get bigger as girls get older. Throwing my tit bit in here. And no the fact that they don’t always sit up as much as they did doesn’t matter. Boobs always weather well in my opinion x |
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By *oxy-RedWoman 22 weeks ago
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"In my opinion I think that younger guys think we have loads of experience when it comes to sex
Probably right, but also from my perspective as a young old person who liked the older lady and people my own age, as I’ve reached each age, has found, boobs get bigger as girls get older. Throwing my tit bit in here. And no the fact that they don’t always sit up as much as they did doesn’t matter. Boobs always weather well in my opinion x"
I agree because my boobs have definitely got bigger ad I've got older x |
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It could also be the toxic option that older women have less opportunities and have been fucked around a lot more than younger women in their prime.
Meaning that they are more likely to settle for mediocre as nice guys finish last an all that. So the 20 somethings that are running around with everyone having the time of their lives are the 30 somethings that are looking for the decent guy and not the arsehole guy.
So it means that they are more likely to give the guy that doesn't have any luck with the 20 something that has the world at her feet a chance and that means that more than likely he'll have more options.
It's the game and almost everyone plays it at some point.
Me... I can't be arsed with the dog and pony show so I just get on with my life and see what I come across |
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By *errywild OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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I definitely wasn't fishing for compliments there, I promise!
But thank you anyway
I remember my bf in his late teens- early 20s, he was always drooling over a few 30-40yr old actresses and neighbours Amused me then, amuses me still a little now, in a nice way.
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I was going to say that maybe it's cos the younger ones had watched The Graduate and were hoping for a Mrs Robinson, but then realised that was from 1967, so they wouldn't know what I was talking about. |
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Isn't the term "cougar" slightly classier? Definitely because they're more experienced, appreciative and want more affection than a lot of younger women. Probably also more scientific, biological reasons with a women's body denoting fertility which also play a part |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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Because we're old and have less choice so they have a better chance.
Plus the women their age prefer older guys.
Older guys prefer younger women.
That leaves younger guys having to go after us
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"Because we're old and have less choice so they have a better chance.
Plus the women their age prefer older guys.
Older guys prefer younger women.
That leaves younger guys having to go after us
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Sometimes it's purely out of pity |
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"I just find that with MILFs I can talk about Shakespeare. With the younger women it's mostly milkShakes. 🧋
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Isn't it Bubble Tea these days for the cool, hip youngsters? "
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Seriously though, I don't even think it's in my subconscious when it comes to such terms or labels because I've never fully grasped what they actually mean or how and when I would need to use them, if at all. I'm looking to engage with •women• where there is a compatibility. What does a MILF, Cougar or {insert any other label that's currently in fashion} give me above and beyond the woman? |
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"As a mature woman who resents ageing because it shortens my time on Earth and does ugly things to my body and mind, I've always wondered why younger (objective term) men prefer or just really like mature women, MILFs ? "
When I was younger... There can be any number of reasons, some deep and meaningful like mummy attachments, some more pleasurable like experience mind and body and generally older folks have better understandings of theirs and others bodies, some because they stand a better chance than with someone their own age, some as a box ticking exercise... Probably hundreds of other reasons too it's all glorious. |
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I think I’m young (ish) and I like boobs, so throwing myself back in offering to measure boobs, it’s a tough life but I think I’m pretty accurate so it’s worth while work. If I’m not obsessing, who else will do this work 😆 |
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By *sWyldWoman 22 weeks ago
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Erm..have you seen you? I'm not a guy but you look incredible. I think thats why!
Age has and continues to do horrible things to my body and my mind too. (Thank you hormones)
I don't think anyone else thinks about or even sees that, except the people experiencing it.
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I have always loved mature women (I can't say older now as I getting older)
I lost my virginity in my teens (I won't say exact age) to a woman in her 40s. Its difficult to pin down why but women of a more mature stature have always been attractive |
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"As a mature woman who resents ageing because it shortens my time on Earth and does ugly things to my body and mind, I've always wondered why younger (objective term) men prefer or just really like mature women, MILFs ? "
I love the older woman. They have an unspoken confidence, the best natural bodies AND they know exactly what they want. |
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In today's society I believe that porn has a big part to do with this.
Milf porn is thrown down people's throats on many porn sites.
And tbf I think it comes from guys thinking that Milfs will be better in bed or less stressful compared to younger women. From conversations I've had anyway. |
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"As a mature woman who resents ageing because it shortens my time on Earth and does ugly things to my body and mind, I've always wondered why younger (objective term) men prefer or just really like mature women, MILFs ? "
For me it's the maturity in age, wisdom, knowing exactly what they want and desire and to keep things exciting, the way they keep themselves nest, respectful and proper, alot less drama. |
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Why is it so weird to find age and experience attractive?
It's also so immensely flattering when an older person (in this instance a woman), who has all this life experience and who has learned much about who she is and what she wants, chooses to to sleep with you over someone else |
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"For me it’s that they appreciate the more finer things in life and when a man acts like a caring gentleman they notice it and have lived so as be able to hold a conversation about life and there past young girls only seem to be interested in how they look and wanting 15 minutes of fame or altering there body
I very much care how I look and admittedly would happily alter one or two body parts "
OMG - You are perfect! Dont you dare change any of your body parts! |
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I think porn has greatly influenced the meaning of MILF, when I used to watch porn searching MILF would give you videos with actresses who looked like grown women, not necessarily older women but it seems that once an actress ages out of being a cheerleader they immediately become MILFs.
That reminds me, I have to change my age range that I accidentally set to start at 25 instead of 35 |
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A milf is a fantasy
As a young man you dream of a horny dirty mature big tits tight pussied alutty mikf showing you the ropes
They know how to kiss, suck, lick, fuck and to show you how!
It should be every milfs duty to find a young man and teach him. Fuck his brains out!
Make him better… lol |
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My first crushes were my female teachers. My first experiences were with older women. Dating my age group (when I was much younger) was awkward because neither of us knew what we were doing and the fear of teenage pregnancy was real. At least 4 girls in my school got pregnant and no one knew if the fathers were the same age or older.
Dating older women seemed to make logical sense. Mutual attraction, no chance of pregnancy, they have knowledge I don't have, they know what they want and how to communicate it, no mind games, no drama. |
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"My first crushes were my female teachers. My first experiences were with older women. Dating my age group (when I was much younger) was awkward because neither of us knew what we were doing and the fear of teenage pregnancy was real. At least 4 girls in my school got pregnant and no one knew if the fathers were the same age or older.
Dating older women seemed to make logical sense. Mutual attraction, no chance of pregnancy, they have knowledge I don't have, they know what they want and how to communicate it, no mind games, no drama."
I was the exactly the same, 17 years old dating women 20-30 years old, it feels amazing, the sex is phenomenal and you feel like a man.
but a big difference to grown men seeking old women |
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I remember fancying my cookery teacher and my best mates auntie as a young teenage lad. I would say they were both around early 40s back then.
I liked girls too and some were really cute, but there was something so sexy and classy about the older women. Now Im older i still have the same preference, although the age range has gone up to include the more mature ladies. |
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Older women who keep themselves in shame present a certain confidence. They also know how to present themselves in a way that appeals to men, not just the young ones.
Confidence is always sexy but the arrogance of youth can be a turn off x |
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