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By *abulous guy OP   Man 28 weeks ago

West Yorkshire

Seriously, at what age did you start noticing your sex drive dipping to the point of "I can't be arsed anymore"

Has it returned?

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By *olinOfBathMan 28 weeks ago

Corsham

What? Does that actually happen?

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By *tevieG73Man 28 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

A lot older than 49, I hope.

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

I'll let you know if it ever does.

I'm enjoying my "dirty old man" stage.

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By *ature male OldhamMan 28 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham

I'll let you know if and when it happens

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By *ermite12ukMan 28 weeks ago

Solihull and Romford

Probably around 50's.

(Now 61 and it seems, it's kaput currently. Due to a bereavement.)

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By *oxychicWoman 28 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Sometimes now , with all the knobheads on here sometimes I think what's the point haha being on here sometimes kills my sex drive haha 😂😂😂😂

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By *ools and the brainCouple 28 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

About 55

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By *eorge1949Man 28 weeks ago

Broadway(george)

Sex drive is more related to health and the side effects of medication than age.

I have met ladies of well over pension age with more sex appeal and drive than some much younger.

Life is a lottery!

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By *igerFiestaMan 28 weeks ago

Huddersfield

My sex drive has increased as I got older. 20's was all about education and finding the right path and dreaming of what life could be. 30's was mostly all work and no play and settling down with realistic goals and squeezing in the occasional guilty pleasure. Bills came before I could every time. Now in my 40's with most things firmly behind me and a feeling of gratitude that I've made it this far with a much better position to indulge in life's guilty pleasures.

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By *evilinDavinaTV/TS 28 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Now

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By *abulous guy OP   Man 28 weeks ago

West Yorkshire


"Sometimes now , with all the knobheads on here sometimes I think what's the point haha being on here sometimes kills my sex drive haha 😂😂😂😂"

Haha, there's a lot of truth in this

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By *abulous guy OP   Man 28 weeks ago

West Yorkshire


"I'll let you know if it ever does.

I'm enjoying my "dirty old man" stage."

Haha, with your assets I have a feeling you'll be enjoying it for a long time

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By *ellhungvweMan 28 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I think my sex drive has grown as I have gotten older. If I have a meet planned then I look forward to it.

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By *oeBeansMan 28 weeks ago

Derby

30

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 28 weeks ago

Reading

Still waiting

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By *hortieWoman 28 weeks ago

Northampton


"Seriously, at what age did you start noticing your sex drive dipping to the point of "I can't be arsed anymore"

Has it returned?"

Body? About 4 or 5 months ago. (Fuck you, menopause).

Mentally? Confused. (Fuck you, menopause).

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By *olyGlamorousWoman 28 weeks ago

Chester

54 not happening yet 🤷🏼

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By *ily WhiteWoman 28 weeks ago

up a bit, right a bit...that's the spot

My libido is as high as it's ever been...the number of men that interest me has severely declined in recent years

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By *arry von HumpedingMan 28 weeks ago

kinky yorksville


"Seriously, at what age did you start noticing your sex drive dipping to the point of "I can't be arsed anymore"

Has it returned?"

Go see the doctor… it could be low testosterone, low cortisol… it could be any number of things that you need to treated for.

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago


"My libido is as high as it's ever been...the number of men that interest me has severely declined in recent years "

Actually, a well crafted answer to which i side with your opinion!

( except it’s women in my case )

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By *abulous guy OP   Man 28 weeks ago

West Yorkshire


"Seriously, at what age did you start noticing your sex drive dipping to the point of "I can't be arsed anymore"

Has it returned?

Go see the doctor… it could be low testosterone, low cortisol… it could be any number of things that you need to treated for. "

Luckily I'm not quite there yet

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By *viatrixWoman 28 weeks ago

Back in Surrey, Dahlings!

Mine comes and goes.

But it has definitely gone down since I started with this perimenopause malarkey 5 years ago or so. Before that it was quite uncomfortable really- feeling horny all the fucking time is not as fun as it sounds. At least not for me!

But I still enjoy sex a lot. 🤭 just not gagging for it all the time lol

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By *kphooey43Man 28 weeks ago

Barnet

82.

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman 28 weeks ago

Telford

I'm definitely peri menopausal, it's not the libido that's the issue as such it's all the other symptoms getting in the way at the moment. I really need to see my gp.

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

wait this is a thing lol

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By *otstuff77Woman 28 weeks ago

to close for comfort

I thought I'd passed it quite a few years back...I was in a vanilla relationship just going through the motions with no sex drive whatsoever. I did have a young child at the time,he was,and still is like a tornado. It was exhausting when he was younger so that probably didn't help

Anyways...Me and my X split up 3 years ago and I've never been as horny or wet in my life 🤭

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By *abulous guy OP   Man 28 weeks ago

West Yorkshire


"wait this is a thing lol"

Buckle up and get ready

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By *heelerMan 28 weeks ago

Northants

Mines still at the summit and not started dipping yet

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By *eardofVampiresWoman 28 weeks ago

Lancaster

I'm hoping never

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By *imon_hydeMan 28 weeks ago

Wells next the sea

It ebbs and flows

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By *naswingdressWoman 28 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Less age so far, and more stress levels. I've had it stone cold dead in my early 20s and roaring away at... well, I'm only 40, it's probably too soon to talk about my libido in my dotage 🤭

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By *mmaleiaWoman 28 weeks ago

Trowbridge

When I was going through the menopause, about 6 years of it I wasn’t interested! It’s been back 2 years now

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By *vmarisaTV/TS 28 weeks ago

Motherwell

I had no nookie ( self imposed)for 9 months during COVID, have made up for that ever since, I don't think I will ever lose my libido. Mx 👿

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By *itCouple30sMan 28 weeks ago

bolton

I agree, early 30s I started to dip and focus on other comforts

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By *abulous guy OP   Man 28 weeks ago

West Yorkshire


"When I was going through the menopause, about 6 years of it I wasn’t interested! It’s been back 2 years now"

Hallelujah

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By *he Silver FuxMan 28 weeks ago

Utero

The sex drive is fine, just as you get older there’s slightly less gas in the tank.

Luckily the wisdom and experience make up for the slight dip in stamina…

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By *layer oneMan 28 weeks ago

nearby

Me gone into hyper drive, my wife’s has left the building

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By *urry BlokeMan 28 weeks ago

About 2-3 years ago after losing both parents within 12 months

Something in me changed

I didn't acknowledge it at the time

I do now

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By *d mirerMan 28 weeks ago

lost

Not yet

Maybe tomorrow !

Though I fucking hope not

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

My sex drive as always been like that.

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By *007ManMan 28 weeks ago

Worthing

Mid 30s I was busy with work always tired and no interest in doing anything after it. Perked up mid 40s.

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

Mines never left like a 15 year old all the time even at 38 🤣🤣

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By *ucka39Man 28 weeks ago

Newcastle

When I've needed recover

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By *uriousscouserWoman 28 weeks ago

Wirral

I'm 51 and still smashing more helmets than Evel Knievel, so it's definitely older than that.

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By *im le2Man 28 weeks ago

AYLESTONE

Only had two wanks yesterday so I think it's starting.

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

I had a massive dip in my 30,sand did seem to really come back till I was 45 cost me my marriage

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By *ustforfun1759Couple 28 weeks ago

IRVINE

Am 64 and never noticed a drop in my sex drive if anything I have been having more sex with hubby and a few friends mrs

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By *abulous guy OP   Man 28 weeks ago

West Yorkshire


"Am 64 and never noticed a drop in my sex drive if anything I have been having more sex with hubby and a few friends mrs"

Lovely

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By *eekaboo BellyMan 28 weeks ago

Bradford

I think about 22. When I met my ex. Which is a horrible thing to say but honestly true

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By *vaRoseWoman 28 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

The only times mine has suffered were through periods of ill health. I’d say mine is stronger now that when I was a young 20-something

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By *eekaboo BellyMan 28 weeks ago

Bradford

Also hasn't returned. Have had sex a total of 2 times since and neither have been enough to make me want more

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By *eo PublicMan 28 weeks ago

Lincoln

About 3 weeks ago, hopefully only temporary though.

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By *eliWoman 28 weeks ago

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Erm... it's not happened yet. If the fora is still around in fifteen/twenty years I'll update this.

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By *estructionDollyWoman 28 weeks ago

Manchester

The only time I feel like that is because of my hormonal contraception, it goes up and down. But it never stays away long. And my head is permanently horny, sometimes my body just doesn't agree.

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By *ernowDomxXxMan 28 weeks ago

sunny Cornwall

Trt is a game changer in so many ways. Plus a healthy diet, plenty of exercise and supplements. Get blood work done and go from there.

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By *ick Weapon-XMan 28 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I was questioning my sex drive till my last recent meet where I got my MOJO back. I think a confidence boost is what most guys need.

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By *og and MuseCouple 28 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not yet… Didn’t really discover sex like on here until my 40s so hopefully not any time soon

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By *uckMe12FreeMan 28 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

This year. Someone on here has put me off sex. Hopefully I'll regain my sex drive and get back on the horse.... so to speak.

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By *uperstar76Woman 28 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire

About 18 months ago.. and still cba!

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman 28 weeks ago

Cambs

I'm 40 and hope this isn't the case!! No dip yet,

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By *inceIlkestonMan 28 weeks ago

Ilkeston


"Seriously, at what age did you start noticing your sex drive dipping to the point of "I can't be arsed anymore"

Has it returned?"

My sex drive is as high as ever, I just can't be arsed going through all the faff of bad profiles, people who can't converse or just want to fuck meat.

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By *aszloandnadjaCouple 28 weeks ago

York

We're just either side of 50 and both still have a good strong sex drive at the moment. We have both experienced long fallow periods in the past (before we got together). External factors definitely play a much bigger role in how horny we feel than our ages. We have been together 4 years now, we're still head over heels for each other and having more / better sex than ever. Long may it continue 🤞

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman 28 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

I became celibate about 5 years ago, it was through choice and ive never had a sexual thought since

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman 28 weeks ago

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By *eekaboo BellyMan 28 weeks ago

Bradford

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By *eekaboo BellyMan 28 weeks ago

Bradford

I'm thinking about putting some effort in and trying to get a meet before the year is out to try bring it back. But because I'm so uninterested, I can't be bothered

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

10+ year's ago

No it hasn't but I've not been in a situation where regular sex that might help it improve was possible

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By *abulous guy OP   Man 27 weeks ago

West Yorkshire


"I'm thinking about putting some effort in and trying to get a meet before the year is out to try bring it back. But because I'm so uninterested, I can't be bothered"

All the best

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan 27 weeks ago

Hastings

Below there is a forum about TRT if you sex drive has died guys it might be worth a read 📚 😉

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By *hinstrapMan 27 weeks ago

sheffield

I reckon as I've got older the worse it's got. I'm pretty much all revved up all the time. I'm a full blown pervert

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