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By *hagTonight OP Man 24 weeks ago
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I read an article and it was about a woman who is a 33 year old virgin, the reason she is that is because she have 12 rules before heaving sex.
The reason she have those 12 rules is because she have high standards and not messing around.
I can understand it, as she said that she doesnt want to end up with someone that she is going to divorce later, so what are some of the rules you might ask? Well here they are:
1 Family oriented
2 Genuine
3 Kind hearted
4 Taller than her
5 Athletic build
6 Loves to travel
7 Loves the outdoors
8 Darling
9 Hasnt been married before.
10 Humour
11 Stability
12 Respect me
It would be interesting to see what your view of it is and do you think it is good to have such a long list if requirements?
I think it is abit excessive and that by having such a long list, one would be a virgin for a very long time too  |
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There are three rules that I live by, Shag.
Never get less than twelve hours sleep;
Never play cards with a guy who has the same first name as a city;
And never get involved with a woman with a tattoo of a dagger on her body.
Now you stick to that, and everything else is cream cheese. |
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By *lan157Man 24 weeks ago
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I worked in an office many years ago and a woman on another floor had a sign on her desk " don't smile at me unless you can afford the best hotels " . A rather shorter list . |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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The older she gets, number 9 will start to get tricky (if she likes men her age).
I think it is excessive and doesn’t focus on the important things in a relationship, like asking the fella “Can you cook? And are you happy to do so foreverrrrrrrr”.
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"The older she gets, number 9 will start to get tricky (if she likes men her age).
I think it is excessive and doesn’t focus on the important things in a relationship, like asking the fella “Can you cook? And are you happy to do so foreverrrrrrrr”.
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And it is VERY excessive if she just want sex! “Do they have clean socks and a clean cock?” is my pre sex wants!  |
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And if you where all these things what do you get in return nobody is that perfect though out life circumstances change illness job money problems she will be a virgin a long time she doesn’t want to risk failure and with all the cards in the right place success isn’t guaranteed |
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A list of long requirements is unrealistic & she could be in for a long wait.
Me & the Mrs don’t have too much in common & have been together over 20 years.
Relationships aren’t a clinical business transaction - they either work or they don’t. It’s not an exact science as I’m sure many people who have been in one may testify. |
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I went on a date with a woman who had heard it said that one should meet 50 times before having sex.
So far I have met her about four times and she is currently away for all the winter months!
How do people rate my chances of a shag?
She didn’t actually say that she was sticking to the advice. |
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"I went on a date with a woman who had heard it said that one should meet 50 times before having sex.
So far I have met her about four times and she is currently away for all the winter months!
How do people rate my chances of a shag?
She didn’t actually say that she was sticking to the advice."
As my Mum used to say to me:
‘Patience is a virtue, possess it if you can,
Seldom in a woman, but never in a man’
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I don't think it's good to have such a long list of requirements, in as much as it wouldn't suit me, and if she's still not finding anyone then perhaps she should consider adjusting her expectations.
But, it is good to have standards. It's good to know what you want. And if you don't want to settle for less than perfection, don't. The worst thing you can do with your life is spend it with the wrong person.
It's that thing with the rhetoric that women are only interested in the top 10-20% of men. It's not that we're all angrily competing for the top specimens, we just weigh up whether being with that person is more appealing than being alone, and often the alone wins 💜 |
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It's that thing with the rhetoric that women are only interested in the top 10-20% of men. It's not that we're all angrily competing for the top specimens, we just weigh up whether being with that person is more appealing than being alone, and often the alone wins 💜"
Also individual women will have a different top 10-20% (if the rhetoric is even true) |
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As a species we have such a bizarre relationship with sex, hence the existence of this website.
Imagine if people could simple just fuck without the need to prefix or suffix meaning above the act?
Weird. |
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It's that thing with the rhetoric that women are only interested in the top 10-20% of men. It's not that we're all angrily competing for the top specimens, we just weigh up whether being with that person is more appealing than being alone, and often the alone wins 💜
Also individual women will have a different top 10-20% (if the rhetoric is even true)"
I mean, yes to the actual content of the perceived top percentile varying depending on the woman and what she values. But also no it's not even true of anything outside of dating app statistics, which more just demonstrates that women are more likely to only swipe right on people who actually look like they might be right for them rather than the well known common male approach of swipe right on anything that doesn't make you feel physically ill. It was more to point out that it is a conscious choice to keep our own peace instead of wasting our lives with the wrong people.
Man I think mine is like a personal top 2% at best, and I still get around 😅 💜 |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Well that appears excessive  also slightly strange! How are we defining “Darling” haha!
I think she’s looking for the impossible. We all have our things, but I think she’s missing the point that we need to be looking at the person and not their past/hobbies
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"She isnt looking for a bit of sexy fun she is looking for a life partner. "
I think she is too and in that case I think she's right to have a very clear idea of what she wants. There's a much higher chance of compatibility if you're clear on what you want before you start |
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Such stringent checklists are sometimes perhaps made explicitly and deliberately to fail; Almost as though the author is haughtily self validating and justifying the benefits of staying single.
…..I dunno 😵💫😵💫
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By *hagTonight OP Man 24 weeks ago
From the land of haribos. |
"There are three rules that I live by, Shag.
Never get less than twelve hours sleep;
Never play cards with a guy who has the same first name as a city;
And never get involved with a woman with a tattoo of a dagger on her body.
Now you stick to that, and everything else is cream cheese."
Those are good rules too  |
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By *hagTonight OP Man 24 weeks ago
From the land of haribos. |
"She must live in a way that suits her.
I have two rules
1. Mutual attraction
2. Respect
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Hi nicecouple, yes, you are right there, she must live in a way that suits her, those 2 rules you have are also good too |
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By *hagTonight OP Man 24 weeks ago
From the land of haribos. |
"The older she gets, number 9 will start to get tricky (if she likes men her age).
I think it is excessive and doesn’t focus on the important things in a relationship, like asking the fella “Can you cook? And are you happy to do so foreverrrrrrrr”.
And it is VERY excessive if she just want sex! “Do they have clean socks and a clean cock?” is my pre sex wants! "
Hi luna, yes, you are right there, the older she gets, number 9 will start to get tricky too, yes, focus on the important things in a relationship is more important as well |
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By *hagTonight OP Man 24 weeks ago
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"No list for me. There are no hard and fast rules for a long lasting marriage, especially when life gets in the way and people can change their minds.
I'll keep my fwb lifestyle ta "
Hi christabelle, that is good you dont have a list and how you keep your fwb lifestyle too, yes, you are right there, people can change their minds as well |
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"As a species we have such a bizarre relationship with sex, hence the existence of this website.
Imagine if people could simple just fuck without the need to prefix or suffix meaning above the act?
Weird. "
There's definitely no dating apps in the jungle, at most you might have to drop a dead animal at her feet, to give her something to chew on, whilst I mount her from behind.
We as a species seem to have become obsessed with it, I blame religion myself.
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No 9 is odd? so the guy can have had hundreds of lovers, but as long as he didn't signed a piece of paper, He's ok?
How many over 30 year old, male virgins are you going to find in the UK?
The few that remain will surely fail her other Tests. |
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By *im le2Man 24 weeks ago
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"I worked in an office many years ago and a woman on another floor had a sign on her desk " don't smile at me unless you can afford the best hotels " . A rather shorter list . "
If I promis not to smile can we go to a cheap hotel or back to mine.
I've got an expensive car I've just filled up the tank. |
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"Her life, Her list and her self respect
I think if any of us were to put down on paper the things we consider when choosing a life partner, then it would read as being picky and clinical
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It would and I think more of us should think a bit harder about what we want from a life partner.
It's often said that women are too picky then they're criticised if they have sex with lots of men. 🤷♀️ |
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I dunno while I see some of these as a bit much, we all have preferences and requirements.
For me .
Attraction.
Personality.
Good chat.
Nice cock.
Not an idiot.
Kisses well.
Theres 6 right away.... |
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