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Do you state you physical aspect preferences on your profile?
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No because I'm attracted to a plethora of different types physically. There are certain "types" I am drawn to but the actual people I've connected with are so varied, the chemistry and personality are equally as important as physical attraction. |
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I think it's fine to say what you're attracted to, as long as its not derogatory in anyway towards others.
I don't have a set type really. It's more I'd know if u saw it sort of thing.
So, I just say there has to be a mutual attraction. I do say no big beards though, as that's just not for me. |
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By *kibirdWoman 24 weeks ago
Gillingham ( Dorset, not Kent) |
I think that in a site that’s mainly for physical interactions, stating physical preferences is pretty much accepted. I might have features that I find more attractive than others but they’re not “must have” items |
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We don’t, but we’re more interested in the type of person and their mind than a certain physical shape or aesthetic.
But if you specifically want something like slim , muscular, min height, then I think it’s absolutely fine to say that. |
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We are attracted to the same attributes but they might be different on different peoples.
Filthy eyes, a relaxed confidence about them, a physique which we find attractive, good conversationalist…they will look and be different for each person.
I think as well if you list your type - you’ll then get ‘I know I’ve only got 2 of your list of 17 types but I think I’m the exception’. 😬
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No, not really. I don't really have hard and fast rules in terms of a type (which doesn't mean I'll shag anyone!) so I only know if I find someone attractive once I see them and if I listed a set of physical preferences, I wouldn't want someone I could be attracted to to think that rules them out. |
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My profile says I don't really have a physical type, and I really don't. There is something attractive about everyone
It also definitely puts me off someone's profile if they are specific about their physical type, no judgement, I'm just not looking for people who value that above all else |
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I didn't think I had a type until I actually looked at my most recent encounters. Intelligent, funny, caring and looks that were the total opposite to my ex. I'm not sure that would work in my profile 😀 |
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"Do you put up what type of people you are attracted to or not on your profile?
Or do you think it a bit insensitive, impolite, others' confidence affecting?
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I don’t OP no as I don’t have a physical type.
But.. it’s their profile. If someone reading it has their confidence affected then you would question if the reader should really be on Fab 🌈 |
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"Do you put up what type of people you are attracted to or not on your profile?
Or do you think it a bit insensitive, impolite, others' confidence affecting?
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We used to when we had our meeting profile up.
It isn't insensitive or impolite to state a preference respectfully and if someone's confidence is so low that it's affected by us stating what we like then I'd say they have bigger issues |
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"Do you put up what type of people you are attracted to or not on your profile?
Or do you think it a bit insensitive, impolite, others' confidence affecting?
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I have one very specific physical requirement i am clear about
Its normally either completely ignored or taken as some sort of negotiation🙄 |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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No. I am attracted to a vibe, an aura. Chemistry. Humour. Sure a fella can be good looking (to me) and that helps. But body wise? height? Means nothing to me. |
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By *hilloutMan 24 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Not really. I have loads of preferences but don’t state them.
Actually the height thing I think I do mention, I can’t remember! 🤦♀️. Have to be taller than me "
With our without 👠? Or both? 😂 |
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"Not really. I have loads of preferences but don’t state them.
Actually the height thing I think I do mention, I can’t remember! 🤦♀️. Have to be taller than me
With our without 👠? Or both? 😂"
I’d probably settle without as I’m about 6ft 2 in heels and it limits my choices even more 🤣 |
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By *hovskolMan 24 weeks ago
South Manchester |
Physical attraction is a thing, but not the be all. That said it can be a bit of a sliding scale, and I think body can be a reflection of personality. For me I'm interested in someone who looks after themselves and cares about their body.
I think being fit shouldn't make you entitled or a dickhead, not something that's always shared.
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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I’m 6ft 2 barefoot. It’s never limited me, it just s out the ones who can’t handle a tall woman. Which works in my favour really.
Guess we’re all different 🤷🏻♀️ |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"I’m 6ft 2 barefoot. It’s never limited me, it just s out the ones who can’t handle a tall woman. Which works in my favour really.
Guess we’re all different 🤷🏻♀️"
we*ds out |
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"Not really. I have loads of preferences but don’t state them.
Actually the height thing I think I do mention, I can’t remember! 🤦♀️. Have to be taller than me
With our without 👠? Or both? 😂
I’d probably settle without as I’m about 6ft 2 in heels and it limits my choices even more 🤣"
This ⬆️⬆️⬆️ |
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