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over a year ago
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So decided to start back on that site and had a message from the creator stating that all messages from guys 14yrs older/younger will be deleted and that any sexual references in messages will not be sent. the intimate encounter filter is due to be removed.
as the creator he wants the site as a dating site.
Anyone else get this message or has some random guy tried to fool me? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's true. I've been on there for years and I got the same message. "
i thought it was a good thing.. but part of me thought too good to be true lol
downside gotta pay for it now lol |
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over a year ago
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I was on pof many moons ago..deleted my account yet keep getting emails saying i've found a match etc.....went back on account still there..canny remember my password or username now though...but lets be fair more peeps on there are on here anyhow...know ive seen a few familiar faces  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So decided to start back on that site and had a message from the creator stating that all messages from guys 14yrs older/younger will be deleted and that any sexual references in messages will not be sent. the intimate encounter filter is due to be removed.
as the creator he wants the site as a dating site.
Anyone else get this message or has some random guy tried to fool me? Lol"
just got to say love the hair style brightened up my morning    h and good morning ladies xx andy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Where are the 'in between' sites? Not disrespectful fancy a fuck stuff types that bleat on about NSA the minute you look like you might be mates, but not boring vanilla pecks on the cheek and holding hands either.
I want a respectful, horny guy that's also a mate! Nooooo chance.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm only on here. Am I missing out? "
not really
i joined a dating site because im open to the idea of being in a relationship but ive always known id never want that to be a swinging one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where are the 'in between' sites? Not disrespectful fancy a fuck stuff types that bleat on about NSA the minute you look like you might be mates, but not boring vanilla pecks on the cheek and holding hands either.
I want a respectful, horny guy that's also a mate! Nooooo chance. "
Fabflirts ?  |
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"I popped back on for a nosey and found my profile had been deleted , same thing happened to my friend aswell ! "
This might sound like a stupid question but how do you know it's deleted?
I have been trying to sign in and can't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This might sound like a stupid question but how do you know it's deleted?
I have been trying to sign in and can't "
You just cheered my Sunday right the hell up 
Never been on POF but I think that means your deleted!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm only on here. Am I missing out?
not really
i joined a dating site because im open to the idea of being in a relationship but ive always known id never want that to be a swinging one. "
I'd never date a swinger. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No I got that message....Was chatting to a really nice gu yesterday who was doing so well up until he started to write "jokingly" about sex... Just put me right off him..."
hate it when men do that.. meh |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's true he is also getting rid of the intimate encounter section. I complained and he deleted my account  "
but your on here so it cant be all that bad, if your searching for sex then this is the best site for that surely? |
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"Used yo piss Me off on there when I git messages for sex. I k ow it's silly really but I saw the 2 sites as different, here for sex and there foe dating. "
That is how I see it so if someone messages saying oh you are on fab etc I ignore it.. |
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"I'm only on here. Am I missing out?
not really
i joined a dating site because im open to the idea of being in a relationship but ive always known id never want that to be a swinging one.
I'd never date a swinger."
I'm curious... why not? |
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This might sound like a stupid question but how do you know it's deleted?
I have been trying to sign in and can't
You just cheered my Sunday right the hell up
Never been on POF but I think that means your deleted!!! "
Glad I did but I didn't explain the full long winded story.
Seen as you have never been on pof thanks for giving me advice on it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm only on here. Am I missing out?
not really
i joined a dating site because im open to the idea of being in a relationship but ive always known id never want that to be a swinging one.
I'd never date a swinger.
I'm curious... why not?"
although that post wasnt direted at me, my reply was along the same lines so hope you dont mind me explaining also.
Ive never had an interest in women, nor meeting couples. Im an eternally faithful person and would never cheat. If i give everything i am into a relationship then thats what id hope to then get in return
Couples on here i am 100% sure your all loved up and have massive trust in each other and it adds a little spice (not that its needed im sure) i just personally would not like the idea of a man i end up falling in love with sleeping with someone else for meaningless sex. |
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"We're both confused! Why would you swing but not date a swinger? "
For some fabs fills a need while between relationships. They only meet other singles for sex and not couples etc.
I am in a relationship with someone off here but to be honest we don't swing much at the moment although we have a joint profile here for when we want to. |
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This might sound like a stupid question but how do you know it's deleted?
I have been trying to sign in and can't
You just cheered my Sunday right the hell up
Never been on POF but I think that means your deleted!!!
Glad I did but I didn't explain the full long winded story.
Seen as you have never been on pof thanks for giving me advice on it "
They have got rid of the inimate encounters section so alot of profiles who only ticked that were deleted (I think). The site owner has put alot of stuff into place gearing away just on there for sex and geared it more to those that want a relationship.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm only on here. Am I missing out?
not really
i joined a dating site because im open to the idea of being in a relationship but ive always known id never want that to be a swinging one.
I'd never date a swinger.
I'm curious... why not?"
I wouldn't date anyone. A friendly FB is about as far as I'd go, but I don't particularly want that either. In theory it sounds cool and I wish such a thing existed. In reality it doesn't exist. (for me)
I meet couples and singles alone and sometimes with a guy. |
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"They have got rid of the inimate encounters section so alot of profiles who only ticked that were deleted (I think). The site owner has put alot of stuff into place gearing away just on there for sex and geared it more to those that want a relationship.."
Thanks x |
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"They have got rid of the inimate encounters section so alot of profiles who only ticked that were deleted (I think). The site owner has put alot of stuff into place gearing away just on there for sex and geared it more to those that want a relationship..
Thanks x"
I hope it kind of answered your question... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not on there but lots of my Friends are, in fact one said he gets 10 x more sex on there than here "
Mr said the same when he had a single profile on here. Mind you, he still had plenty of meets off here! |
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"We're both confused! Why would you swing but not date a swinger?
i dont swing.. thats why lol
Oh ok, even more confused now tbh"
Well "swinging" is more seen as when couple swap partners...etc..For singles you are noy swapping you are having sex without the stuff of being in a relationship..I don't class myself as swinging as a single person... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We're both confused! Why would you swing but not date a swinger?
i dont swing.. thats why lol
Oh ok, even more confused now tbh
Well "swinging" is more seen as when couple swap partners...etc..For singles you are noy swapping you are having sex without the stuff of being in a relationship..I don't class myself as swinging as a single person..."
I'm not a swinger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We're both confused! Why would you swing but not date a swinger?
i dont swing.. thats why lol
Oh ok, even more confused now tbh
Well "swinging" is more seen as when couple swap partners...etc..For singles you are noy swapping you are having sex without the stuff of being in a relationship..I don't class myself as swinging as a single person...
I'm not a swinger."
Me either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're both confused! Why would you swing but not date a swinger?
i dont swing.. thats why lol
Oh ok, even more confused now tbh
Well "swinging" is more seen as when couple swap partners...etc..For singles you are noy swapping you are having sex without the stuff of being in a relationship..I don't class myself as swinging as a single person...
I'm not a swinger.
Me either "
Ok we get ya, you mean in the traditional sense, I.e you don't swap?
I guess we're not 'true' swingers either in that case as we simply invite single men into our life. Guess were more a hotwife/cuckold couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bastards deleted my profile while I was on holiday without warning- right in the middle of chatting to someone and I don't have her number- bunch of cnuts! |
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I thought it was a good idea they did their research are aware that these kind of sites exsist all over the world and wanted POF to be about dating and not a site that you can get a quick leg over from... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to have great success using it as a sex site, prior to being banned for sending sexual messages, so ultimately my experience was like bubblegum - great until the flavour runs out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I used to have great success using it as a sex site, prior to being banned for sending sexual messages, so ultimately my experience was like bubblegum - great until the flavour runs out."
Did you talk the talk and mis lead women into thinking you were genuinely seeking more than casual encounters or were you straight with them?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought it was a good idea they did their research are aware that these kind of sites exsist all over the world and wanted POF to be about dating and not a site that you can get a quick leg over from..."
It was the sudden deletion with no advanced warning, I couldn't have been the only one mid chat with someone. Plus, it was more than a quick leg over- I was actually looking for a new sub |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to have great success using it as a sex site, prior to being banned for sending sexual messages, so ultimately my experience was like bubblegum - great until the flavour runs out.
Did you talk the talk and mis lead women into thinking you were genuinely seeking more than casual encounters or were you straight with them?
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I was very upfront about what I was seeking, though not in a bullish or obnoxious way. I found that just by being honest and polite, there were many, many women willing to entertain the idea of no strings sex. |
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"I thought it was a good idea they did their research are aware that these kind of sites exsist all over the world and wanted POF to be about dating and not a site that you can get a quick leg over from...
It was the sudden deletion with no advanced warning, I couldn't have been the only one mid chat with someone. Plus, it was more than a quick leg over- I was actually looking for a new sub "
There are websites geared to that lifestyle... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I used to have great success using it as a sex site, prior to being banned for sending sexual messages, so ultimately my experience was like bubblegum - great until the flavour runs out.
Did you talk the talk and mis lead women into thinking you were genuinely seeking more than casual encounters or were you straight with them?
I was very upfront about what I was seeking, though not in a bullish or obnoxious way. I found that just by being honest and polite, there were many, many women willing to entertain the idea of no strings sex."
Oh thats great then. I just went on one or two dates that very very quickly progressed to them thinking they could easily get there leg over just because id agree'd to a second date. Clearly wasting mine and their own time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's why its important to establish what it is you're looking for beforehand, then use sufficient tact to get your ideas across positively - I can't be doing with idiots who string women along, when with the right approach you can get what you're looking for without hurting peoples feelings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I popped back on for a nosey and found my profile had been deleted , same thing happened to my friend aswell ! "
Ah and me too. I wondered why I couldn't use my account |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought it was a good idea they did their research are aware that these kind of sites exsist all over the world and wanted POF to be about dating and not a site that you can get a quick leg over from...
It was the sudden deletion with no advanced warning, I couldn't have been the only one mid chat with someone. Plus, it was more than a quick leg over- I was actually looking for a new sub
There are websites geared to that lifestyle..."
and i got more interest in 3 weeks of POF than 6 months elsewhere |
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"I thought it was a good idea they did their research are aware that these kind of sites exsist all over the world and wanted POF to be about dating and not a site that you can get a quick leg over from...
It was the sudden deletion with no advanced warning, I couldn't have been the only one mid chat with someone. Plus, it was more than a quick leg over- I was actually looking for a new sub
There are websites geared to that lifestyle...
and i got more interest in 3 weeks of POF than 6 months elsewhere "
from 50 shade subs who would probably have run a mile the minute it go real lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought it was a good idea they did their research are aware that these kind of sites exsist all over the world and wanted POF to be about dating and not a site that you can get a quick leg over from...
It was the sudden deletion with no advanced warning, I couldn't have been the only one mid chat with someone. Plus, it was more than a quick leg over- I was actually looking for a new sub
There are websites geared to that lifestyle...
and i got more interest in 3 weeks of POF than 6 months elsewhere
from 50 shade subs who would probably have run a mile the minute it go real lol"
Actually, no. The woman I was mid chat with certainly wasn't the 50 shades type, had in depth chats and were due to meet when I got back from holiday- You can filter the 50 shades brigade within about 3 messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's why its important to establish what it is you're looking for beforehand, then use sufficient tact to get your ideas across positively - I can't be doing with idiots who string women along, when with the right approach you can get what you're looking for without hurting peoples feelings."
Shame more people don't think the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's why its important to establish what it is you're looking for beforehand, then use sufficient tact to get your ideas across positively - I can't be doing with idiots who string women along, when with the right approach you can get what you're looking for without hurting peoples feelings.
Shame more people don't think the same. "
Most guys can't think with head, heart and cock simultaneously. |
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i went on pof last year when my ex left me he said go on it meeting someone will help you thru this stuff so i did couldnt believe the messages i got about can i see
you bedroom .met what i thought was a nice guy ,dated him for 4 mths but when he started having a go at me whilst on hols in devon i ditched him .had him done 4 harassing me not been near dating sites since .its full of nutters xx |
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"I popped back on for a nosey and found my profile had been deleted , same thing happened to my friend aswell !
This might sound like a stupid question but how do you know it's deleted?
I have been trying to sign in and can't "
I tries to sign back in and it wouldn't let me , so asked an old friend to look me up and it said I'd deleted my account ( which I hadn't ) they must be culling old accounts |
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"The thing that I remember about that site is that it's the WOMEN who send the shitty messages if you don't reply to them "
I am afraid not just some women...got plenty of rude messages from men if I did not reply in what they deemed to be the right amount of time when I used to be on there. |
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"I'm only on here. Am I missing out?
not really
i joined a dating site because im open to the idea of being in a relationship but ive always known id never want that to be a swinging one.
I'd never date a swinger.
I'm curious... why not?
although that post wasnt direted at me, my reply was along the same lines so hope you dont mind me explaining also.
Ive never had an interest in women, nor meeting couples. Im an eternally faithful person and would never cheat. If i give everything i am into a relationship then thats what id hope to then get in return
Couples on here i am 100% sure your all loved up and have massive trust in each other and it adds a little spice (not that its needed im sure) i just personally would not like the idea of a man i end up falling in love with sleeping with someone else for meaningless sex. "
I'm with you on this one.. I don't class myself as a "swinger" either.
Is it just me. or do you find the dynamics between the two sites very different? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not on there but lots of my Friends are, in fact one said he gets 10 x more sex on there than here
Mr said the same when he had a single profile on here. Mind you, he still had plenty of meets off here!"
Agreed. I don't really use this site for meets. POF is much better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Where are the 'in between' sites? Not disrespectful fancy a fuck stuff types that bleat on about NSA the minute you look like you might be mates, but not boring vanilla pecks on the cheek and holding hands either.
I want a respectful, horny guy that's also a mate! Nooooo chance. "
Well maybe I'm just lucky but I've met a few on here  |
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"I find it the complete opposite. I hardly get ANY messages on pof.. well, not ones from hot guys anyway... "
That's because you live outside my search criteria ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last time I looked at the site I didn't like the new format...I know its important not to entertain timewasters but one look at the heaving menus (that I'm sure at some point will expect you to enter your shoe size and blood group before being allowed to create a profile), and I went 'no thanks' and promptly decided not to bother. |
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over a year ago
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I joined up to POF cos my mate said it were good. Like i said, I joined up, spent about two days on there and never logged in since.. It really is a pile of pish!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What other sites out there that are as I would say good but busy is a better word as this? POF is rubbish is there anymore that are totally free like this?xz |
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Awwwwwwwwwww I met my one and only nutter on POF. Or rather didn't meet him. The phone calls never ended. You'd think we'd been married for fifty years and i'd run off with his bowling balls !
He was heartbroken....... We spoke once Thank GOD we never met and i've always been tight with details.
Give me good honest to God filthy fugging swingers anytime ... |
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"It's true he is also getting rid of the intimate encounter section. I complained and he deleted my account
but your on here so it cant be all that bad, if your searching for sex then this is the best site for that surely?"
I was after a relationship and some who showed interest were over the now stipulated -14 +14 age difference, which meant I could no longer chat with them and before any one says any thing, they were still in their 30's |
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"It's true he is also getting rid of the intimate encounter section. I complained and he deleted my account
but your on here so it cant be all that bad, if your searching for sex then this is the best site for that surely?
I was after a relationship and some who showed interest were over the now stipulated -14 +14 age difference, which meant I could no longer chat with them and before any one says any thing, they were still in their 30's"
I saw that..I can no longer get messages from 47 year olds lol |
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I don't class myself as a swinger .. i don't do clubs dogging or meet as a couple ... just like one to one to be honest and thats very few and far between.
I'm on POF but to be honest its like FAB without the honesty .. I did have a friend on there whos account was deleted and he got an email saying he had to pay to get it back ... His was a plain and simple account just looking to date nothing serious ... also not looking for initimate encounters. But that didn't save him.  |
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I joined POF a while ago with a premium account. I was very honest on my profile and I suspect this hindered me a lot on there.
With this new rule, I'm off to delete my account on there. They'll only end up losing the honest members like me. The ones who pretend they just want friendship and then ask for sex will always be on there |
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maybe my POF profile is a little to "straight" then compared to the one on here, as I just don't get same standard of messages for guys..
I personally think its due to the photos I have on here, but then that's just my opinion ... |
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over a year ago
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I must come across as an ugly twat as I'm having no luck on there what so ever at the moment. Women reply but never want to meet...
I'm almost tempted to post on their forum a
"As a single guy, where am I going wrong?" Post lol |
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over a year ago
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"I agree with an earlier post suggesting an "inbetween" site.. I find that the term "swingers" is still so derogatory, and creates a false impression. "
I don't like the term 'swinger', that's why I'm not one.
Makes me think of bad wallpaper and keys in bowls and trouser flares and blokes with big hair and shagging on a sheep skin rug.
(Yes I know that's still all true these days!) |
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"I agree with an earlier post suggesting an "inbetween" site.. I find that the term "swingers" is still so derogatory, and creates a false impression.
I don't like the term 'swinger', that's why I'm not one.
Makes me think of bad wallpaper and keys in bowls and trouser flares and blokes with big hair and shagging on a sheep skin rug.
(Yes I know that's still all true these days!)"
Maybe sound as cheesy as your definition of swinging but a site for genuine singles who wanna cut to the chase for NSA?
I'm happy with work and my children but also love the female touch whenever possible without a 'relationship' for example. Been kicked off PoF several times. Shame coz I was doing well last time x |
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NECRO!
So yeah, just joined up to have a browse (perv).
Had a cycle through the 'meet me' thing...
How annoying are the profiles on it? Most people have multiple pictures in all their photos. How the fuck am I to know which one they are?
Pretty much no one has a clear face picture and apparently pulling a duck pose is still cool.
Two rants in one day. Think I may have had too much coffee.
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over a year ago
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I have to thank the creator as it gave me the push to join fabswingers I was on it for over a year and met no one had one no shows must admit did't try hard if at all. .
who would of guessed it one week here and already having fun thanks pof |
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over a year ago
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Yes it appears to be mostly free.
I think I may have joined the party a bit late though - apparently they have taken away the good bit (intimate encounters option) and the only people on it seem to be crossed eye with webbed feet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes it appears to be mostly free.
I think I may have joined the party a bit late though - apparently they have taken away the good bit (intimate encounters option) and the only people on it seem to be crossed eye with webbed feet."
i am not crossed eyed nor do i have webbed feet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"nor do i have webbed feet
You are from Devon. Of course you do.
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get in my inbox, pull your trousers down and await your punishment for that slander |
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"NECRO!
So yeah, just joined up to have a browse (perv).
Had a cycle through the 'meet me' thing...
How annoying are the profiles on it? Most people have multiple pictures in all their photos. How the fuck am I to know which one they are?
Pretty much no one has a clear face picture and apparently pulling a duck pose is still cool.
Two rants in one day. Think I may have had too much coffee.
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PMSL xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"get in my inbox, pull your trousers down and await your punishment for that slander "
I jest of course. 
I might just copy and paste my Fab profile onto it (and cock shot) for a laugh... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's why its important to establish what it is you're looking for beforehand, then use sufficient tact to get your ideas across positively - I can't be doing with idiots who string women along, when with the right approach you can get what you're looking for without hurting peoples feelings."
Exactly why I'm on here haven't tried dating sites and came across fab while looking at porn but decided until I bump into my new soul mate at the supermarket I can have NSA fun with like minded people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with an earlier post suggesting an "inbetween" site.. I find that the term "swingers" is still so derogatory, and creates a false impression.
I don't like the term 'swinger', that's why I'm not one.
Makes me think of bad wallpaper and keys in bowls and trouser flares and blokes with big hair and shagging on a sheep skin rug.
(Yes I know that's still all true these days!)"
Oh dear this site is called fab swingers or did you press the wrong button !!! |
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over a year ago
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"I don't class myself as a swinger .. i don't do clubs dogging or meet as a couple ... just like one to one to be honest and thats very few and far between.
I'm on POF but to be honest its like FAB without the honesty .. I did have a friend on there whos account was deleted and he got an email saying he had to pay to get it back ... His was a plain and simple account just looking to date nothing serious ... also not looking for initimate encounters. But that didn't save him. "
Sorry te have to tell you but this site is called fab swingers and we have a name for you Hun "swingle" happy swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So decided to start back on that site and had a message from the creator stating that all messages from guys 14yrs older/younger will be deleted and that any sexual references in messages will not be sent. the intimate encounter filter is due to be removed.
as the creator he wants the site as a dating site.
Anyone else get this message or has some random guy tried to fool me? Lol"
It is true as when I rejoined I noticed those features were changed. Anyway what kind of guy would go out of their way to fool a woman  |
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"I popped back on for a nosey and found my profile had been deleted , same thing happened to my friend aswell ! "
Mine too. I wondered why, as I hadn't done it myself. Oh well, it was a waste of time for me anyway. No takers at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm only on here. Am I missing out?
not really
i joined a dating site because im open to the idea of being in a relationship but ive always known id never want that to be a swinging one.
I'd never date a swinger.
I'm curious... why not?
although that post wasnt direted at me, my reply was along the same lines so hope you dont mind me explaining also.
Ive never had an interest in women, nor meeting couples. Im an eternally faithful person and would never cheat. If i give everything i am into a relationship then thats what id hope to then get in return
Couples on here i am 100% sure your all loved up and have massive trust in each other and it adds a little spice (not that its needed im sure) i just personally would not like the idea of a man i end up falling in love with sleeping with someone else for meaningless sex.
I'm with you on this one.. I don't class myself as a "swinger" either.
Is it just me. or do you find the dynamics between the two sites very different? "
News flash news flash news flash !!!!!
Your on a swingers site !! Your a swinger unless your just here to chat |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"So decided to start back on that site and had a message from the creator stating that all messages from guys 14yrs older/younger will be deleted and that any sexual references in messages will not be sent. the intimate encounter filter is due to be removed.
as the creator he wants the site as a dating site.
Anyone else get this message or has some random guy tried to fool me? Lol"
Yep it's true. The buggers deleted my account
Guess people will move on to other sites |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you stated anywhere in your profile that you were looking for an intimate encounter or showed photos of your body/gentials/bum, etc. then your account got deleted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"POF is still a thing? Used it ages ago an thought it was pretty shit then. Met one lady off there and vowed never again."
I didn't even realise it was a 'thing'.
I'm just having a perv anyway... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"POF is still a thing? Used it ages ago an thought it was pretty shit then. Met one lady off there and vowed never again."
I believe its only as good as the people are in your area. So the more people that joined. The more chance you have of meeting someone you get on with. Even if its just friends you end up as. I know someone whose been with their partner for 15 months and very soon he's going to propose to her. Earlier on in that relationship. That person and his partner nagged me to join and ok. Going by the photo she looked attractive, but the more I got to know her. The more ugly I thought she was as well as a freak.
In person you have a direct yes/no response of they are interested in you. Whereas online you can search what kind of thing you are looking for in someone. |
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"I don't class myself as a swinger .. i don't do clubs dogging or meet as a couple ... just like one to one to be honest and thats very few and far between.
I'm on POF but to be honest its like FAB without the honesty .. I did have a friend on there whos account was deleted and he got an email saying he had to pay to get it back ... His was a plain and simple account just looking to date nothing serious ... also not looking for initimate encounters. But that didn't save him.
Sorry te have to tell you but this site is called fab swingers and we have a name for you Hun "swingle" happy swinging "
I must be swingle too then |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
I had a profile on pof a while ago but took down all my pics and pretty much left due to a series of idiots and wannabes messing me about. So, if my profile has been deleted that suits me as I couldn't work it out myself. |
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over a year ago
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"The thing that I remember about that site is that it's the WOMEN who send the shitty messages if you don't reply to them "
Must be like Adult Friend Finder then... you get a girl with a mad-for-sex game-for-anything name, message her, and next thing get a totally shocked-sounding reply about how much of a pervert you are and only after one thing. A total total waste of time effort and occasionally money. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't class myself as a swinger .. i don't do clubs dogging or meet as a couple ... just like one to one to be honest and thats very few and far between.
I'm on POF but to be honest its like FAB without the honesty .. I did have a friend on there whos account was deleted and he got an email saying he had to pay to get it back ... His was a plain and simple account just looking to date nothing serious ... also not looking for initimate encounters. But that didn't save him.
Sorry te have to tell you but this site is called fab swingers and we have a name for you Hun "swingle" happy swinging
I must be swingle too then "
Im happy being a swingle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a lady work for us ... Lovely person but had not dated for years ...she was up for giving it a go after 15 years no man. So me and the girls told her about sites like f dating site and we helped make her over take pics and a profile together and she had the time of her life and still meeting a man from there . Been over 3 years now, so it do work for some .. She was not looking really for sex but a friend and person she could date and maybe sex once she new them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So as a single woman on here just looking for a one to one with a man now and again makes me a Swingle? Have I got that right? "
Apparently that's what we are ? |
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"So as a single woman on here just looking for a one to one with a man now and again makes me a Swingle? Have I got that right?
Apparently that's what we are ? "
I like that!!! swingle...makes me sound all jaunty.... |
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"So as a single woman on here just looking for a one to one with a man now and again makes me a Swingle? Have I got that right?
Apparently that's what we are ?
I like that!!! swingle...makes me sound all jaunty.... "
I like that too. Hi my name is Legs and I'm a Swingle lol |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
When I was first divorced I started on pof. Someone recommended it. My profile said dating and I got little attention.
So as an experiment set up another profile looking for intimate encounters. I was inundated! !!
Eventually gave up on it. Too many marrieds and fantasists. |
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. I don't have that problem on Fabs