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By *elshman1974 OP   Man 26 weeks ago

Swansea

Ok gonna treat my fwb to a vibe. She’s wanks a lot but has never (😱) owned a vibe

Which is better…. It’s gonna get daily use so needs to be robust too😉

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan 26 weeks ago

Norwich

Interested to see the results of this. We’ve got basic vibes which seem to do the trick but always interested in what works for others.

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By *ancashireredheadWoman 26 weeks ago

Lancashire

Both are great but I love my suction toy. It’s small but really powerful. Best money I’ve ever spent

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By *rimson_RoseWoman 26 weeks ago

Tamworth

I much prefer the sensation of the suction toys.

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By *elshman1974 OP   Man 26 weeks ago

Swansea


"Both are great but I love my suction toy. It’s small but really powerful. Best money I’ve ever spent "

What gives the most intense orgasms and is it true that you don’t get desensitised with clit suckers so better for daily use. With my fwb probably multiple daily use😉

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By *elshman1974 OP   Man 26 weeks ago

Swansea


"I much prefer the sensation of the suction toys. "

What gives the most intense orgasms and is it true that you don’t get desensitised with clit suckers so better for daily use. With my fwb probably multiple daily use😉

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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago

Don’t be tight treat her to both

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By *kphooey43Man 26 weeks ago

Barnet

A fwb loved her wand, whilst I bought another one a WiFi controlled vibrating egg (that tickled my fancy).

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By *iolet_FyreCouple 26 weeks ago

Yateley

I bought Violet a Womaniser for Christmas, she’s only had it a few days, I hear lots of moaning but no complaints

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By *wist my nipplesCouple 26 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Really depends on the individual. I enjoy both. I know some people find the wand too intense. Sorry that’s not very helpful! If she’s never used a vibrator before you might want to start with a wee handheld wand rather than a doxy, they are powerful things.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago

I found using such toys desensitised me to the point I felt nothing wth a guy.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman 26 weeks ago

Chester

Love Honey do this....

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-suction-vibrators/p/lovehoney-indulge-g-spot-and-clitoral-suction-stimulator/a47367g84888.html

And it's amazing!

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By *estructionDollyWoman 26 weeks ago

Manchester

I prefer a clit sucker, especially a womaniser

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By *rimson_RoseWoman 26 weeks ago

Tamworth


"Love Honey do this....

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-suction-vibrators/p/lovehoney-indulge-g-spot-and-clitoral-suction-stimulator/a47367g84888.html

And it's amazing! "

I love that toy!

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By *elshman1974 OP   Man 26 weeks ago

Swansea


"Don’t be tight treat her to both"

😂

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By *elshman1974 OP   Man 26 weeks ago

Swansea


"A fwb loved her wand, whilst I bought another one a WiFi controlled vibrating egg (that tickled my fancy)."

Yeah we are also looking at Bluetooth remote vibes for out if doors fun

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By *elshman1974 OP   Man 26 weeks ago

Swansea


"I bought Violet a Womaniser for Christmas, she’s only had it a few days, I hear lots of moaning but no complaints "

😂

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By *elshman1974 OP   Man 26 weeks ago

Swansea


"Really depends on the individual. I enjoy both. I know some people find the wand too intense. Sorry that’s not very helpful! If she’s never used a vibrator before you might want to start with a wee handheld wand rather than a doxy, they are powerful things.

Mrs TMN x"

Thanks that’s really helpful

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By *elshman1974 OP   Man 26 weeks ago

Swansea


"I found using such toys desensitised me to the point I felt nothing wth a guy.

"

That’s a concern for us. I guess it’ll be suck it and see 😉

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By *elshman1974 OP   Man 26 weeks ago

Swansea


"I prefer a clit sucker, especially a womaniser "

Yes have heard at least for some it’s less desensitising which makes sense

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By *elshman1974 OP   Man 26 weeks ago

Swansea


"Love Honey do this....

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-suction-vibrators/p/lovehoney-indulge-g-spot-and-clitoral-suction-stimulator/a47367g84888.html

And it's amazing! "

This is going on the list! Thank you

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By *yprusdreamWoman 26 weeks ago

Cyprus


"Love Honey do this....

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-suction-vibrators/p/lovehoney-indulge-g-spot-and-clitoral-suction-stimulator/a47367g84888.html

And it's amazing! "

I'll 2nd this one, it's very good

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By *asygoing8Man 26 weeks ago

aldringham


"I found using such toys desensitised me to the point I felt nothing wth a guy.

"

That's a very sad story - hopefully things will get better! Keep your pecker up x

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By *elshman1974 OP   Man 26 weeks ago

Swansea


"I found using such toys desensitised me to the point I felt nothing wth a guy.

That's a very sad story - hopefully things will get better! Keep your pecker up x"

It always wears off. A week or so of no vibes and the baseline is back. It’s never permanent. An old fuck buddy bought rampant rabbit and used it a lot for the first two week (multiple times a day) and then found it hard to cum. A short break and all was fixed

Conversely some women seem to never desensitise. I think it’s very individual overall though clit suckers are rumoured to be not as bad as it’s suction not vibration

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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago


"I found using such toys desensitised me to the point I felt nothing wth a guy.

That's a very sad story - hopefully things will get better! Keep your pecker up x"

Oh quite the opposite, I've realised I don't need a man anymore.

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By *vaRoseWoman 26 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Clit sucker every time, doxy leaves me numb

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By *asygoing8Man 26 weeks ago

aldringham


"I found using such toys desensitised me to the point I felt nothing wth a guy.

That's a very sad story - hopefully things will get better! Keep your pecker up x

Oh quite the opposite, I've realised I don't need a man anymore. "

Fair play x pun intended x

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By *onin25Man 26 weeks ago

Durham


"I found using such toys desensitised me to the point I felt nothing wth a guy.

That's a very sad story - hopefully things will get better! Keep your pecker up x

Oh quite the opposite, I've realised I don't need a man anymore. "

What about when you want your car washed?

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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago


"I found using such toys desensitised me to the point I felt nothing wth a guy.

That's a very sad story - hopefully things will get better! Keep your pecker up x

Oh quite the opposite, I've realised I don't need a man anymore.

What about when you want your car washed? "

I can see out the window it's fine.

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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago

Both. Suction is good but sometimes need more!

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By *herry77Woman 26 weeks ago

North West

Husband bought me the rose suction toy - it made me cum in thirty seconds from a cold start but was the worst, most terrifying thirty seconds of my life 😂. I tried it once again after that and it hasn’t been out of the drawer since.

I’ve decided I’m just too sensitive for clitoral toys.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan 26 weeks ago

Norwich


"Husband bought me the rose suction toy - it made me cum in thirty seconds from a cold start but was the worst, most terrifying thirty seconds of my life 😂. I tried it once again after that and it hasn’t been out of the drawer since.

I’ve decided I’m just too sensitive for clitoral toys."

Why was it terrifying?

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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago

Did you manage to undo the damage? I feel I’m getting that way

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By *bostCouple 26 weeks ago

glasgow

We may have been duped by online ads.

Mr bought Mrs a lemon.

It may or may not end well 🤣

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By *elshman1974 OP   Man 26 weeks ago

Swansea


"Did you manage to undo the damage? I feel I’m getting that way "

It’s never permanent. A week or so off and you’re back to baseline.

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By *iss KinkWoman 26 weeks ago

Up North


"Husband bought me the rose suction toy - it made me cum in thirty seconds from a cold start but was the worst, most terrifying thirty seconds of my life 😂. I tried it once again after that and it hasn’t been out of the drawer since.

I’ve decided I’m just too sensitive for clitoral toys."

😂

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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago


"Did you manage to undo the damage? I feel I’m getting that way

It’s never permanent. A week or so off and you’re back to baseline. "

Says a guy 🤣

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By *ilthyPrincessCouple 26 weeks ago

Banbury

I am on meds that make it difficult for me to get there. I had a doxy used on me at a party and I got there in under 5 mins. So casting my vote for that one!

I also have a womaniser and I love that too but that one is more of a slow build up for me but results in stronger orgasms.

So depends if you want quantity vs quality

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By *elshman1974 OP   Man 26 weeks ago

Swansea


"Did you manage to undo the damage? I feel I’m getting that way

It’s never permanent. A week or so off and you’re back to baseline.

Says a guy 🤣"

😂 well informed tho😉

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By *rindnbump V2Couple 26 weeks ago

Our little world of Kinky Fuckery in Durham

We have a ROMP Reverb G-Spot and Clitoral Suction Stimulator and can 100% recommend it 😈

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By *elshman1974 OP   Man 26 weeks ago

Swansea


"I am on meds that make it difficult for me to get there. I had a doxy used on me at a party and I got there in under 5 mins. So casting my vote for that one!

I also have a womaniser and I love that too but that one is more of a slow build up for me but results in stronger orgasms.

So depends if you want quantity vs quality "

Ah she likes both😉 btw if it’s an antidepressant causing orgasm probs ask to switch to mirtazapine it doesn’t affect orgasm

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By *elshman1974 OP   Man 26 weeks ago

Swansea


"We have a ROMP Reverb G-Spot and Clitoral Suction Stimulator and can 100% recommend it 😈"

Will investigate. Thanks !

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By *oodmessMan 26 weeks ago

yumsville

Fuck me to hell these have gone up. Last time I bought one it was £80 (maybe less) now they're 150 fucking quid! Seems you have to pay for good vibes these days...... just hope it lasts!!

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By *herry77Woman 26 weeks ago

North West


"Husband bought me the rose suction toy - it made me cum in thirty seconds from a cold start but was the worst, most terrifying thirty seconds of my life 😂. I tried it once again after that and it hasn’t been out of the drawer since.

I’ve decided I’m just too sensitive for clitoral toys.

Why was it terrifying?"

It was far too intense, I felt like every nerve in my body was being electrocuted. I was determined to see what it could do but there was nothing pleasurable about it for me!

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