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Just seen a thread about handjobs and it’s got me thinking about fingering. I love doing it, have a woman initially lay back as i explore their body with my hands, before eventually teasing an organs from her over an extended period of time. In not talking all this super fast stuff we see in porn, though it can be worked up to! Anyone else a fan or have thoughts |
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I have said the same thing for years!! it is quite an art form when done correctly, not the fast n furious method show on most porn sites/films but the intense sensual type that brings the most pleasurable orgasms  |
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I absolutely love to ‘finger’ 🥰 - It drives me sexually, absolutely wild!
The feel of her internal heat, the feel of her sexual lubrication coating my finger and the contours of her cunt (both externally and internally)
It is…..positively divine! 😍😍
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"Unfortunately so many men are too rough or worse, determined to get a woman to squirt. "
This its like pulling bloody teeth when they are intent on doing something thats not going to happen and put me off  |
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By *eliWoman 26 weeks ago
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Great when there's an element of sensuality to it. When they really enjoy the response their fingers elicit from me. When they find out how aroused I am and their pupils dilate. I don't always want to be laying back thinking of England - fingers exploring as we're kissing and I'm pressed against a wall? Yes.
Less so if I'm being cervix bashed. Or they do that awful fast rubbing of my clit which makes it retract in to my very soul. Or I end up bleeding over their hand because they've been too aggressive and brought my period on early. And I don't get an orgasm from it (it's very easy for me to come).
I've found women (minus the scarily taloned) to be better at the style I enjoy.
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"Just a shame most men are terrible at it, even those that think they aren't."
I think many men perhaps tend to rush it as an end goal. I prefer to build up slowly and I’m always willing to take direction and guidance.
I just find it such a turn on |
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"Great when there's an element of sensuality to it. When they really enjoy the response their fingers elicit from me. When they find out how aroused I am and their pupils dilate. I don't always want to be laying back thinking of England - fingers exploring as we're kissing and I'm pressed against a wall? Yes.
Less so if I'm being cervix bashed. Or they do that awful fast rubbing of my clit which makes it retract in to my very soul. Or I end up bleeding over their hand because they've been too aggressive and brought my period on early. And I don't get an orgasm from it (it's very easy for me to come).
I've found women (minus the scarily taloned) to be better at the style I enjoy.
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I agree with this too. In the bedroom a start point might be lay back, but I like to reposition as we go and move around against a wall
Is always good as is a woman standing and me on my knees or reaching from behind as she faces a mirror |
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"Just seen a thread about handjobs and it’s got me thinking about fingering. I love doing it, have a woman initially lay back as i explore their body with my hands, before eventually teasing an organs from her over an extended period of time. In not talking all this super fast stuff we see in porn, though it can be worked up to! Anyone else a fan or have thoughts "
If you're teasing organs from her you gone too far!🤣🤣 sorry, made me giggle
Agree with lots of whats been said, love a skilled fingering but not finger blasting or trying to make me squirt - just not enjoyable at all. |
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I blame porn for many chaps rough/robotic techniques.
Strumming at the clitoris like Yngwie Malmsteen speedily sweep picking his Fender or else finger blasting as though trying to unblock a drain! 😵💫 |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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Ladies give the guys some pointers for the best fingering experience. I know every woman is different but id like to hear what makes fingering enjoyable for you all |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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I think porn films must take the blame for poor fingering technique . Most younger guys grow up on thinking its all about cramming as many fingers in and ramming them in like your stuffing a Turkey. |
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"Just seen a thread about handjobs and it’s got me thinking about fingering. I love doing it, have a woman initially lay back as i explore their body with my hands, before eventually teasing an organs from her over an extended period of time. In not talking all this super fast stuff we see in porn, though it can be worked up to! Anyone else a fan or have thoughts
If you're teasing organs from her you gone too far!🤣🤣 sorry, made me giggle
Agree with lots of whats been said, love a skilled fingering but not finger blasting or trying to make me squirt - just not enjoyable at all. "
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Love it with the right person who’s into it 
