Just be aware, many of us ignore can verifications, as they only prove you have a webcam and are no indication whether you'll ever actually turn up to a meet.

Far better to get a real verification by attending a club or organised social.

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By *adWolfe OP Man 15 weeks ago

Preston

Appreciate the advice.... but I'm not sure that I'm ready for that. Looking for a 1-2-1 initially

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By *im le2Man 14 weeks ago

AYLESTONE

Cam verification are not real you need to meet face to face to prove your genuine and will turn up.

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By *weetiepie99Woman 14 weeks ago

cardiff

Don't

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By *naswingdressWoman 14 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Appreciate the advice.... but I'm not sure that I'm ready for that. Looking for a 1-2-1 initially "

One to one is far and away the hardest thing to get. It's why people are not suggesting it.

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By *smiaTV/TS 14 weeks ago

Ilkeston

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By *OTSOSUBTLEMan 14 weeks ago

DUBLIN

Beat way is at a social. Thats how I have mine.

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By *veragecouple2000Couple 14 weeks ago

South Wales

A local group social would be great start xx 😘

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By *lkGuyMagic24Man 14 weeks ago

Kingswood

From what I have seen I would start with a club, haven’t been to one myself as don’t want to go alone

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By *naswingdressWoman 14 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"From what I have seen I would start with a club, haven’t been to one myself as don’t want to go alone

A club is the easiest way, apart from the money. (The money isn't a small factor, but clubs are the least selective option - you show up, you pay your money)

My experience is not recent, but when I went to clubs, anyone who went and asked staff for a verification got one (as long as they didn't behave like a complete buffoon).

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By *adWolfe OP Man 2 weeks ago

Preston

???

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By *adWolfe OP Man 2 weeks ago

Preston

Thank you. I sound proper vanilla, that's not the case at all. But trying to navigate my way to a solution. I appreciate your advice 🙏🏽

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By *ex HolesMan 2 weeks ago

Up North

"Toe dipper post LTR...... please advise 🙏🏽 "